What you would do?

[vinapu]

As it happened to me at least 4 times over the years it's quite possible others had this dilemma to solve as well.

 

You picked up boy and when both of you arrive in your room and getting ready you noticed that owing  to dim lights at bar,  too rosy glasses , one glass of beer to much or just  fact that  boy was  half  dressed on stage you overlooked something or did not have a chance to see it.

 

Boy is not dud, is able,  willing and getting hard , clean and smelling nicely but you know that encounter is spoiled already. Oddly shaped  or deformed by botched silicone injection dick, ugly scar or warts hidden under briefs, hidden tattoo  you hate, too much body hair or clean  shaved  pubes or whatever your turn-off is. Whatever it is,  you hate it , your lust is melting, dick is shrinking  and now what you do?

 

-send boy away with or without explanation ? with full tip you'd pay or reduced one?

or

- pretend you don't see it , grab  Cialis to go ahead gnashing tees in meantime and may be  reduce his tip on departure, again with or without explanation

or

-keep boy but reduce / change your planned  activities to whatever you can stand / or rather you can't stand/ converting your night of passion to some light body contact in completely darkened room

or

- it never happened so you are telling me I'm too hasty picking up companions or simply had bad luck / 2 times ugly silicone deformed  dicks, 2 times shaved pubes / neglecting "check the wares" part before off.

 

Red recently some old post about the same kind of problem and contributor proudly announced that sent boy away with token tip what I considered cruel treatment so looking for other opinions.

 

I usually go long time .In all my cases being soft hearted I converted planned hot nights to quiet sleep-overs. Should I  consider myself pervert for sleeping whole night next to naked guy without toughing his equipment even once ?

 

 

 

[Gaybutton]

Unless you have reason to believe the boy deliberately deceived you, since you did take him off I think that obligates you to give him the full tip amount whether you engage in sex with him or not.  It's not his fault you didn't notice his flaws or what you don't like about him until after you took him off.  As long as he's getting his money, which is the reason he went off with you in the first place, he'll be happy.  You could always say you're just too tired now or something.  After all, you're the one who took him off. 

 

On the other hand, if you know he deliberately deceived you, that's a different story.  In that case, I don't think you owe him anything at all.  I'd give him taxi fare just to get rid of him, but nothing more.

[williewillie]

Hard call. I try to make the

best of and remind myself to

check new boys better or at least

ask if any nooks,silicon etc.

Sometimes, lifting a beer bar boys

shirt will disclose why they

don't work gogo.

Most of the boys with nasty bodies

don't last long.

Regulars are often spared as they will

get tipped off, especially if

they tip or buy mamasans/waiter

a drink sometimes.

[Guest anonone]

I have avoided the whole silicone thing, which is about the only thing thing that would be a major deal-breaker for me.  I prefer the slim, fem or twink guys and I think the silicone / nook thing is more popular among the "manly" crowd.

 

I agree with GBs comments...no deception on his part means the minimum tip would be the right thing to do. 

 

And I would recommend figuring out some way to have fun.  Unless you were soo traumatized by the sight of silicon, you could at least close your eyes and have him go to town. 

[kokopelli]

And I would recommend figuring out some way to have fun.  Unless you were soo traumatized by the sight of silicon, you could at least close your eyes and have him go to town. 

 

I agree with you anonone; nothing wrong with a little kinky sex.

[Guest]

1 If the boy is not as expected because you didn't check him out, or because of poor light in the bar etc, I think you need to pay the tip, as that's your responsibility..

2 If he's a complete dud & making no effort, send him away before anything happens with a severely reduced tip.

3 If he deliberately deceived you, e.g. is 10 years older than his GR profile claims, he shouldn't even get his taxi fare. After all, he's the one wasting your time.

[Gaybutton]

 If he deliberately deceived you, e.g. is 10 years older than his GR profile claims, he shouldn't even get his taxi fare. After all, he's the one wasting your time.

 

There is an exception.  I've posted about this before.  I had an experience on Gay Romeo when the boy who showed up was not the boy in the photos.  He wasn't even close.  I guess he was a substitute or something - who knows?  I would have sent him away, but as it turned out, I liked him far more than the boy who was in the photos.  He ended up with a much better tip than I had in mind for the boy in the photos.

[ChristianPFC]

Happened to me a few times that back in my room, with better light, I thought "he looked better before".

In case of moneyboys, full tip. For non-moneyboys, some excuse for not having sex.

 

There was one boy from Saranrom (about 2 years ago) who had oozing pimples on his but. Maybe insect bites? No such a problem.

 

Last week I had a boy from Saranrom who had a mook.The first mook I encountered. No problem at all, as I'm not focused on dick.

 

Three years ago, I hooked up in DJ station and discovered body hair back in my hotel room. That's a turn off! Now I can estimate from facial hair, how much body hair a boy has.

 

There was a boy from gayromeo in Pattaya (name Thana_romeo), who did not look as good as I thought (poor pictures, now I have a policy not to meet boys with poor pictures), but he took the lead, so we ended up in my hotel room. Good oral perfomance, full tip.