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FIRST NIGHT IN BANGKOK I started the evening with a stroll. Through the various streets lined with boy bars and massage shops... What struck me was how quiet the streets were. Few people were walking around or entering the bars. I was therefore afraid I'd be the only customer if I went in. But when I entered Freshboys just after 10:30, it was surprisingly packed. The show wasn't anything new. It was mostly the same. During the big cock parade, number 31 caught my eye. Gorgeous body, six-pack, nice tattoos (not too many, but distinct. Chinese theme). When the boys went into the audience for tips, I naturally handed number 31 a bill. After I'd thoroughly felt up his body and given him some compliments, of course. Mamasan told me the guy was "top only." Unfortunately, he didn't match with me because of that. So I decided to try my luck elsewhere. Also, because I wanted to explore a bit on my first night and not pick up a guy at the first bar and end up back in my hotel room early. As busy as the Freshboys was, it was deserted in Tawan. Two other (young) customers. They both had a Tawan man sitting next to them, hands going everywhere, and at one dark moment, they even gave blowjobs in public... Exciting! But other than that... Most of the guys weren't my type. I'm into muscular guys. But lean muscular ones. And not what was generally "on the menu" in Tawan. There was one guy who did interest me, but he avoided eye contact. And I agree with @vinapuvinapu it usually doesn't result in a good date if you choose a guy who doesn't make eye contact and tries to get your attention or flirt with you. Guys (or men, as many of the Tawan staff fall into that category) are mostly on their phones, uninterested (except for two who did stop by for a chat), and one who seemed to have fallen asleep on the couch. He sat there with his eyes closed... It actually felt a bit awkward so I tried my best to finish my drink a little faster than normal. It was a little after midnight now, and I thought I'd try somewhere else. Only to find that everything was closed or about to close. Apparently, on weeknights in Bangkok these days, you have to make sure you've found a guy before midnight... Haha. Luckily, Grindr offered a solution. A massage therapist offered himself for the reasonable price of 1,500 baht for full service. He was able to walk straight through the reception to my hotel room without any problems once I gave him my room number. He was a nice, spontaneous guy, who was apparently a fan of 7-Eleven, because he had a large tattoo of their logo on the back of his neck. That tattoo looked familiar. But I can't remember the context. Maybe I saw the guy once when he worked at one of the boy bars. Or maybe I even met up with him on one of my previous trips... I asked him to give me a soft massage because I was experiencing some pain, and he knew exactly the right pressure so it wasn't painful, but you could feel that he was doing something. Satisfied and tired, I crawled into bed after he had also provided the extra service to my satisfaction. To give you an idea of what he is like, below is a photo from which I have cropped out his face. A successful first (half) day in Bangkok.

Bangkok Day activities: A visit to the Mahanakhon skyscraper. The view is impressive, as is the skywalk. bicycle tour by night. Great experience, but I prefer the day tour. Bars: Fresh boys: great selection of boys and I loved the show (only one ladyboy lip-syncing act). I invited #19 and #28 to sit with me. #19 was very cute but top only. I would have taken #28 if it was any cheaper (asked for 3000 baht). Not sure if that's normal practice, but the papasan said that I had to pay the full amount to the bar, including the tip for the boy (?). Maybe I misunderstood. Good boy: good selection of boys but I arrived just before the show started. I lran away after three kathoey acts. Golden Cock: The door was open, but the bar was empty. No one in sight. I left after 5 minutes. Super A: I was the only customer. Drinks are 200 baht and the off fee is 500 baht. The guys are fully clothed, one of them attractive. I invited him to sit with me, and he immediately unbuckled his belt to get a better look at his goods. He's straight, but "can do anything." I put that to the test, and we went to the hotel, and what a surprise... The best sex I've had all week. He's an enthusiastic kisser and loved being fucked. He asked for 1500, but I gave him 2000. Sometimes you find what you're looking for where you least expect it. Massages: Avalon massage: A cute guy comes up to me and says, "Massage, please, sir." I can't resist (massage 685 baht). I really enjoyed the massage. Then came the question I was hoping for: "Would you like something extra?" We discussed the details and the price (a 2,000 baht tip), and he undressed. He insisted we be very quiet, as there were other customers getting a massage in the same room (seperated by curtains). I really tried to be quiet, but I think I failed miserably. It was very enjoyable, anyway. oneSpa (saphan kwai): I chose "Min" a guy from Myanmar who could bottom. Special offer, 1 hour 499 baht. Minimum tip 1000 baht. Luckily, I paid an extra 100 baht for the VIP room, because if that was a VIP room, I don't want to know what the regular rooms look like. The massage was better than expected, with a pleasant body-to-body massage. As soon as I turned over, the real fun began. Min turned out to be a very enthusiastic bottom. We showered together at the end. From start to finish, 70 minutes. Highly recommended. Grindr: Probably a coincidence, but the money boys were much more responsive than in Pattaya. I got one boy into my room within five minutes of our conversation. I ended up meeting two boys, paying them 1,200 and 1,500 baht respectively. Both were okay. ---- I had a wonderful trip to Thailand. It was great to be back and see how things have changed. Some for the better (Jomtien Complex), some for the worse (Sunee, Boystown). After visiting Colombia often over the past five years, it was good to have a change of scenery. Will I go back? Definitely, but my next trip will be to Colombia again. Thailand has so many advantages over Colombia. It's very safe, the food is great, the hotels are cheap and high-quality, you can get a good massage, and it's very easy to find a money boy... But what I miss most in Thailand is what they call "morbo" in Colombia. It's hard to describe, but the sex is just hotter, more intense, more passionate. And there's a lot of kissing (more than half of the guys in Thailand didn't want to kiss). I also miss the long conversations, having drinks together, going out together,... With guys from South Asia it's just more difficult, because we don't speak a common language and I don't like using translation apps all the time.

ARRIVAL I've been flying business class on my outbound journey for years. It's quite a long journey from Europe, and I love arriving in Thailand refreshed. This way, I can immediately dive into the sodomy that is Patpong, full of energy. I also find that by flying business class, the holiday begins during the trip instead of only when you arrive at your destination. Another advantage: you can use priority lane at immigration. After all, the lines at passport control can sometimes be very crowded. While boarding my 2nd flight/leg in Doha, I spotted a well-dressed, well-built guy. The kind you know right away is gay. A shirt that was way, way, way too tight around his muscular torso. But I did have something delicious to look at and fantasize about. And who did I meet on Grindr hours later after arriving? Of course... This guy. Haha. I chatted with him for a bit and admitted to him that I find him very attractive. But he's attracted to everything I'm not (younger, muscular, etc.), so unfortunately, nothing came out of it. But... It's a small gay world. Photos from his Grindr profile, his head cropped for privacy reasons. The first photo shows his style on the plane. Then you'll understand the gaydar that tripped me up. The second photo, just because it's hot, him shirtless. Just before leaving, I realized I'd made a mistake in the booking dates for my first hotel in Bangkok. As a result, I had a hotel for nights 2 and 3, but hadn't yet booked the first night. The last-minute prices for the luxurious Meridian Hotel, where I'd treated myself to two nights to kick off my vacation, were very high. So I decided to look for a cheaper option in Silom for one night and then move to the Meridian Hotel on day two. I found a very good deal on booking.com for Squirrel House, a relatively new hotel in the building that used to house the BBB Inn. I often prefer newer hotels. They still look fresh, are often clean, and have a modern, bright interior. I remember several other forum members having stayed there as well. See: I found old photos of the hotel on Google Maps when it was still the BBB Inn. It's funny to see that they advertised the hotel back then with a photo of a staff member lying on a hotel bed. I wonder if any members here ever found a staff member lying on their bed back then? The location is, of course, ideal. Within walking distance of all the bars and massage shops in Patpong. At least, within walking distance for most of us. @Olddaddy would definitely take a motorbike taxi... I think someone on this forum already mentioned the hotel's lack of an elevator. And of course, lucky me, my room was on the third floor... I had to lug my heavy suitcase up the stairs. The room is very basic. The bed is a bit too firm for my liking. And it's quite noisy. I hear a lot of noise from others walking in the hallway, from other rooms, and from slamming doors. The renovation of the adjacent (former) Take a Nap Hostel is currently also causing noise pollution. In short: it was nice to try a new hotel, and thankfully it was only for one night, but I won't be booking this one again.

Hey everyone. I am a "long-time lurker" (if that's the right expression) on this site, and its predecessor hooboys, but my changing circumstances mean I now feel able to begin posting myself. I would like to start therefore by expressing my heartfelt thanks to all the members who post regularly on these forums, which have helped me immeasurably on my trips over the past 5-8 years, to Latin America, including Brazil, Argentina, Colombia, Mexico, Dominican Republic, and Peru. However, despite being addicted to fit Latin guys, I decided to try a visit to S E Asia this November. I have poured over the helpful posts here, and the wonderful blogs by Shamelessmacktwo, which are so instructive. I have just finished a week-long stay in Ho Chi Mihn City went to a number of the massage shops that have featured previous posts. On my first full day I had booked a guide from Siamroads, and after a fascinating tour of the city centre, he organised us both (separate, I hasten to add) 90 minute massages at Aqua Spa. The set me back a total of 4 million Dong, tips included. They sent pictures in advance, and my guy was like the photo, and quite hunky. After about 40 minutes of routine massaging, with not much straying into sensitive areas, he suddenly started rimming me, which was a very nice surprise. We proceeded from there with him fucking me in several positions and he came in my throat to finish. There was no kissing though, which is a slight disappointment for me. The next day I tried 3 Some Spa, which is quite easy to reach from the city centre. I messaged them on WhatsApp to book a time, and they send a set of 24 photos some duplicated, so about 10-12 guys to choose from. Mostly very cute twinky types. My first choice of guy was available, so after a shower downstairs next to the lockers, we proceeded to an upstairs room wearing the baggy boxer-type shorts provided. He gave me a nice massage, nude from the start, and in the second phase, fucked me and came in my face, so I left well satisfied. The system here is that the massage is 400,000 Dong, and the guy then asks you to write down the tip on a ticket, and you pay at the reception on leaving. The next day I decided to visit the Nadam Spa. As other posters here have noted, this is a conventional sauna, not just a massage shop. It is located a bit further out of the city centre in the other places. At least a 30 minute ride in a Grab car away, through the perpetually slow, Saigon traffic, with its swarming motorbikes. The tactic I adopted was to use the new one Ho Chi Minh City, metro line, travelling 2 or 3 stops from the Beh Thanh Market terminus, and then taking a grab car from the station nearest to my destination. I was as equally impressed as Colom-bien (in his post of 6 December 2024) and I cannot better his eloquent description of the decor and ambience of the place. As he mentions, there are numerous massage guys wandering around the spa, and when one of them approached me and asked if I would like to partake, he took me through to the massage side of the place, but I was not then obliged to accept his services, but was given a book of pictures of the guys and a cold tea to drink while I made my own choice. The boy I chose gave me a very sensual massage, with plenty of 'extras', but still no kissing , unfortunately. When we had finished, there was, once again, the procedure of writing the tip amount on a ticket, but this time, the guy asked me to write down just 200,000 Dong, and then accompanied me back to the locker room where I gave him a further 1 million directly. Whether this is a procedure tolerated or condoned by the management I wouldn't like to say, but I was happy to be able to reward him personally for a very happy moment. I hope this report has not been too long-winded. I get the impression that many are readers of these posts like to see a lot of detail. In the next part, I will cover my two visits to the Aroma Spa, which were undoubtedly the standout delights of my sojourn in Saigon.

For the first time in five years, I visited Thailand again, albeit for only nine days. The first seven days I spent in Pattaya, the last few in Bangkok. I stayed at the Zing Resort in Pattaya and at The Raya in Bangkok. The Zing Resort is a simple but pleasant hotel. The staff is super friendly, no problem with guests and it's always nice to have a pool. The Raya: I was unlucky enough to have a room on the fifth floor (where the reception is), but they don't even bat an eye when you go up to your room with your boyfriend of the day. The room was very nice (with a naughty shower), but I didn't like the bed: a mattress on viagra, rock hard. Pattaya I took the airport bus to Jomtien. Even though I didn't have a reservation, I only had to wait 20 minutes for the next bus. Grindr had a good selection of guys, but it was difficult to make appointments (no or late responses, guys who didn't show up, etc.). I ended up meeting three guys, only one of whom was memorable. On average, I paid 1,500 baht for bar boys and 1,000 baht for guys from Grindr. Daytime Activities: Ramayana Water Park with a Grindr contact (free, but I paid for admission, transportation, and food). A bit pricey (999 baht admission), but great slides and lots of fun. The guy loved it. Koh Larn with a guy from M Bar. We went to Tien Beach. It's still one of my favorite beaches on the island. A sexy photoshoot among the rocks on the other side of the island was the highlight of the day. Trip to Bang Saray (by Songthaew/motorcycle taxi). Strolled around town for a bit. Bars & Massages Jomtien Complex: M bar: My favorite bar in Pattaya. The guys are cute and the show is entertaining (the fuck show in black and white!). I've offed three guys from Laos (technically, I only offed one, since the others joined me after closing time). One night, a big spender got all the guys drunk. One of them fell asleep on my lap. Another asked if he could sleep at my place because he lost his keys. Of course, I didn't mind and the next morning he proved that having sex is a perfect remedy for a hangover. Gus bar: The guys are very twinky. The "sexy boys" show is just energetic dancing, but I enjoyed it. The cashier came to my room after closing time, and we had a great time. Peter bar: I enjoyed a game of pool at this bar. The location is great. You can watch the comings and goings and see the various shows. I assume they employ freelancers, because I offed a guy from the bar and didn't pay an off fee. Sunee bar: I met two forum members. They were both lovely guys MV Massage (one of two massage parlors near the bakery "O Delices"): A very cute twink caught my eye. The massage started with him fully clothed and he stayed that way throughout the session. His massage skills were non-existent, the worst massage I've had in a long time. Not that I expected a good massage there, as long as there was a sexy part. But alas... nothing. After 45 minutes, the session was over. I considered how much to tip him and thought 200 baht would be more than enough, even generous. He looked at me as if he was very offended by my tip and even ostentatiously turned his head the other way as I walked past to leave. Well, they won't see me again. Jomtien Health Massage (near the entrance to Jomtien on the Thappraya): There are both men and women working there. My expectations were rather low, but one of the men was cute. He gave me an excellent massage and halfway through asked if I wanted extras. After a brief chat, he jumped out of his clothes and we had a good session. I think I was lucky I was the only one on the top floor, as the massage tables are only separated by curtains. Afterward, I showered alone. Bars & Massages sunee plaza: Everything is closed except Nice Boys, Winner Boys, Diamond Bar (lights on but empty) and that bar on the corner. Nice boys (or whatever they are called nowadays): only one Myanmar guy on the stage, the rest are Thai. All boys in jeans / long trousers. I had a chat with the owner khun beer. He tells me that they had no choice, he couldn't pay the tea money for the BiB anymore with the profits of the bar. I miss the old Nice Boys. For old time's sake, I started a cum contest for 300 baht. Most of them wanked frantically and one of the boys won in less than 10 seconds. Winner boys: a couple cute twinks, friendly atmosphere and you can have some hands-on fun with the boys. Bars & Massages boystown: Toy Boys: Nice mix of boys, I counted 12 boys. Papasan told me they expect 2500 baht tip for short time, no pasarán. Cupidol (or whatever it's called now, the go-go bar next to Panorama): lots of cute twinks. One guy immediately caught my eye, but he was top only.

ANOTHER DAY IN BANGKOK I've never had this much jet lag as I have this year. Does that have something to do with me getting older? Anyway, I took an extra nap during the day today. In between, I also visited the new Central Park. The new shopping mall with office towers and the new Dusit Thani hotel. They must have thought there weren't enough shopping malls in the area yet. But I have to say: the rooftop terrace is impressive. It's a true roof garden. It really makes you feel like you're walking through a park. With a beautiful view of Lumphini Park and the skyline beyond. There are discussions on this forum about where the best cashew chicken was on the menu. I had one today at Sarica restaurant on Surawong Road. Plenty of cashews, and the chicken was delicious. However, I have reservations about the quality of the sauce/paste they used. Still, I think it tasted good. That evening, I decided to visit Dreamboy right before the first show. Papasan had advised me the night before to arrive early next time, and he'd find me a good guy. When I arrived, it was already very busy. So busy, in fact, that I got a spot at the side of the stage. This made it difficult to get a good look at the guys, let alone read their number tags. Because of the crowd, Papasan also left me a bit alone, so I couldn't ask them for advice or information about the guys. When he happened to come by, he shined a laser pointer on several guys he knew were gay and also into bottoming. One of them had caught my eye earlier that evening, so I decided to invite them for a drink. He's from Myanmar and didn't speak a word of English. The translation app was struggling. I typed really good, but simple, English sentences. But the translation into Burmese wasn't great, so he didn't quite understand what I wanted to know. I deliberately didn't mention that I am top and wanted him to express his preferences first by asking him. His answer was ultimately clear: he's gay, but he's top. I politely let him know that we wouldn't be a match, which he accepted. He did, however, sit comfortably next to me, finishing his drink and touching each other. I tipped him 200 baht. Papasan came over and asked if I wanted to take the boy. I explained that I didn't, because the boy claims to be top, which contradicts the information Papasan gave me. Then Papasan and the boy started talking in Thai or Burmese. I didn't understand it at all. But after that, the boy claimed to want to take good care of me and was willing to do anything, including bottoming. But I insisted I wouldn't bring the boy along. A date between us could only end in disappointment. I want a real bottom or versa. And not someone who "just does it" because Papasan says so. It doesn't feel right to do something with a boy he doesn't choose for himself. That's why I was glad I'd had that conversation with him where I'd asked him about his preferences without him knowing what I was looking for. Or what Papasan had told me. I was a bit annoyed by Papasan's misinformation. Let's just say it cost me valuable time that I could have better spent meeting a guy who's truly bottom or versa. I couldn't bring myself to choose a new guy at Dreamboy either. So I paid and left the bar disappointed. Where to go now? It was already past midnight. And experience from the previous evening had taught me that it's hard to find a guy anywhere then, as closing time is approaching. But... Then I saw a sign that Goodboyz had a show at 1 a.m. So I went in... I arrived in boy heaven. There were so many boys. So many. And something for every taste. I even saw quite a few who piqued my interest. And importantly: the atmosphere was great. I felt welcome. Friendly mamasan. Boys who smiled at me and asking for attention, without being too pushy for drinks or tips. I even managed to chat with a boy who had spontaneously sat next to me for a while before he asked if I wanted to buy them a drink. And I did want to buy him a drink. Because he was definitely my type. He spoke reasonable English. That was a plus. At the same time, there was another attractive boy further down who also kept making eye contact. Both boys from Vietnam. And before I knew it, I was sitting with a boy on either side of me, drinks for them, and hands going everywhere, both theirs and mine. The setup at Goodboyz allows for this. The way the seating is arranged and the fact that it's a bit darker makes it a bit more intimate and private. Why choose between two cute guys when they're both willing to go with you? Luckily, the Méridien has big beds. The guys didn't do anything together in the hotel room, by the way. Their focus was entirely on me. But I'm not complaining, of course. I wouldn't call it a real threesome this way, either. But it was a special experience. The first time I've brought two guys from the bar back to the hotel.

Just got back to Sydney after the most insane 48 hour layover in Bangkok en route to Dubai. Originally only planned as a quick overnight to break the long flight from SYD, but after reading a couple of recent reports here about the growing number of African students and workers in BKK… let’s just say I re-booked the Dubai leg for two days later before I even landed. Flight & Arrival Landed in BKK around 16:40. The second I switched off airplane mode, Grindr exploded, 50+ taps in the first five minutes, I hadn’t even cleared immigration yet and already had messages blowing up my phone. Took the Airport Rail Link to Phaya Thai then MRT + short Grab ride to the hotel. Hotel Ibis Styles Bangkok Silom, booked a premium king room with balcony. The balcony was gold, high enough for privacy but still great for a post session cigarette while hearing the Silom chaos below. Night 1 – Wednesday Dropped the bags, quick shower, opened Grindr. Looked for any Black/African and it was a sea of Nigerian, Ghanaian and Cameroonian flags. Most were students or guys working for a few days in the LOS. Hit it off with a 26 year old Ghanaian, tall, rugby build, pics showed a seriously thick bulge. He asked 3000 short time straight up....no bullshit!! I said come now, 25 minutes later he’s at the door in a tight white tank showing every ripple. Shower show first, the ibis rooms have those big rain showers with glass walls, perfect for watching. Soaped each other up, deep kissing under the water, his tongue halfway down my throat while I tried to wrap both hands around that monster. Easily 22-23 cm and thicker than a Red Bull can, uncut, heavy foreskin, perfect curve upward. I spent a good 15 minutes on my knees just worshipping it. Back to the bed, oil massage play (he brought his own bottle), then he ate my arse for a good 5 minutes and slid in. Took a solid five minutes of slow pushing before I could take it all. Once he was in he went full jackhammer, loud moaning began with slapping sounds echoing off the walls (so sorry to the lovely older couple next door). Bred me deep twice, massive loads. Tipped him an extra 500 because I literally saw stars. Grabbed some food from the street stall on Silom Soi 4, then one quick beer before bed. Passed out happy. Day 2 – Thursday Did a bit of shopping during the day and had a nice swim in the afternoon. Opened Grindr at 7pm and the grid was on fire again. Decided today would be a double header. Guy #2 – a 24 year old Nigerian, nice body,face 10/10. Same deal, 3000 ST. Spent almost two hours: long 69 session (he was an amazing cocksucker), then he carried me to the balcony (yes I asked him to, I'm paying good money here guys!!!!) bent me over the railing and pounded me while the traffic roared below. Shot so hard I felt it hit deep. Stayed another 30 minutes cuddling and kissing, total sweetheart. Quick nap, dinner, then guy #3 just after midnight. Nice student from Cameroon, 29, gym-rat, veiny arms, low hanging balls. He was the most verbal, kept calling me “baby” and “good boy” while he choked me lightly on his beautiful fat uncut cock. Oiled me up again, slow sensual fuck first, then flipped me on my stomach and went full animal. Loudest moaner of the three, I’m shocked no one complained. Left another huge creamy load inside and kissed my forehead on the way out. Practical Tips • ibis Styles Silom = 100% joiner-friendly, no drama even with three different guys in 48 hrs. • Grab taxis everywhere, never paid more than 120 THB in the Silom/Sathorn area. • Grindr grid for African guys is absolutely stacked, turn on your phone at the airport and you’ll see what I mean. • 3000 THB short time seems to be the going rate right now for the top-tier African pros, worth every baht. Verdict Best quick stopover of my life. Three absolute stallions, zero attitude and hotel was perfect. I'm already looking at flights for a full week in May dedicated solely to the African boys in Bangkok. Thanks Bangkok… see you very soon

At some point during my trip report I was asked if I had compiled a list of massage shops. I actually did create sort of a cheat sheet for myself of the places I wanted to visit. The list is by no means extensive, and I am sure by now some of the info is out of date. X accounts, LINE addresses, and websites seem to change, get suspended, or vanish completely without any notice or warning. lol. Info was current prior to my departure on October 14. No guarantees after that date! These are in no particular order...just my personal list of shops I had planned to visit. Yes...overly optimistic, wasn't I?!? Prestige 79 Naradhiwas Rajanagarindra Rd, Si Lom, Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500 +66 96 889 1777 605 24 Phra Khanong - Khlong Ban Pa, Khwaeng Phra Khanong, Khlong Toei, Bangkok 10260, +66 61 323 8531 @Prestige_Msg Arena / https://arenaspa.wordpress.com/ 491/23-24, 3/F Silom Plaza, Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500, Thailand +66 2 635 3645 @arenaspabkk S’sense https://ssensemassage.com/ 562/16 Soi Sathon 3, Thung Maha Mek, Sathon, Bangkok 10120, Thailand +66 644628503 Prince 253/4 Suan Phlu 6 Alley, Thung Maha Mek, Sathon, Bangkok 10120, Thailand +66 91 765 2222 Senso https://sensospacom.wordpress.com/ 5/8 Saladeng Rd., Silom Bangrak Bangkok 10500 Office: 02-1296739 Mobile: 0811073888 FaFa 233, 8 Soi Sukhumvit 77, Phra Khanong Nuea, Watthana, Bangkok 10110, Thailand +66 95 323 3242 @fafaspa_bkk Klover Thanon Nang Linchi, Chong Nonsi, Yan Nawa, Bangkok 10120, Thailand +66 94 698 9556 Atman 1213, 503 Town In Town Soi 17, Phlabphla, Wang Thonglang, Bangkok 10310, Thailand +66 92 262 3986 @PKhewkaw94994 Glam 380/2 Ratchadaphisek Rd, Samsen Nok, Huai Khwang, Bangkok 10310, Thailand +66 61 161 5093 JeySpa 14/7 Soi Sukhumvit 43, Khlong Tan Nuea, Watthana, Bangkok 10110, Thailand +66 61 834 5252 SMS Sanctuary 18/8, Building Rama 4 City Court, 10330 Rama IV Rd, Khwaeng Lumphini, Pathum Wan, Bangkok 10330, Thailand +66 90 897 7140 @sanctuaryspabkk Ganymede http://www.ganymedespa.com/home 69/37 phatumwan resort Phaya Thai Rd, Sub-district Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 97 170 5418 @GanymedeSpa TCS (has recently opened a second location) 2, 22 Soi Seng Ki, Bang Kho Laem, Bangkok 10120, Thailand +66 80 414 2944 @tcsspa Onespa 9 Inthamara 3, Sutthisan Winitchai Rd, Samsen Nai, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 96 040 7349 15M/27M 15M: 1575 18 Phahonyothin Rd, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 61 196 5666 @boybk12345 27M: 327 Sutthisan Winitchai Rd, Samsen Nai, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 61 198 5666 @massage_27m Phetboy (now Boy Boy) 1511/26 Phahonyothin Rd, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 92 487 7989 @suththi33654 Phoenix 9 Chuen Yaem Alley, Samsen Nai, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 62 283 7447 BT House Massage 240 Sutthisan Winitchai Rd, Samsen Nai, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 92 874 1290 @bthouse2025 The Master Gallery 818/126 Soi. Sukhumvit 103, Bangna Nuea, Bangna District, Bangkok, Thailand +66 81 242 6152 @TheMastegallery https://x.com/i/status/1880200216940597576 365 The River 375/5 Pracha Rat Sai 2 Rd, Bang Sue, Krung Thep Maha Nakhon, Bangkok 10800, Thailand +66 64 640 6500 @365theriver House 98 Massage 55 163 Ban Klang Muang, Rama 9, Ladprao, Phlapphla, Wang Thonglang, Bangkok 10310, Thailand +66 93 362 9598 @House98massage History of Massage Stadium One Project No. 719-727 2nd Floor, Chulalongkorn Soi 4, Wang Mai Subdistrict, Pathum Wan District, Bangkok 10330 +66 91 535 2424 @History_Bangkok Gbeat / Stars.BKK (possible name change) 1575, 53-54 Phahonyothin Rd, Phaya Thai, Bangkok 10400, Thailand +66 99 046 4455 @intraspa Wabi Sabi 44, 4 Soi Pipat, Si Lom, Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500, Thailand +66 65 078 4825 @WabiSabi_MS Men Care (have 4 other locations) 71/2-3 Soi Si Bamphen, Thung Maha Mek, Sathon, Bangkok 10120 @mencare_x

@khaolakguy You're very welcome. Yeah it is weird that they don't have it. They just had a small foam pillow. The massage, masseur, and location were great otherwise. @floridarob That's definitely advice I should take. At Wabi Sabi he had primed me for over an hour before offering the extras and I was pretty worked up by then. Great tactic. @jason1975Thanks! After the massage at Wabi Sabi I walked over to MBK Center which is known as the largest counterfeit mall in Bangkok. I didn't buy anything but might go back tomorrow. I went to G's Bangkok and it was enjoyable. I only ordered German dishes and they were tasty. Also a beer. Afterwards went back to my hotel for a one hour power nap. Ended up getting to Freshboys around 9:30pm. Upon being seated I immediately exchanged a 1000 baht note for ten 100's. To my pleasant surprise, the boy I offed in March was up on stage again. I decided he'd probably forgotten about me so I should make an effort to assess all the boys and not favor him just because we had prior interactions. Alas, I succumbed to the urge to pick him. There were more than a few that I could have been happy with but his look and tattoos just do it for me. The mamasan called his number and he came over and a drink was ordered for him. Once I explained that we had interacted in March he kind of lit up. I mentioned that I remembered that he's Lao. He let me know he would like to leave after the show. I wanted to get agreement before I agreed to off him for the night. He agreed to kissing and showering together. The show was enjoyable. One sexy hot dancer and two guys with their cocks out. There was another crew of dancers and I loved watching the more submissive seeming one. I recognized him from last time as well and I really thought he gave a great performance. I decided not to off two boys and instead just did one. I had a 100 baht note in hand and when my guy was getting dressed I saw my opportunity to stand up and give the cute dancer a 100 baht note. Also gave 100 to the waiter and mamasan. We went back to the hotel and took a shower and hopped into bed. This experience was almost night and day compared to my my first time with him. He seemed so much friendlier and less mechanical. He washed me and let me wash him. He actively kissed me including tongue which was wonderful. The sexual stuff was fun. After we finished we both showered again. We chatted via translation apps and I gave him a bit extra. 3000 instead of 2500. He gave me his Line account so I added him. I'm wary of how this may go. I am not going to be sending money or thinking he's romantically interested. While I was at Freshboys there was a gentleman sitting next to me because it was rather packed in there. When he noticed that I had offed my boy the other gentleman asked me how much it costs. I had to switch my translation app to Chinese. I explained it to him in terms of how pricing works here. He was grateful. I ordered some Foodland bites to my hotel via Grab. I'd type more but I'm fading fast. I'll post tomorrow

I was in Hurghada for a month in October 2025 and a time was had! The first 9 days I didn't have any sex. I was just sight seeing and enjoying the buffet, beach and pool vibes in my 5 star resort. Sunbathing and relaxing before I went wild! I had many massages in different places but only one place I was lucky to find guys willing to fuck. It was a very popular and busy hammam. The first time I was fucked there very quickly by a dark skinned guy skinny good looking with a small dick, it was quick and not that great. He was around 33 years old, short and quite annoying tbh. I gave him 300 EGP pounds tip. The massage wasn't that great either. I asked for another stronger guy the next time I went and he was much better really work on my ass so good. The massage was excellent. The problem with the place is that it is so busy with so many customers and workers everywhere nearby. The guy massaging me was 18 handsome skinny light skin with a 7.5 inch cock. I could feel his rock hard cock as the massage progressed. I sucked him and told him to fuck me near the end of the massage like with the first guy but he said it was too busy, which was very true and people kept opening the door. He told me to come at 7pm next time and he would fuck me then. I gave him 400 EGP tip, which is how much I gave all the guys I fucked in Hurghada. The regular guys I fucked who weren't massaging me didn't ask or expect money I just gave it and said it was for taxi, they were all very surprised and happy for it although. I had to force a few guys to accept it. The massage guy was very happy with the tip. The next time I came at 7pm the massage wasn't as amazing as the first but it was still good. He fucked me at the end and cummed inside me. I gave him 500 EGP this time. I should have just stuck with this Hammam. I tried many other massage places but no sex there although I had some surprisingly good massages with hot guys. I had 5 massages at the resort I stayed with really hot muscly guys but I was too scared to initiate anything and looking back they weren't going to jepordise their jobs at a 5 star resort by initiating. There were many hot muscly guys working in the resort but I was too scared to try anything. Many hit bar men, security, waitors but I didn't try. I had no sex in the resort itself but had sex at the Hammam. I also had great luck with the uber drivers. I would get drunk at night and drive into town. If the driver was hot and young I would try my luck. It worked 7 out 8 times. Only one guy refused me, which was a bit awkward but it was fine. I only hit on slightly older uber guy in his early 40s because he was so good looking. I gave him some vodka in a water bottle and he took me to his apartment. He had 9 inch thick dick and he fucked me good but was really guilty as he took me back to my hotel. He told me it was against his religion and that he had a wife and kids and that we couldn't do it again. I was a little disappointed but I moved on quickly. The next day I met this guy off grindr in his apartment. He was diving instructor with a deep tan, great body and good looking. He was smoking Hashish when I got there and I offered him some of my vodka so we drank and smoked together. Hashish is like a milder form of weed/marjuana. His English was very good and we had a great conversation for an hour before having great sex. He fucked me really a good long for an hour. I was sucking him and noticed his as hole was very clean and started eating his ass and then I slowly tried to fuck him. I don't know if it was his first time but he was that experienced or comfortable. After a while he flipped me over and fucked me so good hard until he cummed inside me. I kinda fell in love, the sex was great. He gave me his number afterwards. I gave him 600 EGP for the Hashish as I took some with me. The next night I got his number mixed up with another diver guy I met on an uber trip and asked to come over to smoke with him. He said OK but gave me another address to go. I was surprised by the address switch up but went with it. When I got there I was like this looks different but similar to the guy from last night but his his hair was short Abd the guy last night had should length beautiful hair and a longer nose. I was pretty drunk already and it only dawned on me when we got in the lift that this was the wrong guy! Anyway I went to his apartment. The guy is handsome with divers body while we were smoking Hashish he shocked me his six pack. We had a great night of conversation and I was very attract led to him but he gave strictly straight vibes so I didny try it. His friend Abd roommate was also smoking with us. The friend was even better looking than him Abd I could see the full definition of his long and thick dick through his jogging bottoms while he sat. The friend was definitely flirting with me and was interested but I felt the diver guy was telling him to cut it out probably because a lot of people tell me a give a straight vibe myself unless I am explicitly cruising or flirting with a guy. So in the end nothing happened. I should have asked for the friend's number but I didn't. I gave this guy 1000 EGP because he gave me a fair bit of Hashish to take with me after we smoked for 2 hours together. Back to the uber encounters. One young guy I sucked in his car and he fucked me in a quiet dark street. He was 18 years old using his father's uber account and car. He was 7 inches and fucked me good. He was really cute and innocent. He told me it was his first time and said he loved it. I personally hated my first time as a top because I got a tiny bit of shit on my cock. I always douche thoroughly when I bottom and carry wet wipes. I was drunk in all these uber encounters. I gave him 400 EGP tip. The next night I met this soldier guy on uber he was 22 and the most beautiful guy I met there. He had a toned body too. I sucked him in his car and he cummed in my mouth. He said he wanted to fuck me so he drove to the edge of town. He fucked me good with his 7.8 inches and thick dick and cummed a second time. I thought we were going to drive home but we talked for a while in the car and then he grabbed my head to suck him and he fucked me for a second time and cummed for the third time before he drove me back to my hotel. I gave him 400 EGP tip. The next night I met a smoking hot gym fanatic. He was 23 and very handsome. He was educated and spoke good English. He was 8 inches but not as thick as the guy the night before but still very enjoyable. He had a perfect 6 pack and wonderful muscles. He drove to a quiet dark street. I sucked him in his nice car and then he fucked me good in the back of the car. The next uber encounter was weird and strange. After hitting on him I realised the guy was mentally unstable and his dick was small. I said the spot he took us to was too public and not safe, which was true. I gave him 100 EGP and got out of his car. After the first 10 days in my 5 star resort I realised I was going to be having any fun there so I booked a cheap apartment in the centre of yown so I could give bring guys over. To be continued...

I'm currently in Bangkok and will be leaving in about 30 hours so I need to be thoughtful with how I allocate my time. I arrived at BKK airport at 11:40pm last night. Immediately after customs I took out 10.7k baht from a Kasikorn Bank ATM. I then walked past the taxi area and instead opted for a Grab. I wanted to avoid any potential hassle with the taxi drivers as I'm under the impression that they like to gouge tourists a bit and I also wanted to pay with a credit card so Grab was ideal. Within 15 minutes my Grab arrived and off we went. About 35 minutes to my hotel in Silom. The ride with all fees was about 650 baht and I was feeling generous so added 200 baht tip. Checked into my hotel(The Quarter) at about 1:15am. I then freshened up and decided not to waste time and head straight to Good Boys. It was a 6 minute walk with the slightest drizzle of rain. First I walked down the main road to get a lay of the land and then doubled back to the Pavilion under Fresh Boys where the other gogo bar is located. It was about 1:45am and they were about to close so it was probably unexpected that I showed up. As I got close to the door a boy greeted me and walked me inside. I was sat at a table in the center of the room which was not ideal for me though the bar was pretty packed. Mostly boys but patrons too. I prefer to be on the perimeter so I can people watch. At my vantage point I couldn't see anyone behind me. I planned to just get a drink and not off anyone but the mamasan was sitting next to me and was persistently asking who I wanted etc. I kept smiling and declining anyone that came up to me. There were about 5 or 6 drag queens providing entertainment and then there was a show where a few of the boys hit a drum with their cocks. Afterwards a couple of them asked for tips and I politely declined. It was 2am and the mamasan was really trying to get me to off someone and then I saw a sexy guy I liked on stage. I told the mamasan his number and bought him a drink. I think he was surprised that I picked him. I asked if he wanted to go back to my hotel and he said yes. I asked the mamasan for the price. He proposed 3000 for boy, 500 for bar, plus 3x400 for the drinks. I countered and said it was too much so then he asked me how much I could afford. I said 2500 plus 500 off fee. This was what I had paid at Freshboys in March so thought it was a good price to offer. He accepted. I also added 100 baht as tip for the mamasan. I walked out paying 4300 all included for 3 hour short time with my Myanmar boy. He didn't speak English. Before I paid he said I could not fuck him and I agreed. We went to my room and using Google Translate I asked if we could shower together and he agreed. We did that and then started the fun. He said we could kiss but he was seriously bad at that or just didn't wanna be too gay so I gave up on kissing. He was enjoying using my mouth as a kind of vagina and eventually I could see him watching porn so I got curious and started jerking off with him. Alas it was straight porn so I assume he is probably gay for pay only. We did some more things and both got off and showered together. I really tried to make him feel comfortable. Once he was dressed I thanked him and we smiled and he went for a hug. It felt genuine. Overall I had a fun time my first night. I was a bit jetlagged and spent more than I had intended too. I also was being pressured due to time being short at Good Boys so I was not able to ask all of the questions I had meant to ask about what services would be provided. I also had hoped to get to know the guy before offing him. This will all be corrected for tonight. I will go to Freshboys for sure. I will be able to better assess the differences in type of boy. There were definitely plenty of Twink types at Good Boys but like someone said on another thread, it looks like they are a bit more well fed and have been to a gym before. I'm still trying to decide what I like. Ideally I find a boy that is willing to top tonight and he picks another boy to perform the act with in my hotel. I did see a very hot guy at Good Boys but he was sitting with some Asian men and a few boys. I was hoping to snag him but as the bar closed he changed into his street clothes and left with the other customer. If I go back tonight he will be who I'm looking for. On a side note, the boy I offed looked to be in his early twenties. When he stripped down I noticed a little lump on his penis which was rather off-putting. I'm not an expert on std's but hopefully that was not what it was. I don't think it was. If I'd seen that prior to being in my hotel I likely would have passed on him. Now I'm gonna take a nap and try to schedule a massage somewhere closeby. Not sure if i'll go somewhere that extras are likely. I'll hitup one of @vinapu's restaurant recommendations for lunch and then start going to the gogo bars around 9pm or whenever they open. I'm really trying to get better at saying no when people ask for money. I plan to just have one drink at a bar, Maybe spend 30 minutes and then move to the next one and end up at Freshboys at 9:45pm. I'll hang there and think about offing 1 or 2 guys but keeping my options open in case I wind up at Good Boys later and maybe I can hire that hot guy that was booked by someone else. I didn't see the number he was wearing. Apologies for the rambling post. I'm feeling rested now but I bet the jetlag will catch up to me sometime. I can sleep on the flights home.

Final Observations/Comments While I saw large numbers of foreigners in Bangkok, we really did not run into large groups of tourists until we got to Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai. Both places were overrun with groups and buses. The groups were primarily Chinese, although we did meet groups from Spain, France, and Germany. Also met several groups from South American countries. We met a number of Australians traveling independently or part of smaller groups. Saw no other tour groups from North America. That is not to say they didn’t exist…we just did not cross paths. Chiang Mai has done an excellent job of marketing itself as a vacation destination. However, they do not appear to be well equipped to handle such a large influx of tourists and need to do more to alleviate traffic problems and the overcrowded airport. Personally, I would not return to Chiang Mai because of these concerns. My air travel was booked through United, so most of the travel was directly with United. Denver is a hub for United and Southwest, so my airline choices are very limited when traveling to Asia. However, I did fly EVA from Taipei to Bangkok and Thai Airways from Chiang Mai to Bangkok. I am always impressed with the level of service and the number of cabin crew members on Asian airlines compared to US based airlines. Customer service is definitely not a priority on US carriers when compared to Asian carriers…from my experience. Some people enjoy group tours, while others loathe them and prefer to do their own thing. I do enjoy them at times, and am glad I signed up for this trip. I was able to learn more about Thailand and its history. The guide was very knowledgeable and thorough. Everything was well organized and a variety of activities were included. With the exception of one, all of the hotels were nice, meals good, and staff everywhere were friendly, polite and helpful. Unfortunately, the hotel used in Bangkok at the start of the tour was not one I would recommend…Galleria 10 near Terminal 21/Sukhumvit…was older, inconvenient and somewhat unsafe location, rundown and desperately in need of remodeling. So, my only real complaints about the tour are Bangkok hotel and crowds in Chiang Mai. All in all not a bad trip. I really want to thank forum members for all of their recommendations and suggestions before my trip. Your wisdom and encouragement helped to make my time in Bangkok the highlight of this trip. I stepped outside of my comfort zone and had some new, exciting experiences. Not bad for a 73 year old! Was surprised I still had some of the old adventure in me. As for an update on my love life, I hear from Sam (Paradise) regularly. Nothing serious…just casual chat…but something he wants and no requests for any type of assistance. Just wants to keep in touch and hopes to see me again…soon. No more contact with Grinder #1. Think he got the message I wasn’t interested. Bee and I are continuing to communicate. He says he wants to be boyfriends whether I send him money or not. I am trying to keep an open mind and positive attitude, but really just waiting to see what happens. He has been very attentive with messages and been careful not to mention or refer to anything in regards to his finances. I am very careful not to ask or bring it up at all. Contemplating a possible return to Thailand in February for two months, but made no definite plans as of now. Just taking a wait and see approach at the moment.

FRENCH KISSING IN BANGKOK For a few days, I'd been chatting with a half-French/half-Moroccan guy who is in Thailand for an extended period. At first, he seemed a bit too feminine for me. But there was something about him that attracted me, both in his photos and in his "French ritual" he offers. After a few days of hesitation because his "asking price" was so high, I decided to invite him anyway. My curiosity about him got the better of me. Despite the high price, it turned out to be completely worth it. I'm not going to say what I paid him because I'd be embarrassed to, and then I'd get all my fellow forum members commenting... Haha. But let's just say this French guy didn't charge Thai rates. He had a warm and open personality. He took his time. His massage was exactly what I needed in terms of intensity. Plus, he works with pressure points, which was a very pleasant experience. The transition from sensual to erotic was seamless. He knows what he's doing, and he enjoys it himself. After the climax, it wasn't a quick pay-and-go. No, even then he took his time. Lying in each other's arms, chatting a bit. And he gave me a wonderful head massage. We talked about pressure point techniques and Chinese medicine. A well-spent afternoon. He also happens to be incredibly creative. At the guesthouse where he's staying by the river in Bangkok, he's working on a mural depicting various world cities. He's a professionally trained dancer, which explains his toned body and flexibility, so to speak... But above all, he has a great personality. If you search on the Hunqz website, you'll find him. It was the last night in Bangkok for a fellow forum member I'd met in Bangkok this week. So we decided to go out for dinner together again. We chose G's, as my dinner companion put it, "to stay loyal to Guido." I eat at Guido's every time I'm in Bangkok. And I always have a schnitzel. But since I'd already had it two nights ago, I decided to try a Thai dish this time. And that was delicious too. Also happy te report that Guido's pussy is still in full action. Alive and kicking at the terrace. After dinner, we went across the street for a drink on the terrace of Banana Club. On the terrace, yes. It was still early, there wasn't a show yet. But sitting there gave us the opportunity to watch people walk by. I always love that: people watching. And because the music wasn't nearly as loud as at other terraces further down the Soi, we were able to have a decent conversation. After my late afternoon escapades, I wasn't planning on finding a guy tonight. But after my fellow forum member left for his hotel, I decided to check out Jupiter anyway. I remember their show being very entertaining, even if I wasn't planning on bringing a guy. Upon entering, I was initially assigned a spot on a bar stool. After sitting there for a while, I asked to move to a bench. Sitting on a bar stool for extended periods of time isn't comfortable for me. Luckily, it wasn't too busy (yet), so I found another spot. Later, the place started filling up considerably. From the second show onward, at least all the benches were occupied, and some of the bar stools further back were as well. A friendly papasan confirmed my suspicion that the boy I had my eyes on at first was "boy" and not "gay." But he would point out which boys were gay during the next parade. And he did. With his laser pointer. When the parade ended, he gathered four of the gay boys from that evening. Without me knowing, they were suddenly all standing behind me. And asked if I could pick one. Awkward. But helpful. A boy who had been smiling at me during the parade was the nicest one in my opinion. So I agreed to have a drink with him during the next show. The boy confirmed that he was up for "anything" and would happily join me to make me "happy." I held my ground. And after we sat close together during the show, with my hand occasionally running over his muscles and his hand on my knee, I told him I'd love to come back next time and take him along. I did give him 200 baht as a tip for his time and company. He was great company, especially because he spoke reasonable English. By the way, he claimed to be from Bangkok. Originally. I don't hear that very often. Most Thai guys I talk to in bars are from somewhere in the countryside.

Not sure if I’ll do a full trip report on my 12 nights here — it’s Pattaya, so you already know the drill. Some great nights, some “why did I leave my room for this,” and plenty of the familiar patterns.... I did go with a Dream Boys guy that was able to cum 2 times, 3 nights in a row 😳 Tonight was supposed to be my quiet night because I’m heading to Bangkok tomorrow and actually wanted to be fresh. But Mr. Bacardi had other plans, so I ended up at Cocka2 in the Complex having “just a couple.” I finished off what was left in my bottle and was fixing to leave (that’s a Texan phrase), when I noticed a cute guy selling food from this giant bag. Went over to chat. He said he was 19, which… my eyes told me otherwise, so I had one of the waiters check his ID — turns out he’s 29. So I switched to my limited flirty Thai and told him he was handsome… nit noi, lol. He asked me for 100 baht, and I jokingly said, “Do you want to boom boom me for 1000?” His eyes popped open like I’d just offered him a winning lottery ticket. He goes, “I boom boom YOU?” all shocked. I said sure — “You have POWER?” He said yes, although let’s just say it took him a while in the room to find it 🙄 So off we went, giant bag of food products and all. Once inside, he had quite the bush happening, so I told him, “Let’s use the clippers and trim that shit — it’ll look bigger.” Into the shower he went, trimming the forest (and his pits), and I pray the drain survives. The sex itself? Very mediocre. He needed straight porn to get going, and it took a while, but we both got there in the end. Honestly, the whole scenario — the randomness, the bag of food, the ID check, the shower trim — was fun. Still… not your average Pattaya night or is it 😝, which somehow made it all worth it 🤷‍♂️

PART 2 On my third day in HCMC I wanted to try Aroma Spa. This is situated on the western side of the city, nowhere near any metro station, so it involved a 30- 40 minute ride in a grab car, but definitely worth the effort. The Spa has a website: http://aromaspakhang.com/n3.html which helpfully has pictures of the boys on offer, labelled with their names. I WhatsApped in advance and persuaded myself to splash out on a 90 minute, 4-hands water massage with a 300,000 Dong supplement each for the guys to cum, which the manager kindly discounted for me to 400,000 Dong for the two to do it. So 3,200,000 Dong in all, but that is still less than a quarter of what I would have to pay 2 escorts in London for just an hour. I chose Minh and Chi Dân. When I arrived at the reception, the manager sat me down and tried to persuade me to add even more of his boys to the mix, but I managed to restrain myself. There was no need to use lockers here. We proceeded upstairs to a spacious room. with two low level massage beds pushed together, and a large bathroom with a jacuzzi style bath, and a flat large oblong bath for the water scrub. You could disrobe and keep all your belongings here in comfort. Minh immediately stripped naked and using a hand held shower started washing me all over with lots of teasing touches. I then had to lie on the large flat shallow bath for an enervating salt scrub, front and back. After they had towelled me down they led me to the massage bed and both boys stared kissing my chest, and on we went from there, with exquisite pleasures of sucking, both guys fucking me, passioate kissing, finally both came in my mouth. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. After that I just had to return before leaving HCMC, so on my last full day I headed back to Aroma at around 5pm. I WhatsApped ahead to book Minh again (who is quite cute, thin and very affectionate) and another more hunky guy with tattoos called Dŭng. The Grab car journey was about 35 minutes, but in the brightly lit streets of HCMC there is always something to look at. Once again, when I arrived the manager tried to intest me in additional boys, but budgetary constraints meant I had to decline. On both visits, incidentally, I did not see any other clients at Aroma. I had the same spacious room again, but this time the salt scrub came after the fun, but we started, again with Minh showering with me and teasing. This time they both fucked me, but also Dŭng fucked Minh while he was lying on top of me kissing passionately. Seeing this was too much for me and I climaxed mid way through, but then they both came in my face later. After the salt scrub, they but me in the delightful warm jacuzzi bath, and Minh got in with me for some more playing around in the water (which Chi Dăn had done the first time actually, I omitted to mention). Afterwards, down in the reception, water, cans of a red-bull type energy drink (definitely needed) and some snacks available. So all in all truly memorable experiences at the place.

I had quite the opposite experience recently. I held on tightly (and properly) to a motocy taximan around the waist. Then he took my hand and put it down on his crotch. Of course I was quite shocked, but I didn't protest too much. I think for him it was one way of elevating his...tip. And it worked. And no I didn't report him.

I see that Shamelesmack (or Macaroni as he is known on this Forum) is back posting on his blog, and he has put up an updated set of maps of the Silom Area on his blog. Always handy to consult before you travel, he has a subtle colour coding for the massage places that is particularly useful. Map of Silom-Surawong area, October 2025 – ShamelessMack2

Decided to have a few days up in Bangkok to address a touch of retail therapy, 2nd hand Japanese Electronic Goods Market down in Samrong as well as Fortune Town by Rama 9. Also allowed for a catch up with members @Keithambrose and @floridarob (again) as he passed through on his way down to Bali. Met up with @floridarob & @Reader at G’s, and was treated after the meal by Guido to a sharing platter of “Kaiserschmarrn“, literal translation, Emperor’s mess, a traditional German / Austrian dish of shredded pancakes with raisins and “Zwetschgenröster“, or plum jam as we call it in English. Absolutely fantastic. Took a wander over to Rainbow Dragon Bar on Patpong 2 Alley, just across the road from the world famous 7 Star Emporium of Chicken & Cashew Nuts, only 1 other couple there when we arrived, music not OTT so easy to hold a conversation. Also gets my vote as serves an excellent tonic water, rather than the yellow canned variety that ubiquitous to Thailand and SEA that destroys any taste or texture of a decent gin. 3 other groups arrived before we left, so all booths in use, plus a couple at the bar. Following evening met up again at Wine Connection at Silom Complex for a pizza. As the name implies, there is a mini wine cellar, so you can have a rummage and choose your wine which is costed at shop price, so no restaurant mark-up or corkage fee. Wine, 2 pizzas, 1 garlic bread and a water was 1,545:50THB. Beware any Coke drinkers, this is a Pepsi place. Also, you get 10% discount off the food element of your bill if you pay via a Thai Bank. Next headed over to Fresh Boys in Patpong 2 Alley to catch the end of the 22:15 show. Luckly wasn’t raining, so the steps were easily manageable. No entry fee, but 400THB per drink. The Candle show was free flowing with wax, unfortunately the boys were wearing Speedo’s, consequently, no encore of a self-made Church Pillar candle! A bit of grimacing by the boy on the receiving end of the Sadistic Show when being battered. Room was full, with a large party taking up the far-right side as you walk in, so only the stage facing seating and window side seating available for customers. Stayed for the 22:55 show as well, large cocks on display throughout, shower show extremely frothy, and the best bit was the display of “Tubular Bells”, admittedly; not very musical, as the same Dance Pole was used throughout, a couple of boys winced after their display! Did notice all boys wearing condoms, so good to know the venue is practicing safe-sex! After the Pole show, the boys wandered about soliciting a grope and a feel for a tip. Due to complete lack of apparel, no @vinapu tucks were administered. Bade goodnight to @Reader and headed down to Midnight Bar for another drink. For those not familiar with Midnight, it’s on street level underneath Fresh Boys & Hotmale Club. Bottle of beer only 140THB, Spirits from 150 to 220THB, or VSOP Brandy’s at 350THB. Open till 04:00. Noticed various boys dropped in for a quick one (a drink that is!), whilst we stayed till kicking out time. Took a wander over to Soi Than Tawan, and popped in to Than Tawan Bar, PapaSan escorted me in so I could take a butchers (look) inside, venue full, admittedly with slightly more boys than customers, but packed. Said we would return tomorrow and was promised drinks at 350THB before 22:00. Took a look in Super A Boy Cocktail Lounge, nothing doing, so headed off to McDonalds for an early breakfast. Next evening @floridarob and myself met up at Happy Beer Garden for some food, made the mistake of not realising the page of Tiger Prawn dishes were sold by weight, so was shocked at the 950THB at the end. Did taste delicious though! Wandered over to Than Tawan to take advantage of the pre 22:00 discount. True to their word, drinks at 350THB. 1 other customer present. Boy drinks at 500THB, and Off-Fee at 1,000! Plenty of boys on show, full muscle, large but not bulging muscle, Twunks, and wannabe Twunks; aka Twinks. About 16 different performers whilst we were there across the 4 displays. Left just after 22:00 as the drinks went up, slight detour via Super A to check the merchandise and headed back to Patpong 2 Alley, popped my head into Good Boy, relatively busy. Drinks at 400, shows at 22:00, 23:30 & 01:00, and via the Underwear stall (real, genuine designer swimmers, briefs and shorts all from 50THB) on Silom Road; just in front of Silom Edge, ended back down to Midnight. ‘Me Colleague’ fell to the perversive charms of the local basket girl and ended up buying a collection of battery powered cat toys. After a couple of beers, called it a night and headed off.

I walked by today and here’s a quick update. They were working on the bar with the question mark and I saw the owner of M-Bar there so it looks like he could be adding it to his existing portfolio on M-Bar and Sunee Bar. I should have taken a photo when I went by the first time and the door was open. The Dragon Music Lounge will be reopening soon under new ownership. A guy at Sunbar told me it’s going to be called PP Bar. Fun Bar is undergoing major renovations. I’m not sure if the name will change.

My first attempt at a report here, please go easy me! I just returned from my latest trip to BKK, and my first trip since Atlas opened, I was very keen to check out the new competition to Tawan. It was a Friday night, the scene was quite busy, the outside of Atlas looks very impressive, modern, my anticipation was rising. I entered to find a very large and well appointed venue, with one customer, and 6 very ordinary looking guys on stage, 4 skinny fat, and 2 beefy (the beefy were a possibility failing all else) certainly no muscle. These guys looked totally bored, hardly looked at us, could not even raise a smile, not even interacting with each other.The other customer finished his beer and left, that left me the only customer, being totally ignored and feeling rather awkward. I called one of the staff over and interviewed them for a bit, I was told there would be no show and assured that Saturday night would be crowded! I wished them luck and headed to my beloved Tawan Bar... There I was greeted with smiles and guys asking me to flex, and flexing at me. The place was reasonably crowded, I was given my table in prime position. The guys ranged from twinks, to beefy, to real muscle. There were at least 4 guys that I would consider, one a very cute young guy with some good firm tight muscle, he will grow well if he wants to, and one bodybuilder just recently from winning several titles. He saddled up to me, was very attentive and spoke reasonable English. The guys on stage still look bored, and still using their phones, but they do at least look up, smile, and interact if you catch their eye. They also have fun and give cheek with each other on stage and with the staff in the audience. This gives the place the fun friendly vibe that was totally lacking in Atlas. Come Saturday night I returned to Atlas, same disinterested guys, no audience, so again no show....So it was back to the fun and frivolity of Tawan, where the place was busier than the night before, the guys even more attentive to see my return, and my bodybuilder guy got an excursion to my hotel I think I will give Atlas the new name of Alas.... I am totally at a loss why anyone would open a bar in direct completion to a long established venue and not only copy but surpass all that is wrong with the original! Both bars need a huge revamp (Oh god I could get these places heaving!) but Atlas is not going to survive if they don't act soon! Oh well, at least I don't have to change my user name

Caught up with @floridarob on Wednesday as he’s in town for some nosh and a wander. Started off at Nano’s CheeseSteak & Burgers restaurant over on Soi L K Pavilion which is off South Pattaya Road. As the name implies, choice of 2 items, CheeseSteaks or Burgers. Meat all from Australia, bread made freshly on the premises daily. Closed on Mondays. Somewhat bloated, walked down S. Pattaya Road towards Tukcom, then left on the side of Tukcom, then first right, pass Relax@Me Massage shop, where ‘me colleague’ met last nights ‘masseur’. Business was quiet, 2 boys out front, with 1 working inside. Left at Relax@me, pass Helios, aka The Blue Door. Did notice only a few shoes outside, so again, not busy. Right at the end onto ‘Sip Chet’ then first left then immediate first right onto Pattaya Soi 17, then wandered down to what was called Nice Boys, now called “Boys NighClub”. An interesting choice of name, “Boys AlmostClub” or Boys LocatedAShortDistanceAway Club”. Same mamasan on the front door, and the ‘Old Woman’ was still there loitering. @floridarob briefed the mamasan to keep the ‘Old Woman’ away before we entered. A bit disappointed, last year the boys were in their underwear, this year in shorts. 5 initially on show, then cut back to 4, as one disappeared out the back, obviously we weren’t his type. 2 locals inside and us 2 farangs. Drinks are 200THB, Boys drinks 300THB, with Off-fee at 500THB. A bloke entered wearing a blue hooped T-Shirt, looking like a Greek fisherman, that was the extent of patrons for the 30ish minutes we were there. A couple of the boys were a bit playful and smiling, although one was mostly glued to his phone, ‘Me Colleague’ engaged verbally with them both, concluding 1 was slightly large, the other Thai average. The other 2 weren’t engaging. One of the dancers was late 30’s if not early 40’s. Settled our bill, with a couple of tips administered using the @vinapu method, you know who too, then took a wander. Left out of “Boys NighClub”, then first left, walked pass the past, the old “Krazy Dragon”, boarded up, in fact all the old bars / shops were all boarded up on that part of the Soi. First left the first right, and “Winner Boy Bar” neon sign was the only sign of any life. “Euroboy$” bar was shuttered, “Rainbow” bar was open, but no punters. About 5 boys in their underwear were outside, however all jumped to attention and escorted us in. No other customers, however, within a minute of sitting down another farang entered, shortly followed by ‘Phil The Greek’. Drinks cheaper at 178THB, Boys drinks were 250THB, can’t remember the Off Fee. All boys happily fitted the Twink category, on stage we had 1 grey, a white and 3 blacks, referring to the underwear colour, of course. Interestingly, we were offered cushions as we sat down! Did check they were presentable!!. The first farang that entered after us did call down one of the boys, so business very quiet. The bar is owned by a Dane who was back in Denmark, so apart from the boys working and the Twinky barman, the place was running it’s self. For what could be the last of the Twinky Go-Go bars, if busy carries on as it is, this will be closing and ending an era. Settled our bill with Grey Trunks (see photo), as he was the one in front of us the whole-time dancing on an overturned old industrial reel of cable, tuck performed, (above average) and mutual sharing of the finger smell. As we left after 45 minutes or so, did notice there were another 3 suitably attired boys outside, so 8 in total working. Grabbed a BOLT and headed to CockA2 for some serious drinking.

I traveled here via Athens, Abu Dhabi then a few dsys near KL. in PP Im staying at Artgur and Paul (excellent choice, btw) and a guy at pool recommended a bar "Asia Cam Bar" about a mile away. The crowd was youngish, mixture of a few foreigners and a few 20 ish muscle types and some very, very 'me' twinks. I suspect some of the locals were looking for money, but it seemed non commercial. The music not so loud I chatted with a visiting Oz guy over a few Stoli martinis, made per instruction. A brought a slim, hopelessly cute twink back. He turned out to be a most enthusiastic, well equipped top. We parted company after a dreamy long cuddle covered in what felt like half a pint of cum. The whole vibe reminded me of Bangkok in the 80s. No money was demanded but a tip of $30 was obviously ecpected and graciously accepted. I'm in heaven. I will cherish that look of angelic ecstasy as the lad released his load forever. I also tried Soma Spa near Riverside. More (recommended, more on that later). I used to be pure top, but age and these Khmer boys is turning me into a cock hungry bottom. Thank heavens for PreP!

Alright I shall answer my own question… 🤣 Arrived in Bangkok just in time for Halloween! Glad to report that the bar shows have NOT been toned down, and still the same way I enjoy and remember them. Visited Jupiter and Fresh Boys on the night of 31 October (Halloween). The crowd at Jupiter was surprisingly sparse at 10:15pm with only three tables filled, and I was assigned a perfect seat right in front of the stage. The waiters were dressed as Annabelle, Chucky (and other fictional monsters I’m unable to identify), while the boys were in their jeans for the first parade, and white undies for the second. Tipped three boys who smiled at me as they walked past. Great face great body, I would have off-ed anyone of them! On the other hand, Fresh Boys was almost full-house at 11:45pm, with about 15 boys on stage, and 10 boys sitting with customers. The show began with a special Halloween item, where three boys danced fully cloaked in black. Yes, fully cloaked. Very underwhelming. But as usual, the show climaxed (pun not intended) with 8 boys taking turns to hit that pole with their cocks. Gotta mention that #25 really caught my eye, and he was the only one I tipped. Defined pecs with a huge apparatus, and adorably endearing with his awkward dance moves. I don’t remember seeing him previously (or maybe I just wasn’t paying attention)… Anyone knows if #25 is new with Fresh Boys? Might return again to off #25, but I’m not confident of handling that huge apparatus… WISH ME LUCK!

Day 13 Kanchanaburi It seems there is some special event for high school students taking place in Kanchanaburi sponsored by a local university. Not sure of the event purpose, but the students are from Bangkok and I am assuming they attend a private school with English being the main language. Instructors were all native English speakers. This resort is quite large, so with the exception of breakfast this morning, we haven’t seen much of them. There is a Convention Pavilion on the property which is where most of their activities are taking place. Restaurant staff seemed slightly frazzled trying to deal with 100+ teenagers plus all of their regular guests. Our out today is to Hellfire Pass. Both the museum/cemetery visit yesterday, and this trip to Hellfire Pass were very emotional. We heard the harrowing stories of how the 500-meter-long and 26-meter-deep section of rock was dug out by Prisoners of War using no more than picks, hammers and their bare hands. Exploring the Hellfire Pass Memorial Museum gave me cause for some serious reflection. My father was in the army during World War II, and was stationed in the Philippines. As I was looking at the exhibits and reading the stories, even though he was not a POW I stopped to think what if he had been captured and sent here. Conditions were just horrific. It really brought tears to my eyes. It is quite a physical trek, about 70 meters down, but there is a well-built and maintained path. Be aware it includes many sections of steep steps, however. You also should come prepared with spray for the mosquitos. They are quite abundant and very hungry. Once on the trail, there are no restrooms available, no return services, and no water…so go prepared. You need to plan for more than just one hour here…we spent probably three hours at the site before departing for lunch. The museum and pass were actually built/developed by the Australian government. They maintain the site, and even pay the salaries of workers. We drove about 20 minutes from the Museum to a local restaurant for lunch of traditional Thai dishes: minced pork w/holy basil, chicken wings, shrimp in tamarind sauce, green vegetable and soup. The shrimp dish and green vegetable are unique or special to this area of Thailand. Soup was all vegetables in some sort of a tomato based broth, but not spicy at all. After lunch we headed back to the river for a long tail boat ride enjoying the mountains and jungle scenery, ending with a taste of culture at Mon Tribal Village. Busy day, but very satisfying as well. Group had dinner together at the hotel restaurant…a very nice buffet dinner with a mix of Thai and Western (fried chicken nuggets and baked macaroni and cheese). Depart for Sukhothai in the morning. And, of course, been chatting with Bee. Actually good the tour is keeping me so busy that it is serving as a distraction from not being able to see him again this trip. ‘sigh’ Heard from Sam at Paradise again as well. Kind of given up on the idea of anything with the cute bus attendant. He is always busy helping everyone and that's his job...I get it. Once we are dropped off at the hotel, the bus, driver and attendant all disappear. The only one we ever see around the hotel is the tour director until our pick up time the next day. No idea where those two are actually eating and sleeping. Besides...keeping my focus on Bee at the moment.

As much as I could fit in, plus cum!

So I went to Wabi Sabi. The interior was very nicely decorated. Comparing the interior to Kmanspa that I went to last time it was much brighter and minimal. I booked one of the guys that was available today via Line. He was as gorgeous as the pictures say and had a fun masculine vibe about him. I decided I would go with the flow and enjoy the massage from this sexy dude regardless if extras materialized or not. I'm not a fan of the massage table because it didn't have a hole for your chin so after an hour on my stomach my chin and jaw were feeling uncomfortable. Upon entering he asked me to take a shower so I did and changed into a robe. I also helped myself to some mouthwash but that was in vain. I laid on my stomach and he began the massage. He had great pressure, almost too much at times but he asked if it was alright. He definitely brushed against some areas very strategically so I had a feeling I knew where this was going. It was booked as a two hour massage. At about the one hour mark he asked if he could use the bathroom and I said ok. About 13 minutes later he comes out and continues the massage. Twice during the massage he put me into very suggestive positions with our bodies entwined. With about 25 minutes left he asked "do you want B2B?" I asked what that means and he said body to body for 1500 tip. I of course said yes and he stripped down. He had beautiful tattoos all over his chest and back that reminded of the full body ones that the Japanese yakuza get. So sexy! So then he gets to work with a focus on my nips while he works my piece with his oily hand. It was great but it wasn't quite doing it for me and I knew we were running out of time. He had been turning me on so much earlier but for some reason his tactics weren't going to get me finished in time so I took over while he focused his efforts on getting me off. He had made a comment wondering why I wasn't nearing climax and I didn't feel like explaining. One of my hands was kinda touching his muscled tattooed arms and back while I was pumping away. I honestly just wanted to explore his body and maybe a kiss but he never got near my lips. Well I kinda kissed the back of his head once or twice. He then made an executive decision and slipped a finger into my butt ever so slightly and he could tell it was well placed. As I was nearing climax he kept pushing in a little more until I shot. It felt great. We went over time by about ten minutes but that's fine due to his long bathroom break. I paid him the money and asked if he's working tomorrow and sadly he's not. I may have booked him again but I don't think it wise of me to book him again tonight if I really plan on offing a guy or two from Freshboys or some other place. Now to get a meal somewhere and get ready for tonight. I probably need to go to the ATM again because I don't think my 10700 baht is going to be enough as I've already spend over 7k.

Day 15 Sukhothai I had never heard of Sukhothai before this trip, nor really knew much about the history of Thailand. Sukhothai is known as the birthplace of Thai civilization. Our day started with a visit to the UNESCO listed Sukhothai Historical Park where we had a chance to explore the centuries old temples and palace ruins. One interesting fact to me was that prior to Buddhism, many people were actually Hindu and you can see a mixture of both Hinduism and Buddhism in many of the old temples. Under royal patronage, Buddhism flourished and many impressive monasteries were constructed of brick covered with carved stucco. The Kingdom of Sukhothai is credited with the invention and development of many of the unique identifying characteristics of Siamese (Thai) culture, many of them attributed directly to the kingdom’s most famous and beloved King Ramkhamhaeng, who is considered the Founding Father of the Thai Nation. Stone inscriptions found at the sites provided evidence of the earliest examples of Thai writing and gave a detailed account of the economy, religion, social organization and governance of the Sukhothai Kingdom. The area of Sukhothai was also home to accomplished innovators in hydraulic engineering. They modified the landscape of the kingdom in such a way that water was dammed; reservoirs, ponds and canals were constructed; flooding controlled; and water was brought to serve a variety of agricultural, economic and ritual functions as well as to provide the towns’ inhabitants with water for their daily lives and protection in the form of city moats. From that day onwards, the kings of Thailand have been acknowledged for their ability to control the kingdom’s water. The Sukhothai Kingdom was known as a prosperous time and place, and in Thai history has often been referred to as a Golden Age, The Happiness of Thai, or The Dawn of Happiness. I highly recommend a visit to this area. We followed up our visit to the Historical Park with a foodie adventure…Thai Cooking Class. We went to the Baan Suan Suda Cooking School where our host gave us a tour of their garden with homegrown herbs, vegetables and fruits. Next we sorted out the different ingredients we would need to prepare our dishes getting to experience the Thai version of farm to table. At the conclusion we were able to feast on the amazing dishes we prepared: Sweet/Sour Chicken, Cashew Chicken, Chicken Green Curry, Stir-fried Morning Glory, and Pad Thai. We finished off with fresh fruit from the garden called Thai Lamoot…something new to me. After lunch we had two hours to relax in our rooms or around the hotel swimming pool before meeting to attend Sukhothai Loy Krathong Festival. With roots going back over 700 years, this ancient festival honors the water goddess and carries deep cultural meaning. A unique part of the celebration is Phao Thian Len Fai— the lighting of candles and fireworks displays as well as various forms of live entertainment. I assume this tradition must be a part of Thai identity and cultural pride, similar to the festivals scheduled to take place in Bangkok (Light Show) and Pattaya (Fireworks). Celebrations have been toned down somewhat due to the passing of the Queen Mother, so there were no fireworks displays, but plenty of candle lighting and other light displays. We saw intricate krathonhs, sky lanterns and even historical recreations from King Ramkhamhaeng’s era. Enjoyed many different types of food from street vendors for dinner. Continue to communicate with Paradise Sam and boyfriend Bee on a daily basis. Just taking things slowly, day by day...see where it goes.

He's 19 (I asked), and I wouldn't say he's particularly attractive, just a nice young guy. It was a bit of a strange situation. At first, his father tried to sell me perfume by rubbing it all over my hands. I was sitting, and he was standing right in front of me, with a distinct bulge under his white dress. Of course, he noticed I was looking there sometimes. But then I started haggling (I can't stop, and usually the salespeople are ready to kill me), and in the end, the price was pretty low. That's when he brought his son, introduced us, and left the shop, standing outside. The boy tried to sell me all sorts of useless things, and then offered to come to my place and have sex. But my hotel didn't allow guests, so I wasn't too keen on the idea. I continued sitting, and he decided to show me a papyrus. He turned off the light, unfolded the image, and shone a flashlight on it (I'm not sure why they do that). While I was looking, he lifted his dress, pulled down his underwear, and began to show me his cock. It was a neat, medium-sized brown dick with a beautiful head. The boy took my hand and placed it on his dick, which was already rock-hard. Then he whispered, "Papyrus for 30 euros, and my juice as a gift." By this time, I was already very aroused, sank to the floor, and began sucking him off. At first, he simply stood there, but then he grabbed my head and began to fuck, driving his cock deeper. After a few of minutes, he inserted it all the way inside and, without letting go, came violently with a small groan. He tucked his cock in, called his father for me to pay, and left. I took the papyrus and perfume, and on the way out, his father told me to come back tomorrow. He stood behind me, grabbed my hips, and pressed his hand against my back (I was slightly bent over). Then he made a sharp movement, as if thrusting his dick into my ass. He patted me on the back and, smiling, walked me to the door. Sorry for the long text, sometimes it's hard for me to be brief

I've been going to Thailand every year since 2012. There were two years I even went twice. I know, I can't quite match some other forum members here in that respect. Like @vinapu, who suddenly shows up unannounced in Bangkok about every two months (I like to exaggerate). But I'd still call myself a seasoned Thailand-goer. For the first two years, I was amazed and disbelieving by the shows full of nudity and sex, and the ease with which you could select and "buy" boys to go with you via a number tag on their underwear. But those days are long gone. You don't surprise or shock me that easily anymore. I also think the shows have become less explicit in general. Of course, there are still plenty of "big dicks" on parade during showtime. But... I don't encounter a nude underwater show or the acrobatic fuck scenes where the boys hang in rings live on stage in the trapege anymore. But I still enjoy visiting different boy bars and looking for the nicest, most handsome guy who's also into the things you're looking for. In short: I'm back in Thailand! First a week in Bangkok, then a week in Pattaya, and then another week in Bangkok. I'm going to try to write an interesting trip report

@abidismaili - I hope you're not thinking that somehow boys treat some other forum members better (by quickly shedding their clothes) than they treat you 🤣 It varies depending on the shop's policy, and also may vary depending on the boy. Most Type 2 shops, e.g. those in Silom Soi 6, want to maintain an image of real massage, and the boys negotiate inside the room. Obviously, it won't make sense for them to strip until negotiations are successful. The Type 4 shops such as Prince and Arena are "all-inclusive" and so there's less need to maintain any image of wholesomeness. It can also vary with the boy, or with how familiar with boy is with you. My regulars, even at Type 2 shops, strip from the start because they know that that's where we're going.

Final update: The last stop was Takki from Tokyo kids. https://kids-jp.com/tken/boysp.html?key=1747825636 I got him straight from the shop. I was shown upstairs into a room and asked to wait for him. I had come twice already that same night in 24 kaikan onsen, so I didn’t mind that he was marked “for oral sex only” in the menu, I thought I couldn’t do much more fucking anyway. He turned up looking exactly like his pictures and wearing a high school uniform adapted with recent fashionable additions that young men like to wear. I didn’t need that but I can see that it must appeal to the local clients. I undress him and we started with kissing and after shower, I spent most of the time licking his cute adorable body. The guy had hair on his pubes, and very few in his armpits, but none anywhere else: no hair around his hole and none on his balls. I sucked him a lot and then rimmed him extensively which he was obviously not used to. His ass was firm, hairless and completely blemish-free, so I really enjoyed spending a lot of time with my nose and tongue in there. I think that opened his mind about fucking because he did open his legs to give my tongue more easy access. when I went back to sucking him he let me finger him a bit at the same time. I put some lube up his ass to do that. I was so hard I thought I should try my luck and open his legs and rub my cock against his hole. He didn’t mind and actually let me put the tip in. I managed to make very small movements inside him while jerking him off which was enough, after quite a long time, for me to cum inside him. So now I can claim I bred a guy that was “only for oral sex” at TK. I gave him an extra 5000 as a tip for letting me cum inside him. I am really sorry that I have to leave Japan and their cheap agency boy prices. I didn’t have time to try the Danshi Gakuen or “An independence” agencies which are in the same area, too much good choices from these two places.

BANGKOK DAY 2 If I have time in between, I'll write something for my trip report. But it is, of course, a vacation after all. So I won't be updating daily. The second day in Bangkok. Time to change hotels to the luxurious Le Méridien. I always love the rooms here. Beautiful, spacious bathroom. Wonderful bath to relax in. And the beds are very comfortable. The breakfast buffet is truly extensive. Delicious. Another forum member also checked into the Méridien the same day I did. While chatting, we discovered we'd been given rooms on the same floor. What are the odds of that in a 24-story hotel? We decided to have a drink together that evening to get acquainted. He was already sitting on the terrace of Shenanigans, and I went to find him there. We had a nice, friendly chat. We then decided to walk around the corner together to check out one of the boy bars. We decided to go to Freshboys. They had a good selection of guys. I'd say there was something for everyone. My eye fell on number 9. He had curly hair, which made him stand out among all the other guys. He seemed very shy. Inquiring revealed he was from Myanmar and was "flexible" gay. Fellow forum member had left a bit earlier, and after I'd finished my drink, I decided to check out Dreamboy. It used to be my favorite boy bar back in the Soi Twilight days, the first few times I came to Bangkok. Because of its size (two floors) and the many boys. And the spectacular shows. Who doesn't remember the acrobatic sex scenes on stage? And the ladyboys showing off their erect penises? When I entered Dreamboy, I was reminded that it's still the biggest boy bar today. A very large stage. And quite a few boys, even though it was already late. It was funny to see that several mamasans/papasans who were already working in Soi Twilight were still there. They were about to close. A papasan who recognized me told me to come earlier tomorrow. He'd find me a really good boy then... I'm curious!

I am in Tokyo right now, staying in Shinjuku. I tried to go to King of College at 8 pm but there were only 2 boys to choose from. https://maps.app.goo.gl/4sTVeFdDsEnbnA3R6?g_st=ic I was told there would be many more around 10 pm. One of the 2 guys was quite handsome, but since the Tokyo kids bar is just around the corner, I left to see what was there. https://maps.google.com?q=35.6903454,139.7076577&entry=gps&lucs=,94297699,94275411,94224825,94227247,94227248,94231188,94280568,47071704,47069508,94218641,94282134,94203019,47084304,94286869&g_st=ic That bar doesn’t actually have guys present, you choose one from an iPad. I chose Daiya which I had my eye on from a very long time (been planning this trip and have a long list of boys I want to try) https://kids-jp.com/tken/boypc.html?key=1726463879 So the bar is useless because you choose the guy on an iPad, then he comes from the other TK location (https://maps.app.goo.gl/bso3mJorc34ZSN1Z6?g_st=ic) to pick you up, and take you back there where they have the bedrooms! They didn’t even offer me a drink while I was waiting for him. I recommend you go straight to their main location and avoid the bar. Once in the room, we kissed, then showered, and then got to it. God what a good choice! What a trooper! He was very very friendly throughout. His skin is not as flawless as in the pictures but he looks amazing. He has also bulked up since the pics where taken you can properly feel his abs. He is verse and I decided I wanted to get fucked, so I asked him to do that. He did so for 30 minutes non stop! He was so tender and attentive and was so into it at the same time, kissing me looking straight into my eyes, I could also sense he was focusing on his own pleasure which I found quite hot. He is not doing just because of the money, he wants some pleasure out of it. After about 20 minutes of missionary his cock hit just the right spot while his abs were rubbing against my cock (which he had lubbed up). It felt so good I came hands free! He did notice but kept going. I was his hole for the hour and not just a customer. He fucked me hard for another ten minutes and then came deep inside me. I was in heaven. I asked if I could fuck him next time and he said yes. Strong recommended if you can book him. I had another 3 guys from that area, I will report a bit later.

Day 20 - Chiang Mai Today I will meet Woody from Siam Roads. Originally we were going to connect the next day, but as a convenience to us both we agreed to change the day. Woody was great at communication, and picked me up at the Empress Hotel on the agreed upon time. I specifically wanted to visit an elephant sanctuary, so that was first on the agenda. It was about an hour drive outside of Chiang Mai. It had been raining off and on during the time in Chiang Mai, so weather was going to be a factor. Fortunately, we had the entire morning seeing the elephants without any rain. Stayed here through lunch, and then Woody had a large temple complex he thought I would be interested in seeing. Quite impressive, I agree, and glad he suggested it. Returned to the city late afternoon and went by Classic House where I was able to get a massage (yes, with extra service). That definitely helped to lift my spirits, but also spending time with Woody was nice and a good distraction from the Bangkok drama. Went to a really nice night market where we had some dinner together before returning to the Empress for some much needed rest. Highly recommend Woody’s tour guide services to anyone planning to visit Northern Thailand.

Kaikan Onsen: First Impressions Straight away you’ll notice how different Kaikan feels compared with some of the older saunas in Bangkok like Sauna mania. There’s a modern sleekness to the building, a strong Japanese aesthetics/minimalist vibe. Plenty of pools and zones, a real men‑only playground. It has a spacious main pool and a long jacuzzi pool beside it. It is the only onsen style men facility with outdoor pool in Bangkok. All others are entirely indoors. The Crowd & Vibe This place is not cliquey in the way that some places can feel (“you must know someone, you must be part of a group…”). It leans open and inclusive. Body types? Everything from lean twinks to more mature guys, a lot in their 30s to 40s, comfortable in their bodies, relaxed rather than hyper‑sculpted. With an occasional bear. Age range seems broader too, older guys show up, they mix in, and there’s less of that “everyone must be 23 and ripped” pressure than in some rivals. Please do your research on the onsens before you go. Ryuu onsen for example is notorious in being cliquey and making those who don’t fit their criteria feel unwelcome. While the onsens in Bangkok does not have clear age boundaries like many saunas in Japan. That does not mean you are made to feel welcome everywhere (!) Facilities Worth Mentioning Outdoor pool: one of the few gay men‑only onsen/sauna venues in Bangkok that features a proper outdoor pool area. Multiple zones: steam room, sauna, milky bath, cold pool, and a “cave”‑style milky pool that gets a lot of thumbs up for mood. Lockable cabins and private rooms upstairs, good for chilling or more discreet chats. The place is “busy but not chaotic” and the crowd “friendly, educated”. Please bring condoms and lube if you intend to spend early time in the lockable or not so lockable cabins upstairs. If you want to attend the secret hour, then lube and condoms are provided free of charge. The “Secret Hour” There’s a special moment from around 8:30 pm upstairs where things shift. Models in glowing necklaces appear; and are available for fun in public. The vibe becomes more party‑charged, play enters into the mix, orgiastic. If you’re comfortable with more “social” or “interactive” atmospheres, this is when the scene deepens. Pro Tips: Arrival earlier in the evening gets you better space in the pool areas; if you turn up late, you might find the premium spots taken. While the place feels inclusive, staff are a bit tight lipped. Pricing is transparent but premium compared with some older saunas (450B during weekend). Also be aware of the day (complete nude day etc check their facebook beforehand) Also you will be informed which models will be attending the secret hour. I will not review the facilities in depth as this has been done on YouTube:

Ha,ha.. I am also wrapping up a two day visit to Bangkok. Huge thanks to the commenters who recommended Arena. Ten seconds after my walking in, a guy walked in from an adjoining room and I pointed and said "Him" as he was the only guy there with facial hair which for some reason has become really important to me. As it turned it out he's exactly what I was hoping for, older, he says 40, with a ruggedly handsome face, a flat belly with some visible abs and beautiful brown skin. He's very pleasant and delightfully comfortable to be with. He says he grew up in farming country a few hours from Bangkok and showed me a couple of staged photos from when he was young in a farm field in traditional Thai clothing. He is exceptionally handsome in the photos and I asked if he had wanted to get into modeling and he nodded yes, but I'm not sure he understood me. When I asked he said he has a girlfriend. We've had two very enjoyable meetings and I will see him again tomorrow before my flight. I was also at Fresh Boy last night. I went about 9:30. I suppose old fat tourists are a target because they sat me in the front row in front of the stage. The guys were lined up doing a rotation on the stage. Most were too twinky for me, but one in his 20s started making faces and gestures at me and later sat with me for a drink. He said his name is Noah. He did a solo dance number as a cowboy and was a back up dancer a bit later. I told him I couldn't stay up to 1 am and he waved over a fixer guy. We settled on 3,000 for Noah, the house fee and a room upstairs. I assume they assumed it wouldn't take long for Noah get back downstairs and they were right. But I left happy, He's a sexy guy and I got a mouthful of sweet leche. I'm not sure if it's @Olddaddy who often mentions the breakfast special at Foodland. But I went there this morning to get as much of the GayGuides Bangkok experience as possible. The Grab experience at the airport was chaos but once I realized the number on my confirmation was the car's license plate I calmed down and it went smoothly. Extra special thanks to @floridarob who has been so helpful and patient with me in answering questions about Asian destinations. It made a big difference for my first stop in Bali and several 'massage'nfun' guys can also be grateful. Cambodia is next.

Today is my final day in Bangkok. I'll check out of my hotel at 11am and have them store my bag until I'm ready to go to the airport. I'm waiting to receive some Line messages about which masseurs are available. Maybe I'll go to The Green for a midday foot massage that might turn into something more. I've got 3500 baht remaining since I didn't off that second guy last night. I did mention choosing a second boy to my Lao Freshboy last night but he didn't really react. I got the impression that he preferred me all to himself or did not want to top a boy for me. Maybe next time! I promised to let him know before my next trip and he's looking forward to being with me for at least a few days then. We didn't agree on a price yet but I'm sure we'll come to an understanding and I'll obviously cover the off fees and all expenses during the time he is with me plus maybe 2k per day for him. A mini review of The Quarter Silom by UHG: It's my second time staying here and I've got to say I really like it. It's in a great location with tons of massage shops nearby. The staff have always been pleasant and I've never had issues bringing a boy back late at night. There's a fantastic pizza restaurant attached to the hotel called 90 Grams. I think I'll go there for lunch as I thoroughly enjoyed it on my last stay. There's also a nice coffee shop underneath the pizza place that I like. I always opt for the Deluxe room with bathtub and breakfast included. Both times I've been put in building 3 which is unattached so I don't even have to go through the lobby at night. Both times I've had a view of 9-Teen massage so it's fun to peak occasionally at the boys as they set up and hang out. I do think some of the boys are hot but I just get intimidated by so many guys looking at me so I usually just walk by and smile. The breakfast is fine. Nothing to write home about but the coffee machine makes cappuccinos and there's plenty of variety to where I can always leave feeling like I've got my money's worth. The rate comes out to $125 per night. They also have luggage storage and a bank ATM on premises. So for my purposes I'll keep staying here until someone on here convinces me to upgrade to something fancier. I usually only stay at Hilton's and Hyatt's because of my credit card points and free nights but I'm worried those hotels might be strict about joiners so I stay here. Haven't got a Line message today yet so I'll use Grab to get a motorbike ride to the MBK Center for some shopping before getting one last massage. I haven't been on the back of a bike for about 22 years since I was in Vietnam at age 17. Seems exciting.

Part 2 It is really a struggle to make an escape from my group at night. A whole day of playing tour guide is enough to get you knackered. So post sunset, even fun feels like a chore. After saying goodnight to my group and telling them I would be out for a massage, I marched my way to Surawong for a proper foot massage. I did not lie. What they do not know is that I went to the bars afterwards (that tiny detail they don't need to know). First stop was Good Boys, where I (and my wallet) were warmly welcomed by the lovely Emma and Tee. Tee looked much healthier this time, which was a relief after his health scare earlier this year. I was genuinely happy to see him looking well since I have no intention of coming back to the news of outliving my favourite papasan. I was guided to my usual seat and quickly noticed the low season mood. It was just me and a South Asian lady who I chatted with briefly before she left. For a while, it was only me until a few more customers arrived. The first show started about an hour late, which is standard low season Bangkok timing if you ask me. Then Boy appeared, my Vietnamese favorite from the last trip. He came over, smiled sleepily, and sat beside me without waiting for an invitation. I did not mind. The roster that night was not exactly inspiring. He looked tired and sleepy, and when I asked why, he mumbled something about being busy during the day. Nam, one of my previous offs, was also there. He approached our table, clearly drunk, and kept chatting endlessly until Emma had to move him elsewhere because he was becoming a nuisance. Boy explained that a customer had come in earlier and drank with Nam. It all made sense. Since Boy looked like he could fall asleep sitting up, I told him straight that I was not offing him tonight. He looked disappointed but agreed and asked if he could sit next to me rather than doing the rotation on stage. He mentioned he really wants to go home but apparently they have to pay a certain amount if they do that. I glanced at the uninspiring roster and agreed. It was actually quite nice sitting next to him, cuddled together, with him occasionally giving me a peck or two while I watched the show. After seeing the gorgeous Mai perform, my longtime crush, and tipping him during his rounds, I decided to move on. I gave Boy a few pink notes and made my way out. Before leaving, I noticed one of the mamasans giving Nam a scolding. Given his drunken state, I doubted it had much effect. As I stepped outside, I saw the handsome Mai, now fully dressed, seated on the couch by the entrance having dinner. Our gaze met, he smiled warmly, and waved goodbye. Do not judge me, but my forty-something heart fluttered. I admit it. Not ready to call it a night, I climbed up to Freshboys. They were also feeling the low season, though the crowd was a bit livelier than downstairs. I quickly scanned the roster and locked eyes with number 37, my unfinished business from last trip. He still looked handsome and jacked, but now wearing number 16. Our eyes met, I smiled, he smiled, and he pointed at himself. I nodded, and he made his way over. “Welcome back,” he said. I asked if he really remembered me, and he replied that I came last Songkran, talked to him, but did not off him. He reminded me that I had promised to off him next time. I chuckled. His memory was sharp. Unlike last time, he was more relaxed and engaging, so I decided to finally keep my word. As we stepped outside, I opened the app to book a taxi. Boat, his name, asked me where my hotel was, and when I showed him, he said we could walk instead. I was surprised but went along. He turned out to be quite chatty, and we talked the whole way. My opinion of him started to change. Maybe last Songkran was just a misunderstanding. At the hotel, we showered together, and I spent a good while in bed just admiring his physique while we chatted. The main event was very enjoyable. He really made an effort, took charge, and was sensual and generous with his body. He took his time, unlike previous offs who rushed to finish so they could leave. It was a big plus that he looked even hotter under my bright hotel lighting than in the bar. If only I were alone on this trip, I would have gone long-time with him. Afterward, we stayed cuddled for a while before he had to leave, making me promise that I would off him again. With his handsome face looking at me intently, I did not have the guts to say no. I promised. And yes, I actually did off him one more time - and I honestly think this will not be the last one.

Day 12 Kanchanaburi Another early morning start. Departure from Bangkok was 6:30am once again. Everyone had to request a to go breakfast box and have luggage downstairs in the lobby by 6:15am so it could be loaded onto the bus. Will be staying at Felix River Kwai Resort for the next two nights. Tour Director said travel time would be around three hours to Kanchanaburi, and I believe most everyone slept for a big portion of that time. Upon arrival we went to the Thailand-Burma Railway Center, and the War Cemetery where over 6000 prisoners of war were laid to rest. I really don’t recall much from my history lessons about the impact of WW2 in this area. Yes, I know there was a famous movie produced about the Bridge over the River Kwai, but I never watched it. Walking through the museum exhibits and reading about how terrible the conditions were for the POW’s, I was curious why more isn’t said. We are constantly reminded about the European front and how terrible the holocaust was, but you hear very little about the Asian front. This stop was a bit of an eye-opener for me, and I want to learn more once I return to Denver. After a couple of hours here, we traveled to see the infamously named Death Railway. We had a delicious traditional Thai lunch at a restaurant near the train station. After lunch we boarded a local train for a ride with gorgeous views over the river and a journey across wooden viaducts. We rode the train for approximately 45-50 minutes before getting off. Our coach was waiting to take us to see the famous bridge. Had a chance to actually walk out on the bridge. The resort is located just a short distance across the river. Had a nice group dinner together to bring our day to a close. Fortunately, no early departure tomorrow for the days activities. Heard from all three of my young men today. Think they were checking up on me. lol. Was actually surprised to hear from the first Grinder guy. Don’t want to encourage him too much since I am really not interested. Sam from Paradise was just checking in, and chatted a few times with Bee throughout the day.

On my last full day in Bangkok, I was wondering what to do, when a message arrived from Grindr. 25yr old Myanmar guy, quite good looking, wanted to be fucked by a daddy. I sent him a pic, thinking that would be the end of it, but no! He was keen. Was on my bed within 15 mins, rock hard cock, passionate kissing , the lot. We had no time to discuss stamps! I duly fucked him, hopefully to his liking, we both came, I got to swallow, and was just wondering how this came about. As members know, I'm over 70, overweight, but it just shows what can happen. Hopefully, it will happen again, who knows!

A different night, I went to check the gay onsen in that same area. https://maps.app.goo.gl/QQoawgDH57KYCBiN6?g_st=ic It works the same as any onsen in terms of the entrance and the towels and the bathrobes, as well as the wet areas etc. if you don’t know what I am talking about, go to a straight one first and learn the ropes of the Japanese Onsen there. From what I saw, the clients were only about 50% Japanese. The rest were tourists. The 24 kaikan Onsen has 3 floors: 2nd floor is the entrance, the lockers and a juice bar which was not manned when I got there, 3rd floor is the wet areas, and 4th floor is the resting areas. There many differences with a straight onsen. First people are not trying to hide their junk at all, showing it seems to be much more common than in another onsen, especially in the wet areas, Second there are dark showers, dark saunas, dark steam rooms and dark “spray” rooms where a lot of sex is happening. I say dark, but you can see well enough to see who you might want to suck or not. Some guys there just hookup in pairs on the spot and start sucking each other and kissing. Some guys just want to suck as many dicks as possible and so open their mouth wide and let anyone who want a BJ enter that mouth. People line up for that. Some guys go for full sex in the semi dark and when that happens a lot of guys gather around to watch and jerk off. Your hand doesn’t necessarily have to grab your own cock in these gatherings, you can grab someone else and usually that is fine. I find that if I start to suck a guy, (rarely rejected except by very young guys, because who doesn’t want to get a free BJ in these situations? Seeing others getting a BJ makes one so horny) then he will soon be happy to, first, jerk me off and then suck me. I got sucked a couple of times and also I fucked one guy in the showers. I was so horny I came in just 2 minutes, a hot hole is irresistible for me. In the resting areas, there are beds that are much more comfortable than, say thermae yu’s sofas and resting chairs. There is also a smoking area and a porn room to watch porn. The beds are proper beds with pillows, fitting sheets and nice mattresses. I felt very comfortable in them. The resting rooms are also pretty dark, much darker than any resting areas in an onsen. Once you are there resting, you will hear the sound of kissing, cock sucking and even fucking in the same room. I found it very nice to relax in a proper bed, knowing that the people around me were having a good time and a really enjoying themselves. If you open your bathrobe to present your ass and open your legs while pretending to sleep, someone will soon come and caress it. If you lie on your back instead and present a hard cock, someone will offer to suck it. I am not attractive but I had some very decent approaches. There was also a cute Japanese guy who was getting fucked in turn by two other Japanese guys. They finished inside him and kissed him goodbye without making him cum. I was watching that and saw he stayed behind lying down and still stroking his cock. I offered to suck him and he seemed so happy to have more action. After a while he was opening his legs wide and asking to get fucked again. I obliged. Fucking a guy full of hot cum is awesome, I hope I can do this more often! I came too quickly but another guy was watching us closely and my bottom was already stroking his cock while I was fucking him, so after I finished I said to him “your turn, he needs more cum”. That guy went in right away. I didn’t stay to watch anymore, I was done for now, and I still wanted to try another cutey at TK so I left them. I hope that hungry bottom got as much cum inside him mixed together as he wanted to have: Those hungry open bottoms provide an amazing service to the community, I wish them all well.

At last, somebody agrees 🤩 I have been saying the same for years, From a business perspective, bars should choose between being a showbar or an offing bar. The conflict between the two business models is such that any bar that tries to do both will have to walk a very narrow line with a high risk of failure. A showbar needs volume because putting up shows is costly. The nature of the shows also tends to feature drag queens who bring no erotic value to gay men (with only rare exceptions). They attract straight audiences, and the bars get addicted to the straight audiences because they need volume (it gets into a vicious cycle). It doesn't take long to drive away gay customers who are the backbone of any offing business model. Show bars also need floor area because they need to accommodate a surge crowd at show time (how else to monetise the hoped-for volume?), backstage space, maybe high ceilings too. Rent costs become significant as a result, yet outside of showtime, you're paying rent for under-utilised space. Banana bar is one such bar teetering on the edge. It succeeds as a showbar but I wonder how many offs the boys there get... and if they don't get enough offs, why work there any more? An offing bar doesn't need a show. It just needs a small, intimate space (e.g. the size of Thantawan bar) with a small stage in a corner. It needs a good slate of boys carefully selected to suit the tastes of whatever customer/market segment the bar is aiming for, from twink to twunk to chunk to hunk. I would recommend that boys go up to the stage one at a time for a 5-minute sensual striptease act (without going "all the way") -- so that customers can see what the physique is like in order to decide on an off. Without a show, there is no need to cater for any surge crowd, so a small bar will do, keeping rent low. There is no need to hire waiters or staff associated with show production. The business focus of such a bar is to get the boys off'd. The above (a pure offing bar) is actually a proven model. Toy Boys operates something similar except that they still have boys standing on stage bored to death. And clearly Toy Boys has staying power. The latest post on ShamelesssMack describes a pure offing bar in Tokyo, King of College. It is a successfull, long-running business. It doesn't even have a strip show. Many of the Sunnee bars were like Toy Boys too, with a primary focus on boys on offer. When they had dancing, my best memories were the bars where the boys moved around the room, dancing right at your table (or on it) thereby creating a personalised experience for the customer. Sunnee bars' demise was not because the model didn't work, it was because their selection of boys skewed strongly to the tasts of a particular generation of western customers and didn't evolve with demographic changes. When that generation of western retirees began dying off, the bars failed to tap into the huge growth in Asian customers in Thailand's tourism profile (which would have necessitated a revamp of the type of boys that bars had). Granted, it's a lot more complicated than that in that Asian gay males have been staying mainly in Bangkok and are much less interested in going to Pattaya. So it is a chicken-and-egg question too. But even this tells us something else - the utter lack of any marketing. Asian gay males will go to Pattaya if businesses would only advertise. But of course, they also need to understand carefully what type of boys Asian customers like and ensure the bar has the desired type. Look at Bangkok's massage parlours, from low end to high end. They're in rude health! They advertise furiously. If only the bars would learn from what they're doing. I have also previously said that an offing bar can add to its sales revenue (and the boys' earnings) by offering private dances in a cubicle: Ten minutes of stripping all the way, gyrating and inviting groping for a reasonable fee, say 500 - 600 baht. This is akin to the sort of personalised fun experience that the best Sunnee bars offered. Through private dancers, boys can earn extra income in addition to being off'd. Customers can "buy" 2 or 3 private dancers to check out 2 or 3 boys before deciding which one to off. Right now, the boys' earning model is more or less an "all or nothing" game. They're either off'd and earn big money, or they earn next to nothing during the evening. Forum members here on gayguides may say that the boys also earn drink tips or "you look handsome" tips, but boys can't earn enough from such tips alone. Furthermore, always bear in mind that fact the customer profile is mainly Asian. Look carefully and the truth is that most Asian customers don't tip as liberally. An Asian customer sees far less value in calling a boy down for a drink because it is unlikely that the boy can speak Chinese, Korean or Japanese. It's a rule of thumb: customers need to see value before they spend, and a private dance is one way of offering value. It's a mystery to me why it is so rare for bars to think about the value proposition for the customer. They do more of the same unthinkingly, without asking themselves how to ensure that customers see value in patronising my bar. More tricky perhaps, they don't know how to analyse value conflicts. What is value to one type of customer (the straight couple that want either a drag show or a gawk show) is disvalue to the gay customer who is prepared to off a boy (but is put off by the heterosexual vibe and the very public exposure he has to endure in a bar with gawking customers).

I never thought that the connection between Old Daddy and Peter RS would end well.

Day 22 - Chiang Mai to Suvarnabhumi to Denver So many tourists in town because of the festival that finding transportation to the airport was a real dilemma. I had not realized prior to arriving in Chiang Mai that this would be an issue, so I did not pre-book any type of service. Big mistake. I tried multiple local limousine services and each provided the same response: ‘Nothing Available’. Woody to the rescue. I contacted Woody and explained my situation. Asked if he would be available for a quick trip to Chiang Mai airport. Fortunately, he was available and agreed to give me a lift. I was definitely in panic mode there for a short period of time. Hotel front desk was not much help arranging transportation, either. They were having similar difficulties find rides for people. Many guests were ending up on Grab motor scooters. I wasn’t sure that would work for me going to the airport with luggage. lol. Crisis averted, I arrived at the airport with three hours to spare before my short flight to Bangkok. Good thing I was early, because that airport was absolutely packed to the rafters. Lines weaving everywhere. Disorganized chaos. It took every minute of two hours just to get checked in, through security, and to the gate. Never before have I experienced such chaos in an airport, and certainly don’t wish to experience it again. I can honestly say after this trip I do not care to ever visit Chiang Mai again! What a horrifying way to begin my return trip to Denver. Suvarnabhumi was smooth sailing in comparison. I flew Thai Airways from Chiang Mai to Bangkok, but then needed to retrieve my luggage at domestic and recheck with United International for the next leg of my journey. Somehow managed to be first in check-in line at United, then took the security line for seniors and disabled persons. That was quick and easy, as was my pass through immigration. In fact, this process went so fast I arrived at my gate way too early and it was even open yet. Extra security screening at the gate before boarding. I was told this was because we are going to Hong Kong and it is their requirement. Also had to go back through security in Hong Kong before boarding the plane to San Francisco. I have flown through and visited Hong Kong before, but it has been quite a few years. I don’t recall security being so tight back then. Anyway, flights from BKK to HK and HK to San Francisco were on time with no issues or concerns. I was not sure what to expect upon arrival in SF due to the government shutdown and slow down of air traffic at major airports. Was not surprised at all when they said the flight from SF to Denver would be delayed at least 2 hours. Finally arrived in Denver at 3am Sunday, November 9. Had more problems with jet lag on the return trip than I did going to Thailand, so been sluggish and tired most of this week. Sorry for the lateness of my trip report.

January= Medellin Colombia February= Boston, Houston March= Manila, Singapore, Bali, Bangkok, Laos April= Pattaya, London, Boston May= Mexico City, Rio de Janeiro June= Sao Paulo, Boston July= Monterrey Mexico August= Had to renew passport since Laos filled it up and I got an Emergency Passport- So was kind of stuck waiting for new one September= Buenos Aires, Iguazu, Paraguay, Curitiba, Porto Alegre, Rio de Janeiro, Sao Paulo, Boston October=New Delhi, Agra, Pune, Mumbai, Manila November= Pattaya, Bangkok, Bali December= Jakarta, Tokyo, Boston Amazing looking back, I did almost all flights in Business class except where I went on budget airlines with only economy....yet I have chrome faucets 🤷‍♂️

@silverwolf76 Here it is: After taking the harrowing ride to 15M massage i went inside and was taken to the second floor. The receptionist asked what kind of massage i wanted. I selected aroma oil. I think i paid 550 for that and 1300 to Taro, all prepaid. Taro took me upstairs to a small room with a matt on the ground. He gave me a towel and directed me to shower in the bathroom/shower combo down the hall while he did the same upstairs. We both went back to the room in only towels. His picture on Line was a bit dated because he now has his full torso covered in tattoos. He was definitely hot. His hair was kinda interesting and different from the photos. Maybe it’s a style he's going for but it looked frizzy. As he was setting up his supplies I used Google Translate to say “please no penetration” in Thai. He looked at me and seemingly understood. He directs me onto the mat onto my belly. He starts giving a massage but i don’t think he’s the most well trained in that. Pretty fast he takes away my towel and is definitely focusing on my butt. I’m sure he’s used to really plowing his customers. I’m enjoying his muscular tattooed body and arms a lot and it was tempting to have him inside me. He could sense that and asks if he should put a condom on. I say yes against my better judgement. His length was normal size but his girth was tremendous. I’ve never seen a cock like that in person. He starts dousing me with oil trying to make his way in. I’m not very used to anal so it was kinda painful at times. Once he would get in he would kind of violently thrust in which disconcerted me. I then flipped over for him and he was doing more of the same. He was really into it but all the oil and pain was getting me soft so I directed him to let me blow him a bit. I came pretty soon after and we took our separate showers and departed. A fun experience overall but i wasn’t ready to be fucked like that. My fault for saying yes. Now i’m on my flight home next to some nice pastor religious guy whose been spreading the word in Africa for three weeks. I achieved Alaska Platinum/One World Emerald status which was the primary point of the trip. Also got to bed four sexy guys for under $500 total(plus flight/hotel/food/transport). Now I need to really maximize the value of the status by traveling a lot next year. P.S. My Lao Freshboy left his ring in my shower so i told him i’ll bring it back in March. He’s looking forward to my return!

while Jason's story is uplifting , I still think if guy asks for support just after 3 or 4 days from 1st meeting coupled with fact that he has a job in bank and still managed to go deep in debt is bad omen and keeping in touch , never mind supporting him, invites never ending money requests.

No contact from Bee yesterday. Either he has figured out this ship isn't going to sail, or perhaps thinks the lack of any contact will produce a change of heart on my part. In either case, the silence was actually a relief to me. Enjoyed my day with Woody on Tuesday, and he hooked me up at his shop for a massage. That certainly helped lift my spirits. lol. Ventured out on my own yesterday afternoon to AquaCNX. Will include a full review when I get home and wrap up the trip report, but for now just wanted to update everyone on my current 'situation'. Head for Chiang Mai airport around noon to begin that long trek back to Denver. Not looking forward to that.

Okay!!! So last and Final update!!! So I ended up not getting with another boy in Kyoto. Just figured id wait until Tokyo. Plus Shoma had me TIRED. Tokyo So I arrived at my Airbnb around 3. That night I ended up getting a message from some twink on Grindr while I was at the bar. Left and did my thing with him since I had an appointment the next day at 5/6. Because it was late the last train stopped >_< so hooked up with him for a bit and then went back to the bar and then FINALLY went home. Not that this matters. So the Guy from Kids I picked was Tora(https://kidsgp.jp/tk/boypc.html?key=1729143093)! He has twitter and has been in a lot of videos. So I knew it should be a good choice. Plus I like how freaky he seems. So after seeing his twitter I saw he was only working until the 2nd so I didn't want to miss my chance. Booking was really easy. I just booked from the website and got an email confirmation. They did say since I was a first time customer I would have to verify my number but they didn't lol. Also I think it was nice of them to allow me to book without even having the full address at the time. I did later email them the full address. So he arrived to my Airbnb on time like all the other boys. I gave him the money and then we did the usual shower stuff. He was really playful. He kept comparing our hands and arms. It was cute and he makes this cute little noises haha. It's hard to describe. Once on the bed we just started kissing. There was no awkward sitting there and tapping our fingers. As expected he was an amazing kisser. Lots of tongue & sucking.He also moans a lot! Then he just decided to start blowing me and when I tell you he has skills! It was honestly one of the best blowjobs ive ever had!! He was skilled at deepthroating and also just skilled with his mouth. He would switch from different skills. I ate his ass for a while. Very plump! He was blowing me while I ate his ass. Then he ask if id like to fck him and who could say no? So he hopped up and grabbed the condom and lube.He started off by sitting on it. Then from there we just went at it. He can definitely take it. alternating from cowgirl, missionary, and doggy we had a blast. Couldn't do cowgirl for too long because he rode like a pro and made the bed squeak something serious haha. I ended up coming like 2 times. Probably the best money I could have spent. Really needed a shower after. Once we got all cleaned up we got dressed and he was being all cute and stuff, then he asked me if I knew who he was. I let him know I did know of him and then he acted super shy, but after our quick conversation he kissed me and said bye. It was great!!! Kids Tokyo = 1000/10 _________________________ Tokyo 2.0 Too after Tora left I realized I still had yen left and I leave tomorrow. Not that I was super horny but I kinda just wanted to spend the rest of my yen anyways so I decided to see about booking another boy later. closer to like 9/10. Well I reached out to Kids Tokyo again and asked about a few boys on their site but after a while this didn't seem like it was going to work in my favor because all of the times for the guys I liked we to end before 9. Plus since it was late I was trying to use the private room and still make it there in time and my Airbnb was about 40 mins away. So they sent me a list of who was all available and I wasn't too interested in any of them...granted they did tell me I could book Tora again but I figured that would be kinds stalkerish. So I then reached out to DG to see who they had. Ended up with Non(https://www.dgdgdg.com/boy/detail.php?shop_id=7&boy_id=12427) he looked very androgynous from his photos so I fired lets give him a try. They only had 2 boys that could bottom, everyone else was practicing and they made it very clear there were no refunds if the boy couldn't do it. Listen I wanted to waste money but not like that. So the other boy was Yuuta(https://www.dgdgdg.com/boy/detail.php?shop_id=7&boy_id=12427). I think he would have been good but I decided to go with the more fem one. So they sent me the address and I'll be honest it was creepy as fuck at first. I rung the doorbell on the 3rd floor and someone came out and said what's the name of the boy im meeting. He then comes out and we go to the first floor, and brings me in a room. I will say I did get a laugh looking at the newest porn release poster at the top because they were EVERYWHERE! In the halls, elevators ,bathroom and who knows where else. But I do like that I actually had sex with one of the guys on the poster haha. Anyways, soon Non came in and looked just like his picture. He was a new guy so I wasn't expecting anything crazy. He was really sweet and well dressed. When it was time to shower we got naked and wrapped in towels and then he called someone from the phone. I guest so let them know we were using the bathroom so if there were any other customers we won't run into each other. Shower was small but it got the job done. The teeth bursting was a bit annoying, felt like we were doing that for a long time. He then called again and we headed back. The only thing that kinda surprised me was that he was hairier than I thought he would be. He also had really pointy nipples, I looked like he could have been taking estrogen for a little so he could have like small boobs. That's just a guess but it didn't bother me one bit. Once in the room he kinda dimmed the lights and started kissing. He wasn't a great kisser and it took us a min to find our rhythm but we figured it out. Having his nipples played with turned him on so that was fun. He then wanted to give me a blowjob. He wasn't bad but his technique was a little lacking. But I will give him credit he blew me for a while, but he was kinda doing the same thing. sometimes he would you know lick the head but for the most part he just left it in his mouth and barely went up and down. The longer he did it the more wet it became and was good. Then I rimmed him for a little. It was still surprising that he wasn't hairless with the way he looks. Oh well. We fooled around for a bit but I think he liked it more when I put him in doggy. He felt tighter and was actually meeting me half way. So I finished and he looked at the clock and I noticed it was wrong. It was almost 15 mins ahead. Not sure if this is a mistake or on purpose but Non was honest and was like I still had more time but I told him it was fine. Plus I still had to get back to my Airbnb and pack >_< . He called and we did the shower thing again and then after we got dressed he walked me out. Overall not a bad time haha. Just wish another boy I wanted was available, but no harm no foul. OHHH what does suck is after I left DG I checked my phone and Kids emailed me saying one of the boys I did want changed their time from 9pm and now staying until 5am 😞 ! Not gonna lie I was a bit mad haha because it was right after I already confirmed my DG appointment. So that's it for my Japan trip! Great experiences and one bad one but will definitely try these again! There are still come sites id like to try! *I can say im not a fan of Japanese lube after some time. Like it's super wet in the beginning and then it starts to dry up, but I noticed it doesn't leave a mess on towels the next morning. So I guess that's a plus!*

Day 14 Sukhothai Another early morning start. Our tour director has warned us that today will be a long travel day, as it will take approximately 6 hours to reach Sukhothai. This does not include stops along the way. First stop on our journey was at a roadside stand selling sticky rice, but unlike any other I have had in Thailand before. This was sweetened with coconut milk and sugar, mixed with taro or beans, and pressed into a piece of bamboo about 12-15 inches long. They used black or purple rice, and cook the rice in the bamboo over charcoal fire for around 90 minutes. Once the sticky rice is removed from the fire, the use a pick or hatchet to split open the bamboo. Using a spoon you eat the sticky rice directly from the bamboo. Very different texture from mango sticky rice, and this is always warm as you eating it coming directly from the charcoal. It was really quite delicious. Next stop was a visit to Bhutsaya Khiri Suvarnabhumi, also known as the Rock Buddha. This is an old mining area that was no longer used and a monk convinced the government to give the land to allow a temple and seated buddha to be built. The project was started in 2014 and completed in 2019. It was quite impressive to see, as was the accompanying elevated viewing walkway. The engineering required to build the walkway was fascinating. Next stop was at Kamphaeng Phet Historical Park, which I believe is a UNESCO site. During the Sukhothai Kingdom, this city was known as Chakangrao and was an important part of the defense system for the kingdom. Next stop was lunch at a nice garden restaurant ‘off the beaten path’ so to speak, with some traditional but different dishes than we have had previously. After lunch, another two hours on the bus before arriving at our hotel in Sukhothai. A good day, but kind of travel weary. Looking forward to a good nights sleep after our group dinner. Had a nice chat with Bee online before turning in for the evening.