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On and off, quite a few celibate nights though. Strange feeling , like snow in August

Surprisingly perhpas I'm two weeks here already and most nights slept with just opened window.

In my case attempt was by mamasan

You could use ample dose of better manners as calling forum member names is not what we need here. If this thread is wake up call is about wake up that shit stirrers are still present and active.

In one of my trip reports I praised boy but indicated that even if great I will not off him again. Inquiring mind asked me by PM why such contradiction. Answer, again by PM was he peed in the shower when we were showering together. It was conveyed to the boy by his bar friend. How did he know?

How come? I'd expect better from you

Motivation may be pure and clean but as I just say I another post, we should keep our opinions in the forum or convey directly to boy in question, not to voice them back to boys by third party. Honestly, the same way we consider some guys unattractive for reason of look, boys may think the same about us and act on it even forfeiting revenue specially if replacing that stream may be relatively easy. I would not go with boy looking too young and give them right of skipping on me because mine or yours more patrician look. Looks is first way of either side assessing other, pimples, wrinkles, makeup, sloppy dress, you name it.

At times I m of oppinion that they would be smart listening to customers concern. Sad and shortlived fate of Sol bar is illustration for me as I witnessed customers leaving almost empty bar in haste complaining about music volume and being shrugged off. Seeing that I know I should dress in black for funeral next time in Bangkok and sadly I was right. Owning bar doest mean knowing how to do it any more than fathering child knowing how to rise it well.

Never fast to criticize fellow members but that the most stupid comment here in years. Racism is serious issue, not to be trivialized in context of miscommunication between customer and boy. Reminds me calling member (Israeli ) antisemite by other memben only because former one uncharitable comment about Israeli airline.

Why should he? I wonder seriously why you even got involved in it other than having misplaced attempt on trying to help forum friend. Immagine reverse situation : we are visiting bar together and boy on the stage, well known to you, is trying to attract my attention but for one of possible 84 reasons I chose to ignore those and I'm not interested in meeting him, at least not tonight. Then he, knowing you, and fact we came together, is sending you message asking to find our from me why I did not engage with him. And if you did, what do you thing my response would be? Most polite I can think of is " I'm not sure what business of yours is in it?" but knowing myself for quite a few years I think it would be much, much more coarse". Don't take it as attack on you, far from it, but I'm of VERY FIRM opinion that whatever opinions about boys and venues we share here shouldn't be passed down to them by other members. 12is12 voiced his displeasure and like everything in Vegas should stay in Vegas, not to be creating any waves as I said earlier. Boy's decision could be rational I. E. client not for for his taste or not wishing to engage with any farang or whatever. It could be also irrational, feeling that tip is too small or slipping numbrt with it too weird ( by the way it's my preferred explanation) but I don't thing he owes explanation neither to Ignored client, even less to a third wheel. Sorry but I must said all above as in the past I lost an access to very good guy due to misplaced attempt by well meaning friend to iron things between us.

You should add modestly " in my not so humble oppinion", otherwise, you may attract dissenting voices .

Nobody is asking me but I think we are creating unnecessary waves here. Let him to be in charge of his business no matter what motivations may be

Cutest ? Handsome like hell. As manly man as they go. I'm also in secret love with him but unfortunately he doesn't smile back at me so I guess I will leave him alone.

Indeed it does. 728.15

Implication of the above is that it's indecent NOT to tell them about arrival. It looks like one of those cases where friends don't need to agree on everything. I will stay with my silence and outright lies as it seems to serve me better than immediate messages " when can I see you again ? " While we can dispute the approach above I think it's still indecent when third party informs about somebody's impending plans. News travel fast. This is how my surprising birthday visit year or two before covid got ruined as boy got a news somehow.