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At Soda Massage 😆🤣😂 That'd be a first for me to see there.

So this Jakarta stop was part of a bigger play… I booked a roundtrip business class ticket originating in Asia because, as many of you know, fares can be way cheaper starting out here. That part worked and this was the return part of that trip, also earned enough frequent mile points almost for a free 1-way business class ticket. What I didn’t factor in? Eid- Marking the end of Ramadan , I thought I missed a bullet by avoiding Ramadan and also "Quiet Night" in Bali, but totally unaware of this one 😬 Specifically mudik, when half of Jakarta disappears back to their hometowns. In 2026 it hit March 21–22, with the exodus starting around the 18th… and yeah, I landed right in the middle of it. Result? The city empties… but the hotels fill up with families doing a staycation. My hotel was absolutely packed with families. Kids everywhere. Screaming, running, having fun. At one point I thought I’d accidentally checked into a daycare center with room service 🥺 Meanwhile, the guys I actually wanted to see? All back in their villages. Returning… the day I leave. Of course Apps were quiet too. A few “back Thursday” messages on Romeo. Thursday = my departure day. Perfect timing. Lesson learned: these local holidays matter. A lot. Now the question is how the hell you keep track of all of them 🤷‍♂️ Hotel life: still worth it On the upside, I got a suite upgrade. Staff remembered me, knew my preferences in the lounge and restaurant, everything and everyone welcoming. That part of Jakarta always feels easy. Just… screaming children this time. And honestly, looking around, every family had like 4–6 kids. I had a moment of reflection: no alcohol + lots of free time… yeah, lot's of fucking going on, trying to move into 3rd place for most populated country, lol The “quiet apps” still delivered Despite the slow scene, one familiar face popped up. A guy I’d seen 2 years ago spotted me on Grindr. Still hot (better than before actually), still great body, still loves to talk. Came over, and we ended up spending hours just hanging out… drinks, conversation, a massage that turned into crazy sex… 500k IDR (~30 USD). He even stayed overnight, which is not usually my thing, but he wanted to experience the breakfast here, so OK 😏 Another long-running global trend continues: Guys who were “strict tops” on previous trips? Versatile this time around. I’ve seen this for decades. Never fails. @Keithambrose have you already been converted? Backup plan turned surprise highlight One night he had to go pick up his sister at the airport, so… backup plan. Another guy from Grindr. More average looks, nothing that jumps off the screen. But wow. Great massage. Even better sex. And it just reinforces something I’ve believed forever: The best-looking guys are not always the best sex. The average guys? They work for it. Less opportunity, more effort, better results 🍆 Seeing him again tonight, last night in Jakarta. Next stops and patterns I’m starting to see Normally I’d go straight to Bali from here, but switching it up: Surabaya for 3 nights, then Bali. A guy I met there 2 years ago started messaging me again while I was planning this trip… and that was a sign to make a stop there. Some experiences are worth repeating and the places and things we do for a night or 3 of "fun" Hotel upgrade already confirmed there too, so no complaints, I knew they'd upgrade to a cool suite so I factored that into stopping here, not just for the sex 😁 Indonesia… still underexplored (for me) I’ve only done 4 cities here so far, which feels like nothing for a country this big. I have a German friend who goes deep into the smaller towns and villages and always comes back with stories that sound… unbelievable. Me? I’m still very much a big city guy. But there’s a new category: Size queen… but geographically. Big cities only. For now 😝

But of few words in person, can barely keep your attention for a couple of minutes before you're running towards the next victim conquest 😝

It's become an acceptable way of letting people know that the post is going off topic, we're all guilty of it even Auntie Vin, don't be offended.... and feel free to honk at someone when appropriate 😉 I prefer we self moderate (not medicate) rather than have "moderators" that delete and "patrol" the boards and warnings.... usually if it's toooo insane @TotallyOz steps in behind the scenes to take care of it.

Leave me out of this

I don't use those, yet.

Mine or his?

They should make a deal, both governments change their leaders...

since you said they were all small dicks, Could be chlamydia or gonorrea --- The Indonesian guy might've been right to be worried 🤷‍♂️

I was in Houston just 1 week ago and the precheck line was 5 minutes and regular lines 20 mins.... how it got so out of control in 1 week is crazy.

mine was bigger and thicker.... if that tells you anything

Generic Asian flesh?

we already know you and @Olddaddy have something going.... what it is, anybody's guess 🤷‍♂️

FUCK… spent over 2 hours catching up on here after being off for a couple of days. Feels like walking into the office on a Monday with a pile of work waiting 😆 So… after ~40 hours of travel, including an 8.5-hour layover in Tokyo, I finally made it to Jakarta. Currently recovering from a long night with a guy I’ve hooked up with before. Wasn’t even planning it, but he hit me up on Grindr and… yeah, that turned into a long night, he's on the bigger size 🍆 for an Asian and always pleases. Side note… I’m REALLY glad I was in business class for that journey. I honestly don’t know how people do these long-hauls in economy anymore. Lately I’ve been buying my tickets originating in Asia or India, roundtrip, and keeping it under $3K USD. The mileage earning alone is worth it too… almost enough for a free one-way business class ticket. Makes a huge difference when you land and still have enough life left in you to actually… enjoy the destination. Now, Tokyo… Thanks @macaroni21 for the tips. I ended up booking someone from JAM: https://www.jam-2014.com/profile/_uid/7836/ Not gonna lie, not someone I would’ve picked out in a bar or a go-go lineup, but… ended up being a surprisingly good time. Taller than my usual type, very polished, very “Japanese professional,” and clearly knew how to handle himself and keep things… "engaging" and on the "edge" Getting from HND into Tokyo was about an hour by train. Super smooth. Staff everywhere helping, everything insanely punctual… you almost forget travel can actually be civilized and so punctual! I booked 90 minutes, and I’m glad I did. Between Google Translate and figuring each other out, there was a LOT of back and forth at first. I asked about massage, didn’t seem like that was really his thing. Also asked if it was more "action-focused", and he basically explained that a lot of his clients book hours just to talk… with a little fun on the side. We probably spent the first 30 minutes chatting/typing, which honestly felt longer than it was. But once things shifted… very different energy. Told him I’m shy and not much of a talker… he bought it 😆 He was really into taking his time, building things up, drawing things out in a way that made it a lot more intense than just jumping straight in. Very controlled, very deliberate… you could tell he knew exactly what he was doing and how to keep things going. Overall, definitely a fun experience and worth doing. Next time I’d plan it better… try a couple of agencies and line up someone a bit more my type, now that I know how it all works. Let's see if I can upload a pic of the room, was comfortable, had heat as it was a little chilly and light rain outside....plus a bathroom not shown, where he showered us at the beginning , he got hard fast and at the end, he washed me again, I thought.... I hope the nursing home will be this good 😝

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