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What a stupid tittle for trip report – if somebody says that , I won’t blame him . I’d do the same. Still I stick to it. Reason is simple – during my month -long trip which took me to 4 countries of SE Asia I stay in 11 hotels and in 9 of those I was given room on , you guessed it correctly, third floor. Arrived at Swampy past midnight. Quite crowded , I was 11th in priority line. By time I cleared immigration and bought SIM card, my luggage popped out so I could go straight to taxi. Driver suggested 500 to Silom, I agreed but said ‘you pay the tolls”, he nodded approvingly. Considering that meter would be 300 plus 50 airport fee plus 75 tolls, that 500 was not that extortionate . In passing I noticed that exchange booths are giving less then 30 baht for a dollar , never seen dollar that low. In taxi I contacted D. He is boy I was watching on Grindr and in June spotted him in Dreamboys. Offed him , we hit it one so in Aug he was my companion for most nights. As enthusiastic on 10th meeting as he was on 1st to a degree that I considered D monodiet on Thai part of this trip but as we learn soon life intervened providing some variety. Few minutes after I entered my Raya room, one of two this trip NOT on 3rd floor, phone buzzed – D arrived for reunion, smiling and clingy as always. He once said ‘ my body is yours to enjoy” and that says a lot about his attitude. In the morning we had breakfast in hotel and then parted ways. My watch stopped at 1.30. , battery dead I thought so went to soi 5 market to see if I can get it fixed. Battery was good, It was mechanism which died after 25 years of service. But it turned new oner can be had for 400 and watch will be ready in 4 hrs. Then to XOne to exchange money. In the afternoon jet lag started to rise its ugly head but I couldn’t sleep. Guardian Angel passed by and suggested I walk to Prince in Soi Suan Plu 6 so I did. On main street I noticed barbers are charging 150 for haircut , shop after shop so went in first without customers and got spruced up. In front of Prince , like last time , James whom I saw first time in Arena back in 2013 welcomed me but somehow Guardian Angel told me to check inside who is available. And there he was – L ,another guy I was watching on Grindr. Not just standing there but smiling at me so my choice was easy. Mamasan talked me to take VIP room , I gladly did , after all it’s my 1st day on month long trip. 1.5 hr. session , I thought I’m in paradise or something. Massage great and guy even better, knowing well his job and sensing why I’m there. Stupidly I left my phone in the room so we couldn’t exchange Line or WhatsApp. My only hope was I will find him on Grindr and contact him there or if comes to worst , will return to Prince in day or two. What I secured from L was that he is very willing to do Long Time. It looked that between D and L I will have Bangkok part of tip secured. In the evening meetup in Foodland with two forum members, talk over dinner and when time came , we all three went to Tawan. Bar was full, not that it’s hard task to fill it up, but full it was. It was quite refreshing to be in bar knowing that I ‘m not looking for an off. Of course K planted himself right beside me so I treated him with drink but told him right away, no offs tonight because I like girls now. After show we parted ways , I went to Dreamboys to see what was going on the scene and of course picked up D for another round of stamp collecting. Great start for the trip , that day one.

Greetings from the Land of Smiles! I am now in Bangkok after spending five days in San Francisco visiting old friends and colleagues. I do not plan to report as detailed as I did back in October/November, but will share some tidbits along the way. Since I will be here for seven weeks, a detailed ‘blow by blow’ (pardon the pun) feels like it will be boring and tiresome to read. Although it was cold and wet in SF, I did enjoy getting to spend time with my friends, eating at some of my favorite restaurants, and even managed to take in a play. I was shocked by the overall condition of San Francisco these days. So many businesses have closed. Entire blocks filled with empty store fronts. Even the entire Westfield mall in downtown was completely shuttered. Market Street was more like a ghost town than a bustling hub of excitement and energy. To be honest, it was quite depressing to see. Flight on Singapore Airlines was great, although we did experience a fair amount of turbulence the first couple of hours due to that severe weather system hitting California. The cabin was very comfortable and service exceptional. I believe I said this on my previous trip as well, but the customer service of Asian carriers is superior to anything you find on US carriers…even in first class. The long 17+ hour flight went far quicker than I thought, and we actually arrived in Singapore about 30 minutes early. My connecting gate for Bangkok was in the same terminal and an easy 7 or 8 minute walk. Could have easily made the short connection, but after being confined for 17 hours it was good to move around and explore the airport. So much to see and experience. Flight to Bangkok was a short 90 minutes, although what seems to be more the norm at Suvarnabhumi these days, air traffic control had us circling for a good 15 minutes before the actual landing. Immigration was packed and seemed to be short on staff. I opted for the seniors priority lane which only took around 20 minutes. No problems, and got my stamp for 60 days. Had to wait less than ten minutes for my luggage to appear, then off to the limo service, S & P, recommended by a forum member. I used them in October and it was a great experience, so opted to use them again. Aside from the usual Bangkok traffic, I arrived at the condo and was ready to get settled in. For the short stay in SF I was living out of my luggage, which I hate. In the condo I was actually able to unpack, put things away, and get myself organized. Since my flight arrived at 11am, I was determined to stay awake all day so I would sleep well that first night and my body clock would adjust quicker. I discovered that trick back in October and it worked well. You all might remember that I made quite the connection with a therapist from Paradise in October. We have stayed in touch since then on a somewhat regular basis. He will usually text once a week. Most of the time he has initiated the ongoing conversation. Not once has he asked for anything. So, it will come as no surprise to any of you that my first visit on Friday was to Paradise. He knew my itinerary and was expecting me. I didn’t really go to the shop for a massage. The plan was to meet him there, then we went to dinner, followed by a visit to the condo for some male bonding and reconnecting time. lol. Was a glorious evening for sure. Just as good as I remembered…if not better. He wanted to meet again on Saturday, but my friends who have the condo I am using made plans for us to do some fun stuff around Bangkok for the day. I didn’t get back to the condo until late and was too tired to venture back out for any entertainment. I will meet up with him sometime later today or this evening. May see what other mischief I can cook up this afternoon before meeting him. Thinking about checking out the new Prestige Sukhumvit location.

Never had such a stressful start to a holiday... While I was on the train to the airport (the travel time from my home to the airport is over two hours), I saw that the plane that was supposed to fly me from Amsterdam to Doha was still in Doha. According to Qatar Airways, the delay would be about five hours. With a three-hour layover in Doha for my flight to Bangkok, I was already getting a bit grumpy. I wouldn't make that connection. But the closer I got to the airport, the more negative the news became. Missile attacks in Doha and the surrounding region. Check-in wasn't open yet at the scheduled time. I had to come back in an hour because there was still no news about whether the flight would even go ahead. And the delay had now increased to eight hours. Just before the hour was up, I received an email from Qatar Airways. My flight had indeed been canceled. My gut feeling told me I had to act quickly and find an alternative flight. Because many people will do that. I managed to book the last seat on a direct KLM flight at a reasonable price. Departure in about three hours. Perfect. Go straight to check in. In the past, I always avoided direct flights from Europe to Bangkok. Sitting on a plane for twelve hours straight seemed like a real nightmare. And indeed, it was twelve long hours. Economy class. There was plenty of legroom, and the food tasted good. But still. Eventually, I couldn't quite figure out how to sit anymore. I started to get a bit of back pain. One advantage: despite the departure time being later than my original flight with Qatar, I arrived in Bangkok hours earlier because it was a direct flight. Arrival in Bangkok went very smoothly. There were no lines at all at immigration. I was able to walk straight through. And by the time I'd gotten money from the ATM and purchased a SIM card, my suitcase was already on the conveyor belt. I reached Silom by taxi (fixed 600baht including toll) without any traffic jams. And when I tried to check in at Le Méridien around noon, they already had a room available for me. Wonderful. A bit of positivity after a stressful start to the day. A short nap turned into a few hours' sleep. And even after that, I felt tired. Of course, I'd turned on Grindr in the meantime. Among others, a muscular freelance masseur showed up. After work as a personal trainer, he'd be able to come by at 10:30 p.m. But whether I'd still be up for it, as tired as I felt... To Sarica restaurant on Surawong Road for the cashew chicken famous on this forum. Always a good start to a stay in Thailand. Tasted delicious again. As always. By now it was around 9 p.m., and I decided to stroll around the Patpong night market and Soi 2. I was struck by how quiet the streets were there. The touts, of course, tried to get me into the various boy bars. But I wasn't in the mood tonight. Still tired. After a stop at 7-Eleven, I went back to my hotel room. Where I did feel a certain lust. So I decided to call in that freelance masseur after all. Of course, I couldn't risk some forum members making comments like "How can you waste your first night like that?" if I didn't invite a boy. Haha. Well... my first evening ended up being anything but a waste. The guy spoke good English, so we had a nice conversation. The massage was good. And then the extras... Wow. He was a great blowjob guy and a willing bottom. It's always wonderful when you see someone going all out and (seems to?) enjoying it too. An active bottom whose movements stimulate your arousal, rather than one who just lies still. A nice welcome back to Bangkok for me! And for your reference, below is a picture of his body.

Prologue I’m at BKK airport starting to write this report. I want to hold on to the memories while they are still fresh as this trip was as always eventful and fun. This is probably my 12th trip to my Beloved BKK. I use this forum to maintain all the wonderful memories that I don’t necessarily share with other people. First report was 2013! I was still in my late late 20’s no husband no kids! I am now 41yo, Married + 2. I was supposed to fly to Rio for Carnival. Had everything booked. A month ago my best friend told me he decided not to come since he is not mentally at his best. I understood but was disappointed since I was waiting a long time for this vacation. I could go alone, but I didn’t feel comfortable being alone and parting in Brazil. I needed compensation and BKK was chosen easily as the best compensation money can buy. The price for direct TLV-BKK Economy with El-al was a sky rocket of 1800 USD. Decided to maximize my situation and for 2200 USD fly business with Etihad so I had an Abu Dhabi connection. All of the things I prebooked were with cancelation windows till the very last minute cause the Iran situation was shadowing my trip. Actually it still is, since once the first bomb is launched - Israeli air space will close. I will be calm only when the plane lands safely home. I have a backup plan of entering Israel by land border like Abraham did 4000 years ago. I really hope I don’t have to use it. Let's hope Trump waits just at least another day. Or he may have ditched the idea, who knows. I planned a lot. Planning makes me happy. I prebooked 6 massages for a 6 day trip! I informed V of my arrival. V is an old BKK friend that I managed to maintain some sort of contact with. If anybody is bored and want to read an overly detailed report of my first meeting with V, be my guest. He is already married in recent years and lives outside BKK with his husband. Although they are in an open relationship he told his husband he is meeting friends. He was with me the first 2 days, till I flew to CNX and he went back home. More will be explained later on the reason to fly to CNX for 1 night only. Flights were great, passport control too was cool with priority lane. Landed at 11:30 AM last Wednesday. I decided that this trip was not going to be like all the other ones where I turn into a sex addict seeking guys all the time. That decision lasted at least until passport control in Suvarnabhumi. I am boarding now to Abu Dhabi, Will continue actually writing about my trip soon.

Siem Reap – ruin seekers and boy hunters friendly city I wanted to visit both Siem Reap and Phnom Penh on this trip in any order but since there was direct flight to Siem Reap on my planned day I went there first. I mentioned it may times that Angkor ruins is my ultimate travel destination and in my heart Siem Reap is one of world’s greatest cities , not provincial backwater which in fact it really is. On second thought I may take it back though since city supports no less than 4 gay bars . Anyways after one hour I landed in the new airport which turned super efficient. It took exactly 23 minutes from moment I stepped out of plane to moment airport bus started rolling. Enough time to clear immigration and buy SIM card. Few day later out former poster Z909 achieved the same in 21 minutes. Sim card 5 $ for 7 days, airport bus 8$. It took about 50 minutes to get to the city and that trip was graced by beautiful sunset. In the bus terminal I got tuk-tuk or remork to my hotel for 1$ and driver sensibly suggested we exchange WhatsApp in case I need his services in the coming days. My hotel, Chaetata was short walk to Pub street, but location was quiet. By time I settled it was evening already so I took tour of the center with intention to check at least 2 of the said 4 bars. BBall is in quiet street close to old Market, there were few boys sitting outside and one of them turned to be one I’m watching on Grindr for a while so obviously I parked myself beside even if he was drinking with some local girl. Sensibly , he suggested we exchange WhatsApp as well just in case. I was discreet enough not to mention anything that I know him from Grindr but sensible enough to mention I’m not averse to get closer to boys I like. During my 1.5 hrs in bar there were 3 or 4 other customers stopping for a drink. Next stop was GOD (Guys On Display ) in small alley north of Pub Street. I was hoping to see there another guy I’m watching on Grindr , lets call him XC for this narrative . From his profile I knew he frequents both of those bars, but he was not there. Few customers inside and they actually had a show , ladyboys lip synching but songs were excellently selected , for which I rewarded DJ with 10000 (2.5$). Two gin and tonic later I noticed it’s midnight so decided to call it a night but little I know. Walking to hotel I checked my messages and there was one from BBall guy asking if I have any stamp collection he can see. Being bit under influence I confirmed, gave him name of my hotel and by time I got there I noticed remork stopping at the door and it was him already . Benefits of being in small city I guess. Session was quite pleasant but he was also bit under influence and made impression he is in rush , not sensing that’s something I don’t rally like. So when he asked about repeat tomorrow I was very vague in my response. In the morning I messaged my remork driver if he can be at 8 a. at my hotel, response was positive and immediate. My goal today was to crown my Angkor exploration over years with last temple of size I never visited – Phnom Bok. She is atop of quite steep hill , some distance from main complex , well past Banteai Samre temple , one of my most favorite, chiefly because is never crowded. First we went to buy a ticket. I opted for 3 day ticket , now it can be used in any three days in consecutive 7, improvement over previous 3 days in row. It cost 37 $ for 1 day , 62 for three days and 78$ for seven days within month. It was quite long a steep climb to the temple with little shade but, aided with two cans of beer I bought in the parking lot , I made it , rewarded with having 1000 years old structure all to myself. Only when coming down other tourists showed up , both half of my age , so when that asked how hard walk up is , I answered ’ If I could make it, so will you” Since Banteai Samre was on our way I explored that temple as well. From there quite long drive to all there temples in Rolous group. Getting to Bakheng temple I was bit frozen as it looked very crowded but luck was on my side. There were three buses parked and their content was already coming back so I got that bit temple to myself or at least I thought so until in some nook I noticed two 20-something guys who obviously were exploring that solitude by getting quite close to each other but still within limit of decency i.e. clothed. “Don’t worry” said I and “danke shoen” was the answer so my guess is they weren’t Greeks or Spaniards. In the evening I wanted to check other two bars I did not visit yesterday. “Rendezvous” was first. Few twinky hosts inside , two occupied with customers, others weren’t my type and obviously neither I was their as I was largely ignored other than taking my beer order. Next one was Barcode, quite packed with very mixed crowd . I got my gin and tonic, watched a bit of show and noticed that one of their waiters is giving me quite long looks. Stupidly I did not explore that option but decided to check GOD gain, hoping XC will be there. He was, bit changed since I saw him just post-covid but change was for good i.e. l face become more manly. He did not remember me , not surprising given it was 4 years ago. I bought him drink, then another for old times sake but it become clear nothing materialize today or perhaps ever. He mentioned he wants to go to some club but there was no offer “ you want go too?” and I got a hint. Bar was very crowded and among patrons I noticed familiar faces. Two French guys who used to run short lived coffee shop by Tawan bar in soi 6. I went to re-introduce myself. They did not recall me by my look but when I told them I’m vinapu they smiled broadly. And explained why – I posted something they liked so much that tat quoted me that post from memory. So XC can feel vindicated , he forgot me , I forgot my own post. It was great time at GOD, even if I went home empty handed. Which kind of worked for me as I had good night sleep. More from Siem Reap to come

In the morning breakfast in Foodland , Jason was already there. Updated us about karaoke preparations. Lunch at Sarica, again 5 members congregated – Kram, Ichigo, Jason 1975, Enchanted Elixir and what is his name? oh, I know, vinapu. We agreed to meet at 8 in Banana outside and go for karaoke from there. I, tormented by jet lag went to hotel, fixed alarm for 7.30 and collapsed on the bed, Jason organized everything. It needs to be said it was my first karaoke ever. He offed 3 boys, including one of my Midnight bar favorite hosts P and our congregation met at Banana then we marched to soi 6 to Club where room was ready for us. . We ordered some drinks and Burmese food and singing started. I was surprised to discover that all three boys have quite nice voices and their singing went very well. D showed up after a while as well. I liked whole experience and I’m eternally grateful to Jason for putting it all together. P kept me company all that time for which he was decently tipped, glad to notice D was not jealous. Rightly so because at end of day it was him who got invited to check my stamp collection again. I sensed P was bit disappointed. After 3 hours part was over , we went to Foodland for a late supper. At 4 am D announced he needs to go as he needs to pick up his cousin from the airport. I was not happy to hear that and for a moment thought “ is our party over for good with such antics “ but resigned to my fate. Haste to say that , while poorly handled , it was likely legitimate excuse as our subsequent meetings after I returned to Bangkok went without glitch . Breakfast at Foodland, Jason was there already. He is going back home today but we will be meeting in Singapore tomorrow evening we agreed . If you recall from day one, I met L at Prince but we couldn’t communicate since because I did not have my phone with me. Luckily today I spotted him on Grindr , messaged him and invited to my room at 5 pm. Greet two hours together. It turned out he lives close to my hotel. After he left I packed my stuff for tomorrow’s flight to Singapore and decided to leave most of my stuff in suitcase in the hotel. I love to travel light. At 9pm meeting with ichigo and another member at Banana. It was time to say good byes to both, Ichigo went home as he felt bit under water and another member and me trekked to Good Boys. Instantly we become object of attention but today it was offing time for me as I had other ideas. But bought a drink for Burmese boy I offed few times in the past . I keep him in high regard because when he was in Jupiter he has distinction of being first ever Jupiter boy who smiled at me. After we left I send message to L asking if he is able to return to my room for another round. Answer was immediate and positive and since he lives nearby we both arrived at the lobby at the same time. I needed some consolator before flying to Singapore for the first time in my life in the morning .

Phnom Penh – boy centric stay and meeting old friend by miraculous chance When comes to typical tourist stuff I thought I already saw everything in PP but was proven wrong . For me main destination there is Space Hair bar and this time I decide to stay close , just one block away on parallel street (130). From bus station I took remork, overpaid 10000 (2.5 $) but it was premeditated - I wanted to be in my room as soon as possible after spending good half of day on the road. Grab wouldn’t be more than 6000 to I wasted whole dollar, ouch! Room was nice , particularly view from window i.e. wall of another building 1 m away , enough for daylight to seep in though. Went to eat something, my favorite restaurant was closed , replaced with some Filipino eatery so went to tried and trusted Dolce Vita for my daily load of chicken with cashew nuts. From there took remork to street 222 to check location of new boy bar AsiaCam. I did not have intention to go inside today but I wanted to see where it is as one of my friend found the gem there recently. In the evening short walk to Space Bar where I was recognized by few of their boys including one I’m interested in since last trip, lets call him SBG which translates to Space Bar Gem. There are three others I was hoping the will be there but upon asking I learned two of them landed another jobs and one went home for short time vacation. I also noticed few new faces, specially one of them looked quite bulgy and after buying him a drink, soon I learned that my impression was VERY accurate. I always have good time there , oiled by drinks here and there. Boys are not pushy and even if you buy them a drink they may still go away for a while to attend to other customers. Luckily SBG was keeping me company for most of the time , on other side I was flanked by either bulgy guy or very well built veteran there SBV. Due to bar policy boys are notoriously impossible to be invited to the room but I managed it in the past either before bar opens or after is closed so my hope was I will repeat the feast with SBG. Even is it was well after sunset , sun shone on me as both SBG and SBV asked for my contacts which I took as good sign. Too bad bulgy guy was not as fore sighting but he is new there and needs to learn his steps first I guess. After spending about 50 $ on drinks and this was all I had on me tonight I went home empty handed but with feeling that misfortune won’t last long. Not having anybody in the room resulted in good night sleep till 9.20, that doesn’t happen too often for me , specially on vacation but my reward was waiting in my phone. Message from SBG that if I want we may have breakfast together at 12 noon in some place in Bassac Lane. 12 is close to my lunch time but such chance can’t be wasted so I decided to fast till noon,. Busied myself with forum updates , doing some laundry and walking toward Royal Palace where I got remork to that place. I arrived first , it looked very modern and not exactly cheap but we are in Cambodia where even expensive is quite affordable. SBG arrived on time and shared news with me – he invited SBV to join us. I both liked an idea and did not like. Liked because SBV is nobody to sneeze at built wise and will grace any bed at any time , on another hand this derailed my designs on SBG. Third wheel is third wheel. But I was hungry, so were boys, each of them came there after morning exercises. Nice gesture from SBV was to make sure SBG seats beside me – obviously he realizes who is my primary goal. After meal they suggest we go to the Aeon mall. Official idea was to show me some unusual coffee shop inside bookstore. I’m not mall guy but never been to one in Cambodia and decided to play along and see what happens. I was given tour of few expensive stores where they tried some garments but I was playing stupid and if their hope was I tell them ‘ok I will buy it for you “ , I made sure dream was shattered . It’s not difficult to play stupid. But we had a coffee in that shop, again SBG sitting beside me and SBV across the table so when we went to another store and they seemed interest in some sun glasses I generously offered to buy them those. We are talking 5 $ a piece. All in , even with 3rd wheel I like whole experience and had feeling that , even if they plot something it was done way ensuring I have good time too. Before we parted ways SBG said he need to go to work early evening but me and SBV can take sunset cruise on Mekong. Oho , though I , we are going somewhere, not necessarily in direction I want as first choice but still in the right direction. So at 5 we met at Night Market by the river where cruises launch, it was 5 $ for me and 5000 riels for my guy (1.25$) but my price included drink . I bought him his beers aboard. It was actually pleasant cruise and sunset was nice. City from the river always looks different than from street level and we are talking whole hell of river as Phnom Penh in in confluence of Tonle Sap river and mighty Mekong. On disembarking SBV asked me where’s my hotel and I knew what that question means so suggested he walks me there, we were mere 3-4 blocks away. At front I asked if he wants to see my room , proposal met with enthusiastic smile and rest was yahoooo !!! Honestly I suspect he was quite into me and who I am to question his judgement. What a hunk ! Although sometimes it’s good if those guys stay quiet as at one point he told me he is jealous that last night in the bar I gave higher tip for sitting with me to SBG than him. We are talking 5 $ more , WTF ? Ok, so added that ‘shortage” to his well deserved tip for today but I did not like fact that he complained and also fact that SBG told him although when asked he couldn’t have probably a chance to avoid answer. That soured my mood just an inch as I don’t like such antics. On another hand he suggested that tomorrow afternoon they both (both again? ) want me to take me to Morgan Tower Sky Bar, place I never heard about, reputedly highest located bar in whole city. I decided to play along and agreed, after all their ideas worked for me today, no? After guy left I decided to check AsiaCam bar tonight and see if hunk my friend spotted month ago will be there. There were two young farangs customers inside and perhaps 5 boys, all twinks, no sight of hunk. I ordered beer for myself and one for one of the boys, one who greeted me first but knew from the start it will be just a drink and go. Boys not my type, that’s all . at least two of boys I recognized from Grindr. At one point I thought I may change my mind as one more guy appeared and he was blood pressure rising but before I decided on any motions he left so I’m not even sure he was guy from bar of just somebody visiting his bar friends., Anyways worth of sin. Guy sitting with me was kind of hoping for closer connection but I invented some lie about boyfriend waiting for me in hotel , paid my dues and went , you guessed it , to Space Bar. As suitable for drinks dispenser I was s greeted with kind of applause. I noticed new face , asked him if he is new and he confirmed it’s his 1st day. After second drink he admitted that he lied and straightforwardly told me that he is MB and suggested we exchange WhatsApp. Nice to deal with trained professionals . , It did not take long before he showed me his six pack and it was piece of art made from stainless steel even if his stature was more twunk than hunk. One may wonder where are my two boys. SBV decided he has enough of me today probably and was sitting with other clients, SBG was also circulating between tables ( bar was quite busy tonight) and at one moment mentioned that tonight he is one who must work till bar closes and see you tomorrow so I took it as forget about tonight. That placed six pack MB at front of the line , specially that he send me a message ;”tonight?”. I did not need clarification what he means so my answer was equally long ‘ yes’. The same way I informed him where my hotel is and he told me ‘ you go first, wait me hotel lobby “. It was 1.30 when I left , walking slowly and just in front of hotel I felt pat on the back – it was him. In the room I asked about whole night, agreed immediately. While SBV earlier was like Rambo , SixPack was more like Prince Charming and that worked well for both of us. I wanted Prince Charming at the moment and he got 20$ more than he wanted for being one. I particularly like guys who sense what I like without any instructions and he was that rare specimen. What a fun filled day ! Tomorrow is my last day in Phnom Penh or at least that is what I thought but what do we know?

Day 4 Woke up 8 AM in my weird room in CNX’s club one seven. I went to have breakfast with the friend I came here to see and her kids. Her 6yo daughter asked me for my age, when I said 41 she said I actually look 31. I don’t look 31. So, that made the 20H CNX detour worth it. LOL. Three and a half hours later I am at So/ lobby taking my overnight stored luggage since I only took my backpack to CNX. From there just a short taxi to the Quarter Silom. I originally booked Crown Plaza Lumpini Park since I have never stayed there. A few days before the trip my dad told me he got 450 USD worth of credit for hotels in an Israeli travel agency that expires next week and that he wants me to use it. I canceled Crown Plaza since that was not enough to cover 3 nights there and changed to the Quarter Silom largest room + breakfast. For 3 nights it was 447 USD. I took a spare night because my return flight was at 3AM and I wanted a room till late night. This hotel probably has the best location in Silom. The gym is above average for hotel gyms and breakfast is kind of OK. I got a room at tower 3 which is nice since you don’t need to go through reception. This hotel too did not have the room ready on time which is annoying. I went to the gym before my massage so that Kigi has something to work on. Gym is kinda cruisy and if I had any interest at the time, I am sure some locker room fun is on the menu over there. Massage number 3: Kigi from the Residences. After gym, I went once again to the Residences. Kigi is one of their fully booked masseurs. He is exactly as seen on his IG profile: https://www.instagram.com/kigi.theresidencessaladaeng/ and by that I mean a fitness model type. I think what is thrilling about him is that he has the body of a man and the face of a boy. Something about that contradiction makes him really stand out. He had a somewhat distant and reserved attitude but it was not actually affecting my experience. I also really liked the way he touched me. Somewhat soft and erotic. An hour into the massage he gives me two options: fully nude B2B 4K BHT vs Shirtless happy end at 2K BHT. I verified with him that I can touch him too and took the cheaper option. Extras were really fun mainly because that is one hell of a sexy guy. At the end I asked him to stop since I wanted to save my sexual energy and sperm for my next encounter. It was fun and I would repeat. An hour after my massage I have already scheduled a meeting with the AI Asian muscle god that started texting me two days ago. As time went by, I got more and more convinced that this guy is real and wants to meet with me. I was really excited about that meeting. Just before we met, he asked me if I wanted him wearing jocks or a G string. I of course chose the G string. Just meeting that guy at my hotel’s lobby was a thrill. Sexual chemistry between us was sky high from the start. First part was me fucking him while he occasionaly flexes his muscles. That made me horny enough to fuck him an entier hour. I know exactly the time since I put on a one hour set. We stopped at his request because he needed a break. I really could have gone more since meeting him was very arousing for me. He wanted me to cum so he knew exactly how to flex in order for me to do that. After showering he started getting dressed as he was about to meet friends and go to dinner and GOD after. I asked him if I could kiss his ass goodbye. That request turned into another full hour, this time it was an ass worship scene. It was as hot as it sounds. Later on he will text me that he has never been eaten like that. When he left I was kinda shocked at what had just occurred. He suggested we meet again in two days on which I replied hell yeah. I had the full intention of going out to GOD since it was a Saturday night. But, after he left I was so overwhelmed by what had occurred I decided I needed some time in my room to recover and process. I started thinking about the hottest guy I had non-commercial sex with. That was with a fitness trainer in Saigon when I was 32. I was happy to think that now that guy went to 2nd place and I got myself a new 1st place. I also thought about the hottest guy I had commercial sex with. Darius Ferdinand in BCN when I was 34. I thought to myself that Darius was probably hotter than AI muscle guy but it would make a lovely sex scene to have them both. All that thinking just led to me falling asleep at midnight on a BKK Saturday night. Not How I expected that night to end but it is what it is.

After such eventful first day I felt energized even if I already forgot what decent sleep means. Nasty morning news – railway accident near Ubon with crane collapsing on the passing train, reportedly 40 victims. Cleaning lady chased me away from room so I went to XOne to change more money, I like to have pockets full. Lunch with Christian PFC in new Foodland . We talked about Singapore where I’m going in few days. He gave me some leftover money from there. In the afternoon I expect guest in the room. Another Grindr massage guy recommended to me by one of our members. In turn I recommended him to another member who was not that much impressed so I was curious who was right. First impression when he showed up – his profile pic on Grindr must be 5 years old if not more . Still looking not bad. I needed that massage and he turned out to be great , well above average . Right coverage and pressure and not inclined to drown me in oil. That part was 5 star. Afters, not so. Very mechanical and clearly there was no spark . We exchanged Line but I think we both knew it’s in vain. But yes , if I need massage and massage only I’d call him again. In the evening dinner with Ichigo in Foodland , then to Banana Club in soi 4 for drink outside . Soon one more member joined us and we went inside to see the show – very enjoyable. We distributed few tips. Past midnight I went to hotel, this time alone hoping to get some decent sleep . I even set my lar clock for 11 am in case I sleep that long as I’m changing hotels. It was not necessary – I woke up at 7 am . Moved from Raya to Baan Silom , it’s where my 3rd floor room stretch started. For lunch finally I tried highly recommended chicken with cashew nuts at Sarica. All those accoladed were correct – that’s the best version in Bangkok so far. Double of Foodland price but so it serving size, probably enough for two if each orders bowls of rice. Next sudden bout of sleepiness – jet lag ! In hotel I collapsed on the bed but managed to set alarm in the phone. When it rung I did not know where I’m . For moment I thought I’m at home . It took me a while to regain my consciousness , scary stuff. In the evening dinner with 3 members at G’s , soon after we started 4th one more joined , Jason 1975 straight from the airport. Next we checked Circus – my first visit there ever. One of models looked familiar – it turned I observe him on X (Twitter), one of hosts looked familiar too – I offed him few times when he was in Hot Male. At 10 pm , we went to Jupiter where soon Enchanted Elixir joined us, also fresh from the airport. Friday night but bar was not packed. Show was great but boys parade – as usual, no smiles , disinterested looks, boy timed during walkabout did not even bothered to look at me during next one. But esthetics are there – all boys were good looking , at least they keep their standards there. After the show whole gang , by that time 6 of us , went to Foodland where we spotted one former member, Jason invited 2 boys for a meal and I asked D to join us In short we threw mini party there. After festivities everybody went his way , D and me walked to hotel for another night of world peace discussion. Before we parted ways at Foodland Jason suggested we threw out karaoke party in the evening. All applauded

After checking out of Le Méridien, I relaxed by the pool. It's vacation, after all. Late afternoon, I took a short stroll with my suitcase to Quarter Silom, where I'll be staying for the next two nights. I'd specifically requested a room in Tower 3, as it's easy to pick up a guy there without having to go through the main building and reception. After settling in and freshening up with a shower, my regular was at the door as agreed. Promptly at 5 p.m. He's half Thai and half Dutch. And being punctual isn't the only thing Dutch about him. It's also the price he charges. The same price you pay for an escort in Europe. Anyway, as mentioned in previous trip reports, I know he's worth it. And this time was no exception. I had an extensive massage that became increasingly erotic, and the extra service after the massage was five-star. A wonderful blowjob and a willing bottom. With a good body. And he moans in a very exciting way. For your entertainment, here's another picture of him: Tonight, I met up with a forum member for drinks. He arrived at the boy bars a bit earlier because I was still having dinner. We discussed our options via chat. I wanted to go to a different bar than Freshboy or Goodboy, as I'd been there a few days earlier. We decided to try Hotmale. By the time I got there, around 9:30, he was already inside and the only customer. Even though he hadn't been inside long, he already had a guy sitting next to him. He doesn't waste any time. The show started at 10 p.m. It was a short one. Still not many customers. During our time there, a few customers came in, usually ordering a drink but generally not staying very long. We saw quite a few customers come and go, but it was never crowded. The number of guys on rotation was also a bit disappointing. I recognized two guys from previous visits. When the fellow forum member left with his guy, I had one of the two guys I knew join me for a drink. The boy told me that other bars have more customers, but they also employ more attractive guys. This makes it harder for him to get a customer in a busy bar, due to the "competition" from his colleagues, than in a quieter bar. Because he's worked at the same bar for a long time (10 years), he performs in various acts on the show. On a night when he works and performs, he earns 1,000 baht from the bar for performing in the show numbers. That's a nice basic income. And if he occasionally accompanies a customer home/to a hotel, it's a nice supplement. Somehow, a threesome with a customer and a second guy from the bar also came up. He's done that before. But he and the other guy from the bar don't have sex if it's a friend of his from the bar. In that case, both guys in the threesome would focus solely on the customer and not on each other. There are also guys working at the bar with whom he's less close, and he'd have sex with them. It's happened a few times that he and another guy from a bar have sex, and the customer just watches and masturbates. I asked some more questions, and that led me to discover that he's also open to going to another bar with a customer and finding a guy to go with for a trip, and then having sex with him. Something to keep in mind... Haha.

Hello all, Newby here. I was in Hua Hin recently, and was approached on Grindr by a guy working in a massage shop. I decided to visit, just to take a look from afar to see how it was and I liked what I saw so I gave it a go. There were 2 guys and 2 girls there at the time doing foot massage for a variety of customers. It looked good and professional rather than an out and out sex-place. Both guys (including the one who had approached me on grindr) seemed quite cute, clearly gay, and rather flirty when they saw me outside. I took a 90 minute oil massage which was better than I had expected and was offered "special" at the end, (which I certainly had expected jusdging by his flirty smilies). The place is called K&M Healthy Massage, and is just to the south of the train station - walkable from the centre of town. I'd certainbly go again. I thought I'd mention it in case anyone is heading there and likes a decent quality "normal" massage with a happy ending, and was wondering if there's anything in town.

Da Nang, Vietnam, 5 nights and some boy business I had afternoon flight there from Singapore and having window seat I could see city from above on approach. It pretty unique, while most cites are happy to have mountains in the background, or beach or great river, Da Nang has all three. And as a bonus, it’s airport is right I the city. I doubt it’s more than 1 hr walk from terminal to the beach, if that much. That did not prevent taxi driver from offering me “promotional” fare to my hotel of 20 $. Short’ no, I will walk there” resulted in reduction to 10$. I just kept walking and easily found guy or rather guy found me offering ride for 7 $,. Still too much but I accepted it and at hotel got 25000 dong change from my 200 000 dong bill. 1$ = 26000 at time of my stay so we are dealing with lots of zeros and it needs a bit of mental adjusting as at first sight everything seems to be soooo expensive until one realizes that 30000 for sizable portion of ice cream is only 1.15 $. In short, Vietnam is very budget friendly with bonus on one feeling like Bezos or Musk dealing with those millions. My hotel was close to a beach, perhaps 200 m walk the most but during my stay sea was very choppy and I did not see many people wading into water. Visited night market by the Dragon Bridge to eat something and exchange money , 100USD produced 2 601 000 dong, now we are talking thought I. Never inclined to waste time I took circular way back to hotel and in process located Hero spa offering man to man massage, place recommended by BKKMFJ who spent few moths in the city. Steps from there was restaurant where I had a meal and while checking their trip offers it turned out that owner has a car and can be hired for trips to Ba Na hills , Hoi An and Champa ruins in My Son, to name few places I was intended to visit. We exchanged WhatApp as I was not sure about my itinerary, primarily because I want to go to Hue but by train only.. Next morning horror – I couldn’t find my glasses. After several minutes finally found them – inside pillow. How they landed there it’s mystery , all I know that I was checking forum or Grindr on my phone while in the bed already and took glasses off. Trip to railway station crossed Hue idea out – no seats on the train in next 3 days. On my way back visited Champa Sculpture Museum , very interesting but not overwhelming. In late afternoon walk to Hero for that man to man massage. Owner recommended Royal Treatment , 1.5 hr course for 1 500 000, not exactly cheap (60$). I had high expectancies for that price, partially realized i.e massage itself was super good. When comes to afters, not much , promised body to body did not materialize. Although guy was naked throughout the session and easily accessible what was missing was spark and chemistry between us. Fault could be mine – I did not get a choice of boy and one assigned was not my type . Oh well, chalked off to experience and well energized- remember massage was great I walked to find another spa recommended by bkkmfj, Nam spa. Localized it with help of Google Maps but did not go in. Through open door I could see hunky guy in the lobby so there’ some hope thought I . To be continued…..

Hello everyone, I'm very new to this forum, but I have read through a lot of existing posts and the community is amazing and offers a lot of brilliant advice. I visited Tokyo for 8 days in Febuary and thought it would make a good first post. I apologise for my writing style in advance as I am not 100% fluent. I read through a lot of the posts in the Japan sub-forum and reviewed a lot of the options in preparation my visit. An Independence On my second night in Tokyo, I pre-booked Haruki from An Independence for a 2 hours out-call. Although a small part of his face was covered, he looked very attractive and it looked like he had an amazing body. The site also stated that he spoke some English which was definitely an advantage. If anyone considers booking from An Independence, I would definitely recommend also visiting the Japanese version of the site and using Google Translate as it has a lot more information in comparison to the English site such as reviews. Haruki had very many great reviews on the Japanese version of the site which made me feel a lot more comfortable booking him. I was staying at an airbnb near Minato City instead of a hotel as I thought it would be a bit more discreet. The airbnb was great overall and was much larger compared with most of the hotel rooms I have stayed at in Tokyo. It was on the 7th floor of an apartment building, there was a 7-eleven right outside, it had an elevator and there were also no other rooms on the floor. The room had a large bathroom with a shower and bath, dining area with kitchen, a sofa bed and a regular queen size bed as well as a washer and dryer. The booking process was relatively simple with An Independence, but it did take some back and forth. I selected an out-call for 120 minutes and provided my time and date preferences as well as the location of the airbnb. If you make a booking via the web form, you receive a reply with a link to a web portal which allows for messaging between you and the company. They were initially unsure of the address I provided, so there were a few back and forth messages before they would confirm the booking. I provided the photographs from my airbnb location guide which resolved the concerns. The cost was 22,000 yen for 120 minutes including the travel cost, which was particularly reasonable due to the Yen exchange rate at the time. I waited by the entrance of my building for Haruki to arrive. He was only a few minutes late, but apologised profusely. As soon as we entered the room, it was evident that he was wowed by the room and eagerly attempted to peek through the curtains to see the view which I found endearing. It was obvious right away that he was very confident and not shy or meek at all. He embraced me and started kissing me as we were looking out the window and we soon both started removing our clothes. I won't go in to too many details about our time together but it was amazing. He looks better than the images on the site, particularly his face which is very handsome. He told me that he works out every day and that is really evident in person. We tried quite a few positions and as we are both vers, so we switched roles throughout. Haruki has a lot of stamina and is willing to be as gentle or rough as you would like or can take. He really is well endowed and thick as stated in his profile. We laughed a lot toghether throughout and it definitely felt like he also had a good time but, if not, his acting was superb which was good enough for me. Haruki was also able to finish quite easily when requested which was nice. I was really impressed with how well-prepared Haruki was. In his backpack he carried change, condoms and lube which I imagine is quite standard, but he also had towels and wet wipes to ensure cleanliness and to prevent any soiling of the customer's bedding. After the fun, we cuddled for a bit and had a really nice conversation. His English is really good so we didn't need to use a translator and his cuddles were very nice too. He told me that he had been doing this as his sole job for almost four years which explained his professionalism and confidence. Prior to his departure, we showered together which was very intimate and enjoyable and he then provided me with a business card and a voucher code for a future appointment. He initiated quite a few hugs before he finally left, which was also really nice and felt like a proper BFE. I would definitely recommend An Independence and would use them again in the future. An Indepdence Rating: 9/10 due to minor booking back and forth Haruki Rating: 10/10 on all fronts. Heros Tokyo I had seen a few good reviews in the forum about this establishment so I decided on booking someone from here to compare with my experience at An Independence. It was a few days after my first booking but I was at the same airbnb. There were a decent number of options and it was therefore a little hard to pick somone, but I eventually settled on Kazunari due to his profile and reviews. The booking was a lot simpler in comparison with An Independence and was done solely over Line. There were similar questions to the An Indepence form but there was no back and forth. I selected an out-call for 120 minutes again and the cost was 21,000 yen. As with Haruki, I waited outside for Kazunari and he arrived exactly on time. After entering the room, Kazunari was eager to get down to business so we started embracing and kissing, However, it was very clear that he was a lot more shy in comparison with Haruki, possibly due to his age or lack of experience in the job so I had to take the lead. He did look like the images on the site but wasn't as attractive in-person. He was also quite sweaty which was particularly noticeable when removing his clothing which were saturated. His mouth had an unusal taste when we were kissing (some sort of unusual flavoured candy and not bad teeth or anything) so I had to suggest we move to the bathroom before continuing any further. I have read quite a few reports here stating that meetings usual start with showering and mouthwash, but both of my experiences did not follow that convention. I am not sure if I was meant to initiate this practice or not or I may have missed some cues due to language/cultural barriers. After the shower, we moved to the bed. Kazunari is also vers, but I did not want to top on this day so he topped me in many different positions. The dimensions in his profile are accurate and he is quite big and thick. He doesn't speak any English at all so communication was quite difficult but we managed via translation apps. He was actually an even better top than Haruki, but he didn't seem as into it (or at least didn't act as well as Haruki). I'm not saying it didn't look like he was enjoying it at all, but it was a very different experience in comparison with Haruki which may just be due to the language barrier and experience level. Whilst he was topping, he would stare into my eyes with a somewhat mixed happy/concentrated facial expression but never said anything and didn't even make any noise at all throughout. It's quite hard to describe and I'm normally a big fan of eye contact, but this did feel a little strange in ways I am unable to really express. He was able to finish, but I wasn't able to so we just jumped in the shower before he left. He wasn't as prepared as Haruki and just had condoms and lube and nothing else. It was an okay experience overall, but the perfect experience with Haruki may have over-shadowed it somewhat. I would use Heros again due to the booking experience but I would likely choose someone else. Heros Tokyo Rating: 10/10 Kazunari Rating: 5/10 Danshi Gakuen Similarly to Heros, I had read a lot of good things about Danshi Gakuen in forum posts and the selection was really good with locations across Japan. It was really difficult picking someone from this establishment due to the number and variety of options available. However, the choice was a lot easier to make when I spotted Ruiya in the options for Tokyo store. He is a popular Japanese AV star and I had seen quite a few of his videos in the past so I was keen to meet him person. He is normally at the Osaka store but was working in the Tokyo store for a few weeks on rotation, so I was very lucky to even get a chance for an appointment with him. The process for booking was very similar to An Independence with the web form but it switched to emails after the initial contact instead of a web messaging portal. However, due to Ruiya's short time in Tokyo he was very popular and it was therefore quite difficult finding a slot when he was even free. It took multiple days and quite a few emails to finally find a slot when he was free. I booked him for 2 hours as an out-call for 22,000 yen for my last night in Tokyo before departing. I had moved to an even nicer airbnb by this point. It was a two floor entire Japanese house in Shinagawa. I initially had a quite small hotel room booked, however the two-story house was actually cheaper than the cost of the hotel per night so I cancelled that and re-booked the house instead. The property had just been listed on airbnb so it was actually brand new which was a nice surprise. I provided the updated address to Danshi Gakuen the day before the meeting and they had zero issues and it was quick to resolve with them. When Ruiya arrived exactly on time, he rang the intercom and I welcomed him in. I invited him upstairs as that was the location of the living room/dining/kitchen area and I handed him the money before we sat on the couch. Unlike my other two experiences, Ruiya contacted his office to confirm he was in the correct location for the meeting which I assumed was for safety and so that the office was aware that he was able to find the customer's location successfully. Ruiya looked exactly like the pictures on his profile and the videos he has made. If you are a fan of twinks, you would likely appreciate his appearance a lot. We started upstairs and then moved downstairs to the main bedroom. Ruiya is also vers and we switched role on occasion but he was primarily the top. He isn't as well-endowed as Haruki or Kazunari but is really able to work well with what he has. He has amazing stamina and was a great top overall, equivalent to my other two experiences. It appeared like he was having a great time which definitely made the experience a lot better. I finished while on top and it launched quite violently at Ruiya's chin and face which made us both laugh a lot. Ruiya tried to finish but was unable to do so, possibly due to the number of appointments per day he was having whilst in Tokyo, and this was a little disappointing but not the end of the world and very understandable. The post-fun cuddles were really nice and we then jumped in the shower together which was very intimate and enjoyable. Ruiya speaks very little English but we managed to have a really nice conversation afterwards with google translate whilst relaxing on the couch. I offered him some delicious strawberries that I had purchased earlier in the day which he ate enthusiastically. He initiated multiple hugs before eventually leaving. Danshi Gakuen Rating: 10/10 - although it was a little frustrating having to go back and forth, it was a lot more understandable due to Ruiya's short term in Tokyo and his general popularity. Ruiya Rating: 10/10 Overall, I had a great time whilst in Tokyo and I really liked how efficient such booking services were. I particularly like that you can see everyone who is available, reviews and what they look like before meeting and also how the pricing is very clear up front. As with a lot of things in Japan, it is such an efficient and safe process and is not seedy (or at least does not feel like it) in any way. I also surprisingly had some luck on the apps as a foreigner for hookups, but a lot were solely bottoms unfortunately. I'm already eager to travel back to Japan and try out many more options (and obviously enjoy all of the other benefits in Japan too). However, the flight is very long and expensive so that makes it a bit more difficult. In some ways I am glad that this is a deterrent else I would likely be spending way too much money in establishments like these 😂 I hope this has helped someone and apologies for the length and writing correctness in advance.

After some disappointing visits to Tawan during earlier visits to Bangkok, I decided to check it out again. It's located on the walking route from my hotel to the boy bars anyway. My plan was to have one drink there and then move on to another bar. When I walked in, there were four or five other customers. The guys on stage ranged from older bodybuilders to younger guys, but they all had some sexy muscles. I was immediately recognized by one of the guys, who sat down next to me and started chatting. A waiter immediately came over and asked if I wanted to buy the guy a drink. I declined. Despite this, the guy continued to give me positive attention. He flirted a bit, touched me, and massaged me. He also checked if I'd give him a tip instead of a drink. I agreed. After that, there was no further pressure to buy a drink. Nice. I remembered from last time that he was a top guy, just like me. But he said he could definitely give me a good time with massage, kissing, and blowjob. I hesitated. But he quickly convinced me. We watched the show for a while longer, but when I finished my drink, we went back to my hotel room. We'd agreed he would give me a foot and leg massage, which he did thoroughly and well. He told me he'd worked in a massage parlor before and therefore knew how to give massages. He's working in Tawan now for about two years because working at massage shop didn't earn him enough money. It was a normal massage shop, no hanky panky, so tips were also not good there. He said sometimes customer would only tip 50 or 100 baht after 1hr massage. As his hands moved higher, touching my thighs, the eroticism grew, and I became more aroused. He capitalized on that, making my last evening in Bangkok before I leave for a week in Kuala Lumpur and Cambodia a great one!

Phnom Penh , last day or what naïve would think. In the morning I invited Six Pack for a breakfast as he was not in rush to leave but mentioned he would eat something. Then we parted ways, I returned to hotel ( City Lodge on street 130 ) , backed what I had and took everything to my new digs – Vacation Boutique on the 136th Street , half way between Space Bar and Old Market. Move was premeditated , I wanted to check another hotel , if only for future reference. Since room was not ready that early I left my bag and went to explore city part north of Wat Phnom Temple. In meantime SBG lifted my spirits by saying he has day off today and suggested he will come to my hotel at 5 p.m. but before I managed to have any hope he would stay , next sentence was ‘ so we can go and eat something together”. Since this was my last hope to hope we get closer to each other , ahem, I okeyed an idea. After all that walking I felt bit hungry and 5 pm was few hours away so I went to restaurant by Techo Pagoda to eat something light. They have mushroom soup on the menu , my favorite of them all. Whet I got was something very remotely related to mushroom soup , if at all, but whatever it was it was , it was delicious so I did not say a word. Made sure I greet my dear guest on time I walked back to hotel but by time he showed up it was 6pm already. Being late that much never went well with me, but honestly I felt desperate so did not make any fuss, ordered remork on Grab and we went to the same place we had lunch yesterday – I like their duck with rice. Not exactly cheap place, dinner for two 23$ , well above Phnom Penh average but still very cheap by world’s or even Bangkok standards. Over dinner he repeated yesterday’s suggestion we will go to Morgan Tower Sky bar and when I agreed right away he said “ I already told SBV we go there. Third wheel again, sigh , but since it was very well built third wheel , if only for esthetics I played along. He joined us in the lobby where one can easily forget is in Phnom Penh. Very upscale place and immediately I start worried if 80$ I had on me will suffice. It was already dark and view was impressive with all that city lights. There’s also glass floor, the same like on Mahanakhon although building is not that high. Admission is free for bar visitors . We had two pizzas and couple drinks each . I was not shy to announce my financial limit before first order. Boys made sure I spent almost everything . But also made sure I had good time and it was actually quite pleasant foray. I wanted to go to Space bar for last round of drinks with boys there, they wanted to go to Blue Chili bar so I told them I will join them later. Took more money from hotel and walked to the bar had round of drinks with few guys there, including one who was missing last 2 nights and at one point I got panicky message from SBG “ where you are?” Oho, I thought they are concerned who will be paying for drinks. But promise is promise so I kissed my goodbyes and walked to Blu Chili few blocks away on street 130. My boys clearly had good time already, all three as I saw Six Pack with them as well. SBV was drinking with some young farang but it needs to be said as soon as I showed up , he made his excuses and joined me at the table. SBG had even better time and it looked he is well known there as was circulating from table to table. So my hopes were thinning by the minute. That coupled with noise , level of which was clearly aimed at scaring away bad spirits and old farangs , as well as show which by boys enjoyed a lot but I did not – to much ladyboys screeching , made me leaving SBV some money to pay for their drinks they consumed so far and gently fading out of sight. Where ? to hotel. Why ? to pick up some money and go where I felt I belong much more i.e. Space Bar. It was nice to be home , welcomed enthusiastically , particularly by that bulgy guy who impressed me before. He proved to be quite progressive although instructed me that while boss tolerates customer hand straying to bulge outside, placing it inside boxers is great no, no . Fun continued well into night , oiled by drinks here and there and it was only about 3 a.m when I decided to call it night and marched (floridarob did you hear that?) to hotel. Alone but happy , happy. On my way I checked my phone first time since leaving Blue Chili. There were few phone calls from SBG, obviously unanswered – I really did not feel phone buzzing and finally message “ where you are ?’ left half an hour ago. That was my last chance and I was determined not to waste it so answer was “ in the room, waiting for you “ . Answer was immediate and dream come true “ what room number ?, I'm coming now “ Now turned out to be 40 minutes but finally I got that call “I’m here”. Door were closed , guy at reception felled asleep but gentle nudge and 2 $ made him rising up and opening door with smile . It was worth to go through all these antics, third wheels , diners and bars 200 m up. Another sleepless night but every minute was bliss. Since I had plane to catch at noon I set alarm for 8 to pack up and take shower and to steal picture of my semi-god sleeping naked ( no, since it’s stolen you will not get to see it , my grandma always said “stolen will not make you rich” ). I give him generous , well deserved , tip and I liked way he accepted it – pocketed without even really looking at it , never mind counting. Remork to airport bus stop in front of railway station and after short wait bus arrived. Fare is 1500 , cash only , no change provided but I was aware of it and came prepared. On the bus I got the message through my high school class group we have on WhatsApp from friend I saw last in 1983 or 1984 that she is on ethe bus from Siem Reap and will arrive in Phnom Penh in about 1 hr. Too bad as I’m about to fly out. That was whole hell of bad timing but what we can do ? It took about 50 mins to reach impressive new airport , very spacious. There’s quite a walk from bus stop to terminal. Checking in was fast. I spent my last riels on some coffee , sandwich and bar of soap as riels outside of Cambodia are just colored piece of paper. At the gate some stranger said ‘hallo , you don’t recognize me?” , Fuck, no ! “We met last night in Blue Chili, I was talking to my friend SBV when you arrived “ Wow , what a chance ! Time to leave Cambodia and wasted chance to see my classmate last seen 42 years ago

S’Sense Before I continue, I will just preface that S’Sense was the best experience I had for the whole trip and it was after the bad experience I had with C. The booking process is the same, but this time, I booked for 2 hours compared to the earlier ones I booked (1.5 hrs only) as when I searched the forums, the sentiments have been positive so I gave this place 2 hours. 2 hours was for 1450 and the admin shared an extra infographic sharing, normal massage 100-200 tip, hand job 500 tip, body to body massage 900 tip. I picked my guy (D), and told admin I wanted the body to body massage one. I had arrived slightly earlier for this by 10 mins and in the shop, there were multiple boys sitting in. I went in and showed the receptionist my booking and took a seat. D was actually sitting in the shop too haha, he brought me 5 different oils to choose and was smiling when he greeted me. He looked great, muscular, like a bodybuilder lol. After choosing the oil, he escorted me to a separate compound away from the shop for the massage. We chatted a bit while we were walking and I found out that 90% of S’Sense customers were tourists, instead of locals. At the separate compound, he changed my slippers and led me to the room for me to shower. After showering, he came in and confirmed if I wanted the body to body which I replied yes. He also asked about what massage pressure I prefer, which I said soft. He stripped to his undies in front of me while I looked and it was hot, big arms, pecs and abs lol. I lied down and he started doing the massage. During the massage, which started out clean, he would brush his face and breath at my butt/back. At times, he would also kiss my back and that built the tension well. When it moved to the body to body portion, it was amazing lol. I could sense that he stripped his undies and went to wash himself before placing his body against my back. We did literally everything you can think of except him fucking me, like everything. D grinded his huge thick cock at my ass while playing with my nipples from behind. There was a mirror at the side so I could see him doing that. D held my hands while he placed his cock between my thighs to dry hump me. He even ate my ass (I waxed beforehand). He was the only one who did that among all the experiences I had. We did other things, kissing, sucking, licking my balls, fucking me between the thighs etc...I will not go into further details lol. At a certain point of jerking me off, I had to stop him. He asked me why and I told him I didn’t want to cum so soon (as from my previous few experiences, they would end and ask me to shower after). He reassured me that massage will continue and I came while sitting on top of him, touching his chest and grinding my ass on his cock. What sets this experience apart from the others was that after cumming, the massage still continued. I was looking at a hot guy’s silhouette massaging me while we were chatting. I told him about how I chose him and my bad experience at Klover (apparently he knows about Klover’s existence, however I kept the masseur name anonymous as I wasn't there to badmouth anybody). He was like "awww poor thing", and he kissed my hand when I told him he made it better. Then I told him i wanted on the lips, he also went down to give it to me lol. D also gave me a head massage and personally I am a fan of head massages so that is a plus point. HOWEVER, what happened next surprised me. He kissed my forehead during the head massage. This was something I didn’t experience before in my life lol. My eyes were actually closed during the head massage but I was surprised and opened to see him smiling at me. Our position was me lying on the bed and he was at the top of the bed facing me upside down. Then he went down and did the Spider-Man kiss (go google it, it was exactly like that). After he did it once, he asked if I wanted more and I said please. Then he continued and we did it a few times lol. I was smiling and giggling like a high school kid plus I got hard again even though I had just cum. D noticed it, rubbed me and laughed. He told me to rest while he showered and I was lying on the bed watching him shower which looks great btw. After my shower, he was nice enough to dry me off too. I also tipped him above the minimum 900 requested. We traded LINE contact but he told me to keep quiet about it as staff were not supposed to do so with customers. Outside the room, he brought me some tea and cookies. He asked me to leave him a Google review, which I gladly agreed and did it in front of him. Definitely 5 star or even 6 star service haha. We hugged and kissed goodbye before he sent me off. I told him I would definitely choose him again if I return to Bangkok. (and i definitely will if I have the opportunity). When he brought me out of the building, he asked me to pinky promise that I would see him again next time haha. 2 random people sitting outside were looking at us pinky swearing at the door haha.

Singapore , no boy business but active forum participation. Just tourist stuff When I was in Thailand last time , in Sept 2025 I sternly ordered myself that next time in the region I must go to Singapore since I never been there and clock is ticking. No only wanted to get new country to visit but also was curious to see if opinions I was getting about the place from various trusted sources will confirm ( boring , super clean , modern and efficient, expensive etc.) So at 4 am alarm sounded, I sent L home with his well deserved tip ,spruced myself up, left most of my goodies with hotel till my return in about 3 weeks and set to regional tour with 1st step being ordering taxi from Grab to take me to Don Muang. I did not wait longer than 3 minutes, fee came to 359 +50 baht toll , not sure it was much cheaper than just stopping taxi on the street at that time. This was first time ever I used that app at all (locally where I live I’m using something else if need arises, rarely though ). Managed to have some meal in coupon restaurant before checking in. Window seat allowed me to see on approach famous Marina Bay sands building so I knew I’m arriving in Singapore indeed. I had hotel in central location , close to subway station so I took subway to get there from the airport and on advice from lady on the airport station I used my credit card to pay for feres instead of buying tourist card . It was sound advice as at end of my two day stay it turned out I saved few dollars that way. I did not bother with exchanging money since I purchased Singapore dollars in Bangkok. But I bought SIM card and it was not good investment at 35 S$ for just 2 days so I got instant confirmation that city state is not a cheap place Since room was not available – way too early , I dropped bag in hotel and set to see the city. It was short walk to Museum Of Asian Civilisations, admission for senior whopping 20 S$ but I found it very interesting but not overwhelming. At 3 pm went to hotel to claim my room, more like prison cell without window but it had all conveniences including private bathroom. Lack of window was compensated by the light from corridor seeping from under the door so it was not completely dark at night inside. Soon after Jason , who volunteered to show me his homeland after work on both days, showed up and off we went to twin attraction of Flower Dome and Cloud forest. Admission 46 S$ but it was worth it as place is vast and it gave me chance to see up close live dinosaurs. We spent few hours there and when we were leaving it was about time for short walk to Gardens by the Bay to see light and sound show there, nightly free attraction attended by zillions of people. We treated ourselves with durian ice cream , my first. Fascinating fruit although in my opinion not as smelly and not as heavenly tasting as legends have it. Walked to hotel through city center and my first Singapore day was over. Next day morning I walked from hotel to acclaimed Arab Street, visited mosque there and checked 2 churches on my way. From there to Little India , bought mandarins and paid less than in Bangkok so obviously not everything is expensive there returned to hotel where soon Jason showed up and we set to Chinatown, short walk from hotel, with 1st step hawker centre where we had a meal and it was tasty as well as inexpensive – my duck with rice was 5.50 S$. Then Chinatown, Buddha Tooth temple and bus to mains hopping district , Orchard street. There I got fascinated with gold bar selling machine, not that I bought anything there. From there we crossed half country by bus to the airport to see internal waterfall and sound and light show there. Additional attraction was supermarket there where I bought Malaysian tea BOH which I like a lot and can’t see anywhere else. Next morning I went to Sentosa island just to have a look. Admission was expensive and I had only half day at my disposal so I did not partake in entertainment there. My last thing to see , short walk from hotel was Merlion, symbol of city state . I took obligatory photo , return to hotel, took my luggage and went to the airport from where I had afternoon flight to my next destination – Da Nang in Vietnam. To summarise , I liked Singapore, I should allow myself day or two more. As for stereotypes , yes , very modern. Very clean although not as shiny as legends have it but if there’s piece of garbage somewhere , it’s certainly visible from far and stands out. Hotels and admissions are at western levels – I paid more for 2 nights in windowless room than for 5 nights in room with sea view in Da Nang . On another hand public transport and food in hawker centres was very affordable and as I said , mandarins were cheaper than in Bangkok.

Last day D walked me to Foodland but he is not a breakfast guy we parted ways in front of it. Somehow, after month of travelling, today I don’t have an idea how to feel the time. Boat to Icon Siam but I don’t like crowds so returned back right away, Tried to visit Madrid but it was shut , looks that for good. So I landed in Sarica for their excellent chicken with cashews, very tasty but I think their servings are too big and I had trouble of finishing all – I’m not fan of leaving uneaten food on the plate. Afternoon I spent in the room , busy doing nothing and after dark I went to Foodland again for chat with reader, soon Kiwi306 joined us. Since I did not visit Fresh boys this trip so far , Kiwi and me agreed to meet there later on. I went to Midnight bar hoping Pey and new Lao boy will be there, Pey was , other guy had day off and I must had long , disappointed face because Pey laughed at me. That did not prevent me from offering him a drink. Then upstairs to Fresh Boys, even if toady was only Thursday bar was packed, they squeezed me in front row and I was worrying where Kiwi will be seating when he comes . Fortunately somebody left and created space that way. One of boys on the stage noticed kind of my interest and did not waste any time , as soon as his rotation finished he cam, all smiles to claim his double red tip. Kiwi suggested we check White Cat again so off we went. The same three boys in the bar but only Tae on the stage as there was another client who had both resident twinks with him , helping to finish bottle he opened. True to the form , he seemed more enamored with guy I considered much less attractive than another one . Tae come down to claim his drink and tip but neither Kiwi nor me were in offing mood so after hour there we left. In the morning I was splitting hair who will be my last companion D or L but that issue solved itself with pre-emptive message from D that he is not available tonight so L it was. Looked that he noticed I was bit disappointed yesterday afternoon and even if he did not, certainly he made for it tonight, he was so clingy and kissy that I started wondering where that will lead. We had great time , great finish to great trip and additional bonus was I did not get much sleep if any which is what I prefer before long trek home as it makes easier to catch some sleep aboard. It worked , I got about 4 hours of uninterrupted sleep at one point , enough to have very little of jet lag after arriving. Fact that arrived home at 10.45 helped. After 25 hrs and 15 minutes door to door I was finally where I started. It was great trip with Bangkok and Phnom Penh parts boy infested while Singapore , Da Nang and Phu Quoc were more or less ( 2 massages in Da Nang ) celibate and touristy. Siem Reap has always special place in my heart, boys or not, since I consider it my ultimate travel destination. You may be surprised, although likely you don’t care at all, but those 4 days there I consider my best during that eventful month. Experiment with duo diet, alternating between 2 guys was excellent idea and hope I repeat it in the future whenever it will be. It’s owing to both guys , D and L sensing well what my favorite stamps are and having excellent customer skills. They both knew what it takes to secure next appointment.

Bangkok, nice to be back and continue duodiet On the way from Pattaya to Bangkok quite a surprise, thunderstorm with serious rain. It is supposed to be dry season ! I had a doubtful attraction as bolt hit the electrical pole right by the road in moment bus was passing by. Heavy rain slowed down travel time but rain stopped about 20 km before airport and over there was dry. In the early evening I had nice chat with guy from my flight I met day before in Blue Chili, he seemed to be familiar with Bangkok scene but it turned I out he never was in any of go-go bars. To be even I surprised him when stated I never been in DJ Station or any other bar in soi 2. After we parted I decided on Moonlight visit first this trip . 10 floor boys , 8 models , 2 of them brand new, at least for me. I had a drink , watched show and generally enjoyed my time there , mostly because mamas an who usually leeches to me tonight found more promising customer and left me weeping alone. I did not off anybody as earlier I told L , guy from Grindr I met in Prince to see me in hotel at midnight. We both made it on time , actually meeting in the soi. Happy, happy night. Precious find because he seems to sense what I like before I say anything or do any motions. Prime candidate for monodiet but there’s also D, another monodiet candidate so I decided to alternate between two. I must say it’s kind of different fun when I go to the bar knowing I don’t need to off anybody from there. I seem to enjoy boy’s looks , shows and vibe better. L and I had breakfast together in Foodland and I appreciated fact that his choice was something very basic and even then he asked me for approval of his choice. After we parted ways I went to Chinatown to wander aimlessly but at one point I felt sleepy so took boat and then BTS to hotel to have a nap. Smartly set alarm clock for 3.30 , otherwise I’d miss my meeting with reader whom many of us remember as very active poster here. We exchanged news for last half year since our last meetup and it took us few hours to catch up. In the evening supper in G’s, then I went to check Hot Male since I have habit of visiting every bar at least once per trip. Quiet, 3 customers and 13 boys . One with broadest smile got invited for a drink and some discrete molestation. All 5 participants of big cock show got a red note from me in the name of spreading world’s wealth more evenly. Tonight it was D turn to accompany me and he was also on the dot at midnight. I like both of them L and D evenly. L is more calm and clingy and has his back side better developed and firm. D is more energetic and talkative and his advantage over L is at front. Classic case between those too, heads – you win, tails , you don’t lose either. Breakfast alone as D is not big fan of eating before his gym session, then I went to Pinklao district to check rumors that I was seen there and indeed I was. Today probably hottest day of whole trip. Late afternoon reader and me went to Saphan Kwai. I book an appointment with JJ in 15M, recommended by few friends , reader went his way to other shop. I was bit surprised that in cubicle there was not only JJ but also some other guy but since I’m “ go and see what happens “ type I said nothing They seem to proceed with 4 hand s massage which was definitely not something I ordered. It was pretty un-coordinated. Luckily after 10 minutes phone rung ,it was from management . Other guy said ‘sorry about mistake “ , dressed and left us but not before I slip him some tip for his trouble. JJ lived to expectancies, both based on what I heard from my friends and what I saw on X where I observe him. Certainly certain part of him looked exactly like I imagined and hoped for . He smiled easily and I liked his answer to my usual question “ do you like boys or girls better ?”. Answer was : “ girls but my job is to fuck boys “. I like clarity. There was another minor glitch, I book 1.5 hr session but right in the beginning he said he has another appointment and we have only 1 hr. and gave me back right away difference in price between two. In short I was very happy to finally meet my idol from X who turned out to be unpretentious , easily smiling nice guy , blessed with all necessary attributes to stay in business. It did not escape my attention though that it was second time in row where Saphan Kwai shops screwed things up.( last time in Phetboys , now Loveboys, after 20 minutes boy announced he was called by his mother and he needs to go with his friend taking over ). After everything I met reader in Beer Garden on Suthisan for acclaimed chicken with cashew nuts which lived to expectancies , both in taste and size of serving. At night I decided to have a drink in Midnight bar, enthusiastically welcomed by P, last seen when we had karaoke 3 weeks ago. I also noticed somebody very handsome behind the counter . P said is new guy from Lao .I was impressed so invited him for a drink as well. After first round came second and in other circumstances would be few more as I enjoyed company but at 11pm. L was supposed to come so I forced my tips on both guys and went to hotel. To be continued…..

Day 6 Last day I woke up to a text from ai muscle guy who needed to delay our meeting. I told him the night is kinda tight on schedule. He suggested we keep each other updated as he might be able to meet earlier. We texted through the day but unfortunately could not meet. I do hope and believe that was not our first and last meeting. Ever since coming home he’s been texting me about next time so hopefully there will be one. I had breakfast and a shirtless workout with some other hotel guests at the hotel's gay gym. From there, I took a motor taxi to a guy I've been texting to. He lives in one of many thousands of small and luxurious apartments in the fancy high buildings of BKK. The view from that place was incredible. We had some fun and I left without cuming as I wanted to save my cum for Trol. Massage number 5: Trol from Klover Arrived at fancy Klover to meet beautiful Trol. His massage was generic and somewhat identical to the previous one's routine. They are probably trained by the same person. Trol is beautiful, gentle, lean and athletic. He continued to the extras without discussing the tip. I do not appreciate that, I prefer clarity. He went out of his way during the extras taking all of his clothes, giving me oral, and letting me play with his body and ass especially. I enjoyed that and would repeat. I gave him 2k and he seemed OK with that. From there a motortaxi to IconSiam for some strolling and food at that extravagant mall. After that, a final visit to Maxwell. That was my most exciting visit to that place. It was the engaging chinese hunks that were on the menu that night. After donating my sperm at a guy's mouth, I went back to my hotel to pack and rest before my last massage. Massage number 6: Ruj from TCS-Spa That guy is fucking hot. Resembles Trol physically but more lean muscle and less of a gentle attitude. Also a very beautiful guy. The massage went well. He speaks zero English and communicates by translation app. Maybe that is the reason that he as well did not discuss the tip. He made a real effort in my sexual gratification including pouring oil on his body and taking my hand on a guided tour between his abs, biceps, cock and ass. After I cum he led me to the shower. I thought that he is going to shower me, but there he wanted me to fuck his sexy thighs as he jerks off and cum. The shower is in front of the mirror and he made sure we both watched ourselves, dry humping, as he made it to his blasting orgasm. No wonder that guy is always fully booked. After dressing he asked me until when am I staying in town which I stupidly told the truth. I think he might have agreed to give me his phone for a future rendezvous if I told him I'm staying more. I gave him 2k and he seemed OK with that. After finishing all my massages, I can now rank them according to my experience. Rank is starting from first place: Singha - SSense Ruj - TCS Sunji - History Kigi - Residences Trol - Klover Yuya - Residences As always - YMMV. Interesting to see that the top 2 are cheaper than those after them. From TCS I took a motorbike to the hotel, shower, checkout and a taxi straight to Suvarnabhumi where I started writing this report. After the first leg I had a long Abu Dhabi layover. I took a taxi to a nearby mall for a gym workout, shower and breakfast. The Abu Dhabi taxi back to the airport was autonomous which was a first for me. When I arrived home it was already evening which I enjoyed spending with my family. Gifts were greeted with excitement. This concludes yet another intense BKK trip. I enjoyed this one a lot. I’ll be looking at the comments and responding while this topic is still alive. After that, Best way to catch me is through a DM here or Telegram: @Biatrixkidoo Hope it won't be too long till I start writing about my next trip. Shalom!

Banteai Samre temple , along with Ta Som (not visited this trip) my favorite in Angkor complex Bakheng temple , Rolous group

Marble Mountain, highest point and place of my winning bet one of temples in the caves angry dragon and cooling down city from above, bye, bye Da Nang, I'm on my way to Phu Quoc

Day 1 Writing this from the Etihad lounge at Abu Dhabi. Just a few hours more and I’m home. After landing at BKK, exchanging money and taking a taxi, I arrived at the So/ hotel. The reason I chose this hotel was cause I got hotels.com credit. The terms of the credit was that I got two nights credit with a limit of 500 usd a night. And any unused credit gets lost. I wanted the largest room in Silom that 500 usd can buy. I knew that my first 2 nights were with V so better use it when he's with me so we enjoy the space. I would have booked Le Meridien but cancellation terms were not warzone friendly. V and I met at the hotel lounge. Even at the age of 40, he still is in perfect shape. A perfect V muscle torso. What had clearly changed was his financial situation. When I met V he was kinda broke. He arrived at the So/ lounge with a new Tumi suitcase and branded expensive clothes. He acknowledged that his financial situation changed dramatically as his partner is very wealthy. Room was not ready at the time so we decided to leave the luggage and go to the hotel pool. We spotted a hot couple working out at the gym near the pool and both acknowledged their hotness. V and I started getting close and physical at the pool and enjoyed the time together until our room was ready. Only at 4PM our room was ready which was poor performance by So/. It was a 100 sqm suite. The hotel now is not what it used to be. It is more tired and a bit old. Not the chic it had in the past but still a great hotel and I was happy not to pay anything for that very big fancy room. In the room V and I enjoyed the hot tub and the bed till evening. Sexual chemistry between us is great because V lets me do whatever I want with him. Then we slept a little. When we woke up V wanted to eat Thai at Silom Complex. Dinner was great. As I always do, I paid for it but this time he told me he also can and wants to pay so I let it be sometimes. Back in the room I got a text from the hot couple we saw at gym near the pool. They suggested we go out, the four of us, which we happily agreed to. We went to DJ station and already there things started to get warm. Afterwards GOD, there things got really hot including a toilet scene of which the 4 of us play until people outside get upset that we occupy the toilet for too long. GOD was packed and great that night. Since I have some experience on clubbing with V I know that when he does drugs, he wants to party all night. That night he told me he wants to do E which I told him was fine by me but that he should know that I am leaving the club not a second after 3AM cause I don’t wanna go to sleep too late. I told him he is more than welcomed to stay and come back to the room whenever he wants. At 3 AM I told him I was going and he decided to come with me which took me by surprise. The couple wanted us to stay and have a foursome later but I told them I was tired. That was only partially true because I was planning on having fun with V in the room. The reason I didn’t want a foursome is that I had a clear preference to one guy of the couple over the other and was hoping to get him alone later. And in addition that would have put me the only top on 3 bottoms which may sound hot. But, I usually prefer a more even ratio so that I can share the cardio with someone. V and I left the club at 3 AM. V was wild with me, allowing me to do whatever I want. He wore the lingerie I bought for him and let me film some of our sexual activities. At about 5AM I went to sleep tired, happy and calm. This concludes my first day. No transactional fun this day, but I knew that the day after I have 2 massages so I was fine with that.

continued…Installment 7: I am going to be out of pocket for a couple of days. Paradise guy is taking two days off for our so-called ‘trip’. My idea of a trip and his are entirely two different things. Guess that’s what happens when my Thai is non-existent, and his English is very limited. lol. I had envisioned we were going someplace exotic and relaxing outside of the city. His definition of trip was taking me to various places around Bangkok for two days that he wanted to make sure I saw or experienced. Anyway, that’s taking place Thursday and Friday until the evening. One of his buddies at the shop has a birthday on Friday and they are having an after-hours party once the shop closes at midnight. To be fair, he did invite me but I politely declined the invitation. I am pretty sure he knew I would, as well as was probably hoping I would! Basically I am the tourist and he is my guide. I actually laid low during the day on Wednesday. Considered going to Saphan Kwai area, but very indecisive about which shop. Ultimately decided it was perhaps a good idea to do some laundry if the next two days would be completely occupied. Actually connected with another forum member who happens to be in town now and we made plans to meet for drinks later in the evening. It will be nice to actually meet with someone in person. I headed over to Silom planning to arrive around 8:15 or thereabouts. I knew the other forum member had special plans late afternoon and would probably be at dinner around that time. I wanted to walk around and check out some of the other venues. As I was walking past Rainbow Dragon, I was stopped by their barker and I took a quick glance at their menu. I had no idea what type of club it was, and before I knew it he had grabbed my arm and was dragging me inside. It is a small place with perhaps 8 booths that can hold four persons in each, long bar with stools, and that’s about it. I sat in the first booth and ordered one drink. I was not planning to stay long. In the next booth was a gentleman who had to be at least five years older than me. Oh, and for those who may not know, this is a host bar. There was one bar tender, one host sitting with the older gentleman, the barker outside and one other person who acted as a waiter. Turns out he was also a host. There was a group of four persons sitting at the last booth down, but they left shortly after I arrived. A couple soon arrived and occupied one of the other empty booths. I finally asked the guy who took my drink order what his official position was, and he said he was one of the hosts. So, I invited him to join me and bought him a drink. We chatted for a good ten or fifteen minutes. He was just my type, too. He said the owner is from California originally and that all of the guys working there are from Myanmar. English was quite good. During our conversation, the older gentleman got up to leave. As he was heading to the exit, his host actually followed him outside. From this I kind of assumed that the host was going home with the gentleman. So, I asked the guy sitting with me if that, in fact, was taking place. He explained the owner does not allow the employees to be taken off during hours. What they do after the bar closes is their own business, but during open hours they socialize but never go off with customers. Naturally, I had to pursue that just a bit further and asked if he ever arranged to meet customers for some fun after the bar closes. Answer was affirmative, so I went one step further and asked if he would like to get together with me. Everyone saw this coming, didn’t you. lol. Exchanged contact info, and he said he actually preferred meeting people before going to work instead of when the bar closes. Closing time is 3am, so rather late to try and connect he said. That certainly works out better for me as well. So we exchanged contact info and will plan for a time to meet next week. By this time I had heard from the forum member asking if I was in the area now and where did we want to meet. He had already been to Freshboy and Goodboy, so would prefer someplace different. Options considered were Hotmale, Moonlight or Dreamboys. Neither of us were really keen on Moonlight, and I was wanting to check out Hotmale anyway to see if the young man I took off with me in October was still working there. So, we agreed to meet at Hotmale, which was right down the soi from my current location. Took me less than five minutes to wrap things up at Rainbow Dragon and head on over. Be about 30 minutes before the other forum member would get there. I knew it was early, so didn’t think there would be many customers yet. When I went inside, there were no other customers. I was the one and only. Probably about 12-15 guys in house doing their rotation on stage with no customers. lol. I still do not understand the thinking behind that. Anyway, I recognized my October tryst right away. He was still there, and he recognized me as well. Had this great big smile on his face. Couldn’t resist and did not hesitate to invite him over right away. I wasn’t about to take any chance that someone else would come in and scoop him up before I could make my move. Didn’t even bother to discuss business with mamasan. Warned the forum member that when he arrived I was already inside and might have some company with me. Also let him know that we might be the only customers for the first show. Checked with my guy to see if he would like to go with me for some playtime and he readily agreed. Only doing short term tonight. No idea what time Paradise guy will show up at the condo in the morning. Deal is sealed and paid the off fee so when we were ready to leave everything was taken care of in advance. Show started at 10pm. There were a few more customers by then, but not many. Some stayed, while others came and went…mostly went. I think at the most there were 12-15 number guys…well, minus one now. Mostly familiar faces from when I was there in October. First show as ok. Rather short. Stayed for the second show and it was actually much better. Performers seemed to enjoy the second act more as well, and it showed in their energy level. After the second show we said our goodbyes and will try to connect again in another week or so. I am occupied the next two days with Paradise guy, and the other forum member is traveling elsewhere in Asia. He will return to Bangkok in about one week. Also think one or two other forum members might be here then as well, and the mention of possibly some karaoke. Headed to the condo for several hours of glorious fun. He definitely remembered things I enjoy doing. For those curious, bar drinks at Hotmale are THB 400. Off fee was THB 500. Gave Cam THB 2000 for short term of three hours, which included tip. That did not include travel time to/from condo. Opted for taxi this trip. More time with Cam at the condo. Exchanged contact info and will definitely be seeing him again. Dang…all of these contact numbers and repeat business. Time is slipping away!

On my second day, the afternoon was spent relaxing by the pool at Le Méridien Hotel. It was a wonderful place. The water was just the right temperature for me. It cools you down a bit when you step in, but it doesn't feel cold. I had dinner at Pepper Lunch. They have several locations in Bangkok, including the Silom Complex. I don't think I've ever read about it on the forum. It's simple but delicious food, in my opinion. Some might consider it a fast-food restaurant, but I really like the beef pepper rice. Especially in terms of value for money. For less than 10 euros, I had the jumbo (large) beef pepper rice with an iced tea. Meanwhile, a British guy had contacted me on Grindr. He was very tired, stayed in his hotel room, and was looking for someone to suck off. It would be rude not to come over, right? And he kept his word. He sucked really well. And was very good kisser. He also looked quiet good. See pic below. He was staying at the Amara Hotel, which immediately gave me the opportunity to check out their rooms. I'd considered booking a room there, and after seeing their room, I definitely would. My date had a room with a bath. The bath is in front of a large window, giving you a beautiful view of the city while soaking in it. Satisfied, I then strolled around Silom. Soi 2 was just as quiet as yesterday. I was worried there would be hardly anyone in the bars. But when I went into Freshboy, it was about 75% full, and more people came in after me. By the time the second round of shows started, it was almost completely full. The show consisted of five parts (including two ladyboy lip-syncs, a shower show, an erotic dance, and, of course, a big dick show—banging their poles against an iron pole). Because of the show was not too long, it didn't much time for the guys with their number tags to reappear on stage. Nice. A good selection of guys were there that night. What I did find strange was that when I ordered a drink, I didn't get the bill in a jar; I had to pay immediately. That was new to me. I noticed that for some customers, bills were put together in a jar, but for others, like me, they weren't. I have no idea why they made that distinction. And I found it rather unpleasant. I only ordered one drink this time, but if you order multiple drinks or boy drinks, are you expected to tip every time? Is this a new way to extort extra tips? When the customer next to me decided to take a boy back to his hotel, I noticed that the boy discreetly slipped a small piece of paper to the ladyboy/mamasan. The ladyboy who's always there and hosts the bar. I thought, maybe that's the receipt the boys get when a customer orders a drink for them, and with that receipt, the boy can get his tip for that drink from the bar? And because mamasan arranged the customer for this boy, does mamasan get this drink tip from the boy? I also popped into Goodboy where a show was happening. Not many customers. Mamasan also said it was a quiet evening and kept begging for a drink a bit too long, which I didn't give. I did give her a tip at the end, though, as I almost always do. One of the show numbers was a kinky performance by two guys hitting each other with a whip. They came through the audience at the end and lingered near me. One was good-looking and gave me a good vibe and attention. I decided to buy him a drink. There was a lot of touching and kissing. His English was also good, so we could chat a bit. He's from Laos. During the show, I thought there weren't many customers, but there weren't many guys either. But when the show was over, the guys suddenly appeared from somewhere (I have no idea where, because they weren't outside when I went in), and the stage was full. Just like the upstairs neighbors of Freshboy, there was a good selection of guys. What I did find a bit disappointing was that two customers were smoking in the bar. Ugh. What struck me during my previous visits to Goodboy, and again now, is how engaging the guys are. They genuinely flirt with you and don't shy away from eye contact and "other kinds of interaction" in the bar. It was a fun evening!

Phnom Penh – reunion after 42 years While I was taking to me new friend about going in Blue Chili last night we noticed something unusual. Bridge connecting gate with our about - to -start- boarding aircraft was pulled back. Minutes later notice on screens said delayed. And crews appeared to start working on aircraft engine. An hour later we were asked to pick up meal voucher from the counter. Nice gesture from airline, we were also told to check back at 3 p.m.( our scheduled departure was at 12.30 p.m.). Meal was tasty, we were given option of 3 venues to go. At 3pm. All we got is ‘we don’t know now what the next step will be” Some people start panicking as they have flight out of Bangkok in the evening or tomorrow morning. Other’s , including my new friend were proactive and booked Emirates flight from Siem Reap for next day to catch their flights out of Bangkok day after. I had luxury of ‘see what happens “ as I was planning to go to Pattaya straight from Swampy so worst which could happen was to forfeit bus ticket and prepaid night in hotel. At 6 pm. there was decision – we are walking to the bus , will be given accommodation in Icon Budget hotel and we will fly out at some time tomorrow. Hurrah!!! While walking to the bus I contacted my school mate that I have extra night in Phnom Penh, asked where her hotel is and instructed her to wait for word from me in 2-3 hrs. Accommodation was very well organized , by time both buses arrived they had our rooms assigned so all we need to do was to pick up keys and get settled. Quick shower and sprucing up, remork by Grab and at 8.30 p, I entered lobby of my friend hotel where elderly lady was seating obviously waiting for somebody and it was me. Goes without saying that 42 years changed both of us beyond recognition and we agreed that had we met by chance on the street , likely we wouldn’t recognize each other. But old friendship never dies and we had plenty to talk since all that time we were in touch by letter and later, out class group on WhatsApp. No , we did not went to classy restaurant or something, like in old good days we bought beer in store and drink it while sitting on river bank on Sisowath Quay. Unfortunately what could be whole night was reduced to few hours as both of us were flying out tomorrow morning , she to Hanoi and me, hopefully to Bangkok. So what seemed bad turned super memorable to me ! Not much sleep as at 4. 28 I got phone call that bus will depart at 5.30 and that early breakfast will be served. Indeed it was, by time I went down they already spread quite a selection . In fact bus left only at 6.30 but who cares ? all went well and at noon we landed in Bangkok., 23 hours after scheduled time.

anti-war demonstration in Siem Reap 1st Class bus outside and inside we even gad hostess, that old guy is not me, I'm more handsome

Siem Reap continued Next day was Sunday so I decided to take it easy. Sunburn I got on Phu Quoc few days ago starts acting, my skin feels itchy and starts peeling off in places. Price for being stupid. Decided to visit Angkor National Museum and walked there all the way from hotel trough streets never walked by me before as this is first time I stay on Old Market side of the river bisecting city. Museum nice and not overwhelming. Feeling walky I continued wandering more or less aimlessly. Treated myself with French pastry – tasty but too sweet and this comes from guy who puts three teaspoons of sugar into his tea or coffee. For lunch I stopped in burger place on other side of river and it was great . I guess I’m getting tired with Asian food and needed a break. In travel agency I bought VIP bus ticket to Phnom Penh for after tomorrow. My first time between too going by bus but airfares are insane for 45 minutes flight. 25 $ including transfer from hotel to bus station . Bit steep considering that bus can be had for 8$ but I wanted to trat myself with 1st class one, single seat , hostess , 2 drivers. One lives only once ! In the evening usual bar tour. I went to BBball first . My companion from 2 days ago , lets name him BB , was not there so I had drink with one of their boys, got heart bleeding when XC showed up with farang , only marginally younger then me and decided to console myself with massage next door. .Massage was average but guy was nice and quite progressive so we had fun. When I emerged BB was in the bar so we went inside to some drinking and karaoke singing. There was some traffic but not much, somehow they stay afloat though. BB suggested another session tonight , to which I agreed, hoping it will be less rushy than 2 days ago. Told him to wait for word from me as I want to go to GOD. I like vibe and music there. Third night in row , both bartenders welcomed me very warmly, too bad you guys are so twinky I mused to myself. After 2 gins and tonic and since I was sitting at the bar counter it was not diluted I merrily walked to hotel texting BB to come. By time I walked in he was already in the lobby. We had good time again but again he seemed to be bit in rush, just all the same like last time. Knowing its our last time together , at least this trip , I told him at dismissal when he asked about tomorrow that while I like him I don’t like him rushing me way he did. That unfazed him a bit but truth sometimes hurts. In the morning I sent message to driver to come to hotel as I wanted to do my favorite part of Angkor exploring – walk full length of walls surrounding Angkor Thom, city at the center of which Bayon temple stands . That’s square each side being about 2.5 km I guess and it took me from 9.45 to 3.10 p.m.to complete full square. Walls are very well preserved with temple at each corner and 5 gates , eastern wall has 2 of them , Eastern and Victory , all other walls are sporting just one gate. I did not have enough so took passing remork to give me a lift to Lepper King Terrace , had dinner there. It was chicken with cashew nuts, fairly tasteless. Then explored Terrace and walked to Bayon temple to complete today’s sightseeing . Walking there I sent message to my driver to pick me up somewhere on the road leading from Bayon to the city. Surprisingly after all that walking I did not feel tired. It’s what love does to us -I love ruins. On approach to the city we were stopped by anti-war demonstration led by dozens of monks and quite well attended by city folks. Only in the room I started to feel tired so had few hours of rest and only at 10 p.m. decided to do last foray to GOD. When entered I was only 2nd client but show was going on so I treated all 3 ladyboys with tip for soldering on. Bartenders were even more friendly than yesterday and around 11p.m. quite a few customers entered, including 3 obvious moneyboys. At one moment XC showed up and came to greet me , rewarded with drink. I investigated about meeting tonight but there was another excuse - friend’s birthday which could be a truth since he had some elaborate card and was collecting signature from some members of staff and customers. So no luck with XC his trip but I still enjoyed our interactions and consider his drinks money well spent. I guess it’s better to get excuses in advance than later in the room. Past midnight walk to hotel and very sound , uninterrupted sleep till 8 a.m. Lazy morning as I was promised to be picked up around 11 a.m and indeed at 11 vehicle showed up. Bus ride was extremely pleasant, we were treated with some snack and drink , given bottle of water. It took 5 1/2 hrs. to reach Phnom Penh including 30 minutes lunch break at quite nice bus stop and another 10 minutes smoke / toilet break closer to capital. What happened there it will be reported in due course

Hello, just to update that I had also booked TCS spa as the masseur I chose at S’Sense wasn’t free initially so I booked in TCS and moved S’Sense later. For all the bookings, I googled the place online and added their LINE to do the booking. Please bear with me as this is my first time writing but I had tried to include the relevant information where applicable. I will start with Jey Spa 1st. Jey Spa Part 1 When doing the booking on LINE, the admin would send over a collage of many boys for reference. You can pick one you like and they will provide info like if he is gay, T/B/V. For 1.5hrs vip room is 1250, tip for boy is 2500. After booking, they would also send directions to the place. The place was within walking distance from Phrom Phong BTS, and a bit obscure to find without the directions provided. It was like a shophouse like compound rather than a retail shop. Once entering, staff asked if I had chosen my boy of which I showed the LINE message booking confirmation. They also served me ice water and a wet towel while waiting. Soon after, the boy came (will call him A). A looked somewhat like his photos, and was quite lean. A led me to a room next to the reception counter lol. I showered while he went out to prepare. The massage was a dry massage and we chatted most of the time as his English was quite good, about his life, travels etc. So I had learnt that he doesn’t know many of his colleagues and what the admin shows us (I showed him the collage admin provided upon request). He also told me that this kind of massage of sort of illegal but the owner pays the police a feee so they don’t raid the place lol. I was also told that the owner has another spa called glam spa. We chatted quite a bit like this throughout the whole massage. When it came to the after service, he stripped naked and asked what do I want which I told him what I written earlier. He did ask if I wanted to bottom but I wasn’t in the mood. Therefore we just had side fun, sucked each other and some kissing and he gave me a handjob for me to cum. After that, I went to shower to clean up before he showed me out. I felt that it was an alright experience. Jey Spa Part 2 On the next day, while browsing the collage of photos, I noticed a familiar face that I thought I saw before on rentmen. I went on rentmen to check and realised it was the same boy. Therefore I went to message him separately to book him. (Will call him B) For this we discussed and agreed on 3000 for 1.5 hrs, for him to come to my hotel. When we met, B drove to my hotel and arrived wearing tank top and jeans. IMO, B looked better than his photos (more handsome in person) and was more on lean musc side. He was smiling when he met me which was a bit better than A as A wasn’t as cheerful. He started with a shower before he massaged me on my bed. He stripped to his underwear, showing off his tattooed back and nice chest before starting. I was looking at him before I went lied face down lol. He used, I think Johnson baby oil on me. He asked about the pressure I wanted, which I wanted it to be soft. During the massage we chatted a bit but not as much as A. He would occasionally play with my butt during the massage too. The foot massage portion was quite good as well. During the after service, he went naked and we started kissing while I played with his nipples. He also licked my nipples and sucked my dick during that time too. He took out protection & lubricant to apply on himself before he tried to enter me. However, I think he was too thick so he had to stop as he was worried about hurting me so he took out the protection and just continued grinding his dick at my hole while we kissed. After some time, we swapped positions and I went on top, this time, he successfully entered lol.(I am on prep btw). I told him to not go fast as it would be painful so he just fucked me slowly lol. After awhile, we wanted to change positions but I was afraid he might not be able to enter me easily again so B actually sat up and maneuvered me so that we went into missionary without leaving my hole. In the end, I came while he was inside me and jerking me off lol. I also noticed that the cost for this is actually cheaper than going to the actual venue. I will stop here for now as typing the above took quite a lot of time and I am still in Bangkok..

Phu Quoc island – no boy business at all, other them meeting friend (not gay ) from my hometown. It’s only 90 minutes flight from Da Nang to Phu Quoc but practically it felt I spent whole day travelling . First, my flight was in early afternoon so morning was lazy, just wandering on the streets close to hotel and along Da Nang beach. At noon I checked out from the room , left may bag on reception and did more aimless , yet pleasant walking along the seashore. Car arrived on the dot and for 120000 ( 4.60 $ ) took me to the airport. Then it turned out that flight will depart at 5.30 p.m. instead of scheduled 4p.m.. We landed at 7.p. and knowing my friend will fly in at 8.00 p.m. I decided to wait for him to scare him off. Why ? because he did not have idea I will be in Phu Quoc at all. It worked well, I was greeted with cheerful ‘ what the fuck you are doing here ?” which was met with my response “ none of your fucking business “ . It great to have friends, no ? Why Phu Quoc, specially that I’m not and never was sun and sand kind of person ? And I was there last year ? I think my sister has best explanation – senility sets in, this is what she said after I told her last year I was there and liked it. Truth is , I like beaches there and like sea, warm , calm and very clean, specially on the west , Cambodia facing side, It’s probably only place in the world where I enjoy lazing on the beach whole day. (Ok , lets not exaggerate, half of first day only ). My friend stay in different hotel than me and this was by design as being friend not necessarily means 24 hrs friend , island is quite small so logistics of meeting were easy. I took free bus to my hotel and immediately learned that it’s not free anymore, from Jan 1st it costs 20000 to 50000 depending on distance but as senior I was eligible for reduced rate of 10000. Yes , almost always they checked ID to see if I qualify. First day we went to the beach , it was so pleasant and breezy that I did not notice that consuming 3 bottles of Saigon beer while sunbathing cost me getting burned by the sun . I noticed some color when we were leaving but only in the evening , when it started itching I realized it was quite nasty burn. Second day was devoted to famous cable car, longest in the world over sea ending in amusement park. Admission was 850 000 and this includes cable round trip ride and unlimited use of park facilities, all those tubes , slides and everything self respecting water park should have . Taxi from the city was 240 000 each way. What we noticed was that , compared to year ago it was much more crowded. In fact I did not take ride on their large wooden monster rollercoaster because line was well over what I was prepared to stand in. Day three was tour of the island on organized trip. Very well organized, pick up from hotel was on the dot and it was neatly divided between commercial, sightseeing and relax parts. Commercial part was typical- visiting pearl far, fish sauce factory, pepper plantation and yes, winery where they make wine from some local fruit. Quite drinkable. in all those places there was shop where we could buy whatever we wanted to waste our money on. In fact in pearl farm I bought very nice shirt for 10$.Then quite interesting temple and finally 2 hours on the beach so I could work on getting burned even more. Forth day was day of my departure in the afternoon but we managed to wander through island only city and visited colorful local market. My friend stays another week but I took Air Asia Cambodia flight to Siem Reap.

few pictures to enliven the thread Da Nang railway station Campa Sculptures Museum My Son ruins beautifull mountain views from Ba Na hills and fake church in fake village ( rain outside was real)

Day 2 Writing this from the flight back home. Woke up at about 10:30 AM. I missed breakfast. V already left the room. He told me the night before, that he has stuff that he needs to take care of and that he will be back in the evening. This was perfect for me since I had lots of plans. Grindr Served me well this trip. After waking up I got a text from the preferred part of the couple we partied with yesterday. He told me he came back from the party earlier and that his husband his out at an After party. He also told me he is now horny. I suggested coming taking care of his needs. He told me he needs to ask permission from his husband. His husband gave him permission on the condition that I fuck them both later. I gladly lied that I have no problem with that. 10 mins later I'm in the room with this euro muscle having a great morning and happy that I got exactly what I wanted. I was hesitant to cum since I have 2 massages on the menu for today but I decided this guy is more hot than both masseurs so he is worth cum spending. After that surprising turnout, I went for a workout at So/ gym in order to get my muscles sore for the massages on the menu for today. I originally booked just a single massage with Yuya for this day. A couple of days before the trip I remembered that SSense had faboules masseurs in the past and just checked what's on the menu. I saw Singha of which I knew from previous trips and got horny. Decisions made from home are really funny because they are disconnected from the reality of what can actually fit well. I contacted SSense and apperntly Singha was fully booked the entire 6 days of my trip. That made me even more horny and I told them to put me on wait list and to update me if someone cancels. Three days later, I get a text while in the taxi to Ben Gurion airport that he is available for a massage two hours before the massage I already booked with Yuya. I thought of it a bit than decided YOLO and booked it. Massage number 1: Singha from SSense. This place is cheaper than the new fancy ones but the facility is more than good. I Booked a 2H massage. They explain minimum tip for B2B is 900 and that's it. Singha is the full package - Asian muscle god, nice and engaging. I won't review his massage skills because who the fuck cares about that lol. Extra services were very generous and he also complied to my request that he lays on the bed and I pour oil on him and play. Lot's of body contact, muscle worship, oral play, kissing. I rate this the best massage this trip competing very hard with the last massage of the trip. After massage ended I left happy and satisfied directly to the next massage. I wasn't horny at all but a man's gotta do what a mans gotta do. Massage number 2: Yuya from The residences. The new genre of massage places that also include Klover and History are kinda cool in my opnion, They hire guys only by the way they look and hope the rest will be OK. That kinda fits my need. Everything here is on the more expensive side. I knew this beforehand so I wasn't surprised. Place is impressive, clean and new. Yuya is as hot as it gets in the genre of Asian muscle hairy guys. Other than that, I can't state anything too impressive. He was fine and nice but compared to all five other masseurs I didn't find him to too sexually engaged in making me happy. He wanted 3K for B2B. I told him I prefer just HE and that he takes of his shirt and I touch his muscles. We agreed on 2K. All and all I did leave that massage happy and satisfied. But in retro spect, this one is the only massage I would not repeat. Nothing wrong just not thrilling enough. as always, YMMV. That was the third time cuming that day in about 6 hours so I was done with sexual activities for the time being. and by the time being I meant about 90 minutes. Went to CentralWorld to eat my favorite Taiwanese dumplings and stroll a bit and went back to the room to meet V in the evening. I told V I wanna try Maxwell Onsen and he agreed so we went there together. That place was packed and we had to wait 20 mins to enter. Inside was a full Asian buffet and some of the best Thai and Chinese muscle guys the town had to offer. I was not that horny it was more of an intellectual excursion and I had enjoyed what the buffet had to offer. V had his share of fun and attention as he always gets. After about two hours we left. I will say that this place is implicitly ageist. It is not written anywhere but I didn't see anyone over 50 although you never exactly know age with those Asians and their fucking amazing skin. After Maxwell's we went to have a drink and dance a bit at DJ station and to my request we called it a day at midnight and went back to the room. On the way back I got a text from an offline Grindr profile with no pic face pic and a single AI muscle torso as a picture. After some texting he sent me his pictures which I was suspicious about because it still had a vibe like someone asked the ChatGPT to render an Asian muscle god. I showed V his pictures and he said he didn't know him. I stayed suspicious while taking to him and told him I'm with V and the next night in CNX but we can meet in 2 days. I really thought it's a scam and at some point he will ask for my credit card number but we kept texting until I will actually meet that impressive beast. My Second night was also last night with V which was exactly the amount of time I wanted for us so we had some night time play and went to sleep at around 2 AM. As the wheels of the plane now touch the ground, I'm happy to be back home. For all that I care, now the war can start. Although I really hope it won't. For many reasons, but also since then I'll be drafted like I was last time. so let's keep fingers crossed that a peaceful solution will surprisingly occur.

Next installment: Showed up at Paradise at the scheduled time. I think everyone there knows me by now. lol. None of the other guys even try to get my attention or persuade me to give them a try. They all know who I am there to see. He was waiting for me inside. This time I was actually there to get a massage. I was still feeling a little travel weary after the long flight and thought it would relieve some of the stress and stiffness. Wanting to spend as much time with ‘my guy’ as possible, I requested 120 minutes in the VIP room. Hopefully that would be a real treat for both of us. He is really quite good at massage and helped my aching body a lot. The extras are becoming much more intense and with feelings…if that makes any sense. He isn’t just going through the motions and it is certainly not mechanical by any stretch of the imagination. Far more intimate and connected. Needing to be very careful with my emotions with this one. I am easily becoming smitten. As we were getting dressed and preparing to go for dinner, I casually said to him that ‘I enjoy spending the time together and really like you’. I tried to choose my words very carefully. To that his reply was ‘I love you’. Wasn’t expecting that, so needed to spend some time processing everything once back in the condo. Did not respond in kind but gave him a kiss when he said it. Thoughts or comments? We went to dinner at a Lebanese restaurant. I have never had Lebanese food before, so I don’t know how authentic it really is, but the place was very busy and for me the food was quite good. It is located on Silom in Silom 64 building directly behind the McDonald’s. Name is Beirut Restaurant. They have a very small sign that does not light up directly below the golden arches. I would certainly go again. We had Chicken Shawarma, Lamb and Beef kabobs, Crunchy Fried Shrimp, served with lemon rice, naan, sliced tomato & cucumber and three different dipping sauces. After dinner, I headed back to the condo. It was still early and he needed to return to work. The original plan was for him to join me at the condo after the shop closed at midnight. However, as often happens in Thailand, plans changed. It seems Paradise is actually owned by a Chinese gentleman. Not sure if he is from Mainland China or from Taiwan. Towards the end of the working day, the owner had lots of food and drink delivered to the shop for the employees to celebrate Chinese New Year. Needless to say, my guy wanted to stay and party. That was fine with me. I knew he would be drinking way too much beer and in no condition to do anything other than pass out if he did join me, so we just agreed to chat the next day. To be honest, it is probably a good thing. I need to be careful about spending too much time with him. We have already talked about possibly taking a short 2 or 3 day trip outside the city next week. I also have other shops I want to explore this trip, as well as some of the clubs in the evening. Treated myself to a little pampering yesterday by getting a manicure and pedicure. Never had a pedicure before, but decided to give it a try. Was a very relaxing experience. There is a shop near the condo I have walked past hundreds of times but never stopped. There was only one other customer inside today when I was walking by, so on a whim just decided to treat myself. I thought it was very reasonable at 1000 Baht for both. That is around 30 USD. In the states, I would pay 45 USD for just a manicure. No idea how much the cost of adding a pedicure would be, but my guess would be at least an additional 30 USD. Trying to pace myself this trip since I have seven weeks. Think I will venture out today and try a different shop. Want to avoid Soi 6 shops as I don’t want anyone at Paradise to see me and report to a certain someone. lol. Thinking about Senso, Prince, or possibly Arena. Curious about Titan, but not willing to pay that high price if simply an S shop. Any recent updates on this place? To be continued...

Day 10 - The finale Had breakfast at hotel, alone, and back to room to continue sleeping. Woke up near noon and booked a massage session at History of Massage with another hunk. Line says he is only available at 1pm and 3pm, so i booked him for the 3pm session. Massage was great. So is his body, competition quality body builder type, and extra (b2b) was offered as well. After massage, did another touristy stuff by walking along the Banthat Thong road. Wasnt hungry so I just scroll down the road and park myself at a desert shop. After dessert, walked further down and its getting busy now with lots of young couples and groups of friends started to filled the road, especially near the street food market area. Took bolt back to hotel to refresh before going out for bar visit. Since yesterday visit to circus bar was fun, went there again, this time with 2 other friends (one forum member and another ex forum member). The muscular gogo dancer i like was there, but seems like tonight, there are less dancers. We stay a bit to see if there is any muscular guys dancing show but seems like tonight, only ladyboy shows. The two muscular guys are still going table to table to entertain customer and extracting tips and drinks though. Left around 10.30ish, to visit the only bar ive yet to visit this trip, hotmale. Visit wasnt memorable, shows were similar as before, with numbers mostly done by the guys, and cocks clearly visible. None of the guys there i would off though. Not that im looking to off one since I already have a guy waiting for me tonight. Soon, my guy texted me and we met at foodland before heading back to our hotel. Back in hotel, my guy told me a very good news. He has gotten the go ahead to go to a trip with me. We discussed a bit more about the trip before retire to bed.

Pattaya, one day, one member , one guy, Immigration lanes were quite empty, I bought SIM card , went to train station to exchange some money and luckily there were still seats on Jomtien bus departing in about 45 minutes so I managed to get some meal in coupon restaurant by gate 8. On the bus I sent text to bkkmfj that I’m finally on my way to Pattaya and we agreed to have a meal together at 6pm. That was not only message I sent from the bus . I have a guy there I wanted to see so asked him if he is available at 9 p, and yes he was. He also informed me that he is not working in the bar anymore I was hoping Zing hotel (one mid-way between Pattaya and Jomtien) will not treat me as no show since I did not show up as scheduled but no, no problem. Very nice time with bkkmfj in Mexican Restaurant close to hotel, we caught on old and new news, forum goings , politics , his and mine time in Da Nang , you name it. After 2 ½ hrs we parted ways and at 9 on the dot in the lobby I greeted my guest, all in smiles . No wonder , who doesn’t like extra cash out of blue ? He was not aware I’m in Asia, never mind Pattaya at all. Great two hours ,we have super chemistry and took things slowly , I can fault him with only one thing - after the deed he is always in immediate rush to leave. First few times it was bit upsetting , now I find it funny : “ I ‘m tired and must go now”. I was not tired and after he left I took songtaew to Pattaya to check if bars are indeed closed . Due to tomorrow’s election there’s prohibition from 6 pm. today. While everywhere else there was more or less normal commercial activity, Boyztown was completely dark and dead , only few massage boys were drinking in front of darkened Toy Boys. Next morning excellent buffet breakfast at Zing, super good deal at 199 baht and at noon I boarded airport bus to return to Bangkok after 20 days of travelling in the region

continued…Installment 3: Ate something that didn’t quite agree with me from one of the food carts on the street. Ended up laying low for the next 24 hours. After that was back to normal. Paradise guy checked on me throughout and wanted to bring me some medicine. I came prepared with trusty old pepto bismol. That, and plenty of rest did the trick. As I continue my daytime exploration of Silom, I was walking down a pretty much deserted Patpong. It was way too early in the day for any night market activity to be getting underway. I was heading from Silom to Surawong with thoughts of getting a massage at Avarin or Green when I walked bast Chaichana Massage. I vaguely remember reading something about this place on ShamelessMack2. There was one young man sitting out front. Just my type…early 20’s, slim, handsome…with the most beautiful smile. He looks at me with those big, beautiful eyes and flashes that wide smile…I melted into a puddle right then and there. He didn’t have to ask me twice if I wanted a massage. After showing me the options, I selected a 90 minute aroma massage provided he was the person that would be doing the massage. I wouldn’t be interested otherwise…it was him, period. The only thing lacking from the experience was that he does not like to kiss. That would have been the icing on the cake, but everything else he was amenable. He didn’t start out naked, but it wasn’t long before clothing was shed. He had the smoothest skin with just enough hair on his legs to get my engines going. I don’t know what the classification for this shop is, but my experience with this young man was definitely H or Type 4, including penetration. We exchanged Line accounts and made plans to meet next week on Monday…his day off. I cannot wait for round 2. One thing unique about this shop is there are steps down…no steps up. The shop itself is in what I would call a basement. When you first walk in you go down two or three steps to a landing where the reception desk is located. After paying for the massage, you are escorted down around 10 or 12 steps to the lower level with a large open room. In that large open room are the chairs for foot massage. Off the larger room are the individual massage rooms that include ensuite shower. Shower is small, and I am certainly not a tiny person, but we managed to squeeze in after the massage to shower together. No idea if this is the norm or a one-off situation for this shop, but think I will need to try it again to find out. Paradise guy took the day off from the shop so he could spend the time with me. Didn’t do anything special, actually. Just hung out at the condo, watched a movie, had some snacks and beer (him, not me), and spent a large part of the afternoon just curled up in bed together…cuddling, kissing, caressing…just the things I really enjoy. He knows how to push all of my buttons! Naturally, bed time included doing the wild thing. It wasn’t all tame. lol. After showering together, we headed out for some dinner before he headed home. It worries me that he took time off from work to hang out with me as I know if he doesn’t work there is no income for that day. But, if I offer any compensation he refuses. I don’t push because I certainly don’t want to offend him. During this discussion it was also important to him that I know he doesn’t do anything with other customers except HJ. Of course, I am not totally naive and realize he could just be saying that because he thinks it is what I want to hear. However, my gut is telling me that is true. He said he could tell from the first time we met back in October that I was different. For now, I am just going to enjoy the time we spend together and try not to think too much beyond that.

walls are mostly easy walk quite well preserved photo opportunities abound rarely visited Eastern gate one of the corner temples

Day 5 Sunday woke up rather early with a mission - shopping. I needed to buy stuff for my daughters and husband. After the not so thrilling breakfast at the hotel I took the motorbike taxi to JJ market. I had the full intention to focus on shopping for my family but ended up finding a lot of stuff for me as well. I filled up my backpack with JJ market goods and finished shopping at around noon in order to make it to my 1PM massage. Before leaving the market I went to pee and there I saw a young Thai guy. By his uniform, it was easy to tell he worked at a store in the market. He clearly wanted to jerk off together as he was standing in the urinal next to me although all others were free too. We started playing at the urinal and I enjoyed that surprising interaction for a couple of minutes until I started thinking about the security guys that are just outside that toilet. It would be so embarrassing to get caught so I decided to end it and keep going to actually pee and leave. Massage number 4: Sunji at History of Massages Arrived at History which is probably the fanciest place out of the 3 new fancy ones that opened. There I saw Sunji which as his pictures was ripped as fuck as can be seen on IG: https://www.instagram.com/history.of.sunji/. The massage was great and he was probably one of the more experienced guys in actually giving a massage. He was also very skilled at the extras. He said extras start from 1K baht and depend on what I want. I told him muscle worship and HE and he quoted 2K which I agreed. He gave me way more than agreed and that was great. Full nudity, giving me oral, sitting on my legs naked and jerking both of us while I feel him which led to a very happy ending. What surprised me the most is that after I cum he gave oral to my cum covered member. Not sure if that part was meant to satisfy me or clean me or maybe satisfy him but anyways I left there very happy. Would repeat without hesitation. After that I wanted to continue shopping and I discovered that I am actually quite close to Siam malls. Went by foot to the MBK had lunch and bought some cheap makeup for my daughter. Luckily she is still young and can’t tell the difference lol. From there to Siam Discovery where I found really nice clothes for both me and my partner and finished in Siam paragon’s food courts level. At the beginning of the evening I came back to the room and started texting with a very impressive torso. Pictures later revealed a really handsome Vietnamese muscle guy. In my head, I imagined the same interaction as last night. Thirty minutes later that guy is already naked in my room and I am amazed again by this city and the buffet it offers. This does not go that easily for me elsewhere. Anyways, sometimes what you imagine in your head does not actually happen in real life and chemistry between us was poor. I am not sure why. Maybe because he was really keen on some really rough interaction whereas I was in a mood for a more chill one. For me it was clear that we are not connecting well and he left half an hour later. Well, you win some, you lose some. It was really weird to receive from him a text, later on that evening, suggesting we meet again tomorrow before I leave. I politely made excuses that I have a tight schedule. After he left I was keen on getting myself some fun. I went back to Maxwell’s onsen, had some fun at the overcrowded steamroom and left an hour later since it was my last night and I wanted to try my luck in Tawan. I arrived at 22:30 to Tawan. As I enter I see a hot guy already seated with a customer. I also see a really impressive bodybuilder sitting near the bar but no interaction from him. I was seated poorly next to 2 strangers. Most of the guys there were not of interest to me except 3-4 guys that were very much to my interest. This time, my poor seat combined with guys that were already offed and some unengaging others left me empty handed. One thing that was really interesting to see - at some point in the middle of the show, a guy entered the bar wearing a business suit and a Covid mask. He sat near the bar where one of the less attractive waiters came and just gave him a hand job for about 20 minutes. When that ended he paid by credit card and left. The whole situation of that occurring during the show was weird and hilarious. When I left Tawan empty handed I was bummed that I didn’t get myself a treat. Went to try my luck at 0/1 Sauna, also a new facility I wanted to check. I came late and there were only about 20 guys. A few were my type but seemed uninterested. I had some fun and left knowing that this place is probably awesome but I arrived at a bad timing. I then wanted to call it a night but wanted to cum, so I started Grinding. A slim young Malaysian guy wanted to come and service me. At that point at night that’s all I wanted and he did it like a champ and that’s how I finished my last night.

As I have written some time ago, I did a 9 day self-organised trip to central Vietnam in 2020 just before borders were closed for covid. I absolutely loved it. Stayed three nights in a lovely small hotel in Hoi An. I thoroughly recommend staying at least one night rather than a day trip. Hue was also fascinating but Danang was the surprise. I had gone purely for sightseeing but as soon as my flight landed in Danang I was chatted up by a guy from Grindr. We met when I returned from my three nights in Danang and he was a delighful companion. Showed me some sights, spent quite a time in my hotel room and took me to little restaurants I would never have known about. No, he was not a money boy and would not let me give him anything apart from paying for meals and cocktails, even when he came with me to the airport for my departure. He did visit Bangkok a couple of years later and I was glad i could repay at least a little of his hospitality. A few more pics to add to those from @vinapu As outlined in another thread, I stayed on Phu Quoc the previous year. There I had five free nights courtesy of Marriott points. Loved the beach, the sea, the island and of course the hotel. With I could stay at the hotel again, but the number of points required is now astronomical!

Day 3 Writing this after the first night back home. Only now after a good nights sleep I realize how tired I was returning from that trip. V and I woke up together around 9 AM, this time making it to breakfast. As my entire experience with this hotel, breakfast was absolutely fine - But, it used to be WAY better. At breakfast V had a serious talk with me about his drug problem. I was surprised of his awarness and efforts to change his lifestyle. To my understanding it is his husband who is very aware and helping him to deal with it. He told me the reason he sometimes disconnects from the world (including me) for several months is that he thinks the gay lifestyle, social media and Bangkok is too much of a temptation that can easily regress his progress. That was a refreshing and honest talk I am not used to having with him. After breakfast we go to the gym together. I love watching V workout, he is so determined as if his life depends on it. My flight to CNX was at 2PM and his flight back home was at 6PM. After workout we play a little together, have a shower, pack, and say our goodbyes. I promise him I'll come again next year. Hope that is true. At 12PM I check out and book a taxi to DMK. One might wonder, why go to CNX for one night? Especially in a trip that is a short one. Well, I have a good friend that left the country and now she and her husband and kids live in Pai. She's an old friend - we studied our masters together and became good friends. Her leaving the country made me sad. She asked me to come visit her in Pai which I said hell no because that's too much of a hassle. She could not come to BKK since her parents were exactly visiting her on my trip dates. Then I suggested we meet in Chiang Mai. I knew that CNX can be fun so I had my share of hidden interest. She talked to her husband and parents and they decided to make it a family trip. I wanted to minimize my stay in CNX So flight was booked for the afternoon and return was booked for the morning. That way I have one night with my friend but minimize the time away from BKK. Flight DMK to CNX went easy and I checked in to Club One Seven at about 4PM knowing I will meet my friend at 8PM. For those unfamiliar with it - Club One Seven is a gay sauna which also is some sort of hotel. At approximately 2 minutes past 4 PM I'm already in that place's sauna, nude, getting a blowjob. Guys there were in all of shapes and sizes and variety was good including my own preference. Facilities include pool, Jacuzzi, wet and dry sauna, a dark area and cabins. Really all you can ask for. At about 19:30 I left the sauna happy and satisfied. I read some mixed reviews regarding the sauna so YMMV. As for the hotel, I took a private room which was kind of shitty with a too stiff mattress, a shitty room layout and I also think SQM was smaller than the 23 SQM that was promised. But I didn't care that much, just one night to crash there. In retro spect I should have booked elsewhere and just come to spend the evening there. Evening came and I went out with my friend and her husband. We had a great night out at the market, night bazar and 6ixcret Bar. The drag cabaret show at that bar is a very impressive one. At 1AM we called it a night and I went to sleep at my stiff mattress. Grindr Also was active and tempting especially one guy in perticular but at the end of that evening I was tired and decided it's time to go to sleep. That was not an easy decision to make and I was proud of myself LOL. I went to sleep thinking about the AI muscle figure who Iv'e been texting to and wants to meet me tomorrow in BKK. When I was in CNX he sent me his IG profile and that's when I realized this is not a scam and that guy actually exists and I might meet him the day after.

Next few days I did mainly touristy stuff outside of city during days. Ba Na hills was my first destination, 550 000 dong , about 22$ by car , waiting included plus admission 1 000 000 dong. Complex is vast with multiple cable car lines offering I assume great views. There is famous , often photographed bridge supported by gigantic hands. They even have copy of French village complete with church which looks like church not only from outside but inside as well. Unfortunately I had bad luck . It was raining and fog was so dense that I could hardly see fingers on my hand ,forget those views. Still I enjoyed several rides, walked around , if only to get more wet although rain coat purchased for 50 000 was quite a help to stay at least partially dry. Surprise was , all that nasty weather was localized in the hills and city was dry when we arrived. Still about 5 hours spent well, At dusk I went for consolation to Nam Spa. I was told that guy there are more hunky and indeed three present all were. I was given option of choosing guy there. 75 minutes VIP treatment 1 500 000, ( 60$) . Not exactly cheap. This time promised body to body massage materialized with gusto, massage was again very good, clothes were shed in first few minutes. At end of session guy asked , if I have tip for him , to give it right in the room so I did. One thing I did not like was that I was left to shower alone which made bit difficult to get rid of all that oil . This was my second and last massage , or speaking more broadly , boy experience in Vietnam and while massages themselves were very good and professional, additional stuff was under executed to put it mildly and at prices they were charging not as good value for money as Bangkok massages are. But I’m glad I tried and certainly will again if travel to Da Nang again – highly likely as I liked the city vibe and have that Ba Na hills experience to repeat in better weather. Next day I visited or rather re-visited Champa ruins of My Son ( I was there in 2002 ) . I love ruins so it was highlight of my stay in Da Nang , weather cooperated today, heavy rain arrived exactly in the moment when I was getting back into my car. The same feast repeated in the afternoon which I devoted to exploring Marble Mountain in southern outskirts of Da Nang . I liked place a lot, temples , caves , quite a few climbs to get a views and it proven to be big ego booster for me. On top of highest point young Westerner told me he is impressed how well was doing climbing up in just plastic sandals and asked my age. When told he couldn’t believe so we made bet , 1000 dong ( 4 cents) and I prove it with my driving license. I collected banknote gladly. In the evening I went to Dragon Bridge to see Dragon breathing with fire and then splashing people with water. Spectacle is only Fri to Sun at 9p.m. Next morning funny thing at breakfast. I brought a soup to the table, left it there and returned to pick up more food and spoon. Upon return I see couple sitting at my table ( it was big one , sitting 6) and lady is eating my soup already !!!! WTF ? It turned up , she thought her husband was so nice and brought it for her and was even surprised how nice he indeed is. We had good laugh and become instant friends. In the early afternoon I took a car to Hoi An for 250 000 curious how I find it after 24 years since last time. Then it was charming little town, now I found it to be busy and noisy tourist trap . Walked though the old city, had 30 minutes river cruise , then some meal and was happy to go back to Da Nang. I know Ho An has many admirer, one of my friends even calls it “Quintessence of Asia” but, me, no , I’m not sold on it. Perhaps bkkmfj is right that I should spend night there to appreciate place fully. Like in all tourist infested places, I noticed tendence to overcharge. Both boat captain and taxi driver I took to drive me back to Da Nang started quotation at twice of final price I negotiated. All in, I enjoyed Da Nang a lot and can recommend city to everybody, I could stay few days more but my next stop is Phu Quoc island .

It's called Somjit Health Massage. Walked past it yesterday and had the Madame trying to invite me in. 2 boys doing the traditional phone thing, yes twinkly in stature. The one to the right as you look out from the back door of TukCom is called Relax@Me. At 15:00 yesterday, 2 boys on the outside table, both doing the phone thing. Also within a stones throw is Helios Massage. Turn right out of the back door of TukCom, walk past Relax@Me, turn left and it's the 3rd unit on your left. Colloquially known as the Blue Door, as the front door is painted blue. Believe this is the only place left in Pattaya / Jomtien you can get a 'Foamy'. Checking the number of shoes left outside the door will give you an idea of how many boys on duty. Not been there myself, but also local is Royal House Massage by Men. Out the back door of TukCom, turn left, cross over the road, and it's the second unit on your left. Entrance is on the right. Within the same unit, but on the left, is BB Gun Bachelors Club, which is a men only Karaoke club. Right up @Olddaddy 's street.

Had to skip the annual trip to Bangkok this year. It would have been finished now anyway. But I sure like Bangkok, heat and humidity excepted, so I do appreciate all of you who share your tales of your trips. Keep the stories coming...and thank you!

Wishing all friends and forum members who are celebrating a happy Chinese New Year. May the arrival of the Fire Horse bring you good health, peace, prosperity and the man of your dreams. 🙏🏻🐎🍊 The 2026 Chinese Year of the Fire Horse, is a rare (every 60 years) and intense period defined by passion, rapid change and bold ambition. It symbolizes unstoppable energy, urging action and strategic, fast-paced decision-making over careful planning. Describes my Aunty Vin to a V. 🙀 I've got the whole week off and will be driving to Hatyai later this afternoon.

Confirmed. Around 10 P. M. last night forum deputation Kiwi306 and me approached bar to be greeted at the entrance by Tae, former Tawan hunk, and invited upstairs where we were informed we are officially first two customers, of the new venue. Bar looks good, no beam obstructing view. There were two twinks on the stage soon joined by the said Tae. Duly tipped all three 100 baht each for new beginning. Soon two other Oriental looking, but in fact American, customers joined us. We were treated to short show with two lips syncing numbers, complete strip off and candle show by masked performer who promptly left after finishing his part. May revisit tonight to check if promised " more boys tomorrow" will materialize. Drinks 400. In short we have new venue and hope is it will survive and succeed.

Officially opened. Announced on Youtube. To @vinapu's face-to-face question, re-confirmed it is open. But signboard still not changed. This reminds me of an experience from maybe 20 years back. I'm not saying that the story behind the White Cat (now more like Schrödinger's Cat) is like in my story... I am just reminded of that particular case, and maybe it's as good an opportunity as any to regale you with that story. I was at the time attached to the Bangkok head office of a Thai company, consulting on a project. One day I was implored (more like expected/obliged) to fly up to Khon Kaen for a ceremony. I never knew why it was so important that I should go since whatever it was had nothing to do with the project I was working on with them. Anyway, go I did. It was the opening ceremony of their new distribution centre. But when the busload of dignitaries (of which I was supposed to be one) arrived at the site, it became quite obvious that the warehouse was not quite ready. The building looked complete from the outside, but once inside, it was totally bare. No shelving, no furniture in the warehouse office, no phone or data connection, though at least there was electricity and lights. No stock either except for one lonely pallet of goods in the centre of the vast empty floor. I vaguely remember that the company had not even begun to hire staff for the Khon Kaen depot. Nor had delivery vehicles been purchased for this site. Monks came in soon after and a blessing ceremony was held. Apparently, the astrologer had fixed this day as the most auspicious day for the inauguration of the distribution centre. It might have been realistic if the building contractor had been on schedule, but clearly he was not. Anyway, the auspicious date had to be kept, and so the warehouse was officially opened. And to"prove" that it had become operational, a pallet was trucked in all the way from another distribution centre (I vaguely remember it was Ubon but I could be wrong) to sit majestically in the new warehouse. After the monks' ceremony, that pallet was loaded onto a lorry and delivered to a customer, apparently also somewhere in the Ubon area, so basically the pallet was driven 300km to sit in the warehouse overnight, and then driven back the same 300km to a customer in the Ubon area -- this was whispered to me cheekily by another "dignitary" on the bus who knew more than I did about the distribution centre. The long and short of it was that after that delivery was made "proving" that the distribution centre was open and operational, it must have fallen back into a phantom state for several months more before a second delivery was made from its doors. That day I had to put on my best behaviour and was extremely diplomatic about everything I saw (or rather, everything I should be seeing, shelves, goods, staff, trucks, customer orders... but did not). I was so well behaved (most uncharacteristic of me) that I must have treated myself to an ice-cream once back in Bangkok. I think some readers in the forum who have Thai boyfriends would understand the "logic" behind all this.

Thanks, you gave me some courage to book, so I booked ssense 2 days before. When I asked for booking on line, they sent a ranking of their masseurs. The ranking is basically how many bookings they had in feb,...wow they are just promoting who is already more famous and ditching the one not famous. I kind of didn't understand why they are doing that in the starting and just chose one masseur C from the list who is kind of in the middle of the ranking. I booked a 2 hour Aromatheraphy Perfume Lotion + Signature sport Massage 120 min for 1690฿ My day started with sleep depravation. Was awake till 2 in the night, slept for one hour and woke up to catch my flight at 6:30 in the morning from Phuket to Bangkok. Reached my hotel at around 8:40 while my booking is at 12:30, so slept for another 1 hour in between. When I was first booking the cab, it showed that that I will reach there by 12:20, but Bangkok's traffic made me reach there by 12:50. The starting was good, they reception was very cordial, they called the masseur and he took me to a different building in another alley where the massages happen. He asked me to shower and after 15 minutes of my shower I asked him to come inside. Everything was going good until here, but then he started massaging. His massaging skills were a complete dud...and all through the dreading massage the only thing I could think was, Is this the reason why they promote the ones who are already famous more? Is this the reason C who is very good looking even in person is ranking in the middle,/lower middle? I was already very sleepy, I wasn't feeling any pressure from the massage he is doing and he was doing that back massage for eternity. After I don't know how much time, he asked me to turn to front side and directly asked if I want body to body massage ( he didn't give any sort of signal till now). I said ok and he went to washroom for 5 minutes. I thought body to body massage means everything minus anal. But no, I can't kiss on his body anywhere, I can't touch his nipples because they are too sensitive(WTH). He basically started to grind for like 2-3 minutes and after that it basically went on to me giving him hand job and him giving me hand job. The experience till now has completely put me off mood, so I asked him to stop and asked him to just cuddle for 5 minutes. After 40 seconds of this cuddling, he says he will get up and bath first which he did and after that asked me to take a bath. Remember in between all this he never massaged my front side at all. I just gave him 1000 and wanted to end this disappointment. Came back to the hotel right away and started checking H type spa's to remove that afternoon disappointment. After searching, finally chose Ganymede Spa because it has body to body massage with scrub in it's menu (may be I was trying to overcome that morning body to body massage disappointment with this name). First I asked for a person whose photo I saw in a twitter review. But I was told he was not there. Then I chose from the photos provided, but even that was not confirmed. All I was told to was come and see here. I became skeptical but I took my 5th shower of the day and went to the place by 7. When I went there, the owner who talked with me was not present at that point of time and only 2 masseurs were present at that point of time(The one I chose on Line is not there). Among the two I was neutral for both and just went with the one who showed me the menu card and showed more enthusiasm. He took me to a room in first floor, and took me to showers afterwards. He also showered in the cubicle next to me and went back to the room together. After asking me to lay down he started the massage and I was jolted awake, like man that was so so much better than the afternoon one. And this was supposed to be a H Place and that afternoon one more Massage centric. He was hitting all the correct points and I was so immersed in the massage that he had to forcibly give me signals reminding that this is an H place. His massage was very good, Body to body massage was amazing and over all a great happy ending. After that I had taken my 7th shower of the day and best one of the day as he joined in with me. Overall an amazing experience. After coming back to the hotel messaged the owner back if the one who I saw in the twitter review will ever comeback. But he said he has permanently moved away. But the owner right away replied that the one I chose afterwards would be there tomorrow and would I like to book him for tomorrow. My hands which did not even give my mind to process the information typed yes. so looks like I will be going there again today.

Me and a friend rented a whole riad in Marrakech with the thought, it would be easier to bring guys back. Never did I imagine they'd keep an onsite "keeper" that was a pain in the ass he was always lurking around somewhere. We brought guys back and he got in touch with the people I booked from ratting me out. They told me I'm not supposed to have local guests, this was before Airbnb by the way. Wouldn't you know it, the next night he was either smoking hash or drinking and showed up tipsy knocking at my door, rubbing his crotch, he wanted me to suck him or fuck me.... he wasn't good looking or I would've, so I ratted him out to the booking place and they sent him away, we had the place to ourselves after that.

Since March and April are by far my busiest months of the year, my hospitality is suspended for that period. I live far from the City but close to the airport which makes easy to dispose misbehaving guests. I don't have gold faucets, I don't have Trump's taste. Cheap, chrome plated will do for you since they are good enough for me. My guests are supposed to cook at least 4 dinners per week, be forewarned. I provide provisions , you just need to cook. Country is indeed beautiful but March and to a degree April are still winter months.

Normally when I see a post that opens this way, effectively saying "I don't want to do the work, so I ask you to do the work instead, giving me the answers" -- I won't bother to reply. You would also have noticed that other members are also relatively quiet. However, I see that you have contributed trip reports before (from Japan) and I will give you some credit. But I can't yet answer your question(s) because there are too many pieces of vague-ish information in your post. So, if you will clarify these, you may get more specific responses. But a word of advice: please do not bring Japan into the discussion -- it is such a different place with a totally different business culture, it can only confuse the conversation (and your own expectations). What do you mean by the term "regular club"? And what do you mean by "more than that"? In another paragraph, you used the word "bar". Do you mean the same thing? In your speech, are bars and clubs interchangeable terms for the same type of establishment? Was that person really a female or do you mean an MTF transgender? If you can remember, just name the place. We don't know if you're referring to one of the places that members of this forum are familiar with or whether you're at some other place we know little about. We can give you advice about how to protect yourself in place we're familiar with, but if it's a place that also foreign to us, then of course our words are meaningless. That other place may well have business practices that are "normal" for them. Best to be specific about the "club" we're referring to, otherwise we may be going around in circles in the discussion. If you managed to have fun in your previous visit to Thailand without ever getting a massage, why are your questions geared to "how to avoid a massage"? You seem to be asking: How do I get paid sex in Thailand with the type of boy I like -- and I think your preference is for very slim, as-young-looking-as-possible lads -- in my hotel room without any massage activity? Must this be in Bangkok, or are you prepared to spend more time in Pattaya? At 33, you're young enough to score at the saunas -- why do you want to pay?