perhpas it's not what he is looking for. All he is happy with is warm body ( or person or both ) he likes available to him when he is in Thailand without resorting to boy hunting every time. Or just great sex and cooked meal three times a day
I'm privy to such situation is straight community They don't even talk much when they are apart, at least it's what guy in question told me . He comes , she moves in, he goes , she returns to, yes, home, building of he financed