A First at Siam Paragon: Bathroom Sex in Gay Thailand

[TotallyOz]

The BF and I went to the movie today. But, we were really early and I decided to go to the bathroom. There was this really cute guy outside, around 18-19 years old, and he was just standing. I found him very attractive and asked him where the bathroom was and he told me. It was right behind him and I knew that but I just smiled at him and winked. He followed me into the bathroom and into a stall.

 

Well, I wasn't ready to have sex as I didn't have a condom on me but we did make out and he ended up giving me a great release. It was a bit dangerous and exciting and scary at the same time. As I was all hot and sweaty when I left and as I had some other juices flowing, I told the BF that I didn't like the seats we were in and that we could come back another day. He was OK with that and we left and I got home and showered.

 

I am not much for bathroom sex, even though from time to time in my life I have had some, but this experience was great. I have been thinking on this today and I can't figure out if the guy was waiting for someone or if he was just taken by the moment of a Farang flirting with him. In either case, I was happy it happened.

 

Have others seen this mall as cruisey? Hooked up there? I have taken boys home from there on a few occasions but not the bathroom upstairs at the movie.

[Guest jomtien]

Thank you Michael.  I can now skip dinner and go right to the getting drunk part of my evening!

[Guest flipao]

thank you for the report!

[ChristianPFC]

Thank you very much. You wrote about Siam Paragon before, I will have to go there some time.

 

Here a list of malls where I saw people cruising toilets this year: The Mall Bangkapi (that was in Jan or Feb, my first time, I was so excited about this I had to call LMTU - "may his sole rest in piece" - to tell him that he was right all the time), Silom Complex, Big C Ratchadamri (there they have signs in Thai that say: please report indecent activities to the police).

 

No activity in Central Latprao (based on one visit).

 

I have not taken part in such activities.

 

I will try the approach of asking a question whose answer I know when I spot cute boys (e.g. at bus stops, "do you know which bus goes ...?").

 

Did I understand your report correctly, you cheated on your boyfriend while both of you were waiting for the movie and then you lied to him that you don't like the seats you got?

[Guest fountainhall]

Michael, as we know, has a very understanding bf! But surely even his patience must have been taxed with Michael being away for what must have been at least 10 minutes or so - or was the deed accomplished more quickly? Perhaps the bf was just satisfied with drinking his coke and munching the popcorn. But then to be dragged away from seeing the movie? He must have felt more than slightly pissed off!

[Guest travelerjim]

With Michael back in Thailand...

the aura and legacy of LMTU lives on...an on

 

RIP LMTU...you're remembered.

 

tj

[TotallyOz]

With Michael back in Thailand...

the aura and legacy of LMTU lives on...an on

 

RIP LMTU...you're remembered.

 

tj

Thanks Jim. Like you, I really did like that man. I know he really did rub some of your buddies the wrong way but as a person, he was entertaining and enjoyable. At least he wasn't a bore and sat around gossiping all day like some do in the LOS. His motto was always get out and smell the coffee and he did it better than anyone I know. Perhaps, being in the toilets so much he smelled more than just coffee. But, to each his own.

 

Thank you kind sir for remembering him. This thread also reminded me of him.

[TotallyOz]

Did I understand your report correctly, you cheated on your boyfriend while both of you were waiting for the movie and then you lied to him that you don't like the seats you got?

 

Well, I would not call it cheating. He is OK with anything I do. I just would not normally drag him out to a mall with the intention of a movie and then step into the bathroom with another guy. Would he mind? No, not at all. He likes women and his wife/girlfriend/lover is waiting on him when I leave. I am OK with his choices and he is OK with mine. We have made it work for us and I know it would not work for others. However, 9 years of working is pretty damn good.

 

 

Michael, as we know, has a very understanding bf! But surely even his patience must have been taxed with Michael being away for what must have been at least 10 minutes or so - or was the deed accomplished more quickly? Perhaps the bf was just satisfied with drinking his coke and munching the popcorn. But then to be dragged away from seeing the movie? He must have felt more than slightly pissed off!

LOL You are so generous in your 10 min.

 

The BF was happy to get back to his online multiplayer game. He was OK not spending 3 hours away from his friends on the computer.

[kokopelli]

Michael,  I have only one question, was it a Squat toilet or Western style toilet in the stall?

[Guest]

I have not taken part in such activities.

I don't much fancy sex in a toilet* either.   However a shopping centre seems like a very good place to try & pick up boys. I've done that & had them come back to my hotel.  Don't you go looking for boys in shopping centres too?

 

*Who's ever seen shopping centre with a proper bathroom?

[TotallyOz]

Michael,  I have only one question, was it a Squat toilet or Western style toilet in the stall?

Western Style toilet. I have not seen any squat toilets at Siam Paragon.

[williewillie]

Somehow, I think I would not want to be remembered

for hanging around public toilets for anonymous cheap

sexual encounters. Amazes me that

some do not see this type of sleezy

behavior for what it is and actually

glorify it. What's next, golden

showers and scat? Get out of the toilet'

its not glorious, it's a place

to void bodily functions and leave asap.

No doubt this will be taken personally as it

is directed those "dirty old men", we were

warned against as children.

I hate when freaks expose themselves when

I need to pee or stretch their necks to see

my cock. It happened in a BigC and the freak

was lucky I didn't sock him. It ain't romantic

[Guest fountainhall]

I have never discovered the thrill of making out in a public restroom and am happy to continue that way. What would worry me nowadays, though, is less the thought of being discovered by curious members of the public in an adjoining stall or even the Thai ladies who seem to clean the facilities in most malls with great regularity. It's gaytube.com and other similar sites! 

 

There must be a gazillion vdos out there on the internet of cellphone captures of guys making out in cramped toilets. I don't know how much space is left at the top or at the foot of the Paragon facilities, but I assume in the heat of an unexpected sexual encounter the participants won't be paying much attention to little protusions barely visible above or below.

 

Perhaps we'll see Michael starring in one in the next few days! 

[TotallyOz]

Somehow, I think I would not want to be remembered

for hanging around public toilets for anonymous cheap

sexual encounters.

True. True. True. Some prefer to be remembered for the sleazy men they hang around daily. I guess I can respect that. I find either way that one wants to be remembered as OK.

 

For me, I much prefer to be remembered for the kindness I show to others rather than any sexual escapades that I might have or hanging around a group of dirty old men who my mother warned me against.

 

I hate when freaks expose themselves when

I need to pee or stretch their necks to see

my cock. It happened in a BigC and the freak

was lucky I didn't sock him. It ain't romantic

I could not agree more wee willie. I hope that you don't have that happen too often. I know I have never done this and my encounter was not exposing myself to anyone but picking up someone outside the actual bathroom and allowing him to enter into a private stall with me. I hope there is a bit of a difference in your mind.

 

 

I have never discovered the thrill of making out in a public restroom and am happy to continue that way.

Me too. But, sometimes things come your way and you are offered and you just jump on board. Don't tell me you have never had sex on an airplane. As much as you travel, I'd bet you are a member of the mile high club. or, how about inside a movie theater? Or, on the beach?

 

To me, where ever one decides to go, it doesn't bother me. I have been lucky enough (my words and not Willie's nasty men words) to have had sex in many places. I don't think this makes one a dirty old man, I just think it makes one adventurous. But, to each his own. But, I am pretty liberated and do not mind other peoples fetishes as long as they do it with a consenting adult. Bondage doesn't bother me, neither does group sex, bears, dragqueens, etc. Growing up sexually in NYC (after I came out) I was lucky enough to have experienced quite a bit of the sex life that a big city offers. It is so much more than going to a bar and offing a boy. That is great at times, but I find very limiting if done all the time.

 

 

Perhaps we'll see Michael starring in one in the next few days!

LOL I love video flicks as a viewer but as a movie star, I think more disastrous than Ishtar or The Lone Ranger. And, I'd hate to make Jomtien loose even more meals. He needs his strength.

 

Amazes me that

some do not see this type of sleezy

behavior for what it is and actually

glorify it.

Just curious if you mind a bunch of old men going from bar to bar each night to off young Thai boys who have to make money to survive as sleazy? I am curious only as I don't have a problem with that, but I do hate when people try to justify their own fetishes and condemn others for theirs.

[Guest fountainhall]

my encounter was not exposing myself to anyone but picking up someone outside the actual bathroom and allowing him to enter into a private stall with me

 

I guess what would put me off is the thought of the sounds and smells that might be going on around me as I was seeking satisfaction. Maybe Paragon has less smelly loos than many others! As you say, though, to each his own.

 

Don't tell me you have never had sex on an airplane. As much as you travel, I'd bet you are a member of the mile high club. or, how about inside a movie theater? Or, on the beach?

 

On an airplane, alas no! But the desire has certainly been there from time to time, especially with some of the stewards on Asian airlines over the years 

 

On a beach, yes, but not the most pleasurable experience. Sand, after all, has a habit of getting in everywhere, darn it!    

[TotallyOz]

On an airplane, alas no! But the desire has certainly been there from time to time, especially with some of the stewards on Asian airlines over the years 

One of my first sexual experiences was when I was 16 and flying to London with a church group. LOL It was with a very gay flight attendant. And, on that trip, lets just say Piccadilly was a lot of fun for me.

 

FH, I am surprised at you to be honest. You are the most well traveled and versed man I have ever met. And, I just knew you would have at least one mile high story!

[Guest fountainhall]

Ah, but no-one is perfect! 

 

I have indeed arranged dates with stewards whom I've then met an evening or so later. At one time, Malaysian Airlines used to have the cruisiest stewards in the air, followed close after by Singapore. Since they started recruiting male cabin staff again a few years ago, Cathay Pacific now has some very attractive guys. I chatted to very handsome tall, slim one on a trip in May who I thought was Thai but he is Singaporean. I have his number but he'll be in LAX when I am next in HKG later this month. Bummer!

[firecat69]

Somehow, I think I would not want to be remembered

for hanging around public toilets for anonymous cheap

sexual encounters. Amazes me that

some do not see this type of sleezy

behavior for what it is and actually

glorify it. What's next, golden

showers and scat? Get out of the toilet'

its not glorious, it's a place

to void bodily functions and leave asap.

No doubt this will be taken personally as it

is directed those "dirty old men", we were

warned against as children.

I hate when freaks expose themselves when

I need to pee or stretch their necks to see

my cock. It happened in a BigC and the freak

was lucky I didn't sock him. It ain't romantic

More likely after he peeked , he decided to look for greener pastures as they say.  LOL

[Guest jomtien]

And, I'd hate to make Jomtien loose even more meals. He needs his strength.

 

 

 

I'm doing just fine for food, thank you!  Today I had the best burger I've had in a loooooong time, thanks to a tip from your friend who was in Pattaya recently.  At my age, his food tips do me much more good than your sex tips!

[firecat69]

Oh my God and you got it for 99 baht.  You should be ashamed.  LOL

[kokopelli]

Interesting, sex in a toilet ends up with a 99 Baht burger.

[Guest joseph44]

Maybe I'm somewhat old-fashioned, but you went with your BF to the movies and picked up a boy for a make out in the toilet. 

Doesn't make sense to me. 

[Guest Assuperman]

OOOhhhhh...so this is what my boyfriend always do when he excuse himself to the toilet in the middle of the moviee??? and while I am amazed by the movie........