faranglaw

‘Tis more blessed to receive than to give. Isn’t that how it goes?

Yeah luckily for me I’m into the smooth little twinks and they tend to be more accommodating. 😊

I’ve run into that twenty minute wait before. In a way it’s fair because they might have other commitments and have experienced client no shows. It can go both ways of course.

I’m always looking for nice oral (BJ). Mostly they won’t. So if I find one who will I stick with him. Got a nice small guy in On Nut who is reliable. But with the others I always wonder if I will get what I really want. Negotiating in advance doesn’t seem to help because they either pretend not to understand what I’m asking (or maybe I’m not being clear) or they say yes prior and no during.

“MB is no easy job. You wouldn't know all kinds of customers we've been through. There were times I was already naked in the room when the customer made a ridiculous demand. I wanted to put my clothes on and leave, then I think about how I'm gonna pay the rent tomorrow..." Yes it can be a very dangerous job, and worse. Ten years ago a massage boy I knew and liked was murdered by a client in the Malaysia Hotel. Awful. Daeng was 23. It’s good to see that the overwhelming majority of posters here show respect and genuine concern for the money boys we meet. Even if most of them don’t follow our hopes (saving money, getting out of the game, getting an education), our presence makes a positive difference in their lives. We should cherish that.

Oops never mind. It was hiding…🙄🙄🙄

So I’ve been here for two weeks and I just checked my passport and there is no entry stamp! Has this ever happened to anyone here? At the airport the officer said she was giving me 60 days, but now I see no stamp. Damn.

I can remember two scary stories at Robinson from those times (early 90’s). 1. On the front steps a young boy started talking to me. He was smoking but was about 15. He was pushing me to take him off somewhere: “300 baht—you happy, I happy.” Small guy but looked a bit tough and already burnt out. It was depressing. I extricated myself. 2. I was having a coffee in the Robinson’s coffee shop on a hot mid-afternoon. A boy approached with photos of girls. “You want a girl?” Naive me, I thought I’d be cute so told him I like boys. In a flash he pointed to a boy and said, “My brother. You like?” The kid was about nine years old! Severe and horrified no from me of course. Jesus f’ing Christ: pimping your nine year old brother! So spare me any glory tales about the good old days. I still shiver thinking of these two incidents.

What does “Side” mean? It seems there is Top, Bottom ,Versatile. So what is Side?

What about Win? What will he do?

said Pierre Trudeau after being insulted by Richard Nixon.

Sorry. What is an H shop?

I once asked a Thai friend what he thought of Sauna Mania and he was quite dismissive: “Office girls!” he sniffed.

Well! The boy who happily accepted 1200 last year now wants 2,000 and will bargain down to 1700. I guess Trump will fix it.

I started getting in fast track at 70

This may not work for you or be off topic, but what worked for me was diving into fun and challenging hobbies. For me it was bridge, which I’m good at; and lawn bowling, which I’m not. I also got a digital piano to mess around with.

What does “soft only” mean?

Hello everyone, Can anyone recommend medical insurance for longer term (more than a month) travelers to Thailand? I go every year for 3-4 months and have the first thirty days covered. In the past I haven’t covered the rest of my time but as I age I’m thinking I should stop taking chances. Any recommendations gratefully appreciated, faranglaw

Thanks Vinapu!

And mature people filter their thoughts. If I expressed every thought that comes into my head you would think I’m a psychopath. So…filter.

Maybe I’m the only contrarian grump here, but I find the whole bar scene tiresome with the noise, the fake smiles, the crowd. It’s a huge time suck to me. So I go onto Hornet and find perfectly decent fun for about 1,000 baht. 1200-1500 in Bangkok. In November I will return with DH (Dear Husband) for the winter and now have four guys in Bangkok to meet. One a massage guy, and the other three met through Hornet. All delicious and reliable.

Then the sons took their turns.

“Male stuffed places?” What do they stuff them with? 🤣