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Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
hope those were nice guys. 10 minutes ago I got the same message from guy who pissed me off mightily in August by reneging on LT commitment after less than 1 hr. My answer was short 'good'. Why I bother to answer ? I hope he will ask me ' when you see me again ?" and I have answer ready already. -
in such circumstances I'd say enjoy while it lasts. You don't play their game , ignore their behavior , nice guys abound
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definitely it is enough and it's what I tip waiters in bars who bring me drinks and also in restaurants if bill is 300 or less
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Bangkok Police Raid LGBTQ+ Drug Party at Luxury Hotel, 120 Detained
vinapu replied to reader's topic in Gay Thailand
Crowne Plaza likely kept an eye on that -
we all are including Charles Mason and Jeffrey Dahmer
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Bangkok Police Raid LGBTQ+ Drug Party at Luxury Hotel, 120 Detained
vinapu replied to reader's topic in Gay Thailand
Other than odd boy smoking weed outside I never saw boy appearing under drug influence in any bar nor massage spa. -
sure , as all cathedrals , galleries , museums and monuments are so close to each other , no need for guides really .
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I'd say, in this or rather such case (s) be selfish in a good sense i.e. if you feel like giving something and it will make you to feel better without putting dent in your treasury then give him whatever you feel like without splitting hair if story is true or racket , that you may never learn so better not too worry. If you yield , be prepared such requests may come again , both from him and other boys he knows they know you , if any so at one point be prepared to put stop on it. If you don't tell them what I do " I'm only giving money when we meet , in exchange for your companionship" -it seems to work. Not sure why you had Moses involved in it, asking for support boy did not act in capacity of being his employee. to illustrate what may happen here are my stories, I bought phone once and gave money 6 times to 4 boys over years : Phone boy , asked for phone costing 12000. I saw cheaper model of the same make at 8000. because we spent few nights together and i was very happy with him we settled on middle 10000 model and I extracted free Long Time for that following night. No fuss and no further requests. Boy 1, veteran of many offs, went home to Myanmar when Covid struck, asked for money I sent him twice as much , he sent me picture of money collected and never asked for more Boy2, also veteran , I met his brother on street who told me he broke his leg while skating and he show even me his picture with cast. Next day I gave envelope with my usual Long Time tip +1000 to brother at his shop, he handed money over , I got picture of guy holding envelope opened and thank you. Few weeks later he asked for more but I answered that I did what I could , got wai emoticon and never heard from him again. But his friend in Pattaya who knows me likely heard about my good heart and asked for money because motorbike accident. He got an answer highlighted above and I met him at least twice since, no further requests Boy 3, veteran now but I saw him only once and was awe struck when covid hit and I learned from other member that boy is in financial distress stuck back home. So using member as intermediary I sent him some donation, got confirmation of boy clutching money and voice message ' thank you for xxx dollars'. About two years later when things went to normal boy was sitting in soi 4 with customer and to my shock recognized me ( we met only once by then) and came to thank me for that donation. Ever since met him many times , meetings were from very good to very bad but I have soft spot for him. Sensing it , he asked for a loan, promising to repay it within month, not knowing that in one month I will be there to collect money in person. Offed him and no word of repayment, when I finally asked about it , he turned red and said 'no money' . To his credit he seemed surprised when I gave him full LT tip but on another hand did not suggest he repays it in services. Loan still outstanding , I see him every trip always reminding him we have this not solved but good news is , no further requests. BOY 4 , great illustration of my idiocy , story told in my Jan 2023 report. Met him Phnom Penh in Oct 2022, in Jan 2023 he contacted me about going together to Bangkok as we discussed previously. Asked for some money to prepare for the trip , got it as prepayment for his services on his suggestion. Week later asked for more, I sent him half of what he wanted. He picked me up at the airport , was supposed to see me in hotel at night but never showed up , fell silent and never heard from him again. so bottom line of all that is : if you send money don't expect anything in exchange other than possible following requests. Send money because you want to help , not because you feel pity for boy's real or fabricated plight . If you feel really sorry think that there are many more deserving people you never heard about and thus you will never help them anyways. In a sense I'm still grateful to boy4 for teaching me that lesson and ever since I'm only giving money when we meet , in exchange for your companionship
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you should ask her and you could be surprised that not only she would know but also provided you with some selection ................. if you able you are well positioned to take tour of train market in Mae Klong
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Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
I gather they charge much less than Boss would and being older don't force activities which were to be too taxing -
Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
This is what happens when somebody does not do his homework. In such a case I'd respond " Holy Redeemer in soi Ruan Rudi has mass at 12.30 and 5.30pm " -
Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
Amen to that ! -
Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
You don't have fear of God! -
Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
finally !!! I was about to tease you why you did not pursue him during trip but what was supposed to happen , happened . Congratulations ! -
Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
You guys know how to have fun and how to oil it , Too bad humble old me missed that. 5700 just for drinks ! I hear sirens of ambulances going to those who think 5000 for long time with super hunk is extortionate. -
word of caution about falling in love with somebody based on her/ his photo. Often they materialize different , not necessarily in a bad way. Jey Spa and Glam shows certain Mek on the roster. I liked his picture and tried my luck by visiting Glam , hoping he will be there. There was good news, he was . And then bad - he was booked and waiting for clinet. And then very good again, in flesh he looked much better than I even projected and that smile when I greeted him ' hallo Mr. Mek"
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No I'm not from one of those s_hole countries. I'm well versed in electoral process in many jurisdictions , including mine and USA. I don't question Trump clear mandate, I just don't share your enthusiasm about electorate and its choice. as for promises : 1/ we will see in 4 years what comes of them 2/ even when kept, often realised promises turn out not exactly what was hoped for. Word of caution about calling countries shithole even if many of them are. Often though they solved many problems much better than supposedly more affluent and illustrious ones.
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and dose of good luck
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No , I need to do laundry. I don't need to wait for anybody to make America great , she already is. All you guys can do is to fuck up your great country under leadership of certain Orange Overlord.
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Trip Report (Nov/Dec 2024) - Trying out new experiences
vinapu replied to jason1975's topic in Gay Thailand
thank you, considering that two out of 4 of my 2024 trips were arranged on very short notice , stay tuned. Looking already for bank to rob nearby. -
it's the reason we have forum here
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you have them in Mexico......
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replace "America ' with Germany and it's what Hitler said in Jan 1933. Difference is that than electorate was more levelheaded than leader, now seems other way around. You have golden Age of America for last 130 years if not more
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I gather still no offs from bar and guys , if can be engaged it must be done after or before hours ? If true it would mirror Space Hair bar in Phnom Penh format, too bad their boys are not of SH frame but who knows in future ?