My (not first trip) to Bangkok Report

[paulsf]

I get a lot of enjoyment reading the trip reports that are posted here, so figure as boring as my trips can be to most of you, I'll try to share some of the better parts of my trip. I have an apartment about a kilometer down on Surawong from Soi Twilight. For the most part I don't do the sightseeing thing anymore, unless with friends that want to see something. But I'm a people watcher and enjoy being out in the hustle and bustle of the city.

 

I flew in last Monday . Ft.Lauderdale-Dallas-Hong Kong-Bangkok. I was able to score a 1st class ticket for the round trip. I didn't sleep at all, so it took me a couple of days to pull myself together on arrival.

I hang out at Hot Male on Soi Twilight a lot, as I'm close friends with some of the boys that work there.

Most of my massages are at Adonis or Hero. On this trip I do want to try Prince.

I'm here for a month, then back to the US for a month, then back to Bangkok for another month. So I don't need to to something everyday. Spend a lot of time by the pool reading ect.

 

With Chinese New Year, found the city to be crowded, and Soi Twilight had some good crowds.

Went to show at Hot Male last night. Place was close to being full. Drinks 350. Fucking shows are back since my last trip and they had a cum show last night that I hadn't seen before.

I haven't been to Deam Boys in a long time and want to go to a show there, but think I'll wait till after the New Years crowds thin out a bit. Drinks at 500 is surely discouraging.

Went to Dicks to eat a couple of times. Few people, but still more than when I was here in November. I was usually only customer. Last couple of nights Maxi was packed. Both good viewing spots though.

 

So hopefully I have some good evenings to share. Been doing some note taking last few nights, and hope to do some interviews tonight Have my eyes on 2 boys, 1 Thai and 1 Lao. I think tonight is going to be a good one.

 

I'm not good at posting, so I will do my best to keep this going.

[TotallyOz]

Welcome back to Bangkok Paul. I know you love the place.  I envy you being there so long and wish i were there right now.

 

I see you have an "interview" with a Lao boy.   You do like them don't you?

 

I agree with the 500 baht per drink.  That is just crazy for Thailand.  The drinks in the outside bar areas are much more reasonable and you get to see all the eye candy walk down the street. 

 

Have a great trip!

[captainmick]

Interested in the cumshow? How many guys participate? I wouldn't imagine its too popular with the boys. Surely they are less likely to score an off when all the punters know they have just cum? Were the participants big shooters?

[NIrishGuy]

^ I guess that all depends on what you're looking for as if you're a bottom and are looking to be fucked long and hard taking off a guy who you know had just come could be the answer to your dreams I guess.

[paulsf]

My thoughts exactly. IF I watch a boy cum on stage at 11:30pm, I'm not sure I would want to take him home either as I like them to cum when with me. Of course sometimes I forget that being 21 means you can probable cum several times a day. Those days were a long time ago for me. I'm not good at solving puzzles, but this boy came out with a mask completely covering his face. But he didn't cover any tattoos. Easy to match him up when on stage after show. There was only 1 boy and he sat on a small chair. Just stroked for a few minutes and shot well enough to see in the back rows. I give him an A for effort.

 

Michael I wish you were here to. I learn a bit each time I meet up with you. I've always had a problem of sitting on my hands till it was to late and boy gone. I am much better of going for It right away now, thanks to you.

My 2 closest friends are Vietnamese. They are both back in Vietnam for New Years. 1 will be back beginning of March. So I will be less on the prowl, unless it's for a 3rd.

 

Well it's 7pm. Time to grab a bite to eat and then see what kind of trouble I can get into on a Saturday night.

[vinapu]

. I give him an A for effort.

 

I'd give him 100 baht instead. not that I'm fan of cum show but to compensate boy a bit for possible loss of self-esteem. The same goes for fuck and big cock  show participants.

 

Great report, who told you you are not good at posting?

 

Good  luck tonight. Very mention of Lao boys warms my heart as I also seem to strike good luck with them.

 

-15 and a heavy snow here so I'm green with envy already.

 

Funny thing about restaurants in the soi , I always had impression that Dicks is busier than Maxi's and you are observed opposite, I like them both for food  / Rice Casimir at Dicks and chicken with cashew nuts at Maxi's being my favorites / and as a people watching spots

[paulsf]

Tonight Soi Twilight was quite busy. Lots of groups of people out doing birthdays and stuff. It was fun watching the beer bar boys working there butts off. Maxi's was packed again tonight. Didn't go to Dicks, but would expect they did ok.

 

There is a little story to the Lao boy meeting. I was at Hot Male last Thursday and he and a friend sat Down and ordered one of those beer towers. They were sitting a stool away. The boy had the greatest smile and was as cute as they come. They were talking and drinking with a couple of my friends that work at Hot Male. They were all having a lot of fun. I'm saying to myself why are all the really hot boys customers and not workers. They had quite a buzz going when they left. When they got up, the boy stumbled a bit into me and huge smile on his face is apologizing profusely. I'm thinking, lucky me, I got home in my arms for 5 seconds.

I told my friend, that I really liked that boy, and wished I could take him home. Friends, you can, he works in a bar , just off tonight.

Saw him last night and passed a quick hello, but tonight got to talk for 5 minutes and we will meet up during the week. He has made my whole trip and I haven't been here a week.

When my friend comes back from Vietnam in a couple of weeks, I will probable drop the butterfly part of my trip. But I've met a couple boys that would make great 3-way fun. Time will tell.

 

Vinapua, sorry about the weather. My family lives on Boston and have been sending me pictures as the house slowly become buried under all that snow. So I understand your pain.

Bangkok has been beautiful. 90 days, 80 evenings and humidity not to bad.

[Guest LoveThailand]

I have similar experience in Soi 4 - many boys who come to have fun there may potentially be interested in a hook up. Some are bar boys on nights off, some freelance, some could use a chance for some extra cash. By no means this is a rule - but if you are at a place where you know some waiters - or even if you do not - some discreet enquiery should be done. Sometimes it is as simple as asking your waiter to ask the one you like (and his companions) to join you for drinks - and from there it is usually easy. Just be friendly, be preepared to pay for a few drinks.

This way I had some of the most memorable encounters in my trips to Thailand.

[paulsf]

I finally got to take the bar boy that I met on his night off, home last night. I didn't know what to expect. He speaks no English and I speak no Thai or Lao ( he is Lao) He was so cute and always smiling, I figured no matter how bad it was, I would be happy just being alone with him. Well this little hottie, turned into a little sex machine once we got to my apartment. I was worn out by the time we got out of the shower. Needless to say, he will know my address quite well by the time I leave. Total exhibitionist, unlike most Thai boys I've been with.

 

I can't believe how lazy I have become on this trip. I've been going out to Soi Twilight most evenings and staying till 2am or so. By the time I get to bed it's about 4. Sleep till noon. Hit the pool, shop, laundry....haven't hit any massage places yet. Been getting enough fulfillment at night. Just finished first week and have 3 to go. Will venture out more starting this weekend.

 

Anybody in Bangkok now noticing it's getting hotter by the day. Noticed the boys starting to complain. Though not much humidity to speak of, so not all bad.

[paulsf]

I got home from this trip a few days ago. I really didn't have to much to talk about so got a bit lazy with posting. Now that I stay for a month, every other month, I don't go out every night to play. But I did finally hit up a couple of massage palors just before I left.

 

First I went to Adonis. I have always done massages late afternoon. But this time I went over about 7:30. Most times there I've found upwards of 15-20 boys. This night only 8. A little older group than I usually like and only 1 boy that I found ok. So off we went. Good choice. We showered together. He gave a very good massage. Didn't miss any spots. When it was time to turn over, I wanted oral, he wanted to fuck, I got my oral and lots of handy work. I went home happy. I've been to Adonis many times, and only once left disappointed.

Something that was different for me at both Adonis and Hero, the house wanted to be paid upfront. Is this new ? I've always paid leaving.

 

Then last Friday I went to Hero. I made the mistake of taking a taxi. Friday night at rush hour crossing town, took almost an hour.

Got there about 6. Hero, Friday night, WOW. Most of you know the boys sit behind a glass wall. There were at least 50 there.

I sat down and told Mamasan I wanted a bit of time because there wasn't a boy there that wasn't worth taking. Hottest group of boys I have ever seen at 1 time. Mamasan whispers, gay or straight, top or bottom. Narrowed it down to gay, saw a boy I was drawn to a couple of time, so picked him. Couldn't have done any better. Stepped into the room and boy was out of his clothes before I got my shoes off. Showered together, and know after shower this was going to be a fun evening. It was. Massage was very good, but the extras were better than I have ever had in any massage place. He gave me his phone number and that paid off as I went back on Monday to see him. He didn't tell me till after, but it was his night off and he came in just to see me. Again Wow. I had a smile on my face all night. I ask him if next time when I get back if we could get a vip room and pickup another boy. He was all for it. Another plus was his English was quite good.

 

Be interested in thoughts of some of you other guys, but I have been finding a lot more English being spoken. Seems every trip I find a few more boys that are speaking it better and better. Not just a few limited words, but quite conversational.

 

Overall I had a good trip. The weather was great. Saw 1 quick rain shower in a month, though the heat and humidity were kicking in as I left. I don't know if you have heard about the larger taxis asking for more money than the meter. Say it costs more than regular taxi to run. I ran into this at the airport when I arrived. Got in, he started to pull out. No meter started, do I said turn on meter. He said I don't use meter, it's 600 baht to your hotel. I said stop, I will get another taxi. He asked my hotel name and I said, no hotel, I live here and have an apartment. So I know 600 is to much. He said ok, 500. I said no, grabbed my suitcase and got another taxi. Cost 375 .

My apt is on a street that has an abundance of taxis. I never wait more than 1 or 2 minutes to get one. I use 2-4 a day. I only had 1 that wouldn't take me where I wanted to go and the airport incident . Not bad for a month.

 

I head back the end of April for a month, and Hero is on the first day agenda.

I wish we had affordable supersonic travel. These 30 hour trips are getting old.

[firecat69]

Supersonic oh why are we so backward. Planes take longer to fly now then 50 years ago. Planes are a little bit faster (very little) but all the other delays are much worse.

 

I think the most I ever did was 4 per year . No idea how you can do one every other month, What happens when you run out of miles for upgrades?

[vinapu]

 What happens when you run out of miles for upgrades?

he will sit in the cattle class like most of flying humanity

[paulsf]

Vinapu your exactly right. I have had high status with American Airlines for 13 years. This has kept me up front. I can handle economy for 10 hours, but then it all goes bad. As long as I can keep status, AA gives me 8 business class upgrades every year. But everyday I wait for my upgrade to confirm, I think is this the time I'm going to do 16 hours in coach.

 

I just keep thinking of the rewards when the plane touches down. Doing 30 day trips really helps. Gives you time to recover between flights. When I lived in San Francisco it was no problem, but now living on the East Coast, that extra 5 hours takes the fun out of it.

[colmx]

Be interested in thoughts of some of you other guys, but I have been finding a lot more English being spoken. Seems every trip I find a few more boys that are speaking it better and better. Not just a few limited words, but quite conversational.

I find that its the Cambodian and Laos boys that tend to have the better English these days, whilst the average Thai boy still seems to be lacking far behind their Asean counterparts...

[neddy]

I have been to Hero twice over the last couple of months.

 

First time I paid when leaving, the second time I was asked to pay before.

[vinapu]

I like paying up front, specially in places I'm not familiar with, one less pocket to watch although it must be said loudly I never had any problems in LOS with missing things or money.

 

In bar I pay for drinks as soon as they appear and even when off boy I offed already before on the same trip I like to point that money on the table is his morning tip, would not do it with first time off though .

[TMax]

Great reporting Paul, glad you had a good time at Hero.

[williewillie]

I like paying up front, specially in places I'm not familiar with, one less pocket to watch although it must be said loudly I never had any problems in LOS with missing things or money.

 

In bar I pay for drinks as soon as they appear and even when off boy I offed already before on the same trip I like to point that money on the table is his morning tip, would not do it with first time off though .

Quite a few farangs pay their check bins immediately after getting their drinks. Some have several drinks and pay after each.

[TotallyOz]

I don't think i ever pay in advance or upfront. But, I always do check and double check the bin.  On this alone, the bill is wrong about 30 percent of the time.

[Guest]

I don't think i ever pay in advance or upfront. But, I always do check and double check the bin.  On this alone, the bill is wrong about 30 percent of the time.

Let me guess.

30% in favour of the bar ?

0% in your favour ?

[vinapu]

I don't think i ever pay in advance or upfront. But, I always do check and double check the bin.  On this alone, the bill is wrong about 30 percent of the time.

this is exactly reason I prefer to pay as it goes, do not want waiters to stress themselves with excessive tally

[vinapu]

to be fair I recall two situations from the last trip when I was given wrong change / 100 baht  / in may favour, both times in restauranths though

[paulsf]

I have a habit of checking the slip everytime they put one in the bin. I have never had the wrong amount or wrong change given. But on my trip last month, I had a boy buy himself a drink. He tried to slip his slip into my bin. I caught him and he got into a lot of trouble from management.

I sit at Hot Male and order food from Maxis often. It seems I never get charged the same from night to night. Usually within 10-20 baht, so I don't say anything .

[gaperking]

Nice posts Paul. Do you ever use phone apps like GuySpy or Grinder to find boys? I self do not like drinking so I prefer staying away from bars.

[paulsf]

No, I don't use aps. I have a couple of boys that I am very close to. When they have something to keep them busy, I use that time to stray. I really like massages. For me, I usually get more out of a massage boy than offing a boy at a club.

I don't drink either, but still hang out at the beer bars a lot. Lots to drink besides alcohol . And I really enjoy the eye candy.