vinapu

I can live with that,

Then why go?

don't you leave them any tip?

good advices - we tend to give them away while leaving nothing for ourselves, that's why.

wishing you good luck with him !

'Old"? , watch your back next time you see me . After really only partially enjoyable trip in August I had short trip in November which was great and reported here already. So my enthusiasm returned but as you see above - it looks that great fun can be had without engaging guys nightly and THAT is the real danger.

then yes, but only by placing it in his briefs using :"you know what" tuck

and I wonder how floridarob , owner of this thread, is doing

mind your own money, lol What I don't like though is when I see patrons tipping boys who are , after all , parading naked and letting us to to enjoy for a brief moment their private parts and the same , say 100 baht , goes to a waiter who just brought him a drink.

I wish it would be just ' some' instead of 'stack', he, he. I may not be big tipper when on the run but I like not to undercut compensation of those who warm my beds

don't construct excuse for stinginess using that reasoning but always be one who distributes YOUR money after all

and all in, that is the main point of cash advantage

you should be fined for anti-social behavior on two accounts: 1/ can't yo go to the store yourself instead subjecting you servants to injury for carry heavy burden and more importantly 2/ you are removing coins from circulation depraving financial system it's use leading to possible shortage of cash

give me that heavy wallet next time we meet again. Heavy wallet - dream come true

my local IKEA tried to accept card and digital payments only but after about one year they returned to old fashion way and two cash registers proudly announce. You can pay by cash here".

no surprise here, Government sensed it helps to control population better to know where and how they spend and is likely promoting it and people , like every herd just follow. When I got smartphone I issued executive order to myself not to do ant financials on it. So far managed to stick and not break that law.

way things are going , we may be using our own cards and still news will be distributed through mysterious IT channels. If you think it's just fantasy , just wait

don't overdo it. You going to bar to enjoy boys , not to fight with a mamasans. Stick to ' I like girls " or " I already have boy for tonight " and keep it repeating until they get bored with you . When you pick up boy and they comment " you told me you like girls" tell them plainly ' I lied to you ". Works for me , will do for you as well.

I just read your story in the blog. Those things with underperforming boys happen from time to time and I learned just to shrug it off although rather such guy will be crossed from list of future engagements. Two lessons are coming from your debacle : go with your guts and if you like guy go for him, he may disappoint in the room but at least you had whom you wanted. Second, and nothing new here is to eliminate third parties from dealings with boys in the bar. Vinapu tuck is not patented and free to use for all, you want to tip boy, make yourself him smiling , after all you distribute your own money. I agree that mother of your trouble that night was to engage mamasan too early . Looking at bright side, at end of day you say it wasn't that bad and small boy got his off too. Quite possible mamasan was well meaning for her boys - she could see that boy regular customer in audience so she knew he will get business anyways and decided to steer you toward some other buy. It's not unknown to science that if customer comes to bar with single boy in mind and he is absent or engaged already he may finish his drink and go somewhere else instead of combing through that bar selection

day will come when we will hear about somebody being called by his boss and informed " we got an information from credit card company that you visited brothel in Hyderabad three times during your last business trip there . Our company doesn't support such activities so I have no choice but let you go"

It's why I like to stick to cash. If it gets stolen I hope it will be somebody poor who will benefit, not bank

That too !

My pleasure gentlemen !

he is difficult to shake off I admit , all because he skillfully pretends to be polite and helpful but doesn't leave your side. Even my usual ' I like girls, not boys" doesn't work with him. But I endure as few times he gladly called over boy I wanted but who had day off on that night.

that is why I extremely rarely enlist help of mamasans, even those I'm on kind of friendly terms with. Prefer to deal with boys by myself. Similar story happened to me but it was about Long Time, mamasan said "no" , boy when seated with me whispered 'yes'. It could be that my personal charm persuaded him to change his habit so I did not blame mamasan in that case.