jason1975

"Music" and I spend time catching up. He is more tanned as he had gone back to Vietnam for Tet for one month. He points to his stomach and says he drank every day during Tet. "Karaoke?" he asks me. Not tonight but I promise him I will take him to karaoke another night. Three Chinese customers suddenly occupy the private sofa booth directly above our seats. Two mamasans brought bottle of whisky and got two Vietnamese guys to sit with them. I know one of them as he is my guy's good friend. I smiled at him and he said hi and fist bumped me.

About 30 guys at Dreamboy. Many customers. It was a busy Friday night. Forum member and I were led to a second row seat. I spotted "Music" - the guy I had offed during my 2nd weekend trip. I waved to him to come down the stage and sit with me. He was surprised that I was there. He asked me why I didn't text him in advance. I just smiled and bought him a drink. "Music" and I looked at the guys on stage and he gave me information on them. There are currently 8 Vietnam guys working at Dreamboys, with 3 who recently transferred from Freshboys. Years ago, at one stage, 1/3 of guys at Freshboys were Vietnamese. Now, there's only 4 Vietnam guys working at Freshboys. The majority are Myanmar and Laos guys.

At 9 plus, we left G's. One forum member and I decided to check out new bar Big Boy on Patpong. 4 guys available for off despite the guy downstairs saying "10 boys tonight!" Spacious set up. 3 of the guys were muscle guys. Not as big as those in Tawan. The 4th guy was a twink but had toned muscles and younger than the others. We had a drink for a while. We didn't stay for the show. We went to Dreamboy next.

I arrived at G's on the dot at 8:00pm. One forum member was already seated there at outdoor table. Soon, another forum member joined us. We ate and chatted for an hour. Guido came to talk to us. His plan for restaurant in Pattaya is going well. He managed to get a big piece of land. So big that he could even install a waterfall! I will be glad to go to Pattaya to see his restaurant when it opens. Throughout the dinner, I looked across at some of the cute waiters at Banana Bar. My guy was not in Bangkok for half a year (he is currently building his house in Vietnam) so I could meet anyone, including those from his bar Freshboys. In the past, we had an agreement. I could not off anyone from Freshboys while he was working there. I had in mind two guys at Freshboys whom I had always thought of offing.

I only had my backpack with me so I could go to airport train straightaway. However, airport train seemed slower than usual. After finally arriving at Phya Thai, I switched to BTS. I was constantly checking my watch. I had a 8:00pm dinner appointment at G's. I had thought of getting a one-hour massage at nearby Adam Massage before dinner. Alas, I only managed to reach airbnb at 7:15pm so decided to skip massage. I don't like to be late for appointments. I took my time checking out the airbnb and even had a shower and change of clothes to get ready for dinner.

My plane landed at 5:30pm. There were many people at immigration. I went to the two automated machines next to those for Thai citizens. I queued and scanned my passport in less than 5 minutes.

My 3rd weekend trip to Bangkok happened in 2nd week of March. I took 2 days leave Monday and Tuesday so I had a weekend trip from Friday to Tuesday. The reason for this particular trip was to meet forum members. I booked an airbnb at Oasis Condo on soi 3. It belongs to same owner of another airbnb unit that I had booked last December. He has several airbnb units. Cost was US$40 per night for a decent size unit with kitchen and access to condo facilities such as swimming pool, gym and laundry machines.

I know of a guy at Freshboy who disappeared after he found a sponsor who allegedly paid him 50k a month. I also know of guys who continue working in bar even when they have a sponsor. They are allowed to go out with customers to drink only. No sex. The guys will communicate their terms clearly to new customers who want to off them.

Google Translate might have translated his message too literally and created a tone that he never intendred. He might just be stating a fact - tomorrow there are many customers in bar and he has to work. Today he is free to meet (implied meaning he has no customers today). There were occasions in the past when my guy and I misintrepreted each other's intention due to Google Translate. But we subsequently clarified each other's message and all went well in the end.

Even though I book my guy for full day, we are not physically together 24/7. He works at bar from 8pm every night and only sleeps at 3am after work. He sleeps till 4pm or 5pm. So he needs to sleep in daytime. When I am with him the night before, we stay up till 1am or 2am then I will sleep. He tries to sleep but if he can't sleep, he will watch Tiktok on his phone or play games. At 6am, I wake up and we have morning sex. We then have breakfast. Then he sleeps until afternoon. Sometimes I just enjoy watching his naked body in bed but most of time, I go out for shopping or get a massage. When he wakes up in mid afternoon, then we go out together.

The reason why I give my guy 5k to be with me per day is because the short time rate at his bar (Freshboy) is 2.5k and long time rate is 4k. In my mind, it would not be right to pay less than 4k for one whole day.

At least 5k per day. Having met him in person, I believe he will be a great companion.

But he didn't off the guy! Is he syill considered a brother? Sidenote. I do know of some bar guys who were offed by several different forum members!

In my trip report ("weekends in Bangkok") i used another name to refer to him.

Glad you found them nice! Having met you just a few nights ago, they naturally smiled at you (maybe to ask for karaoke? Lol!)