kokopelli Posted June 22, 2015 Posted June 22, 2015 Doesn't that go for all? They do it for the money or the money they silently expect coming their way. Unless you are young yourself. Most moneyboys I talk to say they have as upper limit 60. So then that limit surely must apply for the non-moneyboys. I am reaching the upper limit of 60 this month for the umpteenth time. Quote
Gaybutton Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 Mark my words. Consider your words duly marked. My experience is when it comes to boys seeking money, they don't give a damn if you're 160 as long as your wallet is open. ChristianPFC 1 Quote
vinapu Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 I am reaching the upper limit of 60 this month for the umpteenth time. Happy birthday koko ! Quote
firecat69 Posted June 23, 2015 Posted June 23, 2015 The boys are about as good at telling our ages as we are at telling theirs. In other words not so good! vinapu 1 Quote
biguyby Posted June 24, 2015 Posted June 24, 2015 Doesn't that go for all? They do it for the money or the money they silently expect coming their way. Unless you are young yourself. Most moneyboys I talk to say they have as upper limit 60. So then that limit surely must apply for the non-moneyboys. If a 60+ guy picks up a 7-11 boy than that boy is 40, or - if he is around 20 - than he wants or expects money and you will not get him a second time if you did not pay the first time. Mark my words. I have been coming to Thailand for 25 years now and I have never come across any of the money guys\gogo guys\bar guys\massage guys who have an upper age limit for clients willing to pay them for their services. I am soon to be 67 and have no problems at all recruiting my concubines. Of course I talk to the person first and make sure we both understand the business deal. I regularly see an old guy in Sunee who is in his 80's and he is always surrounded by cuties. Getting back to the original poster, if he is not a troll then I would suggest he is delusional if he seriously expects to find true romance with someone he pays for sex. ChristianPFC 1 Quote
Gaybutton Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Getting back to the original poster, if he is not a troll then I would suggest he is delusional if he seriously expects to find true romance with someone he pays for sex. I agree. I have seen exceptions where such relationships did work and work well, but those are rare and the odds are certainly against it - especially if the farang starts trying to control the boy's life. I've seen a great many more unhappy breakups than success stories. I'm sure some will disagree with me, but based on what I've seen over the years, the safest way to avoid heartbreak, jealousy, disillusionment, and a much lighter bank account is to adhere to what I call The Richard Burk Philosophy. Many years ago Richard gave me this advice: "If you want love in Thailand, rent it." biguyby and vinapu 2 Quote
Travellerdave Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 I think there is a difference between expat residents and gays like me who spend their holidays in Thailand. Expats tend to want a "normal" life which often will include a, relationship, in addition to hobbies and long term friendships. Very often they have to budget carefully which precludes a lot of partying and short term sexual liaisons. I normally take three trips a year to Pattaya and am a confirmed sex tourist. My objective is to have fun and sex with boys, most of whom are much younger than my sixties. With money in my pocket I have no difficulty in finding cuties for my bed. Love does not come into the business relationship but I think I treat the boys with respect. Quote
vinapu Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 . ... fun and sex with boys, most of whom are much younger than my sixties. do you mean you occasionally see boys in business who are approaching sixties ? There are some here and there who may be in forties but I never saw anybody THAT experienced Quote
firecat69 Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Jet Lag has set in. heheheh He said much younger then his sixties. Safe to assume much much younger! hehehe Quote
Travellerdave Posted June 25, 2015 Posted June 25, 2015 Yes I could have expressed myself clearer. Im in my mid sixties NOT my boyfriends du jour. TotallyOz 1 Quote
steveboy Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 I normally take three trips a year to Pattaya and am a confirmed sex tourist. My objective is to have fun and sex with boys, most of whom are much younger than my sixties. With money in my pocket I have no difficulty in finding cuties for my bed. Love does not come into the business relationship but I think I treat the boys with respect. If in your SIXTIES you are a sex tourist multiple times a year with the objective to have sex with boys that are much younger than you, then you must have done something right in your life. I know so many men in their sixties that are long past their age to have the pleasure of sex with people of their own age (usually still their wives), much less with young people. I think you are a good role model, and we could welcome some of your good advise. vinapu 1 Quote
vinapu Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 I think you are a good role model,.... Gee , we don't here often such a statement about us , contributors here . Dave I'd buy lottery ticket today. Quote
kokopelli Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 If in your SIXTIES you are a sex tourist multiple times a year with the objective to have sex with boys that are much younger than you, then you must have done something right in your life. I know so many men in their sixties that are long past their age to have the pleasure of sex with people of their own age (usually still their wives), much less with young people. I think you are a good role model, and we could welcome some of your good advise. Quite common for men past 60 or 70 to enjoy the pleasures of love at least in Thailand. Money and perhaps Viagra play a role in the game of love. Quote
vinapu Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Quite common for men past 60 or 70 to enjoy the pleasures of love at least in Thailand. Money and perhaps Viagra play a role in the game of love. it's why we love Thailand. In our countries men over 60 are subject of senior discounts and being ignored in matters of sex life , in Thailand they are smiled upon by boys much younger than half their age and what is better not always those smiles are even faked DivineMadman and bkkmfj2648 2 Quote
KhorTose Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 I agree. I have seen exceptions where such relationships did work and work well, but those are rare and the odds are certainly against it - especially if the farang starts trying to control the boy's life. I too have seen this happen, but agree this is one rare occurrence. I also completely agree with you and Abang that the idea that the idea that you solely possess a younger man, because you are in a relationship with him is controlling at the best, and dictatorial at the worst. If you truly have a connection (other then physical) with a younger man, why would you care if he had sex with someone else. Other then doing it with one of your friends, bringing home a disease, or fucking in the bed you both share, no other rules have ever been discussed with my partner. Here we are in mutual agreement. Sex where a child is produced does and should have rules to insure support of the child, but non reproductive sex--bring it on with caution.. I would part from Mr. Burke in that I think you can find love without having to rent it in Thailand. I am not sure the love will be what psychologist call "agape", but it will be as sound as many relationships are in America. The secret, to me, is not to look in the bars, or massage parlors. You may find Mr. right in Gay Romeo or one of the other web sites where he will be the boy that is just looking for a friend (You know the guy you usually pass by, because sex is not mentioned.) I know you all know of relationships in your own countries of younger and older men (rare, I know), but why anyone would think that Thailand would not have the same type of younger guy looking for an older (Daddy) surprises me. Younger guys who truly like older men are out there. One needs to get out of the bar, maybe out of Pattaya and Bangkok and go find them if love and a relationship is what you are really looking for. If all you want is sex, more power to you. There is nothing wrong with an enjoyable mutual transaction where all are happy with the results, but then don't complain about cheating, fickleness, lies, etc. You are not engaged in a real relationship but in a transaction, the vary reason why the majority of gay men come to Thailand. Relax, enjoy yourselves and do not sweat the small stuff. 6 years together, one year married anniversary. ChristianPFC, vinapu and TotallyOz 3 Quote
