Gaybutton Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 not just possible, it happened Obviously it happened. The question is why did it happen? The only thing that makes even remote sense to me would be he knew he would be getting much more money from the other customer. It was an entirely wrong thing for him to do. As I said, for me anyway, a boy accepting an off and then rejecting it in favor of another customer is unheard of - until now. What he should have done, no matter what his reason, was to tell the other customer he has already accepted an off and he'll be available tomorrow. I suppose you have your reasons why you bought him drinks days later and are considering taking him off (or at least trying to take him off), but if he had done that to me, he would have had top billing on my "Never Again" list. vinapu and llz 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biguyby Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 I believe that Thai Guys just like Farang Guys have all sorts of sexual preferences with no set rules. The strangest one I have come across was a really handsome boy in Nice Boys in Sunee. I chatted with him and we had a couple of drinks and we seemed to be quite relaxed and comfortable with each other. I asked if I could off him for a short time and he said yes but that I would have to give him an hour or so that he could "eat Viagra" as he put it and it would get him hard. I was a little surprised as he was a young guy maybe 25 years old and I asked if he had a problem getting hard he replied "no have problem with Thai Lady just have problem with Falang man" Needless to say I left Nice Boys alone that evening. ChristianPFC 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 The question is why did it happen? The only thing that makes even remote sense to me would be he knew he would be getting much more money from the other customer. It was an entirely wrong thing for him to do. I suppose you have your reasons why you bought him drinks days later and are considering taking him off (or at least trying to take him off), but if he had done that to me, he would have had top billing on my "Never Again" list. I could see four reasons - management order / my 'competitor" seemed to be well known in the bar/ or other guy pays much more that we agreed upon or simply boy liked other guy more than me for this or that reason or they had already an appointment and other guy did not show up so boy decided to go with any willing farang / me / and than his appointment showed up so he abandoned me. I was pissed off but on another hand did not see reason to get THAT upset having access to equally attractive body at the hotel. Yes you are right this was wrong for him to do and possibly unheard of but I saw it as still better outcome than boys promising long time and trying to leave after 1 hr - this is NO, NO for me and reason to place on NEVER AGAIN list. I rather be pissed off than cheated I guess. Reason I did not chalk guy off is his smile and a body, those are things I go to bar to enjoy, not to get even. But probably I should follow your advice and cross him out - we will see next trip. DivineMadman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 I asked if I could off him for a short time and he said yes but that I would have to give him an hour or so that he could "eat Viagra" as he put it and it would get him hard. I was a little surprised as he was a young guy maybe 25 years old and I asked if he had a problem getting hard he replied "no have problem with Thai Lady just have problem with Falang man" Needless to say I left Nice Boys alone that evening. May be he was one of those straights who will bottom for a guy, in true sense 'gay for pay"? His statement was off putting but if I truly liked a guy I'd give him a chance ChristianPFC and biguyby 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaybutton Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 I go to bar to enjoy, not to get even.But probably I should follow your advice and cross him out - we will see next trip. For me, getting even would be loads of enjoyment. You know what I would do? Next trip, return to the bar, call him over, and tell him you're taking him off. Wait until he changes into his street clothes and then tell him, "Sorry, I'm taking that boy off instead." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 For me, getting even would be loads of enjoyment. You know what I would do? Next trip, return to the bar, call him over, and tell him you're taking him off. Wait until he changes into his street clothes and then tell him, "Sorry, I'm taking that boy off instead." it would be dangerous loss of face for the boy in front of his bar friends,I'd be in losing position like going into kicking competition with the horse. He is nice guy, one of those who you ask if they kiss as answer they just kiss you sweetly, forgiven but not forgotten DivineMadman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Up2u Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 OP, you are being told what these bar boys want you to believe, after all they are businessmen. Back in America I remember having to defend my personal tastes for Asian men to my friends. They thought I was nuts. Same-same here, the Thai gay scene is huge, something we as foreigners seldom witness and Thai-foreign relationships (and sex) is a small minority. The nice thing is we can kickback relax and let the Thais do the "fishing". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaybutton Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 it would be dangerous loss of face for the boy in front of his bar friends "I know it is not possible, but does it not delight your imagination?" - Hugh Grifith (Sheik Ilderim), 'Ben Hur' vinapu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LoveThailand Posted July 23, 2015 Share Posted July 23, 2015 I think one of explanations could be that the visiting farangs meet local men who either are there for the money or prefer farangs. We do not see others and cannot make a judgement of how prevalent preference for farangs is among the total population of gays in Thailand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianPFC Posted July 26, 2015 Share Posted July 26, 2015 I asked if I could off him for a short time and he said yes but that I would have to give him an hour or so that he could "eat Viagra" as he put it and it would get him hard. I was a little surprised as he was a young guy maybe 25 years old and I asked if he had a problem getting hard he replied "no have problem with Thai Lady just have problem with Falang man" That's an interesting confession. I would like to watch (and touch) a straight boy fuck a girl, only double costs (pay two prostitutes) and not knowing how to arrange it has prevented me so far. Anyone with personal experiences here? But that would be a great opening line by your boy. I think one of explanations could be that the visiting farangs meet local men who either are there for the money or prefer farangs. We do not see others and cannot make a judgement of how prevalent preference for farangs is among the total population of gays in Thailand Well I do. There are Thai style discos in Bangkok, on busy nights there are over 500 Thai and less than 5 Farang. Saunas with over 100 Thai and 2 Farang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LoveThailand Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 That's an interesting confession. I would like to watch (and touch) a straight boy fuck a girl, only double costs (pay two prostitutes) and not knowing how to arrange it has prevented me so far. Anyone with personal experiences here? But that would be a great opening line by your boy. Well I do. There are Thai style discos in Bangkok, on busy nights there are over 500 Thai and less than 5 Farang. Saunas with over 100 Thai and 2 Farang. You are not a visiting farang, Christian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerefan Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 That's an interesting confession. I would like to watch (and touch) a straight boy fuck a girl, only double costs (pay two prostitutes) and not knowing how to arrange it has prevented me so far. Anyone with personal experiences here? Yes. I took a guy off from Tawan once and went back for seconds. He was good. This time I asked the waiter to ask the boy if he wanted to fuck a girl (he didn't speak English). He was obviously only gay for pay. The answer was yes and so I took him off again and we went to several bars in Patpong and he soon selected girl who we took back to the Tarntawan. It was awesome, he fucked her in every imaginable position and went at it like a porn star! She was very impressed too! Well worth the extra money. vinapu, ChristianPFC and biguyby 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
