jason1975

Dreamboys seem to be flexible with its employees. I often see Dreamboys guys arriving casually after 9pm. But guys there get fewer offs compared to guys working at Freshboys. Unless the guy is a popular guy.

I end up spending 20k total on a karaoke night with 4 to 5 boys. But I only do it once a trip, typically towards the end of trip.

Good Boy is the only bar that opens till 2:00am so customers at Freshboys and Dreamboys move over to Good Boy once those bars close at 1:00am.

He speaks English, Thai, his home country language (Vietnam, Myanmar, Laos?) and the 4th language is Mandarin?

Let's not be harsh on the ladies. They are out to have some time away from their husbands or boyfriends. Let them enjoy the companionship of handsome boys. And I believe the boys enjoy entertaining them judging by how they sit close to the ladies and hold their hands and hug them!

I do that sometimes. Typically it's because I already had a great massage that day. But I don't off a guy to go back to hotel room to talk. We will chat while we go out to other bars and clubs.

Summary of extended 4-nights weekend trip in March (Friday to Tuesday) - Met 3 guys for first time (1 massage and 2 from bars) - Met 3 regulars (2 massage and 1 from bar) - Met new forum members - Went to new club (EDT for shower show) I cannot wait for next trip in end May. I am going to Bangkok again specially to see the Pride Parade on Sunday 31 May. This year, the route includes Silom Road! 🥳🥳🥳

I have always been curious about other customers and I frequently ask my guy about his customers. He tells me which nationalities are most demanding and which are most generous in his opinion. No surprise then that I was my usual curious self and I asked Abs Guy about the customer who offed him 5 minutes before I arrived at Freshboys on Sunday night. Abs Guy was surprisingly open to tell me. Customer was from UK. After watching show at Freshboys, customer took Abs Guy back to hotel room to drink and chat only. Customer started smoking weed and became high. Fortunately, customer didn't pass out. He tipped Abs Guy for his time and Abs Guy left at 2:00am.

Yes it was D. He looks good!

During karaoke, I asked Handsome Guy about the two Asian lady customers that he and 3 other boys were with at Good Boy bar the previous night. Did the ladies off them? "No. They come bar drinking only. They buy boy drink. 4 boy. Show finish they go back. No tip." 😭

Some incidents that I didn't remember to include when I recounted trip events. I bumped into a Cambodian guy on Silom Road. He was going to gym. I asked him if he was still working at Dreamboys. He said no. He's a freelancer now. He said Dreamboys no longer hires Cambodians! 🤔 On the first night, while I was walking along Silom Road back to soi 3 with "Music", someone tapped me on my shoulder. I turned around and saw it was a Laos guy who works at Freshboys. He was with a farang customer. They crossed the road to go to Ibis Styles Hotel while I continued walking on and would only cross Silom Road at next crossing. I am surprised that Laos guy would call out to me. I always thought bar boy etiquette when they are with a customer is to pretend not to notice and certainly not to talk to other customers. I hope his customer that night wasn't mad at him!

I kind of overspent on this trip. Exceeded my budget and was only left with about 1000 baht on last day.

I had promised karaoke to 3 guys - "Music" from Dreamboys and Handsome Guy and another guy from Good Boy. I had planned for a more intimate evening at smaller karaoke room at back of Happy Beer Garden instead of the big VIP room at h.i.m bar. because there were only 4 of us. As we waited for "Music" to arrive (he went to have a haircut), I bumped into another guy at pool table bar. He was chilling out before going to work at Dreamboys. We chatted and I invited him to karaoke so there were 5 of us eventually. Lady boss at Happy Beer Garden was pleased to see us. "I remember you come here karaoke," she said to me. I was surprised as that was 2 years ago. I expected her to usher us to the karaoke room at the back but she surprised me by opening a sliding door on the left wall a few steps away. They made a new karaoke room! "Same price!" she said, probably expecting me to say I only needed a small room and didn't want to pay more for bigger room. This new room was more spacious than the room at the back. Long layout and very comfortable. We ordered a bottle of Thai whisky and food for karaoke for 3 hours. Midway, forum member E dropped by to join us. In terms of price, karaoke at Happy Beer Garden cost about 5000 baht compared to 8000 baht at h.i.m. bar. It was a fun night and we ended after midnight. I went back happy and the next day I would go back to Singapore.

Abs Guy ticked most of my checklist and I am so glad to finally experience him, especially those hard abs. There was no way I could off him in the past when my guy was around. Mental note to off Abs Guy overnight. I know he's agreeable to stay until breakfast because one forum member offed him last year! After we washed up, I took Abs Guy to Foodland for dinner. At close to 9pm, he said thank you for everything and went to report for work at Freshboys.

After massage, I had a snack then I went to Sauna Mania for one hour. I had free entry coupon for weekday (Monday to Wednesday) which I had received when I went on Saturday. About 15 guys in dark maze. A bit of fun touches and gropping here and there but I spent half an hour on my phone while admiring 3 guys in the gym. I went back to airbnb condo to get ready for 7pm appointment. I received a message at 6:30pm. Abs guy wanted me to know he might be late a few minutes because of bad traffic. At 7:00pm, he texted me to say he was downstairs. I went down and he explained that he didn't stay near Silom. He couldn't take motorcycle taxi. The taxi he was in had been stuck at a particular road and he was afraid he would be late. No big deal. Even if he had been late, i would wait for him! I was so attracted to his hard abs!

The next morning I woke up with good news on my phone. Before I slept, I had sent a message to Abs Guy to ask to meet him before he goes to work. His reply was yes and he asked for my address. I sent it to him and arranged a 7pm meeting time. I couldn't go to his bar to off him because I had karaoke at night. I did some shopping in late morning. I was back in Silom at 2pm for lunch with forum members. Then I went to Adam Massage at 3pm with regular massage guy. Yesterday, he was one of the two guys who just arrived from Vietnam. During the massage, I asked him whether he found room to rent. He said unfortunately no. He and his friend had to stay temporarily with another friend.

I probably know the two guys!

4 bars in one night! Wow! And you visited Big Boy! That's unexpected! I thought you were a twink lover and you even bought drinks for 2 guys!

Regarding boys who decline sex with customers because they have sponsors, they are still available for drinking and karaoke. The bars still value them even if they don't get offed as often. There are big spending customers who regularly off a few boys at a time just to go drinking at another venue. Not all boys are able to drink alcholol so those who are able to hold their liquor and not get drunk are often in demand by such customers.

Seated at table in front of the stage were two Asian ladies having a good time surrounded by 4 boys and one of them was Handsome Guy whom I offed yesterday. We exchanged knowing smiles as I went to sit with forum members at the back and get ready to watch the show. I was tempted to off Handsome Guy again since I didn't get to off Freshboys Abs Guy. But going to the front table and taking him away from the ladies doesn't seem like the right thing to do. About half an hour later, a farang customer came in and the moment he sat down, he had 3 boys seated with him. Obviously a regular customer. He would off all 3 boys and I saw them at Foodland later having supper with them. At close to 1am, we decided to call it a night. No offs for me tonight. Forum member E and I stopped by at Midnight bar for a final round of drinks and we also played Connect Four board game with the waiters.

Happy to know that you and J are still happily together! @Min ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

At Goodboy, three Filipino customers were seated with two boys (fully clothed) and enjoying a bottle of whisky. They had food brought in. Some sort of celebration. The three of us sat at long sofa right at the back of the bar. We were next to the bartender and we could see the board where the mamasans wrote the individual number of boys working tonight. At the right side, there was a margin and written there were numbers of boys who had been offed by customers already. There were three numbers on the right while there were about 25 numbers on the left side.

Forum member was keen to have a look at new bar Big Boy on Patpong 1 so we went there. Unlike Friday night which was quiet, there were other customers. Some ladies and straight couples. They looked like they had been persuaded in by promoters outside. Same number of 3 guys on stage. Once we sat there, the show began. The manager probably saw enough of a crowd (there weren't even 10 customers. Including us, it was 7 at best) to start the show. To be fair to the bar, the show was pretty good. The performers put in eftort including a dancer who came in just to dance his solo performance. Soon, another forum member joined us. After the show ended, the other customers left the bar. We stayed awhile more then we decided to go to Good Boy.

Cute young waiter at Sarica whom I remembered from my trip in January was working. Outside seating was full so forum member and I sat inside where cute waiter was stationed. Forum member agreed with me that he was cute! After dinner, we headed to Freshboys. I wanted to off Abs Guy (whom I met at Foodland supermarket last night). I did not enter Freshboys. I was at door and told waiter Abs Guy's bar number. Waiter went in and out came mamasan. "Sorry, customer take your boy. 5 minutes ago." What! "Boy inside. Customer want see show first." Mamasan then went inside bar and brought Abs Guy (who had already got changed into his T-shirt and jeans) out to speak to me directly. Abs Guy said sorry he can't go off with me tonight. We exchanged Line contacts and arrange to meet tomorrow. I said goodbye to Abs Guy and I also thanked mamasan while slipping her a 100 baht tip.

After Beef, forum member and I decided to check out Side at Soi Wall Street. Side is a 4 storey coffee place for meet ups with cruising areas. On weekend nights, they have special programme. Last night Saturday night they had go go dancers dancing on stage. Tonight Sunday night they had hired guys available for fun in dark room. The room was so pitch dark that you can't see your hand in front of you so you had to feel your way around. Two hired guys took turns in dark room. Average types. There are also themed rooms for kinky play - classroom, office and locker room. I witnessed two Thai guys in late 20s jerking each other off in office themed room with another 2 guys touching them. Basically sauna but everyone is fully clothed (and holding iced coffee) as they explore the rooms. Forum member and I spent about 45 minutes then we got hungry and we went to nearby Sarica for dinner. About 15 guys cruising throughout our time at Side. Mostly locals.