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rest assured he will be happy to see you whenever you return

you are on something. Sometimes your contacts may be bombarding you with messages annoyingly often. One of guys I have Line of sends me messages to dress warmly because he saw on TV there's snow in my city. Or take umbrella because it was raining . All I can say is ' thank you Mom" but even my mother was not nagging me that way- we kids were free to get frozen or wet if we wished.

Guy sets you on fore and you did not off him on your last night ? talk about wasted opportunities. Even if he was not perfect first time , that fire thing should steer you toward giving him a second chance. By the way , if I off guy and I'm not happy with him I usually skip visiting his bar till next trip to avoid awkward looks ................... you don't need anybody's permission to give them a tip if you inclined to. I have habit of tipping 100 baht best looking guy on the stage just for looking pretty. Sometimes they are surprised because we didn't even cross the eyes. very good that you did it discretely specialy that amount was substantial . Sometimes his friends may be jealous or worse , mamasans want their cut even if they did not do anything to facilitate meeting or sitting. ............................ 5-6 hours of sleeping in Bangkok is wasting precious vacation time . What's wrong with you ?, lol

what about buying cheap SIM card ? than you will have Thai number and all issues will be straightened up. Ancient Romans used to say " when in Rome buy Roman SIM card" , it should work in Thailand this age too

or worse, God forbid it could be in the moment you will be leaving hotel on your way to the airport

indeed , always works for me

he is nobody

not quite, they even fought brief war in 1979

if I hate something in Thailand is that habit frequently seen in bars, performers or boys ( no doubt girls too in their bars) are offered a shot wrapped in 100 baht note

in due course

Don't worry and rest assured Jason who started this thread is gladly reading your posts. we are waiting patiently for your next installments

About week after I retuned from Aug 2024 trip I spotted extremely good airfare to Bangkok for mid January and decided to buy it even if I had my doubts I will be able to utilize it for many of reasons. Main one being my Mother’s mantra I already mentioned few times before “if you don’t have money for vacation , don’t go” . One thing she did not know was line of credit though. Even brief , weeklong November foray , which turned very pleasant did not convince me to break that unspoken rule. I gave myself till New Year Eve to make decision. And of course, what else , I decided to utilize that ticket. So new Year Day I spent on my computer booking hotels and airfares. Then disaster struck – I learned that my friend is landing in Bangkok at the same time. He may be friend but not kind of one I would like to accompany me in my Silom affairs for simple reason – he is babbler known for saying first and thinking distant second. As travel companion he is also bit imperial and selfish when comes to programs. In short , better to be met in social setting , not on the road. Since not much I could do I left it to be solved when in Swampy. Ticket was cheap but there was price for it – very early departure at 6 am, three legs so involving two connections on the way and late arrival I Bangkok, just before midnight. It worked, all three fights arrived 30-60 minutes before scheduled time and only complain I have was that cabin in United flight to Narita was cold. I had sweater but could use winter jacket which was tucked in check-in luggage as I did not expect I will need it until I return home. Of course while standing in long but fast moving immigration line I was spotted by my friend so my cover was blown right there. My luggage was already waiting for me , his came quite fast and we shared taxi to our hotels , first his in Sukhumvit and than mine in soi 3. I was in my room just before 1 am and decided to take shower and do survey of the area. As it was past bar closing time I spotted few known faces dining here and there , with friends or alone. On Suriwong there was guy I offed last trip who immediately offered his companionship but I declined and it was his fault. He cut our session short under some pretext which in my book is criminal and results in blacklisting. Hot Male beer bar still had few customers and P was free so I offered him a drink which led to his suggestion that since bar is closing soon he may walk me to my hotels. He is not a person I would reject such an offer so I agreed immediately shyly suggesting we may even have coffee together in the room. Not sure I used word ‘ coffee ‘ but whatever it was he got it and added ‘ till morning ‘. Now we are talking ! Soon I paid 600 off fee and world saw us walking briskly to soi 3. We met before few times but this session was by mile the best. I like straight boys who are clingy and not faking it. He left me at 7.30 declining breakfast invitation , no doubt wanted to catch some sleep. Day 1 For breakfast I went to Foodland, where else ? in meantime message Raposa I’m heading there and soon after he joined me for a meal and news exchange. After we parted ways I went to XOne to exchange money and around noonish I went to meet me friend thinking about excuses to create free evening. It was easier than I thought. After taking boat along Saen Sap canal and doing some sightseeing in Khao San area we returned by the boat to Saphan Taksin , had a meal in the area and decided to part ways even if it was still daylight for simple reason – jet lag decided to intervene. In hotel I collapsed on the bed but not before I set my alarm clock for 9.pm. I’m not one to waste vacation time. As for first bar visit this trip there was no doubt where I will go , Atlas of course . I was greeted enthusiastically by barker outside who remembered I helped him when he had period of sleeping in the rough and by cabal of boys knowing me from Tawan and even Arena. Can’t say I was very impressed with selection but certain I’d pick up one of 4-5 guys there. There were few twinks I’d consider too. Face of one waiter was familiar and it turned out few years ago he was one of stars at Jupiter I had hots for but of course those days he did not even look my way. He lost some muscles but face is still handsome. Perhaps I should give him consideration in future for old times sake. 8 red notes distributed, to that guy, one of singers , James and Ken sitting with me , J/O contestant, f***k show performers and two big c***k showmen. I liked the show as it included full set of numbers. Just before midnight I crossed the soi to climb stairs to Hot Male where S was waiting for me forewarned about my intentions earlier. Show was on and I entered exactly at big c**k show moment so another 200 went for the needy but well endowed. We went to Foodland for a meal and then home .S never disappoints and never rushes to go home, so it looks this trip so far I’m doing well.

welcome home in Pattaya where you belong, screw Cebu and Da Nang

don't pay much attention to those reviews. There always will be people for whom water is too wet. For every bar or other venue use my mantra I repeated here 227 times but you are new to the forum and did not get bored with it yet : " go and see for yourself" You may try Hot Male as there show is done by the boys and you don't see drag or ladyboy if that's important.

definitely it is, just make sure he understands what your requirements are

yes, I already reported it here, day 9 https://www.gayguides.com/topic/9953-may-2015-in-bangkok-and-pattaya-trip-report/page/3/

rivalling in size one at Cholula, Mexico, biggest in the world originally thought as being just a hill until they started digging

no, I wish my boys happy and long life , long after I'm gone. I think they did their part to keep me happy already( ok , not really all of them but surely overwhelming majority )

While I agree with you about time allowance I'm not against bar keeping boys a bit in line when comes to attendance. Otherwise it may become messy free for all with guys coming and going as they please which may or may not serve bar business well.

Nothing wrong if he agreed. Trust his calculation . It's better to have 7 nights paid at 1500 than have 2 offs a week at 3000. Not to mention vacation , all expenses paid. Goes without saying that being in company of you is just a bonus. On my last trip I took boy with me to Chaing Rai and also paid him 1000 less per day that I usually give him for long time. I sensed he would be happy to go for vacation even with lower compensation.

but rest of world will be surprised , rest assured. Specially that USA is not unbiased broker in that part of world clearly siding with one side of conflict.

some do and some don't discount price. Boy who had offs last 8 nights in row will be unlikely to yield. On another hand one who did not have any offs since previous Sunday may be more amendable. Also in some bars boys are form because of bar policy but if you spot them on Grindr they may be more flexible. ................... for private show I recommend you find willing boy and let him to find suitable companion , subject to your approval. You don't want to dump boy on another one if there will be no chemistry. It's how I spoiled my birthday celebrations in Bangkok about 10 years ago. Some boys my not be willing to go with guy from their bar. But It's definitely doable and it done properly it may be a lot of fun

+1

do I understand whole problem correctly ? Farmer wanted to sold an airport to communists but they did not buy because they did not have money nor expertise to run big airport ?

I think I know who you are talking about and I'm not surprised even tiny bit