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I don't think any of those would stand a chance, but you never know for sure unless you try. But I would never invest in any of those unless I could easily afford to lose every baht. Hairy Thai guys with beards? Are there any?

This evening I did some checking of my own. Apparently two gay-hating farang started bad-mouthing the boys at one of the open air bars, calling them all kinds of nasty names until the boys had enough of it and chased after them. Some boys from other bars joined in the chase and caught the two farang near the entrance of the complex. They didn't really hurt the two farang, but did enough to humiliate them and probably caused some hind end bruising. Needless to say, the two farang have not been seen around Jomtien Complex since that night.

Silverdaddies is good and yes, there are young guys who are truly into old guys, fat guys, hairy guys, bearded guys, combinations of those, etc, and it's not always about money. If that young man was reading that magazine, I'll bet anything he would have responded favorably if you had approached him. He may have been a money boy, but he also may not have been. Considering the variety of magazines he could have been looking at, I think you missed the boat by not at least giving him a smile and seeing how he would respond. I learned a long time ago not to let shyness or fear of rejection get the better of me. What's the worst that could happen? If he tells you to get lost, your feelings will be hurt, yes, but he might be responsive too. I look at it the same way I look at fishing. Every so often you reel one in. Once I overcame my fear of rejection, I ended up meeting many who turned out to be great. As crazy as this may seem, I am successful much more often than not and I'll repeat that it isn't always about money. I've met some who refused to accept money when I offered it. The proof is saunas such as Babylon in Bangkok or Sansuk in Pattaya. There certainly is no money being exchanged in those places. If you see that same young man again, simply say hello and take it from there. You just might be pleasantly surprised.

Thailand is waiving those fees in an effort to get tourists to come back. The tourism industry is in serious trouble. There is even some talk about possibly extending the waiver beyond March 10.

If it still exists, I've seen a Pack and Ship place on Sukhumvit, on the west side (the beach side) between Pattaya Tai and Pattaya Klang. Also, you can buy boxes at UPS outlets. The nearest to you is on Second Road, right near the Boyztown area. You can also ask at grocery stores and large hardware stores, such as HomeWorks and Big-C. THey might give boxes to you.

There will be plenty! One time I was in Phuket at Christmas and the hotel had a Christmas beach party and actually had a Santa Claus parachute in! In Pattaya there will be all kinds of bar, disco, and karaoke parties. Many restaurants will put on Christmas dinners. Be careful about which hotel you stay in if you are going to be here for Christmas. If your hotel is going to have a Christmas party or Christmas buffet, they are very likely to make it mandatory for their guests. In other words, you will be charged for it whether you attend or not. That is a standard practice in Thailand, so you might want to check in advance about that with the hotel where you will stay.

If nobody is able to respond, ask Monty. I'll be he knows.

Incredibly, while Bangkok was hit with such torrential rains on Tuesday, Pattaya had the driest day we've had in nearly two weeks. The following appears in THE NATION: _____ WET TUESDAY Staying Afloat Published on October 14, 2009 Cars Sink and Pedestrians are Marooned as the Heaviest Rains in Two Decades hit Bangkok The misery of traffic jams left Bangkok drivers wishing they could swap their cars for boats yesterday, as the capital's roads disappeared under water. The long and heavy downpour brought the biggest spike in rainwater levels for more than two decades. Bailing out After driving her husband to work along Srinakarin Road at 1.30pm, housewife Naphaphorn Chuenprasaeng witnessed one driver baling water from his brokendown car with a cup. "It was shocking to see the floodwaters so high. I saw dozens of breakdowns." "The journey from Bang Na to my home on Patthanakan 65 took two hours. Normally, it's only 30 minutes." Fon, a resident of the Thippawan community on Thepharak Road, said the flood level rose to 30 centimetres, forcing her to stay at home. The community was inundated from 7am until well into the afternoon. "The whole area looks like a canal. I had no customers at my restaurant as a result. In the past, floodwaters have subsided after a few hours - never before has the community been flooded for so long," Fon said. Never-ending journey Noon, a company employee in Bang Na district, said she left home in Lad Prao district for her office at 11.30am. "Usually, my commute by bus takes an hour and a half but it took almost four hours today. I've never seen floods as high in the three years of traveling to this office. In places the water was waist deep." She added that she witnessed pedestrians literally marooned on islands created by the rising waters. Students at Ramkhamhaeng University 2 had to hitch up skirts and trousers and paddle through knee-deep water to get to exam halls. At 1.30pm, the traffic around the university was gridlocked. Narong Airasubkunakorn, director of the city's Information Drainage Technology Department confirmed the rain had been the heaviest in 25 years. Other roads that suffered jams as a result were Sukhumvit, Rama 3, Rama 4, Rama 9, Phitsanulok, Lat Phrao, Ratchadaphisek, Ngarmwong wan and Vibhavadi and Rajdamnoen Avenue.

It's a sauce from one of the restaurants I review . . . By the way, for those who mucked me . . . You're all banned!!!!

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This morning a friend and I went for the breakfast. While it is still 99 baht, the breakfast is no longer all you can eat. Now it is set menus. The dinners are still all you can eat, but the breakfast policy has changed.

Can you tell us the dates for the next one? How do you get to and from wherever this is held once you are in Mandalay? Also, can you explain what a Nat is? I've never heard of that term.

Yes, it is. That's the height of the high season, so you should do just fine.

How much was the room and do you have contact information?

Umberto Gobambananzo

The following appears in THE NATION: _____ Swords, Spirits and Salad Published on October 10, 2009 Phuket's Vegetarian Festival kicks off in just eight days. Be there While tourists sunbathe on the white sandy beaches and swim in the deep blue sea, residents in downtown Phuket are busy gearing up for the annual vegetarian festival. Celebrated by the Chinese community on the island that's best known for its palm-fringed beaches, stylish and rustic-chic resorts and laid-back attitude, the annual Vegetarian Festival showcases Phuket's mystical side. A combination of vegetarian food, peaceful chants, ear-splitting firecrackers and mind-blowing processions, visitors to the island should make a point of heading into town to see a very different side to the Pearl of the Andaman. The Vegetarian Festival, which runs from October 18 to 26, has been an annual event merit-making for more than 150 years. It is believed to have started in the town of Kathu by a visiting theatre troupe from China. Struck down by a mysterious epidemic, the entertainers decided they had fallen ill because they had failed to pay proper respects to the nine Emperor Gods of Taoism. As penance, they erected Chinese temples and held a vegetarian festival to ward off any residual bad luck. According to local legend, the unorthodox remedy worked and the annual vegetarian festival has been held ever since. Abstention from sex and alcohol were added in later years for absolute purification. From next Sunday, the whole town will fly yellow flags to mark the beginning of the spiritual retreat. On the eve of the festival, a large pole is raised in each Chinese shrine, and the nine emperor gods are invited to descend from the heavens and take part in the ceremonies. At midnight, nine lanterns are lit and hung on the poles, meaning that the annual Vegetarian Festival has begun. Food stalls fly yellow little flags to indicate they serve only vegetarian food and devotees dress in white for the entire nine days to show they intend to remain pure. While vegetarian food is tempting and the Chinese shrines are gaily decorated, most visitors focus on the "maa song" or the mediums the gods enter during the festival. The maa song manifest supernatural powers and perform self-mutilation so they can absorb evil from other individuals and ensure good luck for the entire community. Each morning begins with processions through the town. At dawn, one can find scores of young men thronging the inner sanctums of the temples, preparing themselves for self-mutilation. At the base of the shrines, they go into a trance, begin speaking in tones and don colorful aprons with Taoist symbols, looking on as doctors make cuts at both sides of their mouths. The festival culminates with a procession of people deep in a trance, piercing their tongues, cheeks and other parts of their anatomy with spears, daggers, sharpened branches and anything else that comes to hand. Possessed by the spirits of nine deities, these ascetic devotees apparently feel no pain and show little sign of real injury. If you go

I certainly wouldn't want to disappoint the two of them.

Obama Awarded 2009 Nobel Peace Prize (CNN) -- President Obama was awarded the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize on Friday. The first African-American to win the White House, Obama was praised by the Norwegian Nobel Committee for "his extraordinary efforts to strengthen international diplomacy and cooperation between peoples." "Only very rarely has a person to the same extent as Obama captured the world's attention and given its people hope for a better future," the committee said. "His diplomacy is founded in the concept that those who are to lead the world must do so on the basis of values and attitudes that are shared by the majority of the world's population." The committee also said Obama has "created a new climate in international politics." In his short time in office, Obama has acted on a wide range of issues from the economy to terrorism and wars in Afghanistan and Iraq. Obama is the fourth U.S. president to receive the award, joining presidents Jimmy Carter, Woodrow Wilson and Theodore Roosevelt. This year's peace prize nominees included 172 people and 33 organizations. The committee does not release the names of the nominees.

In my opinion it isn't. I don't mind changing a little about the way I phrase things if I know the way I had been phrasing it is now considered insulting, but I also pay attention to who it is that is feeling insulted. It is starting to get ridiculous. For example, in the USA it is considered politically correct to refer to Indians as Native Americans. I don't know who came up with that, but for years I lived right next to a Seminole Indian reservation. You know what they want to be called? Indians. They dislike being called Native Americans. So who is this so-called political correctness for? So many words and phrases have changed because of this nonsense: Before - After trailer - mobile home toilet paper - bathroom tissue dump - landfill doctor - health care professional old - senior citizen used car - pre-owned personal transportation deaf - hearing impaired crippled - handicapped problems - issues midgets - little people shell shock - post traumatic stress disorder nervous breakdown - exhaustion The list goes on and on. Not long ago the feminist movement wanted a gazillion words that contained "man" changed to "person." I had no problem with much of that. It doesn't bother me to say "chairperson" instead of "chairman." However, I'll draw the line when CBS starts introducing their late night host as David Letterperson.

French Minister Says He Won't Resign over Sex with 'Boys' PARIS, France (CNN) French Culture Minister Frederic Mitterrand said Thursday he will not resign over his admission in a book that he paid to have sex with "boys" in Thailand. In an interview with French television network TF1, Mitterrand said he "absolutely condemn sexual tourism, which is a disgrace, and ... pedophilia," in which he insisted he has never participated. The minister described his 2005 book, "The Bad Life," as a mix of autobiography and fiction. In one passage, published by the French newspaper Le Monde Thursday, Mitterrand describes in detail a sexual encounter with a "boy" he said was called Bird. "My boy didn't say a word, he stood before me, immobile, his eyes still straight ahead and a half-smile on his lips. I wanted him so badly I was trembling," he wrote. Despite the use of the French word "garcon" in his text, Mitterrand has previously said the term did not mean "little boys." He said the males he paid for sex were his age, or maybe five years younger. It was not immediately clear how old he was at the time of the encounters he describes in his book. "It was, without a doubt, an error; a crime, no," he told TF1 anchor Laurence Ferrari. Mitterrand, who is openly gay, said he spoke with French President Nicolas Sarkozy on Thursday morning and said the president supports him. In a July interview with the weekly French news magazine Le Nouvel Observateur, Sarkozy said he had read Mitterrand's book, and found it "courageous and talented." Mitterrand's book has sparked fresh controversy in the wake of his recent defense of filmmaker Roman Polanski, who was jailed last month in Switzerland on a 31-year-old arrest warrant. Polanski had fled the United States for his native France in 1977 after pleading guilty to having sex with a 13-year-old girl. The culture minister told TF1's Ferrari that he was "too emotional" when he denounced the filmmaker's arrest in Switzerland as "horrifying." "To see him thrown to the lions for an old story that really has no meaning, and to see him alone, imprisoned, when he was going to attend a ceremony where he was to be honored, that is to say, he was trapped, it's absolutely horrifying," he said October 4, according to Agence France Presse. The far-right National Front organized an anti-Mitterrand demonstration in Paris Thursday evening. "Send this message on to everyone who will not put up with this indecency!" the party's Web site said. The party's vice president, Marine Le Pen, has demanded Mitterrand's resignation for what she termed his sexually deviant acts. Mitterrand responded, saying, "It's an honor to be dragged through the mud by the National Front." Mitterrand's acts of "sexual tourism" have left "a dark smudge" on the government, Le Pen said. The group is also gathering signatures on a petition, online and on paper, from those who want Mitterrand to step down. "We really hope he will resign," National Front communications director Julien Sanchez told CNN. "It's an embarrassment for our country, that our culture minister has done this. It affects our international image. It's not right," he added. On the other side of the political spectrum, the left-leaning Socialist Party suggested Sarkozy should consider Mitterrand's position. "It's up to President Sarkozy to decide whether or not we can be involved in the fight against child prostitution and sexual tourism, and whether or not the acts written in an autobiography -- written by a minister -- are acts of sexual commerce," said party spokesman Benoit Hamon. "If everything is relative and Mr. Mitterrand can be excused because he's famous, well, I don't excuse his behavior," Hamon said. Martine Aubry, the leader of the Socialist Party, said she would wait until she had read the book before making any judgment. Mitterrand told an interviewer in 2005 that assertions that he liked "little boys" were untrue. "It's because when people say 'boys' we imagine 'little boys,'" he said then. "How to explain that? It belongs to this general puritanism which surrounds us, which always makes us paint a black picture of the situation. It has nothing to do with that." Mitterrand was a television personality, not a government minister, when the book was published. It caused a stir upon its publication, as well, and has been the subject of heated debate several times since then. In the excerpt published by Le Monde newspaper Thursday, Mitterrand talks about visiting clubs to choose young male prostitutes in Thailand -- where prostitution is illegal and sexual intercourse with a minor is statutory rape and is punishable by imprisonment. "Most of them are young, handsome, and apparently unaware of the devastation that their activities could bring them. I would learn later that they didn't come every night, that they were often students, had a girlfriend and sometimes even lived with their families, who pretended not to know the source of their breadwinner's earnings," the book said. "Some of them were older and there was also a small contingent of heavier bruisers, who also had their fans. It was the artistic side of the exposition: Their presence made the youthful charm of the others stand out." Mitterrand, the nephew of the Socialist former president Francois Mitterrand, joined Sarkozy's center-right government this summer. Wikipedia, the user-edited online reference Web site, has locked down Frederic Mitterrand's entry, preventing changes to it.

One board?!?!? Is that all? Hell, I'm hated enough by some right here on this board! Well, somebody may get his revenge on the 12th . . . if I show up.

That's right. It's nothing new. Thai banks charge fees for transactions outside of your home service area. I have no idea where the boundaries are, but that's what these banks do. Considering that it is all centralized, I also have no idea why it's done this way, but there it is. Yet another item for my "I Don't Get It" list.

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