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For me personally, I find it a psychological barrier to pay more than 3000 baht for massage even if tip is included. I still prefer traditional way of paying the shop first and then personally passing tip to massage guy (and seeing his smile!)

Did he wake up to sing at 6am or was he singing overnight?

Maybe you send them an email to ask? Knowing you, you will only stay one or two nights. Maybe you don't book Squirrel for your first hotel. Raya is a good option for first hotel bekoz it's opposite Moonlight!

You mean when I met you at G's on soi 4 at 8pm for meal, that's tea time? Lol

Good for you! Just focus on Gay Thailand, Gay Bangkok and Gay Pattaya forums! Waiting for your trip (and trip report!)

The only meals I know are breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner and supper. Any meal for me after midnight is considered supper. But I believe for the guys who work at night and only go to sleep at dawn, a meal at midnight might be considered lunch or dinner.

Porn DVDs - whether gay or straight - are rare nowadays. Everything is online. For sex toys and sexy underwear, can consider going to X-Rock underwear shop. They supply underwear to Moonlight.

When I was in Bangkok two weeks ago, I saw one of the Chichana guys on Grindr. Hehe

It is an admirable quality to see in J helping his family. I see the same in my con nuôi. He bought land and built house for his parents and grandparents. But I feel he has overextended himself. He is living from hand to mouth and doesn't have much savings. He ends up working two jobs to make housing loan payments. Earlier this year, when his grandmother passed away, he didn't have enough cash to pay for urgent air ticket to go back for funeral. He had to call his cha nuôi to book the air ticket and even asked for help to pay for funeral expenses. Your J is a lovely young man. Would love to meet him one day.

New number 41 at Freshboys is 22 years old from Vietnam. Doesn't speak much English. It was his birthday 2 weeks ago and he invited my regular guy to his birthday celebration. "He's so young!" my regular guy, who is 28, said to me. "It's only 6 years difference," I said. I believe my regular guy is feeling insecure now that he is nearing 30. Number 41's previous number was 39. I saw him on a Thursday night and had supper (and even played chess) with him and my regular guy after bar closed. On Friday and Saturday nights, he had offs!

Eagerly waiting to find out about new bar Atlas. What will the guys be wearing on stage?

If you happen to be in Bangkok in middle of March, let's meet! I'm same age and race as your hubby!

Tattoo? No tattoo?

Maybe something like this? (Image generated using AI)

@Min maybe J is confused by your boyfriend-customer sponsorship arrangement. When you still pay him 3k every time you meet him despite giving him 25k every month, the relationship might continue to seem transactional. Your intentions are good (to get him to save up) but he might not have understood it because he compares the arrangement with other guys i.e. V's 30k per month arrangement. It's obvious there is a special relationship that you have formed with J. Thanks for sharing such personal and intimate details about your relationship. Reading it has helped me with understanding my own relationship with my con nuôi.

He's number 25. YY is his trade name. If you ever happen to be in Bangkok for one night, would you consider offing him just to chat with him? I think you are a very good listener and you are able to get people to open up to you. He doesn't tell me more about himself (probably because of language barrier) and I feel it's good for him to articulate his thoughts and feelings instead of keeping them bottled in. I sense a lot of angst inside him. You will be conducting some sort of counselling session. Will owe you big time if you can do it. But no worries if you can't!

Goodbye for the moment. Hello again in 2025! Lol! Thanks for bringing me to SK despite my aversion to walking! I really enjoyed our late suppers at Foodland with our regular guys. Looking forward to meeting again next year in 2025!

Unlikely to be similar to Dragon Koi. It has an unique business model with its unique staff. Shall tell you in person one day or you might realise it once you visit and observe it. I reckon Atlas will have muscle guys for off but the show will be a mix of Dreamboys/Goodboys with ladyboy diva singing for tourist crowd because that's where the easy money comes in.

3rd guy is my type. I guessed correctly @vinapu and @spoon favourites!

Very nice sunset photo!

I am guessing the arrangement sounds complicated to J. For V's case, does his boyfriend pay him every time they have sex on top of 30k he gives him every month?

More experimentation with AI because it's the weekend Saturday and I am bored at home!

Yes I still send him money.

@Min thank you so much for sharing about your life. Am glad that you are helping J. I have been helping my regular guy for a number of years now. We don't regard each other as boyfriends but we are close. He treats me as his godfather "cha nuôi" while I treat him as my godson "con nuôi". I got to know him at X-Boys bar in Soi Twilight. After getting to know each other better for 2 years, con nuôi said he wanted to return to Vietnam permanently but he asked me for financial help. I said yes and it started with me sending him 12500 baht (S$500) every month. He managed to settle down into a job and could provide for his parents. We had agreed to cut down the monthly contribution gradually. It came down to 7500 baht per month (S$300) and then Covid hit. I helped him and his family ride out Covid with some additional contributions. After Covid, things didn't improve in Vietnam and con nuôi had no choice but to return to Bangkok to find work. He found a day job doing packing and deliveries. Probably encouraged by his friends, he went back to the life of gogoboy. He worked two jobs. He was at Dreamboys last year before the bar expelled all Vietnamese guys. This year, he found a place at Freshboys. He works there from 8.30pm to 1am (if he doesn't get any off), sleeps at 2am and wakes up at 7am for his day job which lasts till 6 plus. On his off days, he gyms at outdoor gym at Lumpini Park. He gets 2 or 3 offs a week - typically Chinese customers who want him to fuck them. He knows how to speak a bit of Mandarin hence his popularity among customers from mainland China. Being already 28 years old, con nuôi knows he cannot continue with his current situation forever. He is saving up to go back to Vietnam then enrol in a Korean language school full-time so that he can go to South Korea to work in shipbuilding as a permanent occupation. I told him I will continue helping him financially until he reaches South Korea.

Side means no fucking