NIrishGuy

Aye and even at that size I'm betting that I'd still be that absent minded enough to still forget mine and leave it in my room still and so end up having to pay my usual 500 baht 'maybe you can help" fine - although for god sake nobody tell Pattaya's finest that the helmet size has increased to that size just incase they try to increase their bribe price expoentially ! :-)

I would ask why as short of just asking for the sake of your own general knowledge one can have all the legal answers in the world but the bottom line is that if the hotel has a policy then THAT is it's policy and no amount of arguing with them re that will change that and it's simply then a matter or finding a hotel with policies that suit your own particular requirements after that.

Alas in my experience unfortunately it never seems to and it's always more just a case of buy three pay for three (or four or five)

I'm glad you posted that about the machines as I thought I was just being thick in trying to get even the most simple running on several of the machines I tried to use - I'm talking here about basics such as speed of the treadmill or the incline etc and I too came to the conclusion that a lot of the machines were well past their best. Glad I'm wasn't TOTALLY losing it that day. Oh and the reason the guy couldn't and wouldn't take cash of me in the corner gym was in case his boss heard he'd taken it and not given out a ticket ( which he hadn't been given access to) as he said a previous staff member had already been let go for trying that scam and so he both wasn't allowed, nor wanted anything to do with collecting the 200 baht or so gym charge - hence telling me to go elsewhere and buy it and then come back.

After going to the gym at home for a few months before heading off on my last trip I decided to try to stick at it a bit while away to offset the holiday beer and eventually dragged myself to the outdoor Tony's gym on the corner there, firstly a) sorry no you can't train here, Thai only, there's a farang Tonys gym up the street. That was then changed to sorry ok you can train here but you can't PAY to train here as we can't take your money so you're going to have to go up to the other tonys 'gym, pay your money then come back with a ticket ( why i didn't just stay in the other AIR CONDITIONED gym and use it escapes me still !) But away I went, got my ticket and came back and jumped on a machine or two and BOOM - the heat, OMG I thought i was going to die from the heat and a lack of seemingly available oxygen so I ended up doing about a quarter ( tenth :-) of what I'd usually try at home and genuinely thought i was ready to die even after that ! I ended up reducing down to just running SLOWLY on a treadmill a bit to save face and even that was no better as the sweat was running off me like a river lol. Normally I would have cringed and gone back to my room BUT the one plus point is that it seems the Thai army pays for their soldiers to attend their local gym free of charge meaning that Tonys that night was RAMMED with the fittest, hottest, muscled, hot and sweaty ( in a good way) Thai guys that I've probably ever witnessed. So, after I realised they were all politely ignoring the fat and sweaty farang in the corner ( albeit not even happy that I was there in the first place and not up in the farang gym it seems) I reduced my work out to almost nothing and "bluffed my way" and stayed watch the hottest workout shows going on all around me, then went home, got on Grindr and had a guy come round to my air con'd room and did my own horizontal work out training based on what I'd just witnessed. This was a MUCH better use of my time and that day was WAY more fun than any other gym work I've ever forced on myself :-)

You're just not trying hard enough perhaps ?? :-)

"Under your argument it is ok to offer the boy 400 baht because he is desperate" Please don't put words in my mouth I never said that at all and nor I am having an argument. I'm merely pointing out that if the guy agreed to a rate then that is the rate unless the farang decided his services were worth more - and I absolutely agree with you re the boy not bothering to put in the effort BECAUSE it was 800 baht he agreed upon etc, but that doesn't change the fact he did agree it and so the farang is within his rights to pay as he did. As to whether that's a particularly nice thing to do or as you alluded to a smart thing to do perhaps in terms of ensuring a good time with a guy then that's an entirely different matter of course and like I DID say personally I wouldn't think the 200 baht is worth worrying about for any farang but hey each to their own and all that. Perhaps the farang felt that it WAS the amount agreed and that the boys services were average to say the least (or less) and so he decided just to stick to paying what was agreed upon and no more - which is of course his right and "up to him" as by your logic the boy could agree to go off for 100 baht, give shit service and still fully expect a 1000 baht tip as "that is the norm" even though it wasn't what was agreed - life doesn't work like that and I don't see why it should be any different for a Thai bar boy over any other self employed worker. Hell the guy should consider himself lucky as some other posters on other boards would perhaps have tried to reduce the amount paid from the 800 agreed due to his lack lustre performance ( and no I'm not condoning that behaviour before you suggest it.)

Well it is of course up to the boy to agree or otherwise to go for 800 and if he agreed to it he really should stick to it - or provide extra better service to enable you to chose to pay more ( which in this case it sounds like the guy absolutely DIDN'T do). So while I agree it's hardly worth arguing about for the sake of 200 baht but if it was what was agreed then that's what was what was due.

Yes I was there last year, great fun and SO many hoy guys ;-)

Anal Street as mental as ever afterwards I take it ? :-)

On good, even better, well done for that. Good luck with the reopening and yes you'll see me on my next trip for sure.

Congratulations on your reopening. I see from the pictures that you attached that you seem to have removed the recently installed safety deposit boxes that had previously been situated outside the shower doors. Can I ask is this a permanent removal or have you perhaps just relocated them elsewhere in the building perhaps ? I ask because as a customer I always found them useful to use and reassuring to know that the management cared about customers property safety ( having have items removed from my belongings in other massage premises in your area - but not Blue Boy I hasten to add!). So, have the safety boxes been removed now for good ?

A lot of Thai boys "in the trade" seem to be able to call on bar owner friends / contact / forgery companies to write them the required "yes he works here as waiter / cleaner / cashier etc and we have agreed to 3 weeks holiday but then he is required to return to his job" letter for use when they need it. As to whether or not immigration believe such a letter without there being some proof of earnings showing in his bank etc or some other obvious proof of its validity is a whole other matter. The good news for you is that as you live in a Shenzhen visa country it certainly IS doable and as long as you / he meet even the most basic of requirements of ticking the required boxes - even if only half honestly - you should be ok. As to whether or not it's a good idea to actually bring a free lance money boy from Thailand to your Country in the first place, well now THAT is a subject for a whole other thread load I'm guessing !!

Ha I love that you literally "busted your budget" right down to your last 42 baht ! lol Now that's what I call spending right down to your last penny ( or Baht in this case) when on holiday lol - way to go there, as you sure as hell can't take it with you ! :-)

A447a said....."I sat there holding his cock" See, and who said that romance is dead !! lol

^ Not always as I regularly ask the boys for 2000 to go with them and I never seem to get it so I always have to back track and revert back to "ok, ok, I like you, i go with you just for shot of your whiskey and we stop on the way back to your loom and go 50/50 on bowl of noodles " and ok I may have to supplement that with a little extra to sweeten the deal for them ( usually about 2000 baht strangely enough) but hey at least I never go home hungry or without a drink ! lol

I should add my comments re banana bar ( and hotmale bar opposite) are merely as they are at the start of Soi twilight and you can sit and have a cheap beer or two, watch the guys go to work, have a bit of craic with the bar staff ( if you make some effort and don't sit there waiting to be entertained ) - not that i suspect you EVER do that Anon :-) so don't be expecting anything other than that, but apart from that your plan sounds just about perfect and mirrors must of my own nights of debauchery when in Bkk so I'm sure you'll enjoy :-). Hell in just sorry we weren't both there at the same time and then I KNOW the craic would have been good !!! ;-)

Likewise re Bkk - and thats what I meant re my you might be disappointed etc as I know how you like to go out and party hard and late and Bkk used to be great for that and much more "real" than Pattaya and manys a night I headed out alone, fell in with a great crown of guys in the usual bars such as Telephone etc and then on to DJ ( which I STILL love and is basically my reason for always returning to Bkk) and then went on from there at 3am to maybe GOD for a continuation of a cracking drunken full on night and easily hooking up there too if that's what I wanted ( or nipping into the sauna next door for a sneaky quicky if I'd found someone in GOD but was already with someone from DJ after excusing myself to go to the toilet for a minute :-) and then on out for food with everyone or on to another club even as morning broke and back to my hotel wrecked at 7, 8 or 9am. Now unfortunately since the Army took over Soi twilight is over priced, over policed and as boring as hell ( although that's just probably over exposure to it on my part) and the likes of Golden Cock etc are just plain boring and dirty ( and not in a good way) and just not my cup of tea and with Nature boys is just a quick cash grab by the guys in there with very little actual long term fun - well unless you're wanting four or five guys cumming over your face all at once just for a quick change to your normal evenings entertainment I guess lol. GOD seems now to be even 50 / 50 as whether it even opens or not not and even the other straight clubs I've been dragged to ( as there's no where else now) have been made close early and more nights than enough I've ended up walking back to Tarntawan at 4am or something and stopping off back in Soi Twilight at banana bar for a last drink at their secret lock ins if you know the secret knock lol ( and before anyone complains about 'oh maybe you shouldn't say that in case they're raided" well as it's a policeman who owns and runs the bar I doubt anyone will be raiding them any way soon!" But I'm guessing as you're only there for the one night and there is loads of "new" things for you to see and do it'll all be fine and you'll have a ball anyway as you always do, my advice is to stop at the beer bars in Soi Twilight for a few drinks and chat and play there a bit as at least you can can have a laugh there ( ask for Gun in Banana bar and tell him I sent you and I'm sure he'll take good care of you - in a totally non sexual way I mean lol) Im looking forward to reading your Bkk report to see what you thought yourself?

I fear you may be sorely disappointed on many levels ! :-(

"Not always easy....involves compromise....sometimes we "fight"...you know, just like any other relationship." Amen to that Brother ! I'm currently in "fight" mode with my questionable better second half Asian BF right now ( something to do with his BF deciding to fuck off to Thailand and Bali fucking for month I believe but that took about about two weeks to get to that WAS the actual cause of our ongoing fight of course with a mountain of drama being thrown in along the way just to ensure I couldn't actually work out what was wrong and have an adult conversation about that - god forbid eh ! But yes it cracks me up when smug bastards / friends here in my Country all think they know it all when if you mention to them some minor tiff you might have had over breakfast over him forgetting to put the milk back in the fridge or some nonsense they look at you in a "well, are you surprised, I mean what do you expect when you're with one of those Asian guys and I'm right in saying he is younger than you....isn't he ? As if they have some god given right either to comment at all or that they know SO much more than you and that their relationship with their wife / girlfriend / boyfriend is better and is of course a REAL one, whereas the guy you're with well "hell, sure it's only one of those Asian guys you're with", absolutely does my head in, like THEY don't fight with their partner ever ?? The fact that he works 12 hours shifts in our local hospital, doesn't matter as there's always that knowing look as if to say " oh don't worry of course we all know he's just your money boy / here for a passport / insert any other racial slur" - of which none are true of course as he's already a British permanent right to reside long before he met me and works his ass off to provide for himself and doesn't get and more importantly would be horrified at the thought of taking a dime from me ever. But hey never let the facts get in the way of a good old racist character assassination of someone just because they fit your negative stereotypes eh !! Grrr ok rant over ! lol And anyway I still just think that deep down they're just jealous as when they fight with their fat ugly wives and it's all over they still end up with just a fat ugly wive who's just that little bit more pissed off with them for the next week, whereas when we fight I've always the great make up sex to look forward to so fuck them I win ! lol

I can think of nothing worse, stuck there in an airport, your flight already delayed by hours, sitting quietly watching a movie on your iPad and the next thing a crowd of attention seeking theatrical types decide to inflict their latest offerings to you, whether you like it or not - thank god for quiet zones that's all I can say - and yes before anyone else says it - bah humbug ! lol

To be clear I'm with GB on this one as to what sort of culture I would rather fill my nights with, you'll get no argument from me there, I was merely pointing out "the obvious" when someone else suggested that my view of Pattaya's fine cultural offerings might be incorrect as they are as most of us know almost non existent - which it seems is how most of the residents seem to like it otherwise I guess they'd live elsewhere .

Apparently he thought the guy had hacked into his computer during a previous meet ( which the guy denied) he then paid him 300 of the 400 dollars they'd agreed and asked him back, then handcuffed him to the wall and beat him up and threatened him with sex toys ( as you do lol) and told him he was going to get what was coming to him ( don't we all say that in those circumstances ? ) but the guy managed to escape and ran down the street screaming ( drama queen !) and George got a 15 month ! sentence ( I didn't realise it was that long actually ! ) Heres a link - although it's from the Daily mail so probably only about 20% of it is true of course........ http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1119427/Drug-crazed-idiot-Boy-George-jailed-15-months-chaining-male-escort-wall-beating-him.html

To be fair if I was banging the above I wouldn't need an App to monitor him as anytime he wasn't on top of me or under me he'd be chained to the radiator in the bedroom awaiting my eventual return ! lol ( ha ala Boy George in New York when off his head on Coke when a rent boy crossed him over some minor matter such as payment it seems, resulting in him having to pick up litter from the streets of New York in an orange jump suit for a month or two :-)

I assumed this post was a joke / troll etc ( perhaps not ?) and then laughed at the idea of a "Stalking type App" as mentioned and THEN googled it and much to my surprise many such apps DO in fact exist that once easily messaged to your partner then feeds you back just about a double of everything they've said, seen, sent, read and just about everything else on their phone over long periods and all in an easy to read "dashboard" that you can monitor almost live ! Time to start checking back exactly what "message" my BF's have been sending to me over the years and think back about all the things and people I've said and done ! ( alternatively fuck them, if they're that insecure and jealous where they felt the need to spy on me I hope they read some shit that wrecked their minds for a while and that will maybe teach them not to do THAT again ( OP take note if you WERE serious in your original query!) Oh and before you ask no, I'm not giving you the App's name - they're all there within a few clicks on Google if you're really that way (retarded) inclined.