paulsf Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 I'd say that the going tip is 1500, but I find there is more pressuring by the boys to try to get it up to 2000. I think Dream Boys works hard to get 2000, and probably do most of the time. But boys at the other clubs and bars will take 1500, especially now with low season. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 I'd say that the going tip is 1500, but I find there is more pressuring by the boys to try to get it up to 2000. I think Dream Boys works hard to get 2000, and probably do most of the time. Well, of course trying to push their fees up is exactly what they should do. This might not work well in Pattaya with a higher percentage of experienced customers. However with a constant stream of new customers, it must make sense to ask for the money in Bangkok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NIrishGuy Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 ^ Not always as I regularly ask the boys for 2000 to go with them and I never seem to get it so I always have to back track and revert back to "ok, ok, I like you, i go with you just for shot of your whiskey and we stop on the way back to your loom and go 50/50 on bowl of noodles " and ok I may have to supplement that with a little extra to sweeten the deal for them ( usually about 2000 baht strangely enough) but hey at least I never go home hungry or without a drink ! lol vinapu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 16, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 16, 2015 Day 9 Sleeping alone very well till 9.30 when telephone form Xiluzer announcing moving to D’Varee hotel wake me up. Shortly after my man showed up from his room and was curious how my boy was. I told him he is coming at 6 again and asked him about threesome , idea which he quite liked.We went for a breakfast to Foodland Patpong since Nantra breakfast is very basic and farang style. Today is holiday, Vishaka Bucha. I suggested tourist program today - Muang Boran , /Ancient City / park in Samut Prakhan on the outskirts of Bangkok with replicas of most famous buildings for every Thai province. Taxi driver wanted 400 baht, agreed right away considering that I paid 300 for the same back in 2002. He took way over structural marvel of Bhupimol bridge described in Christian’s blog last month. It took us 1 hr to get there. Admission for Thais free, for me 700 free bicycle included. Cashier upon learning that we arrived by taxi said taxi can enter compound for price of 400 and I liked an idea because day was very hot. Visiting all attractions would take whole day , fine with me but after few hours both my boy and driver start complaining about the heat so I did not press issue. After seeing Preah Vihar replica I treated both gentleman and myself with lunch on the grounds and we returned to Bangkok. I gave driver 1000 baht, happy holiday man ! Few hours of rest in the room cuddling together, at 6 I went down to pick up from lobby my last night companion from Super A, paid 200 for an additional towel as indicated in the elevator and introduced him upstairs to my man. Since all three of us were hungry and tomorrow is my birthday I suggested I treat them to a nice dinner. We went to Mango Tree in soi 6 , restaurant of fame but my boys wanted steak which Mango doesn’t have on the menu. Lady there suggested some restaurant on Silom as it turned out known to Super A boy who lead us there. Quite a classy place with sumptuous salad / soup buffet , boys ordered their steaks and me , shockingly for some, chicken with cashew nuts. We spent quite a time there and to my delight boys seemed to have enough to talk about, I entertained myself guessing what they are talking about but I was one of their subjects. Then we had stroll through Patpong market and returned to the room for triple fun. I mean I had fun and so did twink who visibly was attracted to my man but not other way around. So can’t say my first threesome experiment was successful although I liked it. Past midnight holiday prohibition expired and my man jumped from bed to go to 7/11 for a bottle of white wine he likes. In meantime I gave other boy his tip asking him to keep amount to himself / yesterday he got what he asked for short time , tonight I gave him my long time even if he was scheduled to leave at 1.30 but after all he spent with us 7.5 hrs and I liked the boy quite a bit /. Boys emptied wine, I had my whisky , some more fun for me and at 1.30 boy announced he needs to go as agreed since he has day time job selling food at some stall in area he lives. To my surprise he asked me for small money for taxi, this is part I don’t like although quite often I give boys leaving at ungodly time taxi money but not because they ask. No problem , I gave him 100 baht and my man protested ‘why you give him that little , give him more’ which was another surprise. Anyway 100 baht it was, I walked boy down to street as it’s my habit since years ago my boy was asked by Niagara hotel receptionist for a tip to open door. Returned to my man embraces but sensed some tension, asked if he liked the boy , he confirmed, I did not pursue matter anymore and with lights off day 9 was over. Whole threesome exercise did not work completely as I expected but if it was anybody’s fault it was mine. Better way it would be to let one boy to choose another but at end of day or rather night I had my fun and both boys their money with nobody harmed in the process or so I thought. JackR, TMax, DivineMadman and 5 others 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 16, 2015 Author Share Posted June 16, 2015 How much is normal expected tip for the boy in that bar? In soi Twilight it´s 2000 baht for short time nowadays, which make those bars just being rip-offs of chinese tourists and others who don´t know better or don´t care. Would be interesting to know what the boys in Super A, Nature boys and Golden cock expect. I'm one of those who always ask boys how much they want. Boy at Super A quoted me 1000 /short time before I even asked. I'd be trying the same with Golden Cock and Nature Boys gems. Soi Twilight boys may expect or ask 2000 short time but I have feeling 1500 or so still would work. Dreamboys may have policy for boys to ask 2000 short time , 3000 /long , at least this is what boy told me in Dec but never hurts to offer what you consider fair and see what happens. Tawan stars expect 2000 /short time but not all of them are stars. #51 wanted 4000 for long time but agreed to 3500 / I know it's too much but I liked him badly /. money I saved because he reneged on the deal but it needs to be said that every time I was in Tawan he was offed so may be one of most popular boys there at the moment. I don't think is any inflation and paulsf and z909 above are probably right about 1500 short time, negotiate up front or have couple 100 baht notes ready if boys will try to squeeze more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 17, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 17, 2015 Day 10 Boy knew we will be rising early because today we will go to the Grand Palace and I wanted to go there early since crowd at the place are insane as soon as buses from hotels are arriving and only hour when one can see something is first hour after they open at 8.30. Did not work quite as planned because it took him a bit longer to beautify himself in his room and a bit late we met Xiluzer and one of his friends in front of their new hotel D’Varee / former Bailey suites/ on Silom. BTS to the river and boat from there to the Palace where crowds start gathering but not as big I observed in Dec when last time there. Both Xiluzer and me were forced to rent long trousers, I actually knew requirement but somehow still took my cargo shorts. Admission free for Thais , 500 for foreigners but ticket includes free admission to Vinanmek Palace and Throne halls in Dusit to be used within 7 days. We did not go there but I gave those few day later to Christian who made good use of them-check his blog for report. Other than Emerald Budda temple my boy had limited interest in sightseeing and quite soon we were separated from Xiluzer and his friend by the crowds but hour or two later when we went to small restaurant to eat something it turned out they had the same idea and we reunited there. Boat back to Saphan Taksin and BTS to Sala Daeng from where we went to Xiluzer’s room at D’Varee since I wanted to see it. Not impressed at all, yes , very modern but small and windowless , not for claustrophobes and even location at mouth of soi 2 will not entice me to settle there, Nantra room is bigger and at least has window with picturesque view of hospital’s multistory parking. Not much sleep last night and early rising today start showing up so we decided to have some rest back in the room agreeing for afternoon trip to Arena. From soi 2 to soi 8 is short walk along Silom and unexpectedly it turned to be nasty one. As mentioned yesterday I sensed some tension last night after boy left and now I learned why. My man asked boy how much tip I gave him last night and now I was interrogated “ why you gave long time tip to boy for short time, I’m with you 24 hours and you pay me the same , think about it”. Merry Christmas vinapu ! thought I, it’s starting already? Normally I would burst right away but fact that I truly like him and generally in LOS I’m always in good mood by virtue of being there help me to keep quiet composure and I gently reminded him that he is paid what he agreed to and I can do with my money whatever I want. Pretty sure he got a message because subject was not mentioned again and we still rested in each other arms in the room. What he thought I don’t know but I thought that butterflying has it’s advantages. In the afternoon Xiluzer and his friend showed up , my boy understandably opted out of trip to Arena asking for some money for white wine and steak dinner instead, I gave him 500 which I’m sure he saved drinking water and eating on street instead but I’d do the same being him. Left him in the room watching TV and three of us went to Arena. Lobby still in the old place but massages already in new rooms. Since I have semi permanent masseur there – Dit I did not have problem whom to choose. Guys had their choices and hour or so later we emerged each happy. As usual with Dit massage took half of our time and rest we spent having out fun not to mention him showing me pictures of his daughter on the smartphone. He never asked me for anything, always happy and fun to be with. After Arena Xiluzer, friend and me went for a dinner to Oasis on Suriwong where they make best chicken with cashew nuts in whole wide world. Then we parted our ways agreeing on another trip to Hero tomorrow. I went to Tawan to see the show. Invited #14 to seat with me, one with spiky hair style I like, few minutes later # 15 Boy was invited to join us and all of the sudden I was object of attention sitting with 2 boys. Since 14 was first I asked him if he goes with me long time , agreed on terms but promised Boy I will off him before I go home. He was my last off on my Dec trip and one who recognized me on my first visit this trip when I came with Tao from Banana. For years I was just bypassing Tawan never putting my foot inside and now I realized I become big fan of the place. There are numerous complains about Tawan boys but neither me nor Xiluzer who is even bigger fan of this bar have anything serious to complain about. Yes I was pissed off few days ago when boy switched to another patron but it was done before we left bar so while unpleasant I don’t dwell on the issue because no harm was done and to tell truth still hope for a chance to get acquainted with his wares. #14, Oud was not hungry so we marched straight to a room where my man was watching TV. He knew he will have a chance for a full rest sleeping alone tonight but before he went to his room we had few drinks together , three of us. Than he left leaving me alone with Oud who proved to be excellent company reinforcing my just established high opinion about Tawan personnel . Great end to day 10. 1moRussian, JackR, williewillie and 5 others 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xiluzer Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Great report!!! love every word and sentence!!! hope we can meet up in Bangkok again. vinapu, williewillie and DivineMadman 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangyai Posted June 17, 2015 Share Posted June 17, 2015 Thanks for the day by day play. It makes me feel like I am there doing the same things! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 18, 2015 Author Share Posted June 18, 2015 hope we can meet up in Bangkok again. Me too, although not sure about this year but hope springs eternal ! Say halloo to all your fiends I have pleasure to meet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 18, 2015 Author Share Posted June 18, 2015 Thanks for the day by day play. It makes me feel like I am there doing the same things! enjoy while it last because only few days left for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 18, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 18, 2015 Day 11 Skipped breakfast at Nantra again and both of us went for breakfast to Foodland Patpong where my boy was already eating. Funny gesture , when waitress brought him check bin without word he pointed at me and she placed his bill in my bin without blinking eye even if I was sitting at another table with my last night off. After breakfast Oud went home to catch some sleep I guess and both of us went to pack since this morning we are moving to Om Yim, short walk from Nantra. Moving took a bit of time as we were leaving two hotels since boy had his room at Sunflower Place. I almost forgot I paid 500 key card deposit on registration but lady at reception reminded me to get it, nice gesture. Lazy mid day, spent mostly in bed. I tried to cling to my buddy’s body and he tried to convince me that he deserved a bonus , an exercise belt. I had no idea where to buy it , neither had a boy but after all Xiluzer , who likes retail therapy is still in BKK and knows plenty about malls so I told my boy we are going to Hero this afternoon and I will ask my friend. To my surprise he expressed desire to go there with us. Nice gesture, whatever his motive was since he sensed I’m receptive to a bonus idea or may be he was bit bored or both. In the afternoon we went to meet Xiluzer and his friend at DVaree and 4 of us went to HERO , my boy was mumbling something that farangs like to walk everywhere instead of taking taxi but still soldiered on all the way along soi 11. Warm welcome by mamasan there and fate had it he was smoking outside with Nut, boy I had last time so I told him on the spot that I’m looking for repeat. Xiluzer and his friend took longer to choose suitable masseur and it were quite a few behind the glass vying for an attention. My boy asked for 1000 for massage at girls massage place we passed by on our way. I pretended I’m buying it and gave him banknote, he left his way and I went with Nut for my mutilation. Very polite boy with good massage skills , I like it strong and he delivers . We finished a bit earlier than 1 hr and when downstairs I saw my boy already eating in Hero’s restaurant. Not that I was surprised but still asked why he finished that fast and answer was he took 45 minutes course, yeah, right. Waiting for other boys I had my supper as well, food at Hero is surprisingly tasty and inexpensive, it quite nice to dine and watch all the boys behind the glass at the same time. As expected Xiluzer provided us some tips where to buy this exercise belt seconded by mamasan advice so we went first Terminal 21 but no luck there and then to Siam Paragon where we found the belt but despite price tag of 1500 baht it wasn’t strong enough so boy suggested 2 jars of those muscle supplements as substitute. ATM me did the trip to ATM machine and purchased them so boy had his bonus and I my printout from the machine. No I did not feel taken advantage of because I was planning to give him parting bonus anyways although I was not thrilled with those tactics but expected it anyways and since at end of day I was happy with a boy and whole BFE I let him to have it. On our way back home I got an idea to visit JUPITER for a show. I have mixed feeling about that bar , boys are all my type and I like show but offs so far were both failures so I don’t even think about offing boy from there , ideal situation to go with boy in possession already so we both went. Did not use much of my drink because bottle was thrown on the floor by the clumsy passing farang who offered to pay for replacement but it was OK, bar got it’s drink and I don’t really need another beer. As usual pretty fast rotation . Lots of new boys. Show as usual entertaining but with little nudity. Good I was with the boy because if alone I would be tempted to off one of their beauties. From point we were sitting I observed an interesting scene. Elderly and quite unattractive farang offed one of their most handsome boys and it was clear that boy was very happy, thank God for Thailand where even such used farang can feel desired and loved I thought. At one point I noticed Xiluzer and his friend in the audience, not a big surprise since we are fond of the same types so our ways in BKK are crossing very often even if not coordinated. Nice to know that not every forum member is chasing twinks and there are soulmates who like more meat on their boys. After show my boy and me left for the hotel. Last bottle of white wine together and last night with his muscular arms and legs wrapped around me, time to say good bye and day 11 was over. jacquet, DivineMadman, paulsf and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aikuchi Posted June 18, 2015 Share Posted June 18, 2015 Oh good lord, Im imagining the hottest studs all over the place as I read your accounts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 19, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 19, 2015 day 12 Today end of as a447a named it in another thread, QBFE /quasi boyfriend experience /. After 5 days of accompanying me in BKK my man is heading home. He mused once or twice that he can stay longer until I leave but I did not hear it. First thing in the morning I paid him his dues as he wanted – all money at once so he can save it . After breakfast we went to Ekkamai by BTS, I was waiting with him good ½ hr until bus departed. Simple hand shake for good bye, when bus left I was a bit moved but he was already deep into his smartphone screen depriving me this last glance into his rugged but adorable face. I will post my reflections on the whole QBFE in a separate post. Now when he was gone I got some sense of freedom of doing what I want , not that he was restrictive but still. Going back to the Om Yim I took taxi just to see difference and different part of BKK that along BTS and it did not make much sense. It took me about 30 minutes longer due to traffic and cost 107 vs 42, long live BTS ! First urgent need when I was left alone was to go to ATM and take some money as I had only 77 baht left but this is what ATM are for. Then I got message from Xiluzer that he moved to Raya Appartments beside soi Twilight and invited me to survey room so I went. Classy, modern, stylish and brand new , not to mention location . Certainly that is place to consider if one manages to get good Agoda deal like Xiluzer had. Any boy would be impressed as well. Early evening I decided on another trip to Senso, only new bodies today and I picked Dodo, tall and handsome and well endowed as it showed bit later for my 1.5 hr massage. Good, strong massage and quite affectionate, I liked it , in fact I was never disappointed with Senso massage. It may be expensive / 900 1 hr, 1300 1.5 hr. / but as far as I’m concerned boys and massages were always superb. Sweet taste of freedom , after stroll along Silom I went to soi Twilight for another massage , this time with my regular Namu from Bangkok Massage. I used to engage his services more often but now he understood that I had boyfriend so my hands were tied and this was only visit this trip. Another hour or so of mutilation with some fun, quite possibly we were too loud judging by stares downstairs but fun we had. Boys there are always friendly, another place I leave happy everytime. From there supper at Dick’s , just soup and salad / and a beer of course /, I invited Sokchai from Bonny’s for drink and promised to see him mid-day tomorrow and then went to Dreamboys for a show. Place full , as usual I as farang was distinct minority but had a great fun not only watching the show but also reaction of two adventurous Chinese ladies sitting just beside. Ladyboys in the show sporting massive hardons positively shocked them. Too bad there was no fuck show tonight, this would be fun to see their reaction. One of boys from the line recognized me, I actually offed him in Nov 2013 and he was vying for repeat but I had other designs tonight being newly born Tawan fan. I’m bit worried about the boys since after the show bar emptied almost completely so it looks that Chinese are attending shows but not offing much if at all. Drinks at Dreamboys 450, did not ask about off fee but another thing I noticed was line up not being as impressive as previously IMHO. And I don’t think I’m jaded. Went to Tawan hoping Boy # 15 will be there but he was not so I invited # 14 , my off two nights ago and number #51 , one who betrayed me going with another customer last Saturday to sit with me causing again a bit of sensation. Somehow I liked having two hunks just beside , few boys came to shake hands and as always everybody was friendly there. Hot scene in the bar with farang rimming one of more massive boys to his happy ending earning boy 2000 baht. For absence of #15 I decided to give #51 a pass still smarting a bit after that incident and offed #14 Oud again. He was not hungry so we went straight to the hotel by way of 7/11 because he likes whisky , just like me. Few drinks, some posing mad KingKong being his specialty and pretty nice conversation as he worked in quite a few bars and even had Screwboy’s checkered undies on him tonight albeit not too long , believe you me. Lights off and day 12 was over DivineMadman, jacquet, llz and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LoveThailand Posted June 19, 2015 Share Posted June 19, 2015 I have offed a guy from Tawan on one of my first visits, but I always visit the bar whenever I am in Bangkok. Not sure why I have not repeated the experience - perhaps because while the guy performed great sex but was quite dis-affectionate. However, the atmosphere at Tawan is always great - and inviting a guy or two to sit with me and offer them a drink has always been a great time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 20, 2015 Author Share Posted June 20, 2015 I somehow skipped Tawan for years. I don't even know why as boys there are my type. Since I braved myself to enter back in Nov 2014 / my 9th trip / I like bar and their attitude , sexy and friendly. Show is for very open minded, specially J/O finale My offs from there weren't exactly success - first one was nice and hot but cut agreed time - big no-no for me, second one preferred to go with another customer / or was asked to go by management, who cares / , only third one was both smart and hot enough to warrant two repeats. But still I'm after those two boys who kind of pissed me off not only because their bodies but also friendliness and lack of attitude. On another hand for lots of our members it's nothing there - no twink in sight and 25 y.o may be considered junior but for me at the moment is bar #1 biguyby 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 20, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2015 Few reflections on my so called Quasi Boyfriend Experience / term borrowed from a447a / . Some readers may wonder if whole affair described above is worth a trouble. After all my case was classic example of advice given very often about LOS ‘if you are looking for love – rent it”. If was not even my idea, rather boy suggested he will accompany me to BKK because he wants to see Silom and do some shopping, always looking for something new I decided to give it a try. When waving him good bye at Ekkamai I was kind of relieved and thought ‘ it was nice but never again’, now two weeks later I’m rethinking, possibly because I’m missing him a bit. I must say boy / not really boy , I should say man, I think he is approaching 30 if not more / kept his side of bargain being always with me when I wanted and going away without any fuss when I had other ideas. This was agreed up front and in fact it was his idea but still he made it working. Both boys I brought in his presence were welcomed and with one three of us spent quite a bit of time in bed. I never feel restricted but as some commented it’s awkward situation to push aside one boy in order to accommodate another . But after all it was my vacation. When we were together he never let me feel that he is bored and rather be somewhere else and his highly kissable and huggable body was always accessible. Christian PFC thought him being too fat but meatless boys are his priority , not mine. He had good feeling what I liked and what I did not so all tensions were avoided I liked his personality and his sense of humor and of duty, after all he remembered he is at work. Never disputed my idea how to spent time , where to eat etc. Few things I did not like. Having constant companion is both joy and a chore. Definitely I was less active in massages not wanting to leave him alone too often for too long. Benefit of this was that I spent a lot less money on them than usually when I take 2 a day. The same goes with bars – being bar boy himself he was not particularly interested in bars and shows but soldiered on to Tawan and Jupiter with me and we went to check on Screwboys since he wanted to see my December boy I spoke so highly about but he was gone to my man's relief I guess. Not that I saved money that way. While there was never talk about increasing his agreed rate for day and night , both I considered generous but well spent IMHO I did not like petty attempts to extract a bit more here and there. Asking money for white wine when leaving him in the room alone and no empty bottle in sight upon return or one for girl massage which he certainly did not take pocketing cash. I did not mind it but still did not like it either, may be it was his idea of saving me face? His idea of asking me to pay him at the end so he can save this money was smart and I liked it but it also meant that he had excuse to ask me to pay for this or that because he was still not paid. The same goes with last day idea of parting gift – he read my mind well since I was planning this but still I feel a bit pressured. At end of day I save money because I was planning to give him 100 USD but spent less than that on suggested parting gift. I also did not like the he asked boy I brought for threesome how much I pay him and he was complaining about me being too generous. And few musings about motorcycle , old smartphone and buying gold but I did not hesitate to dismiss them right away in no uncertain terms So it seems everything worked only money matters were somehow source of tension and no surprise there but nothing serious, he was not too pushy and I kind of understand and budgeted that he may be trying to extract a bit more than agreed. Definitely he did very well with me in financial terms but I have no regrets. So verdict and advice : would I do it again in the future? Surprisingly for myself, two weeks later my answer is ‘probably yes’ although I like better formula a447a is using when hours together are set and part of day each party has for himself. This may be easier if boy is from the same city not brought over which was my case. I’d be still advising boy I need free hand in bringing over other boys and I like my own idea of renting him separate room for such cases / his idea was he will be sleeping on the floor if need arises /. Definitely I would go for QBFE only with boy I offed long time at least twice as it gives some idea of compatibility and money matters would be discussed in big detail to avoid any drama – just I we did this time. I’m not sure boy liked that episode but I know I did. I liked him, his body and attitude. When in Siam Paragon I jokingly said ‘we need to go to the washroom because I want to kiss you’ he pointed to the washroom sign without the word showing he is for me even if only for the money. /we did not go there, it would be embarrassing for both of us I guess / . When last December after my first off of him firecat, who witnessed my interest in the boy, expressed joy next day that he did not turn to be ax murderer who would think things will go that far and he will beautify my life for few days next year. still two more days to go, watch this space if interested 1moRussian, biguyby, JackR and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a447a Posted June 20, 2015 Share Posted June 20, 2015 "intetested"? Hell, yeah! I've loved reading your reports. And I'm fascinated with the arrangement you made with your guy. Like others perhaps, I'd find it extremely awkward and so wouldn't be able to do that, but good on you! You basically got what you wanted and it seemed to work out well with you. Spending 24 hours a day with a guy would drive me nuts, as I value time alone. What would you have done if the guy turned out to be incompatible? That would be a worry for me, too. I think I'll just stick to my QBFE but I admire you for doing something different. vinapu and brall3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 21, 2015 Author Share Posted June 21, 2015 And I'm fascinated with the arrangement you made with your guy. Like others perhaps, I'd find it extremely awkward and so wouldn't be able to do that, but good on you! You basically got what you wanted and it seemed to work out well with you. Spending 24 hours a day with a guy would drive me nuts, as I value time alone. What would you have done if the guy turned out to be incompatible? That would be a worry for me, too. What exactly I did which was extremely awkward? Don't forget that whole idea wasn't mine, it came from boy and at first glance I did not like it but decided to try just for fun. My input was to haggle down his daily fees and to rent him separate room. We spent a lot of time together but I did not feel restricted nor he did not make me feeling restricted when I wanted to go my own way , not only to hunt for boys but also to meet other forum members. At no time I have feeling he is absorbing too much of my time. Time alone is necessary not only for mental sanity but also for wallet health, when we were together all expenses doubled right away, 2 drinks , 2 meals, 2 tickets etc. I did not worry about incompatibility, offed him 2 times long time in Dec and we spent 3.5 nights together in PTY plus an afternoon at Sanctuary of Truth so I had some idea what I'm up to. But this is legitimate concern, often kissable and huggable boy in the bar turns woody and in rush in the room. biguyby 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 21, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2015 Day 13 I’m early riser but definitely not today. It was 10.40 when we left room and instead of late breakfast we had early lunch in a restaurant downstairs. Boy had some seafood and me , you guessed right, chicken with cashew nuts. I did not have a chance for my morning stroll along Silom so did noon one instead, always fascinating and always something new. At 1 p.m. as promised yesterday I went to soi Twilight to have massage with Sokchai at Bonny’s. Good, strong massage and I like his quiet manners and almost completely hairless body. As result of QBFE I’m undermassaged so decided for repeat at Banana hoping Tao will be there but Kevin, the owner recognized me right away and told me he has day off today so I settled for substitute catching my eye and he was quite good and fun as well as impressively endowed. Then went back to Om Yim due to 7 p.m. scheduled meeting with ChristianPFC . Dinner together downstairs, I don’t remember what he had but if you don’t know what I did just read 1st paragraph above. I must be seriously addicted to Thai version of chicken with cashew nuts and never tired with it. Then we decided for X-Size in soi Twilight. This trip I clearly neglected soi , used to be there every night , this time only few times with 2 massages and 2 bars visited. X size was pretty empty but closer to show time was filling in. Few boys on the stage completely dressed, Lao and Cambodians I guess for easy escape in case boys in brown visit, locals in briefs. . Mostly twinks but later on few man like appeared , among them boy I offed last Dec with whom I was very happy but who pissed me off by leaving early. I’d give him a chance but tonight I was fixated on Tawan unfortunately for him. He participated in big cock show so got my 100 tip along with his diminutive colleague who was hung like horse. Quite a few boys were smiling at me temptingly not knowing that they don’t have a chance and I saw some potential as well. All in all nice show and nice mix on the stage. After the show we hang out a bit and then left, Christian was heading to Farose sauna if memory serves me well but saunas are not my thing so we parted our ways on Suriwong hoping for meeting in the future. Always nice conversation with Christian and a chance to look at boys from another perspective- definitely we are not in competition when comes to boy types, as he says my boys are too fat for him and probably too old although he was gentle enough not to say it loudly. Last pass by Screwboys still hoping One appeared but mamas an standing at front shaked her head saying ‘no’, even now writing this I feel a bit sad. As planned went to Tawan, hoping #15 , name Boy will be there but was not so I sat again with my last night stand # 14 and invited another hunk Tiger to sit with us as well. Not too many clients so they cancelled second show they usually have on Fridays / and Saturdays /. After good half an hour I asked # 14 to dress, is not exaggeration to say he seemed very happy, no wonder , 3 offs in 4 days and as soon as he came dressed what happened? #15, Boy showed up, probably somebody called him I’m looking for him but failed to inform me , I’d wait in such a case. Unfortunately it was too late. I wouldn’t feel right to do what #51 did to me on Sunday and tell him that I will go with another boy, sure I could gentlemanly pay him tip without taking him home but at end of trip I did not have funds for such generosity. After all not my fault , I did my part by showing up. I gave Boy 100 baht for taxi, he was visibly upset he missed his off two nights in row – I told him I was looking for him yesterday too.. Another great time with Oud at end of day 13 and my whole trip. DivineMadman, ChristianPFC, biguyby and 5 others 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinapu Posted June 21, 2015 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 21, 2015 Day 14 First thought in the morning was that I’m no longer butterfly. Second night was only one with somebody new / boy from Screwboys / , rest known quality from previous trips or repeat offs in case of Super A and Tawan boys. Today I was rushing him a bit because I wanted to see Xiluzer at 8.30 at Foodland Patpong and we were just finishing breakfast when he showed up. Great friend and companion for bar and massages visits. We share the same taste but surprisingly perhaps still like different boys from places we visit together. He is big fan of Tawan and no surprise he knew my boy remembering even his number. Hope our paths will cross again soon on BKK pavements. So two good byes for me at once, Xiluzer went right to his hotel, Oud left to catch taxi home at Silom and I went straight to hotel to pack which did not take much time , I’m travelling lightly. BTS to Phaya Thai, train to Swampy /45 baht /, at the airport spent last bahts on bottle of whisky, Oriental Wood after shave cream I always buy for 420 in one of duty free stores and remaining 42 baht I gave to cleaning lady I passed by on my way to the aircraft and so my 11th trip to LOS was over. A bit different than before with less massages and no butterflying , more days spent in PTY then previously and first and foremost Quasi Boyfriend Experience, surprisingly perhaps, very enjoyable . As usual I left happy and with busted budget but for me this is part of holiday experience. I’m very careful with money at home to let my hair loose while on vacation. There was only shade this time- absence of One at Screwboys. If he was there it would be quite possible whole situation was reversed with me taking him to PTY. I like clinging to and hugging my men, he was one who liked to cling to and hug me, small difference but hard to forget. 1moRussian, DivineMadman, xiluzer and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anddy Posted June 21, 2015 Share Posted June 21, 2015 Day 9 ... We went to Mango Tree in soi 6 , restaurant of fame but my boys wanted steak which Mango doesn’t have on the menu. Lady there suggested some restaurant on Silom as it turned out known to Super A boy who lead us there. Quite a classy place with sumptuous salad / soup buffet , On my last visit to Mango tree I think last November me and all of my friends found it wanting, not the the same quality and tastyness of the food as in the past. Which restaurant in Silom was that one for steak? If you don't know the name, maybe you can describe the exact location instead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vinapu Posted June 22, 2015 Author Share Posted June 22, 2015 Which restaurant in Silom was that one for steak? If you don't know the name, maybe you can describe the exact location instead. I don't remember name, boy from Super A lead us there since he knew location so I followed him as a sheep not paying attention as I'm not big on steaks. It was roughly across Silom soi 6 on Convent side of Silom, building is called CP tower or something like that and restaurant is on 2nd floor. It was some renovation done on first floor , you need to climb some stairs for 1 st floor , is not on street level exactly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anddy Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 ok cool thanks, I shold be able to find it with that description. I like a nice steak sometimes :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NIrishGuy Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Day 14 ......" remaining 42 baht I gave to cleaning lady I passed by on my way to the aircraft ......... As usual I left happy and with busted budget" Ha I love that you literally "busted your budget" right down to your last 42 baht ! lol Now that's what I call spending right down to your last penny ( or Baht in this case) when on holiday lol - way to go there, as you sure as hell can't take it with you ! :-) vinapu, biguyby and JackR 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biguyby Posted June 22, 2015 Share Posted June 22, 2015 Thanks vinapu, I have really enjoyed reading all your interesting reports from your recent trip. Also I really enjoyed meeting up with you in Pattaya and chatting and having our little bar crawl. I hope we can do it again in the future. It was a privilege to meet you. vinapu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...