jason1975

I advise against any long term arrangement until you get to know your guy much better. My own arrangement with my guy only came about in 2019 which was 3 years after I first knew him in 2016. He was the one who approached me for help. I provided him with a small sum every month and this came in really handy during Covid. This year (2026) is our 10th year of knowing each other. I have helped him out in other ways beside the monthly remittance - when he was hospitalised for malaria, when he needed an urgent air ticket back for his grandmother's funeral, when he had to get a new IPhone 🤣 and finally, I recently helped him to get his house construction started. We are very much an inseparable couple in Bangkok if you ever see us together. We know each other well and his friends and my friends know us as well. You and your guy will have to know what you want from each other. Your 3 day trip should give you opportunities to find out more.

Foodland at certain times is a great place to meet people. Typically from 7:30pm to 9:30pm before the guys at bars go to work. Also from 11:30pm to 1:30am. That's because many guys at bars end work at 1:00am and they sometimes pop by at Foodland supermarket on their way back home. If you meet them earlier than 1:00am, they are usually seated with customer who had just offed them. And so it was at about 1:05am when Handsome Guy and I were about to finish our supper when I spotted a familiar guy dash into Foodland supermarket. He works at Freshboys and is a good friend of my guy. Fair skin but lean muscular with well-defined and very hard abs. I call him Abs Guy. I got up and went into supermarket. I spotted and greeted him. He was buying packet of detergent. I offered to buy him supper and of course he said yes. After he paid for his detergent, he joined Handsome Guy at our table. They know each other of course. All Vietnam guys in the trade know each other. I have always wanted to off Abs Guy because of his hard abs but could never do so as my guy works in same bar. In fact, they stand on stage side by side next to each other every night as their numbers are in sequence. Since my guy was away (and he gave me go-ahead to off guys in his bar), I asked Abs Guy for an off tomorrow night. Yes, he said. I said I would go to his bar tomorrow. With that, we parted ways. I went back to condo with Handsome Guy, a great end to an enjoyable day.

I would take Handsome Guy with me and E to EDT then supper then back to condo. We had drinks and did people watching at Midnight until 10:30pm. By then J's guy had arrived and they left together. At EDT, the shower show started at 11:30pm. Price was 600 baht with 2 drinks. We were glad we went in at 11pm. We could get seating against the wall and a round table to put our drinks. The place would gradually get crowded towards midnight. Two performers did the shower show - one Thai and one international guest. For this weekend, it was a tall lean model from Taiwan. There were also ladyboy diva singing. Think Stranger Bar with leg splitting and dramatic poses but in wet environment. Customers were also invited for games segment and lap dance with dancers. Handsome Guy enjoyed the experience. His first time in EDT. Two plus-sized half-drunk Russian ladies shared table with us. We toasted drinks but soon, they were getting closer to Handsome Guy. He's mine, bitches! E was quietly enjoying himself. I can't remember the exact time but probably half past midnight we decided to leave. E went back to his hotel while Handsome Guy and I went to Foodland for supper. .

After G's, @emiel1981 and @jimmie50 and I went to Midnight for drinks. Hope they don't mind me subsequently using E and J to refer to them. J waited for his guy. E and I would be going to EDT tonight for the shower show but it only starts at 11:30pm. I went to Goodboy to off a guy whom I know through drinking but I never off him before. He's really handsome so I shall call him Handsome Guy. Handsome Guy is cousin of another guy whom I met regularly and my 2nd favourite guy. He hasn't come back to Bangkok to work yet. And yes, they are all Vietnamese! 🤣

I went to G's and 3 forum members were already inside. We introduced ourselves. Most of us have not met each other in person. We had a great chatting about bars and massage shops as well as about other famous forum members. Another 3 forum members joined us gradually over the next one and half hours. We even took a group photo with Guido! The cat was outside though.

I was in fact ready by 7:15pm but I didn't want to stay inside airbnb and I didn't want to go to G's yet so I headed out to take a look at Patpong market. I ended up at Midnight for a drink and a quick game of checkers with their hunky waiter. From where I was seated, I spotted my guy's friend from Freshboys. He was seated at stairs directly facing his bar. I went to say hi and handed him a pack of cigarettes. "You come my bar see my show?" he asked me. I said I will try.

I didn't go back to airbnb after massage. I had some street food then went to Sauna Mania for 2 hours of fun. 420 baht and I was given a coupon for free entry on weekdays (Monday to Wednesday). About 20 guys cruising in dark room. 1/4 Thai and the rest international. I especially enjoyed myself with a guy from Hong Kong for about 20 minutes inside a small room which he locked. I left Sauna Mania at aboout 6:30pm. I went back to airbnb. I had to get ready for forum members dinner gathering at G's at 8pm.

After massage, I went downstairs to get my shoes and was given hot tea. Another massage guy approached me and said hi. I remember him from Paradise Massage but he changed shop. He is Thai and doesn't have lean abs body of many of the other massage guys but our sessions were always hot because he is gay and very horny! Horny Guy asked me if I would like to see him and I said sure on Monday.

Saturday morning was spent slacking at swimming pool. I also had to do laundry as my airbnb host only provided two towels and I used them both for "Music" and me. I always want fresh towels for my guests and I was expecting guests every night. At 1:00pm, I went out to meet forum members for coffee and light lunch. After that, one forum member and I went to Green Massage for one-hour foot massage. Even in the early afternoon, the place was already half filled with customers. Both our masseurs were guys. I personally prefer female hands for foot massage but I went to Green to accompany my good friend. When foot massage ended at 3pm, I made my way to Sun Massage at Soi 6. I wanted to see who was available. A manly hunk whom I met regularly had not returned from Vietnam yet. I looked around at the 10 guys available and saw a guy whom I had always wanted to meet. I pointed at him and we were quickly on our way upstairs. This twink is also from Vietnam and besides having lean body with abs, he is also good looking. Forum member friends say that he is the most good looking Viet guy due to his nearly symmetrical face but I think another guy is more handsome and I would be offing him tonight. As for massage, proper massage was given. Firm strokes. B2B fun during last 20 minutes of the one hour session. Thoroughly enjoyed myself and gave big tip.

You can be direct and tell him you want him to stay with you for 3 days then wait for his response. Most guys have experienced offs for few days from customers so they know what to expect.

Ah! I realise my mistake. I didn't give 1000 baht. I gave 2000 baht and receive 50 baht change. Bill was for two drinks (forum member and me), boy drink and off fee. Well spotted! @vinapu

After leaving Dreamboy, we went to Dragon for a drink. Waiters inside all shirtless and there was some dancing on the bar top. Forum member wanted to experience the bar so I just followed along. I also didn't mind bringing "Music" along. Still too early to go back. Also still too full from dinner at G's 3 hours ago to eat supper at Foodland now. (I always eat supper with the guys I off. Unless they prefer not to) Because "Music" was with me, the Dragon waiters didn't approach me. Dragon is a host bar so customers who go in are typically befriended by a host for chatting in return for drink and tips. The Myanmar waiters are friendly and speak good English. The TV screen is showing Olympic Games diving competition - divers in speedos - what a conversation starter! "Music" and I step out of bar for a while to smoke and chat. We talk about how my guy is doing in Vietnam. Almost Viet guy in the Patpong bars knows about him staying in Vietnam for half a year to build his house. We stay at Dragon until 11.30pm then we went to Foodland for supper. After that, I said goodbye to forum member and "Music" and I went to airbnb condo to make music for the rest of the night!

I told "Music" to get changed. I will off him tonight. He goes off to get changed. I tell mamasan I want to pay. Total bill was 950 for my drink, boy drink and off fee. I give mamasan a 1000-baht note and he returns with 50 baht in folder. I think whether to pass mamasan the 50 baht but I am mindful that some mamasans will feel insulted if they are tipped less than 100 baht. So I just leave the 50 baht in folder and I close it and return to mamasan. I notice two guys on stage. One has a giant lion head tattoo on his back. Fabulous body and abs. Another guy has athletic body and he looks like a footballer. I also spot a Thai guy who is a favourite of a forum member. I remember him well because we ate supper at Foodland together and I found his English to be superb and he also has sexy body! At 10:30pm, the Dreamboys show start with 4 coyote dancers dancing. 2 of are fabulous dancers while the other 2 need more practice. "Music" comes back to me in his tradement black figure-hugging T-shirt and typical bar guy accessory sling bag. After the coyote dancing, it was time to leave.

"Music" and I spend time catching up. He is more tanned as he had gone back to Vietnam for Tet for one month. He points to his stomach and says he drank every day during Tet. "Karaoke?" he asks me. Not tonight but I promise him I will take him to karaoke another night. Three Chinese customers suddenly occupy the private sofa booth directly above our seats. Two mamasans brought bottle of whisky and got two Vietnamese guys to sit with them. I know one of them as he is my guy's good friend. I smiled at him and he said hi and fist bumped me.

About 30 guys at Dreamboy. Many customers. It was a busy Friday night. Forum member and I were led to a second row seat. I spotted "Music" - the guy I had offed during my 2nd weekend trip. I waved to him to come down the stage and sit with me. He was surprised that I was there. He asked me why I didn't text him in advance. I just smiled and bought him a drink. "Music" and I looked at the guys on stage and he gave me information on them. There are currently 8 Vietnam guys working at Dreamboys, with 3 who recently transferred from Freshboys. Years ago, at one stage, 1/3 of guys at Freshboys were Vietnamese. Now, there's only 4 Vietnam guys working at Freshboys. The majority are Myanmar and Laos guys.