Money for One Month

[Guest Pearl69er]

Be careful Truthteller-express an honest opinion on some boards and you could be accused of being a "trolll, hydra, goose, sociopath--or even worse ME!"

 

I think however you raise a reasonable point.

 

If he 's your boyfriend, why not take him to Brazil with you ?.

 

If he's just a piece of trade he'll obviously know that and will be happy with whatever you give him.

 

But surely you must now what his weekly needs are by now ?.

 

( which rant about HIV was in extremely bad taste YardenUK ?)

 

Why would Truthteller be necessarily "jealous" of Gay Thailand's lifestyle Gaybutton ?.

That asumes that everyone must want GayThailand's life or it's the ultimate one to have.

 

I've certainly seen him around with a crew and I think "good on him" if that's what he likes but it dosn't mean than everyone else does. Some people are more monogamous and just prefer one

boyfriend.

 

In fact it's a complete impossibility to make the assumption that one peson is having a better time than you..isn't it ?

[Gaybutton]

BTW: Just for verification I have sent the results to GayButton so perhaps he can attest to the veracity of my statement.

 

Yes, indeed I can. GayThaland scanned and sent the results to me and I received them in an E-mail.

 

I'm glad you take the flamers in stride. It boggles my mind that there are actually people out there who spend time posting their nonsense. It's incredible to me that people spend their time poking their noses into your life. They may claim it has nothing to do with jealousy, but that's at least a part of what it is. Jealousy, envy, holier than thou, just plain being mean, or whatever it is, I'm glad your attitude is not to give a damn about what they write.

 

I don't know why the flamers can't content themselves with minding their own business, but as far as I'm concerned they can all go to hell. Your life and the way you wish to live it is absolutely nobody's concern other than your own and you don't have to defend it to anybody. I'll bet that most of them would love to be able to live their lives being able to do anything they damned well please. So would I. Go where you want with whoever you want. If these creeps don't like it, tough luck.

 

Geezer is absolutely right. TROLLS!

 

If he 's your boyfriend, why not take him to Brazil with you ?.

 

Why would Truthteller be necessarily "jealous" of Gay Thailand's lifestyle Gaybutton ?.

That asumes that everyone must want GayThailand's life or it's the ultimate one to have.

 

If it isn't necesarily so, but that's what I think. It doesn't assume anything about "everyone," but it assumes plenty about the so-called TruthTeller.

 

I hope GayThailand answers your question about why not take him to Brazil as soon as you can explain what business it is of yours or anybody else.

[Guest jomtien]

 

 

I hope GayThailand answers your question about why not take him to Brazil as soon as you can explain what business it is of yours or anybody else.

 

 

Well, without commenting on which 'side of the fence' I fall on here, I will say I feel that once someone publicly posts something then it does more or less become 'everyone's' business, and is open for comment, pro or con.

 

Personally the only thing annoying to me in the thread is that GT isn't taking ME to Brazil. The hell with his boyfriend.

 

 

 

[Gaybutton]

I feel that once someone publicly posts something then it does more or less become 'everyone's' business, and is open for comment, pro or con.

 

Personally the only thing annoying to me in the thread is that GT isn't taking ME to Brazil. The hell with his boyfriend.

 

Ok, we'll see if GayThailand shares your opinion and wants to answer.

 

I'm not upset that he isn't taking me to Brazil. Been there, done that. But next time he goes to Spain . . . .

 

 

[Guest Aunty]

No one really cares what he does with his money.

Well you obviously do or else you wouldn't be posting this dribble now, would you! If the guy is a man of means, well good luck to him. How he wishes to spend his money IS none of your affair. It's Pattaya. If he wants to surround himself with a group of bar-boys, that's his business, and their business; in both senses!

 

 

Let him sit around the corner bar with the pussy Catawampus and the other sizeable Americans and listen to them tell everyone else what they should do.

Of course you'd never do that yourself, would you? Yeah not half! What do you think you're doing now???!!!

 

 

What you do with all these boys is your business

Well I'm gald to hear it! So how come the need for the rant you've just subjected us all to???

 

 

Have you ever thought about what effect on business you are having on the boys you pay for? What you are doing is ostrasing the boys from other potential customers.

Why should he, the boys' have a customer already. What do you think their job is?? Kapeesh?

 

 

Once I see them with you, I make a mental note not to off that kid in the future. Not sure why I feel this way but I will certainly think twice about offing him after seeing you with him. I know that most of us don

[Guest Geezer]

***TROLL ALERT! *** TROLL ALERT!***

 

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[Guest Aunty]

You're right Geezer. That will be my last post on the matter. Promise!

[Guest Pearl69er]

( why does Geezer announce his arrival with "troll alert" all the time ??)

 

"I hope GayThailand answers your question about why not take him to Brazil as soon as you can explain what business it is of yours or anybody else."

 

Yes maybe he will Gaybuton.

 

None of my business ..you are quite right.

 

One wonders then why he posts a question about his private life on a public message board and ask's people's opinion if he wasn't expecting answers ?

 

Maybe he was just thinking out loud or it was a rhetorical question to which he already has his answer.

 

Either way I reckon if you do ask for other people's opinions on a board it's highlyl likely that someone will answer.

 

Call me mad, deluded, goose, Earwig, LMTU or anything you like but that's how it looks to me

 

Why do you think he did it ?

 

 

[Guest Pearl69er]

GAY THAILAND: can I ask you a question ?

 

When you posted this thread were you genuinley asking for answers or did you not expect to recieve them.

 

Gay Button says :

"I hope GayThailand answers your question about why not take him to Brazil as soon as you can explain what business it is of yours or anybody else."

 

I most certainly do not want to interfere in your private life-our mutual friends in Pattaya tell me you are an extremely nice person. I have actually met you

 

But as you opened a thread on yuor own board, posed questions, I don't see that is very strange that other members answer..even if it's something yo might not agree with or want to hear.

 

Indeed your Mission Statement says :..."a venue for the discussion and exchange of information about Thailand and other related issues. It is a place to submit queries and share experiences, information, concerns,.."

The last thing I expect though is to be told "it's none of my business"...

 

I am genuinley puzzled..did you expect answers or didn't you ??

 

[Up2u]

GT posted "As I do before I leave Thailand on most trips, I get tested myself for HIV. I did that today with Bangkok Pattaya Hospital. I do this in Thailand as it is cheaper than a hospital visit in my home country and I don't like the hospitals in Brazil. My results were negative as well."

 

I find this interesting. If you are practising safe sex then testing is redundant. Perhaps you get tested just to make the boy(s) feel they are not being singled out.

[TotallyOz]

If he 's your boyfriend, why not take him to Brazil with you ?.

 

If he were gay, I would. Since he is not, it would be a waste of money. I spend my time in the gay activities and he would be bored and very unhappy. Been there done that, not doing it again. I have brought a few gay farang boys over to Thailand and they had a great time. But, they were gay. I don't think a straight boy from Thailand would really enjoy the gay scene in a far away land.

 

I feel that once someone publicly posts something then it does more or less become 'everyone's' business, and is open for comment, pro or con.

 

I agree. However, how did we get from the amount of money to give a boy for a month to how much I spend on facials. Not sure what the connection is. And, for you dirty minds out there, I mean the facials in Royal Garden.

 

Personally the only thing annoying to me in the thread is that GT isn't taking ME to Brazil. The hell with his boyfriend.

 

If you remember, I offered. I think your response was, "cannot."

 

 

The next time you off a boy, you should think about that big fat heaving farang, who pumped your boy the night before high on Viagra, just before you stick your own cock in.

 

Without a doubt, you entire posting made me laugh for hours. Thank you!

 

Either way I reckon if you do ask for other people's opinions on a board it's highlyl likely that someone will answer.

 

Thank goodness someone does. That is what I love about message boards. They tend to really get conversation going. I appreciate anyone's response on topic.

 

I find this interesting. If you are practising safe sex then testing is redundant. Perhaps you get tested just to make the boy(s) feel they are not being singled out.

 

I find it intelligent. Anyone having sex with a sex worker who is having sex with 100 plus other gay men each year is really crazy not to get tested at least 2 times every year. I come from NYC and most doctors tell every gay men who is sexually active to get tested 2-3 times a year. I am still in the under 40 group and I know that many men in Pattaya really believe their BF when they say they are the first, the only, and etc. I don't. I don't take anyone that is a paid companion at his or her word for that.

 

 

GAY THAILAND: can I ask you a question ?

 

Pearl dear, when you start a post like this, you have others thinking you were going to pop the question. Needless to say, I was disappointed no ring was attached.

 

 

I am going to take Aunty's stance. This is my last posting on this topic as just this one posting took me ages and I am on short time here and I need to have a little bit of fun before I have to go to that dreadful place in South America and work my fingers to the bone to pay for my next trip here.

 

BTW: I decided on a number for the boyfriend that I think is fair and generous. I just hope his lady will be able to buy a few new items with what he forks over to her before I return.

 

GT - Signing off

[Gaybutton]

Why do you think he did it ?

 

I think he did it because he wanted advice. Some of us can see a big difference between advice and hate-filled, inappropriate, mean-spirited venom. It's all in the presentation. With that, I think I've had about enough of this thread too.

[Guest Pearl69er]

. It's all in the presentation.

Certainly something I would agree with !

 

GayThailand : thanks for responding and not slapping me down (like one who presented his repsonse as " what business it is of yours or anybody else.""..odd when you think about it because the same could have been put back to him-)...I'm too old to be popping the question to anyone these days except when it involves a handful of cash which usually gets the required response. And considering the insults one can get from even tipping a toe into these boards..could you imagine the bats shreiking out of hell if one made a marriage proposal !!!

 

 

but I do have an ulterior motive. I'lll be heading to Brazil in january for 6 weeks and it would be great if you posted a thread about gay life there when you get the chance. It's always good to hear from someone who lhas similar tastes .!!

 

have a nice trip.