Guest Aussiebi14 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 So gents I thought I would start a poll Do you ever bareback your boys ? Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 What a stupid question... Why would you want to risk your own precious life? Put on your thinking cap and rubber before engaging in earthly pleasures... total disappointment ...if you still need to ask ... Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 What a stupid question... Why would you want to risk your own precious life? Put on your thinking cap and rubber before engaging in earthly pleasures... total disappointment ...if you still need to ask ... Quote
Guest Aussiebi14 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 No such thing as a stupid question ... Quote
Up2u Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 So gents I thought I would start a poll Do you ever bareback your boys ? No. Do you? ChristianPFC 1 Quote
Alexx Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I don't think it's a stupid question. Let's not pretend nobody is doing it, these HIV rates we're seeing don't fall from the sky after all. Also, at least from my experience, the number of "boys" who would let you have your way, either way, boggles the mind. So I'll bite: I wouldn't have bareback sex with "my boys" here in Bangkok, as long as having "boys" means that I'm having sex with many different guys I barely know. That would be incredibly risky, especially here and now, and while I won't pretend that I never did anything foolish, that's a long time ago and luckily I got away with it. vinapu, aussie_ and ChristianPFC 3 Quote
scottydog Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 No such thing as a stupid question ... True but there are a lot of inquisitive Idiots. Quote
Guest Aussiebi14 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 A lot of people seem to have there head in the sand Quote
Guest Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 The question is sensible. The only thing that's stupid would be a yes answer. The risk of catching HIV is just too high. And anyone who already has it should show some morality and wear a condom. Quote
vinapu Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 What a stupid question... Why do you think question is stupid? a. because you think is too nosy ? or b. because you doubt respondents will give honest answers ? / I have some doubts too / or c. because you think everybody is playing safe so answer is obvious and no need for question? / I wish this was true / Just asking To answer original question - never in my life and I remember times before AIDS appeared. Quote
vinapu Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 I don't think it's a stupid question. Let's not pretend nobody is doing it, these HIV rates we're seeing don't fall from the sky after all. Also, at least from my experience, the number of "boys" who would let you have your way, either way, boggles the mind. I agree , nothing stupid in question and obviously hit some nerve with all those ' stupid ' and 'idiot ' included in answers . From my personal 2013 statistic sample I can say at least 1 boy in 11 will not care if you are wearing condom or not or would try to penetrate you without wearing one. Yes at this day and year it boggles the mind but as OP said lots of people have head in the sand. As Dorothy in "Golden Girls" said , our bedrooms are crowded and when we sleep with somebody we sleep with all people he slept with before Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted July 20, 2014 Posted July 20, 2014 Steady Vinapu for bring ing up Golden Girls.. that must be 30 years ago.. Only old folks like me watch that! But to the issue, bareback sex is UNSAFE SEX....so, please don't do it.... Quote
Up2u Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 A lot of people seem to have there head in the sand We are all waiting with abated breath for your own answer to your question. And why or why not? Quote
vinapu Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 Steady Vinapu for bring ing up Golden Girls.. that must be 30 years ago.. Only old folks like me watch that! But to the issue, bareback sex is UNSAFE SEX....so, please don't do it.... You are right, must be 30 years but I still watch it from my DVD from time to time and still have good laugh. As for unsafe sex - as per my post # 12, never did in my entire life but I repeat, some boys just don't care so chances are if client insists , they may allow it and if we are not careful , we may be next in chain. Quote
Travellerdave Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 The question is not stupid but rather clumsy. Bareback is available in Thailand but I'm sure that few forum members here would indulge. I certainly would not. I value my life too much to risk it for a short period of enhanced pleasure. Whilst in bed with boys i place open condoms on both bedside tables ready for use when sometimes im half asleep. Quote
ChristianPFC Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 No. You were just asking about active, let me extend my reply that I use condoms for all kinds of anal intercourse. (And let me add that asking about barebacking is good for trolling.) Quote
Guest Aussiebi14 Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 If it was such a stupid question then why is there an AIDS from in pattaya? I dont bareback any where. Not to say I never have in the past but the feelings of nerves I had before my first sex health check is not something I want to have again. You only have nerves if you have unsafe sex. If we use the forum as a sample of the community to think that every one here only has safe sex is a bit un realistic. I was just curious if it was something people would admit to openly? On other hetro forums it is discussed most openly. Quote
vinapu Posted July 21, 2014 Posted July 21, 2014 as far as I'm concerned nothing wrong in asking any questions as long as it keeps board active. Quote
Guest chicolby Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 I don't think it's such a foolish question. A) there is evidence that tops are much less likely to catch HIV and B) when I was there, I didn't have a condom with me and a guy I met was more than willing to let me go inside him bare as long as I "came outside". Of course, I didn't take him up on it, but the willingness for him to take it bare was quite interesting. Quote
Up2u Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 In my life I have known a lot of tops who are no longer with us. baobao 1 Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 I don't think it's such a foolish question. A) there is evidence that tops are much less likely to catch HIV and B) when I was there, I didn't have a condom with me and a guy I met was more than willing to let me go inside him bare as long as I "came outside". Of course, I didn't take him up on it, but the willingness for him to take it bare was quite interesting. Yes the cumming may be done "outside" but sorry to inform, the exchange of body fluids inside the channel is the REAL concern...of course if I am a sex worker, I take any client who is willing to pay, condom or condom-less as I would not want to go home empty-handed and hungry, right? Quote
vinapu Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 I don't think it's such a foolish question. A) there is evidence that tops are much less likely to catch HIV and B) when I was there, I didn't have a condom with me and a guy I met was more than willing to let me go inside him bare as long as I "came outside". Of course, I didn't take him up on it, but the willingness for him to take it bare was quite interesting. Instead of ' interesting ' I'd rather say chilling as likely it was not first time Quote
t0oL1 Posted July 25, 2014 Posted July 25, 2014 even if we were both "virgins" or disease free, it would only train the boy to have more unsafe sex, ultimately resulting in his demise. Quote