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Yes, I'll be back for sure...might have to stop drinking at those prices though (not a bad thing). I never made it to a beach, anyone that knows me....I'm a vampire, only go out after the sun is down,lol

VPN's, no? That's what I use from Mexico, Indonesia, Thailand ...for sites that they clock.

I read that liquor was expensive in Indonesia (local beer is ok prices)....I brought rum from BKK, thank goodness. I went to the supermarket yesterday and a 750 ml of Bacardi white rum was $75 usd....wtf??? Cigarettes are $1.45 usd...almost EVRYONE smokes here and you can smoke anywhere....has been a LONG time since I came home smelling like an ashtray, yuck Still, lt's of available guys that love being with a white skinned guy....

I don't mind them watching it with the volume OFF....the sounds of girls moaning/screaming is so fucking annoying to me,lol

My straight friends joke and say about 90% of Merida is Gay, lol PK2 and Rush are 2 decent places in Centro....a little out of Centro but near the Hyatt sort of is Blue disco https://www.facebook.com/PK2DiscoBarMerida/ https://www.facebook.com/rushbarterraza/ https://www.facebook.com/Bluedisc/ There are some other small cantina type sleezy dive places (be careful of thieves) https://www.facebook.com/C-MEN-BAR-133435620679206/ One place was recently closed by the city - Bull Pen There are others, but Rush and PK2 seem to be the best now,,,,just keep an eye on your phone and wallet. Also, if you invite one of the guys that work there for a drink, ask the price so there is no misunderstandings ...they are more than the regular price because they get a cut.... and most are not gay, some MIGHT go before work or their day off...but many promise and never come through...they just want you to keep buying them beers,lol A REAL sleezy place near centro is Jorges (listed as Imperial Bar/Cantina) And the Zocola or AKA the plaza Grande has hustlers that wonder around...is a slowww process but sit there long enough, you'll know who's hustling and they'll probably come to you at some point. If you speak Spanish is better, otherwise will be Google Translate. Invite someone for a beer at a close by bar and if they accept, they know whats going on....if they decline, their not working guys. And there is Grindr and this website: https://mx.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/yucatan/ Going rate is 200 pesos for many...500 is the most what some look for,,,, but there are "traveling" guys from other parts of Mexico or Colombia that do the rounds of different Mexican cities and some of them ask for up to 1500......

That's coming to an end too....

Why did I wait so many years to come to this place?? I have a love/hate relationship with Thailand....the food is like a drug to me, can't get enough. But sooo tired of the gogo bars, non-performing guys for sex....asking way too much....fake pics on the apps, etc. Now in Indonesia.....the high end is $30usd.....average $20 with many not even asking for money, they're just horny and want to be with a westerner. I hear there's beaches around somewhere....maybe I'll get a chance to see them (probably not)

I rented an inexpensive hotel in Seminyak, Accor property. Basic, but clean and close to the gay scene. I don't even have to leave the room...Grindr blew up my phone. I travel a bit and never had this much a response on Grindr.....more than 100 messages on the 1st day. Next time I'll look into a villa, but this is a place that's been on my list of places to go for years...can't believe it took me this long. No more Thailand for me probably.....this is great here.

Envy is one of the Seven deadly sins.....don't go there. Read the article.....do something about it. Is easier than you think....look what Msclelovr said.....I certainly agree with you that fewer possessions and more experiences enhance life. Consequently I travel for more than half the year, and I’ve done so for 20years. I suspect only ill-health will stop me.

There are a few people on there...but not very active...Grindr seems very active, slow internet here but lots of messages

I'm the rich one....ask anyone that knows me. Rich isn't just financial wealth, read this article...I hit on almost all the points...I suggest everyone read this, once you are free of the worries/debts/obligations life is good. I've cruised (on ships) QUITE a bit ...many older folk were always amazed that I was able to travel for so long and said I was so young to do so. When I pointed out many things this article talks about, they all agreed it took them too long in life to realize and I was smart to do so at a young age. https://outofyourrut.com/10-ways-to-be-rich-without-being-wealthy/

If the rest of the days are like today, I'd have to stay a month to see half the guys that have messaged me on Grindr. Right of the start , I saw someone totally my type, he said he wasn't a money boy, 20yrs old, cute, fun...has a job, offered to pay for his food when we went out to eat and the bill came (kind of like Thailand,lol) I had to close grindr because my phone would've broke otherwise. I'd say about 30% of guys messaging say they are MB, 30 % say they are not and the others didn't mention. But the difference here, there are MANY tops....not the same shit in BKK, I do everything. As a bottom, I like to know they won't be trying to get me to fuck them when they get here,lol

I am so tired of beards...some guys look good with them...but enough already. I'm in Bali at the moment, not a problem here,lol

R3....I've never been, I'm lazy to go too far (other than the other side of the world,lol) to go, but according to everyone I know that has been, they say is good. They open at 3pm....when it starts to get dark or after the discos close. You can call their number to ask what the event is that night, Naked night, underwear only (no boxers), small towel night, etc... Naked night is my favorite

Completely different, I stopped going to babylon....you've been , so no need to explain why. Sauna Mania is Asian on Asian...95% of the time, but is worth it...soooo many naked young cute guys walking around. I've had some great times there.

As much as I complain about the sex in Thailand, there is something that draws me back and I have had some very good encounters, just the success rate is about 60% in BKK 40% in Pattaya vs 99.9% in Brasil. Cuba at one time was up there with Brasil, now I'd say is at about 60-70%, sadly. I came here 3 times last year and been coming for nearly 20 yrs....Brasil, I lost count, started in 1999 and in 2004 I was there almost full time for 2 yrs. What sauna did you go to , Babylon? Look up Sauna Mania or R3

Grindr boys (or any app) can be hit or miss. Many use fake pics or ones that have been photo shopped...many are high on drugs. I like to see in real life how they look, talk, etc....but there are good ones too, just gotta filter through their shit and attitude. The gogo bars are way overpriced. Thailand ISN'T Brasil.....I love Thai food, no Thai restaurant in the world has the same flavors as the food here. Also massage...I go to "straight" massage places and pick the cutest guy and usually get their contact info. They end up in my room that night or the next day. DJ Station....no more, I've "lost" enough phones there to have finally learned my lesson.

Yes....someone in the kitchen didn't like you.

It's just a bar where you go in and pick a guy, not the type that has shows or to hang around and drink. The guys are from Thailand (farm type, no English), Vietnam, Myanmar, Laos.....usually decent guys to hang out for the night. Have had good luck there in the past. 500 off fee and 1000 min tip to the guy. Make sure the guy has ID (not for underage) many are from provinces and just arrived in BKK and don't have ID....safer if they have ID, imo

Super A is around the corner from Tawan ....walking towards Golden Cock will be in a small alley on the left.

Ha, so happens I'm in BKK and this EXACT thing happened tonight. Went to Super A...a place that generally you go off a boy (pay a bar fine of 500 Baht= 15usd approx) Had a few options...I am VERY clear with the Mamasan of what I am looking for, she's known me for years. Never have had a problem here. Tonight had a guy that agreed on EVERYTHING. But when we went out, was the complete opposite . He just figured I'd be like all the others and pay him to do nothing and not live up to his deal. I brought him back and did an exchange. The mamasan apologized profusely and I went with someone else (a different story but at least he performed). Some of these guys is their M.O. They know for doing NOTHING many farang will pay anyway. Almost ruined my night and wasted a lot of time. Anyway...don't put up with it...not only for the monetary value but the time vested!

Went to Chili Pepper once....big, spacious, lot's of guys.....but after visiting saunas...pales in comparison . Being in a sauna is like shopping with a black card, anything is within your reach. Chili pepper, maybe what you want isn't available and only Goodwill comes after you,lol

I'm with you on this...I'm frugal but not cheap. I'm VERY clear on what I expect AND the price.....we both live up to our agreements, no problems. You think they'd accept us not living up to ours and take less money without an argument...the sword cuts both ways. Who can fault you for being right....not any reputable place. ONLY one time I had to bring Edgar from Lagoa into it.....he listened to both sides and looked at the boy disappointed and told him "you know better". I'm in Thailand at the moment, and these kinds of things are more frequent (as it is becoming more common in Cuba too). Guys in Brasil almost always live up to that end...one time a guy couldn't get hard and he was embarrassed, wouldn't accept any money from me...that's the way it should be when things don't go as planned.

when I first started going to Brasil, words I didn't know just defaulted to their Spanish equivalent.....I gave a bartender at a SP disco a tip and he asked me what is was for, I told him it was his propina. He got pissed off and threw the money back at me, I was confused. My friend with me was laughing and said I insulted him that the correct word was gorjeta....lesson learned. Pickles was another word I remember struggling for....it is picles,lol

How is that possible....my tricks always end up in your room,lol