I am somewhat preplexed by this topic. Afterall, isn't it your money and shouldn't you spend your money the way you want to? You are there for fun and your money allows you to have as much fun and with whom you please; in other words, a financial transaction. Why guys do not accept the reality of that is beyond me. Do you need the permission of Walmart to buy something at Target 😁? When your regular guy goes with another customer, does he need your approval and or permission? He is there to make as much money as he can and with whomever. Personally speaking, when I moved away from my parents, my life, my finances, etc. are mine to control and to do with as I desire. I do not need anyone's permission nor approval to do what I want, especially concerning spending MY money. Go with whomever you please, enjoy yourself as much as possible. Life is too short to do otherwise. You earned it, enjoy it. HAVE FUN.