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I don't "act" gay, as far as I know and I've been told by people they can't believe I'm gay. I live my life, as I want. Don't advertise it but when I have been asked, I reply "why, are you interested, what you want to do?" I have straight friends from high school that I'm still in touch with, they never ask and I never bring it up, but without a doubt they know....just isn't part of our conversations, we talk about their kids and I talk about my dog or my travels. Couldn't imagine being afraid of enjoying my life as I want, I'm not 18 & confused.

either that, or they don't even think about your sex life, because THEY ARE IN PATTAYA and they're thinking about theirs, lol

And I've have a better decorated house, I don't have that part of the gay gene 😒 Pattaya only exists for 1 reason I've always said, Whoring. If they are there, I'm sure nothing will surprise them, they have probably been with a ladyboy or more.....it's chic to be Bi, test those waters....but in any case, I'm betting they already have a clue.

wtf was that rant all about....were you at an all night rave in Spain as you wrote it 🙄

In Thailand I know a few that have died. One recently that used to message me occasionally and I knew he was the suicidal type, and that's how he died. I'm sad, but not surprised. In life, drugs have taken many friends as well as suicide. Some had warning signs....some, no idea what was going on in their head. Before I couldn't fathom how someone could kill themselves....these days, I kind of understand. It's not something that someone wakes up one day and suddenly decides to do it.....it's demos they've dealt with or something they have thought about for some time. I see friends that I've known since childhood, but don't recognize them because of the drugs they've been doing, it's very sad. I feel fortunate that I never fell into doing drugs....other vices are enough without having drugs involved. Everyone is responsible for their own path they take, drugs is an escape for some...and most don't realize that that escape could become permanent. I try to lecture, without lecturing when I run into a drug user, whether they are using at the moment or not. Usually falls on deaf ears....sadly.

You still talking about wine, or did it drift into sexual territory......😳 it's 2022...most hetero guys don't care, might have other gay friends. I have lot's of straight friends that know I'm gay, as long as you don't go into detail about sex, they're generally cool with everything. And if they aren't....they weren't really your friends. Gays can be more judgmental than straights....not to mention catty and dramatic, lol

I was told a long time ago from an older guy....the regrets you will have at the end of your life will be the things you didn't do, not the things you did. Rings very true to this day. To get something of a visual, how much time you have left: https://www.businessinsider.com/infographic-of-your-life-in-weeks-2015-2?r=MX&IR=T Or if you plan to live to be 90: https://www.bryanbraun.com/your-life/weeks.html

Pretty much sums it up....

I was just in NYC a few weeks ago and couldn't remember that site for the life of me, would've been useful maybe there and Colombia and Panama las week. How is it in BKK?

I think the question isn't exclusive to Thailand....could be Florida, Las Vegas, Punta Cana, where I live in Mexico, the answers will all be for similar reasons. People move, looking for a clean start, but so many end up returning to where they came from, their comfort zone. This article is a little old, but probably still true. The typical American lives only 18 miles from their mother.... https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/12/24/upshot/24up-family.html Not everyone is able to pick up and move to another state and even fewer to another country, especially where the language and culture is so different.

You're talking to a guy that had to tell his shocked Egyptian Dr. That he was in Asia sucking 100 cocks deepthroat and eating ass.....😆

Easier than you might think.....they find Thai people (just look for Thai restaurant or the Temple) and before you know it, they have a group of friends. I know someone that did this in Houston and others in London and Sydney..... where I live in Mexico, might be another story, lol

Must be something going on Sept 23 & 24, other than that it goes back down. Use google and it lists all the travel site prices for a hotel....Agoda is typically cheaper in Asia.

The fact that you have 3 categories already of financial help....😲 I Consider a relationship when you live with each other....otherwise it remains friends with benefits.

there's no "wow" smiley as an option, and I didn't want to lol 😲

I know a guy that won the lottery.....the successes are eclipsed by the fraud/failures. Not saying it doesn't work....but go into it with eyes wide open, not rose colored glasses.

Paying rates in the low $20 usd including breakfast for 2 ......they'll never have a reserve to remodel. At this price point and location, what are the better hotel options? They do have rooms on the front side of the hotel that are better than the back, for a few bucks more 😉

Isn't that what love is ?

Massage or ......did he "losen" up?

One of my takeaways....That @vinapu and I wouldn't go with any of the hosts on that video 😆 Also, what is love and when someone SAYS they love you, what does it really mean....How many times have we lied to guys in bars only to go to other bars and say the same lies....like they pointed out in this video 😏

I've had problems in Brasil, of my own doings. Alcohol makes you do stupid things..... Wherever I go , I try to be aware of my surroundings and taking alcohol out of the equation, I haven't had problems in any of the countries I've mentioned. You've been to some of the countries I've talked about.....as has Gaybutton. Look at Namazu, when I met him all he knew was Asia for the most part, look what happened to him after knowing about Brasil and Colombia 😆 I just can't wrap my head around how the Thai's and others get farang's so brainwashed into supporting them financially. I've told this story here before: I was pretty good friends with Hugh Miller, he used to be the manager at Ambiance. We'd hang out in BBB or even in BKK and the stories he told of boys that claimed to work on farms (yet had hands smoother than mine) and had multiple foreigners sending them money for fake emergencies (even with photos). He used to laugh when the boy had 2 "Boyfriends" in town at the same time, he said it was like watching a 3 ring circus. So, with that in mind....and I know, I know...everyone thinks their situation is "different", but is it? Tomcal for all the years I've known him was the staunchest believer that how can a 20-30 yr old model LOVE a 70 yr old wrinkled ass, he knew it was the money that was the attraction. He used to say, tell the guy you're broke and lost all your money in the stock market, cut them off from all money and see how much time they stay with you. Then he found someone who blatantly was using him, but for whatever reason thought it was love. He went against all advice he had been giving for more than 20 yrs and his response "this is different" 🙄 This post went astray , the point being....it's a big world....lot's of other known and interesting places to explore and be a whore. Stop throwing money away so you can feel better about "helping" someone (get the latest iPhone) when there are people that could use the money for real.

Argentina def hairy....Brazil, never been with a hairy guy, never been with a white Brasilian....only brown for me and smooth. I lived in Brasil for a bit, the cost of sex at todays exchange rates....and let me remind you that it's great sex 99% of the time is about 1/2 that of Thailand, without the drama and up to you. I believe what keeps people from going is the language, in Thailand is easier to find someone that speaks bits of English than in many Latin countries.

Says every power bottom 😆

Sounds like someone has never been there....same assumptions the "I don't like Asians" or "Asians all have small dicks" crowd.......🙄

Sounds a lot like the USA these days 😏