jason1975

How much did he ask for?

I will be there for 11 nights. It will be my main place for meals - breakfast, dinner and supper!

Change of date. 28th November to 9th December

I reckon it was money.

I arrive that evening and am available at 9pm after I check into my room.

30 days!

He will cost quite a fair sum of money!

Maybe they were already offed by customers on the nights you went!

I've not known of any guy working in bar to ever request for extension. When their 60 days is close to ending, they do a visa run or go back to home country and return to Thailand a few days or weeks later. I know of waiters who are on long term work permits which their employers applied on their behalf. It will be extremely inconvenient for the guys in the bars to be unable to do visa runs. I read that the new rules only apply to land crossings. A friend of my regular guy will not be affected because he travels by air (thanks to wealthy regular customers!) I believe many guys in the bars are adopting a wait and see stance and crossing fingers to see how the rules are implemented.

Thank goodness I didn't plan a trip this weekend to meet my regular guy! On Thursday, the Thai government announced news on entry restrictions at its checkpoints with effect from next Monday 17 November to stop visa runs from illegal foreign workers. According to the news, repeated offenders might be prevented from entering Thailand permanently. First time offenders could be required to stay one night overseas before being allowed back into the country. My guy took immediate action once he found out the news. His visa expires in first week of December but he didn't want to risk any chance of being denied re-entry during a visa run when the new rules kick in so he immediately booked a ticket for Friday to Laos and back. Ever since the borders at Cambodia were closed, many Vietnamese had to do visa run to Laos. The trip takes about one day two-way. My guy left Silom at 11pm, reached Laos and got his passport stamped at 10.30am in morning. His new visa is until mid January 2026 so he can be in Bangkok for New Year and Christmas (with me!) without worrying about visa expiry!

The reports of quiet nights at the bars came from weekday nights. Fridays and Saturdays are very different. Lots of customers on weekend nights and many customers took guys off, from my sources.

I still like Boss. My infatuation with him has lasted one year!

Most of the guys at Freshboys have a strange bowl haircut - even my regular guy!

Thanks for writing detailed review!

Do you think he left his ring on purpose? Haha