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Don’t believe that dramatic tittle of the report. Yes, it was not one of best and memorable trips but still , when comes to boys, it brought plenty of fine moments. Still it did not work as planned and envisioned, partially because life intervened, partially because I made hasty decision so my sentiment reflected in the tittle about that trip is accurate. Original plane was 4 nights in Bangkok , followed by three in Pattaya, carefully chosen to coincide with show at The Best Bar in Jomtien as part of Maxhunt ( more about that in relevant part ) and then 6 days in Bangkok again. Then life happened, owing to family matters I was forced, or to be more accurate, I had chosen to be forced to cancel my original ticket. Since it was low cost non-refundable one and I never buy trip cancellation insurance, it meant I threw 700 USD it originally cost to the dust bin. They were other related costs amounting to roughly the same , before I stepped out of plane in Bangkok, three day later than planned, I lost about 1400 $. No wonder I’m glad it’s over. Still , mind you I opted for that misery and I’m glad I did. Life, sigh. Then before I even left home I noticed that one of my boys, lets call him Cambodian Boy (CB), changed his Line avatar to something teary. So out of curiosity I asked him if all is ok. It was not as he explained. Due to border dispute between Thailand and Cambodia he was forced to leave his bar job , returned home but told me he will come on 14 to utilize his 7 day visa, all currently available. I did not spill the beans that I should be in Bangkok for part of his time there but I knew that first bar I visit will be Moonlight hoping for that big smile of surprise. Anyways after all those tribulation , instead of Sunday I landed in Bangkok on Wednesday after having extremely pleasant last leg from Doha with all three seats in my row at my disposal. Day1 Landed early afternoon which is the best time as removes all problems with early check in in hotel and allows to change money at best places. Immigration was a breeze this time , 5 minutes and I was out. Speaking about changing money, in the basement by railway station I got 37.10 for euro, and assumption that it was the best rate lasted only until arrival at Phaya Thai station. Immediately after one leaves paid area there are two booths and one offered 37.28 and next one even 37.30. That rate , by the way was matched by XOne hour or two later. My original plan was to stay in Baan Silom but since my 4 night shrunk to one I went for Raya. Owing to low season that had very friendly rates. Settling there I went to post office as had something to mail , then to XOne to change more money and finally to Foodland for my first chicken with cashews – sadly , this time very average. I love that first day there when I’m settling for promising trip buying necessities and checking what is new. Building rising out of soi Twilight ashes is almost completed , that was big and tall new thing. At 8 p.m. I parked myself in front of Banana Club , soon joined for a beer by one of their guys but since he is diminutive guy I was plain social occasion. Still gave him 2 reds for his company by way of patented ‘vinapu tuck”. Then he went inside and I strolled through both Patpongs , in Patpong 2 enthusiastically welcomed buy some guys knowing me from better times. I was tempted to enter Atlas as boys on the stage were in pure and tempting view but one of them spotted me , went down from the stage and immediately lowered his briefs asking for a tip ”for food”. That was bit too fast so I politely explained I just arrived and did not have a chance to change money and declined invitation by boss himself to step inside. At that moment I was not even sure I will go inside that trip at all. I don’t mind spreading money but such antics were too fast moving for my taste. At 10pm. I went to Moonlight and this is what I reported in “Patpong” thread on that day : “I was customer #6 . When show started at 10.30 grand total 12 customers. 10 models, Mean returned but Babe not present. New guy Joey with broad smile quite impressive. About 8 floor boys but regretfully none of two I was hoping to see. At least 3 boys offed including both Lao brothers and guy taken by one who took over Vinapu's account.” . I was disappointed I did not see neither CB nor Y but at least M I offed twice in winter was on the stage and just before I was about to leave bar I motioned him to dress bypassing mamasan who use to leech to me from minute on I show in. It must be dearth of clients because even one of their models I had pleasure with before come to shake hands and exclaim ‘ long time no see you “. Light dinner in Happy Beer Garden and soon M and I were in my room . M is not long time material and I did not expect him to stay past normal short time but low season kicked in and it was already 5 am when he suggested he will go home. Nice surprise for start of trip earning him extra 1000 in the process.

Day 5 It didn’t start well. It was dawning when I woke up and noticed swollen lip- allergy , which is tormenting me this trip and also at home after return. Good thing I had a pill and took it, returned to bed but sensibly set alarm for 10 am. Zyrtec works as sleeping pill as well and I dd not want to miss breakfast , not to mention bus. Message on Line from CB, he already arrived in Bangkok this morning so I instructed him to wait fort me at 3 pm in the lobby of new Nishitetsu hotel by soi 4 as I decided to check it for one night. Indeed everything worked, 12 noon bus arrived at Swampy at 1.30and it was exactly 2.55 pm when I entered lobby. No CB in sight but I checked in, left them his name and asked them to hive him his own card and went up to the room. All fine, room new and shiny . I already posted some pictures of it in Hotels thread. https://www.gayguides.com/topic/68180-bkk-hotels-pros-cons/page/3/#comment-465959 Particularly impressive was safe fitting one of desk drawers. There’s no window in the room but there’ one in bathroom so there is way of seeing day from night. All in , I liked it and stay there two times- first and last. Reason is economical – for half price I have twice as big room in Raya with the same conveniences. But if you like new and shiny places – go for it by every mean. When in shower I heard door opening – CB arrived and promptly joined me in the shower. Some reunion gymnastics and we went to Foodland to eat something. While strolling around we met one of Moonlight boys and masseur from one of soi 6 shops who also works as go-go at Good Boys after hours. He was surprised to see me and promptly complained I did not tell him I’m coming. I told him “ I like that surprise smile on your face “ which is actually true.. We returned to hotel with me hoping for another round of reunion gymnastics but it seemed CB had other ideas like glue himself to his phone. We met many times and even travelled together but that was side of him I did not know. I guess whole 7 day only visa situation and resulting loss of earnings is stressing him immensely but while I understand it, not necessarily I must to like it. I told him frankly that if he wants to utilize fact that he has free accommodation with me this week he can go to work in bar to get some cash – it’s why, among other things I asked for his own kye card to the room so he can come and go freely. Some how he did not like that idea, asked instead if I will be hitting bars tonight and expressed desire to accompany me there, wherever I will be going. Today’s goal was clear – grand opening of Than Tawan in former The One and earlier Tawan location. Those are my impressions from Grand Opening I posted on the forum already in Patpong thread : “Yesterday I went to new Than Tawan to see their great opening in former The One and earlier , Tawan site. When we entered ( I went with boy at his urging ) only 2 other customers already but by time show started crowd swelled to respectable 12 including young Indian straight couple. To summarize new venue , it's just more of the same we knew from Tawan and The One. When we entered on stage two guys presented themselves, both not bad looking but first time I saw them was in Arena Bank in 2013. I'm kidding you not. So much about fresh blood on the market. Show itself usual blend of lip syncing and muscle flexing, nothing risky or compromising other than simulated BJ and big cock parade. And of course, performers solicit tip after circulating among audience. In short, it's still renamed Tawan or The One. No fresh blood and no fresh ideas. For this who liked all format it's sucessful resurrection. For those hoping for new kind of thrills, we'll look somewhere else. Final note - best looking was one of waiters, unfortunately uniformed all the time” After show, at 11 pm. Or so we went to Jupiter. And those are my impressions already posted : “we went to Jupiter where upon entry at 11.05p.m. We were treated to coveted seats right under the speaker which was blasting at 1. 5 capacity plus something. Noting new there either but show, was well attended and, what I hate there, most of prime seats were reserved for better customers which I understand but still hate. Noting new includes fortunately fact that all guys were very good looking and they managed to add quite a few new bodies I did not see before. Common wisdom in bars is that if guy doesn't wear the number, he is already booked or not available for an off. We'll it is not necessary correct as after show it was, at least for me, quite clear that some non numbered guys are still looking expectantly at customers of both genders. No idea how it works but my advice will be if one has hots for them boy it's better not to trust bar liturgy but get that "no" or even better "yes" from either mamasan or as I would prefer, from boy himself. “ After those bar forays we went to Patpong night market fort banana pancakes and then final to the room for steamy gymnastics. It looks that at night CB has less desire to clutch his phone and can’t say a bad word about his performance but it clearly looks I will need to entertain him in day time and it’s not exactly what I was hoping for . But since I invited him I need to carry on hoping for the best.

Day 3 Breakfast at Zing is in my opinion very good value at 189 baht for quite extensive selection. At the moment they have even promotion, if you buy 3 times , 4th is free. Track is kept on card they gave me when I bought 1st one. One of massage guys from Jomtien Complex I engaged few times in the past probably spied me on Grindr or passing by with my friend through the Complex yesterday because out of blue he sent me a message this morning so I invited him for 1 pm to come and check how he likes my room. We did not bother with massage and it was kind of kissy-huggy reunion. For dinner I decided to try recommended by few Sophia’s Kitchen opposite Dick’s in the Complex and indeed their chicken with cashews is one of best I had ever. Complex is busy preparing for Pride Night tonight with 2 stages set up so my hope is that famous Max will grace that night with his presence at The Best Bar. Early evening as arranged yesterday my guy from Dreamboys showed up and today’s session was even better and hotter than last night to a degree that I forced additional 1000 baht on him upon learning that tomorrow he is going home for a few days. Hope to see him again whenever I will be in Pattaya. I need to find a way of hosting him overnight, good sign was that today he did not say no when I revealed my plans about future. I liked he did not promise anything but said he feel more comfortable with me now and will think about that. Okey, okey Well after dark I went to Supertown filled with expectation that my Maxhunt will materialize. Lots of people everywhere and truly festive atmosphere. I parked myself at The Beast Bar but no, there was no Max in sight. I was watching shows produced by every bat on the stage in front of The Venue but Max was missing when his bar was presenting their part. Oh well, there’s always tomorrow, also day when he normally performs there. My beer was brought to my table by very manly faced Lao twink so after few sips I offered him a drink. By time I decided to call night off I consumed two and he 4 bottles of Chang. Not sure who first suggested we go home together but certainly we had the same in mind so of we went. While I was disappointed with Max absence , at least I satiated another curiosity. In @Home bar I noticed muscular guy I stalk on Grindr who advertises he likes kissing. Had I noticed him earlier I’d try to engage hi but now it was too late and may be it was good after all. While passing by I gave him red note to signal my interest and reaction was somewhat strange, instead of expected smile, wai and thank you I got kind of grimace one sees when somebody almost steps on dead rat or dog’s poo on the pavement. But no, he did not give me note back so not being sure what I’m supposed to think I just kept walking with my guy in tow. On our way we met aussie_ from forum celebrating night with his friends. To hotel we went in style – both of us on the same motorsai, clearly twinks have advantages of not taking so much space. By his own admission he started his work in the bar only few weeks before so lack of experience was visible but was offset by clear willingness to do the best o earn his tip. Me and twink and happy with him ! End must be near. It was already dawning when he asked for permission to go home which was granted . after he left I slept quite well till quarter to 11 am. I barely made to the breakfast but I did it !!

Day 8 Good night sleep proved priceless. At 8.20 I woke up , refreshed and went to Unesco acclaimed Foodland for breakfast and chat with reader, our former poster. I needed shoulder to cry figuratively speaking as while I have fun this trip is not as much as I both expected and hoped for. Upon returning to the room some news from CB, guy who was supposed to carry him over border declined a job , but CB’s his friend in similar situation is flying to Phnom Penh on Friday morning and he asked if I can buy him a ticket for the same flight. As Obama would say ‘ yes I can” , fired up my smartphone and in few minutes we had ticket, slightly under 80$ one way. He was not very happy with such arrangement as he still needs to travel about 5 hrs to his home town but at least that is solution to closed land borders. I was happy because it was cheaper option that one previously tabled. Still it seems it’s hard to get him to be bit more intimate today so seeing that I decided to go for a walk which handily brought me to Arena, what a coincidence I’m telling you ! Art , the mamas an welcomed me heartily , invited to ogle his staff on duty . There were 6 boys-it was early afternoon , all super manly so I picked up one I had massage with last year. I even remembered where he is from but this time famous boys memory did not serve him well and he did not remember me at all and was surprised when I showed him I have him on my Line. Session went well to very well although was bit rushed , we were done in 65 minutes out of 90 mins session but I decided not to create any fuss. I guess I was not in my normal mood as well plus he was shaved “there” which is something I don’t really dream about. Upon returning to the room what I saw ? of course CB on his smartphone. I suggested farang food today and decided to give him a taste of Bangkok public transit so we took bus to Charoen Krung hoping Madrid Tavern or , how it’s called now Madrid Café , will be opened but it was not. On corner of Silom and Charoen Krung we spotted Arab restaurant and CB , clearly hungry suggested we go there. It was well patronized at the moment but they found us a table, he was happier with his meal selection than me but at least I did no leave hungry. They had nice tasting Australian root beer. Then in moment of enlightenment I suggested Asiatique . Hard to believe neither one of us was never there. It was easy to get to as most Charoen Krung buses are going there. Nice setting on the banks of Chao Praya with lots of shops and restaurants and crowded with tourists. I liked Ferris Wheel so we went there, not particularly cheap at 800 baht a ride but it was worth it for a view from above and even better, since we were alone in the cabin we did some ‘ adults only stuff, nothing drastic but it was sneaky fun , stolen kiss here, , misplaced hand there, you get the picture. Best part it looks that gloom finally left CB and from then on things were more like in good old days. Returned home by bus / BTS combination ( there’s direct bus to and from Silom to Asiatique but after 10 mins of waiting I decided to jump on first going toward station ). Around 10 we , at CB suggestion , went to Dreamboys . Far from crowded , certainly more boys than customers. Novelty was quite big, 7 or 8 strong, pack of Indian tourists of mixed gender Not long ago almost impossible to see them I bars, now they are almost everywhere. Funny part was they couldn’t figure out what the best spot is and changed seats at least 3 times. Plan was to go to Atlas afterwards but when I confessed to CB that I like certain boy he said ‘buy him a drink “ so I called him over. It turned they hey know each other AND , later one in the room I discovered that he has profile on Grindr I’m following and even exchanged few messages with. Of course his profile picture showed him much taller and bit more muscular than original but no to a degree it was misleading. We hit it on from minute one so when he suggested we go to Jupiter because he never saw show there I was happy to oblige. At 11 p.m., few customers in Jupiter, again less than boys on the stage but it was blessing as we got prime seats by the side of the stage, not in some obscure corner. Even better, shortage of clients made , normally sober looking boys , smiling at customers including me , even if there I’m almost unknown nobody and tonight I was winged by two boys already. I noticed another boy I’m watching on Grindr and treated him to no less than 3 red notes during three walkabouts when we were there – investment for a future. I informed CB that our buy from Dreamboys is going with us and he was quite OK with it although disclaimed that he will not participate in activities because he is his friend. At midnight we left or first tried to leave, shockingly mamas an demanded I pay 500 off fee for taking a boy from bar. WTF ? I brought both boys with me , one of them used to work there for short period shortly after covid , another one was never inside ! But it seemed no to register, only when both boys were involved it turned out he took Dreamboy for somebody else – one of his own staff !. And we are talking about mamas an I saw there few times before. Anyways boys sorted it out before it escalated to ruckus but that is warning to everybody- stand your ground. I was more amazed than upset. We went to Foodland to east something where we joined reader already there and them went to the room where CB finally could stick to his phone uninterrupted – for prolonged time he tactfully retired to the bathroom . Every trip we meet the precious boy about existence of we never had idea before and this was this trip case. Sure I saw him on Grindr but did not even connect that boy to one I had in my room until he already pointed hat we exchanged some messages few days ago . Certainly it was best meeting of this trip, active , endowed , master kisser, you name it. Too bad he was booked tomorrow and is also leaving Thailand on Friday. Whenever I return, I know for whom I will be looking for. I gave him 1000 more than we agreed for and it was certainly well deserved and even better , worked for.

Day 2 From today I’m on my original schedule and It was day of move to Pattaya. Hope was to catch a glimpse of half legendary dancer Max of The Best Bar who is supposed to perform there tomorrow and after tomorrow hence this part of trip I call Maxhunt. In the morning I messaged CB asking about absence last night. It turned out he was still at home but offered to come to Bangkok as soon as today if I let him to stay with me because he no longer has his room. I agreed but told him that I’m heading to Pattaya and advised him to come in 3 days. I had enough sense to secure some freedom and told him if I will bring another boy he must stay out of room for a period. He agreed and it looked we both are happy with that arrangement. I secured guy for Bangkok nights and was hoping that he utilize free accommodation to work at bar and get some more money during his 7 day visa validity. Breakfast at Foodland with reader from forum , we exchanged recent news and gossips , then I sorted my stuff in the room and left some goodies in deposit as I will be returning to the Raya. Then off to the airport to catch the bus. I had reservation made at home but low season showed, at 11.45 there were still tickets available for 12.00 noon. But bus departed full so I guess somebody got lucky at the last minute. Second time in row I opted to mid-way and stay in Zing hotel on main street , half way between Jomtien and Pattaya proper. What was even better , it was free as I had some miles expiring at end of month and decided to utilize them that way. Breakfast at 189 per person was to be paid separately. I dumped my stuff and went to Jomtien Complex to meet friend who used to post here as z909 few years ago, It was his last day so we talked about 1 hr and then parted ways. In the evening I went to Boyztown, first dinner in Bay View restaurant on Beach Rd then parked myself at Pikky over beer and watched goings in the soi. Sadly not much was going on. Only two freelance masseurs on duty, one of them I noticed gained some weight since I saw him last year. I saw boys from BBB going in but must say, only few impressed me to a degree. Mamasan Lek spotted me and beamed smile but this time I decided to continue boycott of that bar I once considered best in whole Thailand as 1050 off fee and stage filled with boys fully dressed coupled with smoking inside and deafening music is bot exactly what I like. At 10 p.m. I moved to Dreamboys , hoping at least one of two boys I met there last year will be there. And yes, sun shined on me, #37 was in the back of the stage . He was kind of confused at first why that old troll is smiling at him but after 5 seconds he beamed smile my way and I made gesture inviting him to sit beside. Not only he recalled me and hotel where we met 3 times but immediately asked ‘ where is your Asian friend in glasses “ ? clearly remembering I was with 18past19 then . Deal was sealed with disclaimer that I pick him up but after I see show in XBoys. Not sure who was first suggesting he may go with me to which I agreed and we crossed the soi and entered XBoys exactly in the moment of insertion in progressive part of 10 pm show. Speaking about timing ! We got seats in the first row in front on the scene and enjoyed what we saw. He told me he never saw that show and judging by his reactions he did not make it up. After main show finished with another progressive part included with the same bottom but different top, at midnight we took two motorsais and went to hotel to do our part of progressive life. Looking back , it was one of best moments of that trip. We agreed for repeat tomorrow after he finished his daytime job and before he will go to the bar.

Day 10 , last one We waked up at 6 am, of course it was me who set up an alarm clock, CB preparing for flight spent quite a time in front of the mirror and as result I told him we are skipping breakfast as there’s danger of being late for flight. He suggested taxi butat morning hour I doubted it will be best idea so we went BTS+ARL way. In airport all went well. Last hugs and discreet kiss on the chin and he went to security and I returned to hotel by the way of Foodland. Today is my last day and finally I’m free to do what I want but it did not work as planned. Right upon returning to the room an allergy hit me, third bout third month . Sudden swell around right eye and chin. I was prepared with the pill and took it but that in turn made me sleepy so between 10 and noon I slept like a stone. When woke up , at least I looked better and felt better too. At 1.30 meetup with reader in Foodland, our last chance to talk this trip perhaps. Then stroll to soi where Nature Boy bar is as I wanted to try new Pheromone massage place , hoping I will snatch handsome guy I already spotted few times while walking by. He was there eating something so I decide to return in 15 mins. He was not there , I asked guy on reception if he is available and he laughed – he is the boss and is not giving massages. Ouch ! So I settled for 2nd best. Massage was good , afters could use more enthusiasm but still satisfactory. I left happy even if bit disappointed that boss was not available . Hope next time he will change his mind. Then rain started so I headed to the room via 7/11 to stock on supplies as I decided to finish this trip with the bang and organized sequence of visits by two of few my most favorite guys of all times. First , at 4.30 was former model X. I did not see him for few trips which he commented upon entry “ I did not see you long time, you are bored with me ? ‘ which was not a case but reason for bit of break was that on our last meeting he committed three sins at once : arrived late . was bit drunk and was rushing though the session like he had another appointment. It never happened before so the I decided to give us a break. But since I like him a lot in every sense , personality , body , endowment and work ethics I decided that what was supposed his penalty become my own and contacted him as soon as I had chance. Great session and great guy who has good sense of what I want from him. Professional in every sense. Shedding clothing right upon entry and when at one point he went to the loo to pee , he went under shower right after to wash his hose. No rushing this time at all. He told me a bit about his new girlfriend who apparently doesn’t mind him engage with men from time to time as long as it brings money home. Normally we would for a meal but I excused myself from accompanying him this time as soon after he left I had another star to arrive , Y. He used to be in Moonlight but in January he took time off. Was seen by my friend once at Jupiter but it looks that he got some other opportunities and for a moment he is not attached to any bar. He came with small bag and as it turned it was gift for me , elephant shirt. I was moved, I truly was It’s not a shirt but a gesture !!! If X is professional, Y is super professional who knows how to show appreciation for my multiple offs of him in the past, Last time we met he showed me pics of his home and said that it was partially built with my money – which boy would say such thing even if indeed over years he made some money of me , all well deserved. Our time today was more romantic than steamy , simply because this is how I wanted to finish this trip and my guy, professional in every inch sensed it and acted accordingly. So while this trip was of doubtful memorability for few reasons my last day, particularly 2nd half of it was one of best ever. I did not leave Thailand yet and was already thinking about when next foray there may be. At midnight we went to G’s to eat something, Y went home and I returned to hotel to pack. I had 4 cans of Chang in the fridge so took them to Patpong and gave to one of Freshboys barkers. There was no problem of getting passing taxi at 1.30 am and in about 30 minutes I was already lining up for security in Swampy. My 39th trip was over and thank God for that. One can’t return without leaving at the first place. Too late for summary today , I will write something , hopefully tomorrow

Once, there was a man with a generous heart and a quiet strength. He met a young man many years his junior—someone struggling, someone in need of kindness. What began as a helping hand became a partnership, a love that endured for twenty years. Through all of life’s trials, they stood side by side. The older man provided stability, a home, and love; not only to his partner, but eventually to the partner’s three children, whom he welcomed as part of his family. They built a life together, not in the eyes of the law, perhaps, but in every way that matters. They shared meals, holidays, bills, dreams, and worries. The older man worked hard and paid for everything, trusting that love was enough. But love, sadly, is not a legal document. When he died, everything changed in an instant. There was a will that left everything to charity. There was no life insurance policy with the partner named as beneficiary. The bank accounts were locked. The partner and the children, once wrapped in the warmth of a secure life, found themselves suddenly adrift, cold, and cast aside. No inheritance. No protection. No safety net. Just grief, bills, and uncertainty. And so the partner, after twenty years of care, now sleeps on the street. His children go without him as he did not have the skills to survive. The man who once promised to look after them is gone. This is not how love should end. Let this be a cautionary tale: if you love someone, prepare. If you build a life with someone, protect them. Have a will that helps and protects them. Share ownership. Name your partner as beneficiary. Talk about the future, not just in dreams, but in documents. Because death comes for us all, and love alone won’t keep your partner warm once you’re gone. Only foresight, planning, and legal protections can do that. Love well. And love wisely.

Preparation are in full swing at 5 pm, see attached. Level noise already cancerogenic. Can immagine what it will be at 10 pm. By the way gayinpattaya once recommended chicken with cashew nuts by Sophia's Kitchen, opposite Dicks. I tried today and certainly one of best I ever tasted, even if bit on spicy side. I wonder where I can find that guy from "sex work is work " poster. Will be on the look for him tonight but not before I will host another hunk to check stamps newly aquire to my collection

I went to the Atlas last night, not expecting much, being early in the week.....maybe a rehash of the show I saw last weekend. There were several customers already there, many of them being women. Also a group of enthusiastic Australian men, a handful of Asians as well as others on their own. The lineup for the show was completely different from the weekend. There were far fewer guys for a start and many were in very good shape. I actually really enjoyed one of the ladyboy's routines too. She had a permanent smile while lit up the room and great personality and audience participation. Later during the show a farang entered the bar and two of the bodybuilders immediately went and sat next to him and before you knew it they had a can each. I guess he's a regular. He might have offed one of the guys, but the other one was still there at the end of the evening. By the end of the show everyone had trickled out, leaving yours truly by myself, staring at the stage where no more than 10 guys were standing. At the weekend the stage was crowded, many of whom were well toned, but not with huge muscularity. But it was a different scenario last night. One was a large competitive bodybuilder, another an off-season bodybuilder. Two other muscular, well toned guys as well as other guys in good shape. Even though I was the only customer, I was approached quietly but not at all pushy by one of the staff. Now what an enormous decision to make. Talk about being spoiled for choice. The guy I usually "off" wasn't working last night. I know he would have immediately made a beeline for me. Much as I like him so much and will go with him again, I was secretly glad that I had the opportunity to pick someone else for a change. So I went for the competitive bodybuilder, who was wearing glasses. He told me it would be 3000 baht, but that's how much I give to my regular guy anyway. He drove me back to Quarter Silom on his scooter. He didn't seem to know the hotel, surprisingly enough. He's a humble, friendly, accommodating guy and he was fine with kissing. We did most of our antics in the shower too. This was a great evening. It was as if The Tawan had reinvented itself in a new bar. Maybe it was similar at Tawan the same night. Who knows. So the moral of the story is not to write off a bar after one visit and not to assume that weeknights won't be worth it.

Day 9 CB perhaps sensed competition as his mood today Is completely different, nice to observe he become his former self. Caring and engaging, suddenly phone is left undisturbed and no rush to leave bed in the morning. Seeing that, I promised him to escort him to Swampy for his tomorrow’s flight in the morning, another morale boost and right after breakfast, when we returned to hotel I gave him 40 $ for costs of getting home from Phnom Penh tomorrow and paid him , as he wished on our 1st day together tips for his time with me this week. Financial matter settled I suggested we go to Golden Mount temple vis Saen Saep canal boat. He never went there that way and was not even aware about that commuter boat. So off we went. BTS to National Stadium, then short walk to the boat and at terminal another short walk to the temple itself. He was serious with his prayers and I soaked in the atmosphere, enjoying nice breeze from the roof. Very calming experience for both of us. We returned straight to Foodland for a meal and then retired to the room. With phone abandoned we were forced to find ways to be entertained and surprisingly solution came to our minds very easily . At 6 pm. I excused myself and went to Foodland to meet Peter PS. It was our first meetup ever and we had pleasant hour of conversation , more about the life than debaucheries actually. Then Peter went shopping and I had drink with P in Former Hot Male beer bar, whatever it’s new name is. P was quite clingy , another sign of dearth of customers and if I was alone I’d off him tonight on the spot In the evening CB and I went to Atlas , no customers when we entered but by time show starter about dozen assembled , I noticed 4 new bodies, I’d classify them as twunks, well built but not over built and all with very handsome faces. Over evening I made sure all got treated with tip. Show was bit shortened with no risky components other than big cock show with participants cruising for tips. Nop , the veteran got one from me. How come with his great built I never offed him is mystery I can’t answer . It just did not happen I guess. Something to look for in the future. After show we went straight to the room for out last night together but festivities were bit shortened keeping in mind that we need to wake up at 6 to catch his morning flight . It was nice to see and sample today CB as his former self .

Day 6 After breakfast at Foodland we had mixture of steam and boredom in the room as CB clearly was hooked to his phone and seemed to constantly check something there so whenever I tried to be more personal so to speak , after while it was clear his mind is somewhere else. Good thing I, liking him , endured quietly until he finally spilled the beans . Cambodian Prome Miniter closed all land crossings with Thailand and asked Cambodians in Thailand to return home. That was reason he seemed so uneasy. At noon we left our room in Nishitetsu and walked to Raya, hoping room will be available as they are known for not allowing check in before 3. Not this time, room was ready so we settled in and parted ways . I went to Sizzler at it’s new location in Park Silom for buffet salad lunch with Christian PFC and CB went to meet somebody who would transfer him trough the border in few days when his 7 day stay expires instead of leaving immediately as asked by his Prime Minister. Real mess politics created for those guys I must admit. Salad bar at Sizzler is not just greenery , for 199 ( Christian even managed to get some coupon for 40 baht off) is not only vast selection of veggies but also pasta and soups, in short one can have real meal for relative peanuts. We had good time eating and chatting as always. When I returned to the room CB was still absent but he has own card so we agreed we are free to come and go as we need. I decided to wait for him doing some house keeping in meantime and did my daily money count – amazingly this is my day 6 and all I can’t account for is 28 baht. He showed up clearly hungry – ‘eating ‘was his first word upon entry . He seemed to be in good mood but instead on cashing in on it off to Foodland we went for a meal, I just had my chicken rice soup for 62 baht which is my meal of choice when I’m not that hungry but accompany somebody who is. Back in the room he told me somebody will help him through the border on his last day for 2500 so no need for him to leave immediately. So we celebrated good news where anybody reading it expects – in the shower and in the bed ( and then in the shower again ). Goes without saying I secured his good performance by offering to fork out that 2500 for that ’ helper ‘. Evening saw us at G’s and then we crossed the soi to visit Banana Club where CB was recognized by some staff and boys and shamelessly I must say , so did I . As usual at Banana boys have little time to present themselves , but at one point they did, most next door types. Thay may lack muscles but big cock show revealed few impressive specimens including 2 transplants, one from Freshboys, another one from Hot Male. Bar was about half full between 9.30 and 11. Next station was Freshboys between 11 and midnight with the same level of attendance – about half full. Quite a few cocks on display , I liked the show even if guys there are not exactly my types . Toward midnight quite a few guys sitting with customers or already offed so even in low season bar seems to be doing quite well .

I need to add that from Tawan we went to Jupiter where upon entry at 11.05p.m. We were treated to coveted seats right under the speaker which was blasting at 1. 5 capity plus something. Noting new there either but show, was well attended and, what I hate there, most of prime seats were reserved for better customers which I understand but still hate. Noting new includes fortunately fact that all guys were very good looking and they managed to add quite a few new bodies I did not see before. Common wisdom in bars is that if guy doesn't wear the number, he is already booked or not availble for an off. We'll it is not necessary correct as after show t was, at least for me quite clear that some non numbered guys are still looking expectantly at customers of both genders. No idea how it works but my advice will be if one has hots for them boy it's better not to trust bar liturgy but get that "no" or even better "yes" from either mamasan or as I would prefer, from boy himself.

Last night Wednesday visited Rainbow Dragon. If already reviewed excuse me for that. Its a pub style bar with good air con and a very pleasant atmosphere. Shirtless boys doing the service. Good dance type music. No idea what if any is off fee. As I arrived early around 8pm they seemed to be just opening and as mid week less custom. With 2 companions x 3 drinks came to about 600 baht. Nice tables facing the bar. Good location it deserves to succeed. Spent a few hours at the place and then went to Fresh Boys. We were the only customers! Having been at fresh boys at the previous Friday when it was full up shows that mid week tends to be very slow

I’ll add a bit about my recent experience in Tokyo. I booked an outcall with Reborn. He arrived a bit late, but I was informed of the delay about 30 minutes prior so no big deal. He arrived and looked exactly like the photos and was very hot, round ass with a big cock. He had a shower then we started with a massage, which was pretty poor. I cut that away as it was a waste of time and moved to the fun, which was almost as bad. There was zero chemistry between us and he put very little effort into creating some. He was very hot but it was a disappointing hour. A week later I tried again, booking an I call with Chances https://chance-shinjuku.jp, for a 90 minute incall with two guys. I also paid 4000¥ extra for “entanglement between boys” which turned out great! Booking took a little to get the two I wanted at a time I was available, but on the day they met me at the designated spot and took me up to a nearby room, we did introductions (one spoke good English, the other a little) and sorted the payment. I then showered with one while the other got the room set. When we came out we got straight into foreplay while the other showered. When he came out it was fantastic.i had both sucking me, one making out with me while the other sucked, they both kissed passionately with me and each other. Turns out they had not met before but were definitely attracted to each other. i had selected one top (Shinji, sexy guy, spoke English, big cock https://chance-shinjuku.jp/cast/shinji-2/) and one vers (Ryusei vers, little English, very sexy https://chance-shinjuku.jp/cast/ryusei/) and we did every combination possible:) I ended up finishing in the vers when the time was up. I didn’t push them to come as I figured they would want to save it-my mistake. The top asked me if I wanted him to fuck the other boy and come in him, of course I said yes:) I had a fantastic time with them both and I’m so glad the chemistry worked. 90 minutes absolutely flew by. It wasn’t a cheap adventure at 4200¥ but I’m so glad I did it. The website is great and gives a great indication of what the guys are happy to do. It made coming up with the combination half the fun (not really. It was fun, but nothing compared to having them in the flesh) i really enjoyed my time in Tokyo and had plenty of free encounters with some very sexy locals and tourists alike, but the chance to select two stunning twinks and have them do whatever I wanted was too good to pass up. I would absolutely do it again next time in Tokyo. I’ll even check to see if the same two are available:)

Summary One must wonder WTF this vinapu wants? It looks like quite pleasant trip , why that idiot proclaims to be relieved it’s over invoking very name of God? And I wouldn’t blame anybody for this line of thinking but there were few points which made me thinking along lines I did. First this trip was part of bigger trip in which I visited few countries ( my Thai bound flights were from and to Madrid ) and my relatives. While tourist part was excellent- never been to Spain before and fell in love with country from first sight as they say, family part was kind of uneven as I was placed by them in no-win situation which actually costed me money and forced me to cancel my originally booked flights. At end of day it was to serve somebody’s vanity and that person was not me. Worst part was not change of plans neither loss of money but very fact that nobody even bothered to ask me if that perhaps is the case. At end of day it worked well but bitter taste will linger for long time. Second was over optimistic decision to offer CB week long stay with me. As it turned, even if somebody is very well and very satisfactory rehearsed in the past, both on temporary assignments and travelling together, being together under one roof in place where one ordinary spends vacations ( me) or lives (CB ) has own dynamics and it did not work well for me , if only because our time together coincided with almost whole Thai part of the trip. It would be different if it was just 1 week out of 3 or 4. I was not mentally prepared for need to entertain somebody day after day ( nights were exponentially better excluding one , which I already wrote about) with very little room for my personal enjoyment of my , after all, own vacation time. As somebody above remarked , in cases like that we need to leave our companion a lot of personal time but what if companion doesn’t want to use that granted freedom for whatever reasons ? Add to it unhappy circumstances CB found himself in due to political situation and we have what I had – sharing room with somebody whose mind was somewhere else for most of time and we have prescription for problems. To credit of both of us we somehow managed to put it through without any awkwardness but for me it was not a dream Thai vacation , that’s for sure. Failure to succeed in Maxhunt added to sense of time not entirely well spent but there were very bright moments – by coincidence both provided by Dreamboy personnel, both in Pattaya an Bangkok and certainly my last two guys X and Y lifted my spirits with their company on the last day.

Short report, as only in Bangkok 2 days. Had hoped to meet the illustrious vinapu, but on the only available evening, he had a succession of stamp collectors! It's certainly low season, noticeably fewer tourists. I did a quick tour of Patpong 2. Host bar Dragon & Koi still going, attractive boys, few customers, this was Saturday night. Goodboy very disappointing. Quite busy, but boys doing show were poor, older, unattractive, to me at least, not hunks, just dull, poor bodies, going through motions, sucking with condom. I left after 15 mins. Freshboys better, almost full, mixed audience. Show somewhat higher standard of boys, though not top class. Usual banging of pole, etc. Lots of cocks and latex! When it was line up time, though, good selection of attractive boys, more twinkish, half a dozen of them were offed while I was there. I always think these places are too cold to be comfortable! Music bearable. I had met my regular Vietnamese guy for my sex adventures, met on Grindr/Screwboys, he brought a new Thai guy, who was very enthusiastic, in every way! I repeated the dose, but without the Thai guy. Note, no issue at Meridien re entry. Didn't try Atlas or similar, not my type. Half a dozen offers from twinks on Grindr.

Yesterday Sunday 22nd I went to new Than Tawan to see their great opening in former The One and earlier , Tawan site. Whe we entered ( I went with boy at his urging ) only 2 other customers already but by time show started crowd swelled to respectable 12 including young Indian straight couple. To summarize new venue , it's just more of the same we k ew from Tawan and The One. When we entered on stage two guys presented themselves, both not badvlooking but first time I saw them was in Arena Bank in 2013. I'm kidding you not. So much about fresh blood on the market. Show itself usual blend of lip syncing and muscle flexing, nothing risky or compromising other than simulated BJ and big cock parade. And of course, performes solicit tip after circulating among audience. In short, it's still renamed Tawan or The One. No fresh blood and no fresh ideas. For this who liked all format it's sucessfull resurrection. For those hoping for new kind of thrills, we'll look somewhere else. Final note - best looking was one of waiters, unfortunately uniformed all the time.

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I have taken men away a few times. It can be fun, though expensive, as I usually pay them 4000bt a day, and the bar wants the off fee, plus travel and expenses. I once brought 2 men to Pattaya but ended that after one of them ordered a 6500bt lunch for three of us while I was at the atm. A happier memory is taking two young Vietnamese men from Bangkok to Pattaya for one night and their smiles as the taxi accelerated on the highway and they realised they really were going to the seaside.

Day 7 Clearly all that border situation is depressing my CB. I went for breakfast to Foodland alone as he wanted to sleep more. Upon return he was up but of course on his phone fishing for news. I suggested we take a boat to Grand Palace Area as I had something to buy in the market in vicinity. Normally he would jump on occasion but this time it was clear he is going because he feels he should even if I clearly said if you don’t want to go no problem. So again to Foodland so he can eat something and then to Grand Palace by commuter boat. After some strolling and shopping for what I wanted we took tourist boat to Chinatown and from pier walked though Chinatown to Hualampong station. I suggested visiting Wat Traimit as we passed by but CB did not show any enthusiasm to the idea. Clearly he is not in the mood. I figured I did my part trying to entertain us so suggested we return to hotel where I noticed even I start being disinterested, like I took some of his depressed mood. This afternoon we will be parting ways as I have guest coming. This was announced in advance two day ago and repeated yesterday so there’s no surprise. I gave him 300 pocket money and asked CB not to show up until I tell him to. My guest is not from the scene and takes great care about discretion. Usually we meet once per trip at day of his choice as he works shifts. Raya with their service elevator in the back is best hotel for this type of meetings. He was bit late and I greeted him at that back elevator as agreed. I was sensible enough to lock door as despite agreement not to show up CB tried to open door with his card around mid session. That was not fair I thought but decided not to comment on it. Other than that it was funny 3.5 hrs with my visitor. He is one who truly appreciates fact that I like him and does his best to make sure his tip is earned honestly. Several minutes after he left I messaged CB that air is clear and while later he showed up, clearly unhappy. Sorry it was our agreement when you asked if I can accommodate you for a week in my room I thought but decided just to overlook his bad eye, lol. Upset or not, he was happy to be invited for a dinner to Happy Beer garden where we were greeted enthusiastically by Joy, the waitress and no wonder. Despite it being past 9 p.m. restaurant , usually well patronized, was empty. But our presence brought them luck, soon after other 4 tables were occupied. Then , clearly relaxed after filling stomach up CB asked what bar we are going to tonight. Not sure who suggested Good Boys but it’s where we went and entered when big cock show was about to commence. Mamasan was happy to see me, she always is. Updated me on the status of One who was star of my trip 10 years ago and chances are if on my deathbed somebody will ask me who was my best ever boy I met in almost 40 trips, his name will be mentioned. Unfortunately after that trip he went home , got married and is living now regular life. She claims he still remembers me which I actually doubt but who knows ? My best boy he was and still is even if there is no shortage of suitable competitors but his mix of personality , body , charm and ability to sense what I like at any given moment was winning formula. Number of boys in bar was twice of number of customer so clearly they have it tough at the moment. I’m not devoted patron of Good Boys but somehow I saw few familiar faces. One masseur from soi 6 who par times as go-go there was one of them , Burmese guy who in covid time shocked me at Jupiter as being Jupiter first ever guy who smiled at me was another one and there was third with distinctive tattoo whom I knew as Soviet and met few times in Pattaya and Bangkok but who seemed not to recognize me at all. CB was in much better position as almost everybody seemed to know him. After a whole I invites masseur and Burmese for a drink and somebody , most likely it was me but not sure suggested we may continue in the room. And no, no scandalous thoughts, I clearly said they are coming for socializing only. Luckily it was before midnight so we stocked up on beer and snacks at 7/11 and crossed the street to Raya. One may think it’s idiocy , having bay at disposal to spent drink and off fee money on bringing two guys just to socialize but it was one of best evenings this trip. We had good time and both boys took turns to make sure I have somebody to hug at hand . It looks that I built karma as none of them had recent off . CB did his best not to join us unfortunately, immersed in his smartphone. Before 2 am we emptied beers , polished snack boxes so guys decided to go. I offered them 1000 each for their time but their grimaces were clear that it’s Scroogy so I gave them each 500 more and that was better received indeed. I still think it was too generous as we did not do anything even remotely requiring parental guidance but was happy I could help. Unfortunately there was somebody unhappy in the room. For keeping him locked out of room in the afternoon CB penalized me severely – he decided to sleep fully dressed, , t-shirt and shorts. Fine thought I, finally chance for decent and interrupted sleep, rare treat for me in Thailand.

My last few nights in Bangkok I wasn't feeling 100% so I didn't take anyone back to the hotel. But at the end of a trip I always have a mental list of which men have treated me right and deserve an off or a bigger than usual tip. I took the Myanmar man, who is good at kissing, out from Good Boys (GB) to see Dreamboys, which he hadn't been to before, and he seemed to like that. He was surprised the hotel wasn't on my agenda afterwards. I know taking the men to another go go bar can be boring if they have been around for a while but can be ok if it's new to them. One of my favourite Vietnamese men in GB had asked me to take him again to the 'dance place' (Silom Soi 2) so I took him and his cousin, who hadn't been there before. On Sunday night it was quieter than I expected but I prefer that to it being jammo these days. If anyone is new to that Soi customers do need a passport, either on their phone or real to prove their age - over 20 last time I checked. Even I was checked the first time I went and I was 59 but they seem to know me now. And I never went, in this trip, to Silom Soi 4, or Hotmale or Jupiter or Banana. But I have been to all of those multiple times before and they're all worth a look. On Tuesday my flight from BKK to DOH was at 21.05. At 17.00 the rain was heavy so I ordered a Bolt taxi, not wanting to stand on Surawong getting drenched while trying to flag down a cab. Bolt arrived about 17.25 but Bangkok was traffic locked down at rush hour in the storm and it took 2 hours to get to BKK. Starting early was the right decision. BKK is a good airport and I was in the lounge in the new terminal with a farewell red wine in 40 minutes. Again using the e-gate so no exit stamp. Goodbye BKK for about the 56th time in 14 years.

Yesterday it was Dreamboys anf then at insistence of guy I offed from there, Jupiter. Very slow night in both bars. I'd say staff outnumbered guests in both. Novelty was quite big, 7 or 8 strong, pack of Indian tourists in Dreamboys. Not long ago almost impossible to see them I bars, now almost everywhere. In Jupiter it resulted in choice seats in front of stage. Rare treat there if you are not regular. And I caught few smiles from boys, some directed at me. Shock! Guy I offed from Dreamboys and who wanted to see Jupiter show got mistaken as Jupiter own staff and upon leaving they charged me off fee!!!!. It took some comotion to sort things out. So watch out what appears in your check bin. As usual boys very attractive.

On Friday night I headed off to Atlas bar to see what all the hype was about. When I arrived, who should I see sitting outside but a guy I offed a few times last year from the Tawan Bar. I found out later that he had recently transferred to Atlas. He can be a bit possessive, and as he hadn't noticed me, I thought I would make a visit to Tawan instead to see what talent they had there and catch up with him on Saturday. The first thing I noticed on arrival at Tawan was that they just ushered me in without paying the regulatory 500 baht at the door. After I had been seated the drinks menu came out. As I looked at the stage, alarm bells started ringing. Should I exit and tell them that I left my wallet at the hotel? Many of the guys looked as if they had never lifted weights, let alone done any cardio. Against my better judgement, I decided to stay. Things could only get better....right? There were quite a few customers in the room, mainly Chinese I imagine. As for the show, I think I counted half a dozen drag queen routines. There was the obligatory big cock parade with the usual pushing for tips. Two large bodybuilders in their naked glory made the show more worthwhile. One was in very good shape, the other being definitely off-season. After the show the guys all stood on the stage, as is usual. I was hoping to get the attention of the bodybuilders, but was approached by 2 other guys instead and in the end I decided to leave empty handed. So off I ventured to the Atlas on Saturday evening. I have been a long time fan of Tawan but IMHO Atlas came out the winner of the two. The decor is bright and modern, the staff were well presented and attired, without being too pushy. The stable of boys had more variety too, including some twinks who had firm abs. Because of the rain I don't know if all the regular boys turned up. There were some bodybuilders there, but there also seemed to be boys who would fit all types of customer preference. And, needless to say, I ended up with my regular guy. Now this is an entirely subjective review. Just my 2 cents worth.

In theory you are right, in practice very opposite. first , CB was well rehearsed before in offs and trips taken together and there was never issue of boredom and overusage of phone, TV etc second , while I'm with you about surveying so to speak , stamp collection , all the time, there are better ways of showing one is not interested at the moment. When I visit family or friends and there are moments of boredom I'm trying to disappear from their eyes, creating temporary freedom for them and myself. third - we are taking about paid encounter, not to mention expenses related to it. In short -work. If we decide to slack on our duties certainly we don't do it in the open when paying boss is watching but we disappear from radar. Doing otherwise is not wise and disrespectful.

The stable at 27 M massage continues to be very impressive. I mean they are nearly all strait boys, but for most of them, I would happily pay just to kiss them and suck them off.

Day 4 Starting day at 11 am seemed bit weird to me but what the heck, I’m on vacation anyways. Today forced expulsion from hotel. We were informed 2 days ago that it will not be electricity in hotel today between 3 and 6 pm. So I decided to spend afternoon in Pattaya – Night Market, foot massage and pedicure, just to kill time, Then to Jomtien bus station to buy ticket to Bangkok for to tomorrow and from there to Complex for dinner of chicken with cashew nuts at Sophia’s . There were 4 dinners at the time there and three of us had the same dish , including myself. It was almost 7 when I arrived to hotel, power was back ! After few hours of rest and sprucing up I returned to Jomtien Complex hoping that Max hunt will materialize tonight. I parked myself over Chang at the Best Bar , noticed preparation to show outside but no sight of Max tonight either, Yesterday’s guy joined me for a beer and then another round. We watched show together but discouraged by failure of my hunting mission I decided not to off anybody tonight. Show was entirely lip syncing by various ladyboys, not really my thing but still quite enjoyable because of selection of their hits about half of them I know lyrics off and signed along , impressing my guy quite a lot! Of course tipped him for his time and past midnight actually walked to hotel. After sitting whole evening I felt like I could use some exercise. So Maxhunt was failure but thanks to Dreamboy guy from first 2 days I think I liked Pattaya part of trip better than Bangkok one .

+1, for two reasons, first they don't squander day hours on sleeping or watching idiocies on their smartphone, second they built up an opportunity for post go-go stage of their lives, even if that another job is in massage place . I have personal story to support what I just said - for about 10 years I was keeping part time job just for fun of it (yes when you young you may have fun working , lol). When I lost my full time position , my part time was easily converted to full time and kept me running till retirement at 68.5

What two years? It was 20 years. And, when you have kids and a family, money is eaten away fast. Esp. if someone else is controlling that money. I am not defending not saving cash. I am just saying, often not easy.

I just returned from Thailand and yes, it looks that because of 7 day visa a lot of Khmer guys left and now they are pondering their options. Since recent spat between two countries seems to be sourced in internal politics rather than real border dispute serving only as haze and smoke , chances are situation will return to normal in few months. A lot doesn't mean all , as quite a few are still soldering on. I visited all Bangkok bars bar Hot Male as well as Best Bar, Dreamboys and XBoys in Pattaya and everywhere situation was the same - numbers of boys on the stage was higher than number of patrons in the bar at the time so I wouldn't worry about price inflation.

People get ready to take part in the 'Love Pride Parade', under the theme “Spectrum Forward: Power of Creation”, in Bangkok, Thailand on 29th June, 2025. The 6 kilometer parade from Suphachalasai National Stadium to Benchasiri Park was delayed by heavy rain. I don't even know if it went ahead as it was still raining when I left.

Monsoon. I come from a country where tipping is not required. However, when I am in Thailand I always tip the porters when they carry my luggage and I leave a tip in the room for the cleaning staff when checking out. I also will often leave a tip for the waiting staff when paying for a meal at a restaurant These people don't get paid well. I can afford 20 baht here and 50 baht there, and I do believe that the recipients are grateful.

Last night Boyztown main soi depressingly sparsely populated between 9 an 10 pm. Only 2 freelancers massage guys on display. Spotted two quite attractive guys entering BBB but did not check how they look on the stage. Since off fee is 1050 there and boys are fully dressed I boycott that bar. Moved to other soi, Dreamboys had bout dozen guys on the stage, barechested but in jeans. 6 or 7 customers. Since one of boys was exactly one I hoped to see I did not waste any time securing him. We moved across to see the show at XBoys and entered in best of moments. Ahem part of show was about to start. Full house there and reminded so till we left at minight. Show very progressive and tons of flesh on display. Quite a few very atractive, at least for me. I kind of know who will be my offing choice next time I'm there, lol.

Low season shows. Soi 4 quite quiet between 9 and 10. Lots of empty tables, at G's. I took shot peek at Atlas arrond 10, very few customers. From there Moonlight. I was customer #6 . When show started at 10.30 grand total 12 customers. 10 models, Mean returned but Babe not present. New guy Joey with broa smile quite impressive. About 8 floor boys but regretfully none of two I was hoping to see. At least 3 boys offed including both Lao brothers and guy taken by one who took over Vinapu's account.

Thank you for sharing Whilst not everything went to plan, you navigated it like a champ and came out on top. The reality is that not every aspect of our trips is going to be perfect and things are not always going to go to plan - your report demonstrated an example of what the reality could be like, and I appreciated your vulnerability in sharing with us. If you happen to be back in January, let me know

Kissing is essential for me. There are plenty of boys who do kiss. I make sure I brush my teeth & rinse my mouth with good quality mouthwash for about a minute. Also I drink some cold water. I will typically avoid spicy food beforehand as well.

I have described most of my firsts in other posts and so will not waste others' time repeating them here. Like many who had been sent to a boarding school when quite young, I quickly learned about mutual masturbation and other boyish activities by the time I was 10. Not being able to cum even though having an orgasm was a major concern when others were spraying so much. But then soon all that changed. I had crush after crush when I moved to a day school aged 12. But I was too nervous to do anything about them. Eventually along with my next door friend, my age and at the same school, experimented a bit, but it was really only for mutual release. Real love (at least that is how it felt) came into the equation in my second year at university. For almost a year I lusted after one boy/young man not realising that he was also lusting after me. One day in a quiet college room we finally realised this. He was staying in one of the halls of residence where we arranged to meet the following afternoon. That felt like sparks of magic were happening! For a while we were inseparable. But then he had to move away and ever so slowly those sparks lost their brightness. But others appeared! I remain happy that I remain in contact with that first love of my life. Every year when I return to the UK for a couple of weeks, we meet up for a lunch that ends up far too drunken for us to remember much afterwards. But they are happy occasions. Rarely do we ever talk about our university years. But we remember them.

I had massage with Summer. He is really great. I can only highly recommend him 😉. He is from Myanmar. Great body and… Delivers more than promised 🤩.

my first bar was Up To You where Take -a Nap hostel later was on Rama IV. I recall place fondly as mamasan seeing I'm new to the scene took charge , told me : ' take this boy, he will know where short rooms are " and it's how all started. Saying that I must say still I'm more interested in my next trip than 39 past ones.

I was in Toolbox Bar in Phnom Penh over the weekend. Normally there are nine staffers in the bar but was surprised to see over 20 boys there on Saturday and Sunday night. I talked to a few of the new faces and they said they've returned from Thailand because of all the turmoil between the two countries. Also was told that the Khmer boys can now only get a seven-day visa for Thailand which doesn't make it economically viable for the boys. They figured most Khmer boys will leave Thailand soon and doubted if they would be returning any time soon, if at all. How are the bars in Bangkok and Pattaya doing? Is the void being filled by Thai, Laos or Burmese boys?

So much of the main stream coverage is censored like old Japanese porn movies, but all is revealed in this link. This guy also has a future on Only Fans, if he wants..... https://www.facebook.com/FentuoTahiruFentuo/videos/1851723622350281

Unfortunately I think the new higher pricing ($70-ish USD per hour) is here to stay because in the smaller cities or rural areas of Mexico $700 pesos/hr ($35USD) seems to be the norm now with a range of $500-$900 pesos ($25-$45USD). Of course bigger cities will command higher prices (CDMX, Tijuana, Cancun, Guadalajara, etc). I think a lot of it has to do with the improving economic situation for regular Mexicans due to the reforms of the Morena party which creates inflationary economic pressures. The minimum wage has more than doubled in Mexico from 2020 to 2024 (from $120mxn/day to $250mxn/day) and low and behold, escort pricing is on par with that and has also doubled. But despite the higher prices, I love Mexican men. They don't get a lot of love on these forums, but I have tasted every type of man around the globe, and no one comes close to the vibes, good feelings, and people pleasing that Mexican escorts bring. Sure they generally don't have the drop-dead gorgeous and muscular looks of a Brazilian garoto, but Mexican men aim to please and party. Generally speaking, I think men from LATAM have a zest for life that you can't find anywhere else, and no one does it better than Mexicans. They are "atrevidos" which translates to bold, cheeky, and persistent. I've had many a meeting with an escort in Mexico where the clock is of no importance and we can kick back and enjoy our company without time pressures. No request is too large or too small because Mexican culture places heavy emphasis on community, hospitality, and social gatherings. If you meet the Mexican escort's good vibes, playfulness, and zeal, you'll have a tremendous time.

I had another date with Sakaki this past Friday. This time I had him come to my Airbnb. I think it is so much better than the rooms they offer. And it’s cheaper. For 100 minutes, the rate was 14,000 yen, plus 1,000 for travel, plus 1,000 gai-jin surcharge. I don’t really understand that part (non-Japanese residents pay 1,000 extra), but I wasn’t going to argue over 1,000 yen. I really wanted to see him again and once we got the address situation settled, I really didn’t want any more back and forth. I went downstairs and stood outside to look for him in case he had a hard time finding my place. He arrived shortly after 2, out of breath, carrying four bottles - some tea and water for me. I don’t know if this is his initiative or was Re:Born provides, but it’s so sweet. I had water and tea for him. He insisted I take what he brought. I thought he’d be happier to see me because, I mean, he did tell me he loved me several times, but I think he was flustered because he was a little late and it was very hot. We came upstairs and I let him shower while I waited seductively on the bed He came out fully naked and paraded around a bit, showing off his perfect body and cute little ass, which is even cuter because he has this perfect tan line from a VERY small speedo. He came over to the bed with a jar of cream and said, “massage”. I was a little confused. The last time I saw him, I arrived late and flustered and really wanted a massage and he immediately started kissing me and we got right down to sex. Maybe he thought I paid for the escort course last time? This time I made it clear I wanted the massage course. I told him to just come and cuddle. Well, cuddling didn’t last long. One thing led to another and he got this bottom daddy to somehow be a top. I think he is more of a bottom than he is a top and he is definitely fuckable. It seems the two things he enjoys the most are getting fucked and face fucking. We also kissed a lot. After we both came, we spent the rest of our time cuddling, kissing, cuddling and spooning. I think we both even dozed off a bit. It was really delightful. It’s too bad his photos on the website really don’t reflect how adorable he is. I highly recommend him. I told him I’d see him again next Friday before I leave. He will be the last and probably only guy I’ll hire before I return to whatever is left of my country. I’m going to miss it here. Between the saunas, a few guys from Grindr, and the few guys I’ve hired, I have had a so much fun. If you decide to use Re:Born, I recommend hosting if possible. If you use their facilities the club room is better than the gym room. I don’t know about the fancy room in Shinjuku (I forget what it’s called) - it’s 3,000 extra. Their prices are better than the Monster cock agency and Gym K. They don’t have as big a selection as some of the other agencies, but Sakaki has satisfied me fully every time. I feel like I got a full boyfriend experience with him.

I'm in Pattaya now ad when I see faces of older guys killing their time in bars I'm not so sure picture above universally applies. On another hand whe I look in the mirror I definitely see happy man, even if gray and wrinkled

Good choice, Summer is gay and verse, which I assume makes him available for more varied and stuff like full service. Unfortunately for me I am more into these face types, but they are all straight!! That often means they have a hard time staying hard.

Sorry, it's an old joke referencing a notorious "character" and regular poster on Dreaded Ned who used to bring a torch to the go go bars in Pattaya in order to inspect boys in the toilets for any imperfections before offing them if they passed his test. He probably didn't really exist, but then again stranger customers have been seen, and heard from!

The Pride Parade did start eventually, over an hour late, after the rain had slowed to a drizzle instead of a torrential downpour. People in it had put a lot of effort into their costumes and decorations so they deserved to be seen.

For sure they are gratefull. I leave my 20 baht a day , sometimes more if there was mess left in the room, tip for cleaning stuff on daily basis. Leaving it at end of trip is bad idea for two reasons and I got it from experienced hotel worker in family. First, specially if you are leaving on weekend, tip may be collected not by somebody who did a job for you day after day but by somebody who has part time weekend job. Second, often checking room on check out may be done by staff from reception or somebody else , not actuall cleaner and that person may collect undeserved bounty.

On Sunday night I tried new Nishitetsu Croom hotel by soi 4. Ultra modern but minimalistic design. Window only in the bathroom. Very clever safety deposit box fitting drawer. I quite liked it but truth needs to be told , for half price I have room at Raya twice as big and everything is working as well so I guess I leave Nishitetsu to more affluent guests than poor , hand to mouth pensioners

Well one guy was working massage at BBB Inn, which had a very strict boss, so getting the time off would be an issue, and the other was freelancing and never had any money. I think these days, in high season, they could find the money for the bus, though it's not that attractive to do it for the day. My sense with the Vietnamese guys is that going for a little 'holiday', like one night in Pattaya, isn't in their list of priorities, even when they have money. Sending money to their family, debts, rent, visa runs, sickness costs, smoking, hanging out with their mates, parties, new clothes, all come first.