What Would You Do If . . . ?

[Guest fountainhall]

Yes, you are missing a great deal - most of it, I think it is fair to say, against the owner. He has weeded out all criticism of his actions and put the posts somewhere no-one looks (I don't even know how to find them)!
 
Worse, for someone who has been so criticised by his readers and who has dished out so much criticism and downright lies - e.g.
 
1. I am a hydra going also under the handle 'zombie' on both boards????
2. I hadn't posted for over a year, when my last post before this thread was in early April and I had made more than 100 since May 2012???
 
- I tried to post just now giving his site's readers the link to this gt thread, merely so they can make up their own minds and sort out the facts from the fantasy. The owner deleted the post within a couple of minutes. Clearly he does not want any link posted since it will show up how he has twisted and distorted the OP above. I will try one more time.
 
He clearly seemed to be in a somewhat disturbed state.
 
 
PS: This time my post lasted less than 23 minutes before the owner pulled it once again. Putting in the link to this thread obviously raises too many questions for him! Why is he so insecure?
 
PSS: Now I have been officially warned. Good, I will be banned before midnight 
 
This is what I tried to post -

The OP is a twisted version of a post made originally on gaythailand.com. For those who wish to read it, this is the link and you can see it without all the inaccuracies and fanciful fictitious additions -

http://www.gaythailand.com/forums/topic/8810-what-would-you-do-if/

[Guest Garrison]

Fountainhall, this is more entertaining than a Channel 7 Thai soap opera. And you thought the young man in question was a handful. How about the new beau in your life? Sadly, 1000 Baht plus taxi money can't make this one go away:) Oy vey.

 

In the end, I hope you see it for exactly what it is and just have a laugh, mate.

 

Happy New Year!

[Guest travelerjim]

fountainhall,

 

I am saddened that Neal over at Sawatdee Forum has taken the actions he has regarding the post he made...

which clearly was taken from your posting here.

 

I have posted this reply to Neal over at Sawatdee...hopefully he will delete the entire thread from post one...

and continue his preparations for a well earned retirement away from the forum.

 

Neal,

I was and am saddened to see this post and its presentation from the first day it appeared.

I am also aware and have seen many of the deleted posts you have made for whatever reason to replies

posted by other forum members.

 

I realize somehow, someway you wished to promote discussion about this situation which did happen in Bangkok.
Indeed, it could and may have happened to others too.

 

Neal....I am a personal friend and know the gentleman who did became involved with the so called money boy,

if that is what he was....I also know the gentlemen is not a big, old and fat farang. He is quite a handsome fella and like Asians,
looks much younger than his real age ....Don't we wish we all had that attribute. He is as fine a fella as I have ever met!
If you had met him, I am sure you would agree 1000%.

 

I implore you to take a step back...relax and just maybe delete this entire thread from the beginning and board forum.

As for my post to this thread...it will be interesting to see just how long you allow it to stay before deleting it ???

 

You are a good man Neal...
...may you go out with class from the Sawatdee Forum and retire with ease and much happiness with your beloved.

 

Take good care,

 

tj

[Guest fountainhall]

Thank you Jim - even though you have gilded my lily somewhat!! I agree totally with your suggestion. If SGT just gets rid of that thread, I reckon the whole issue goes away. 

 

I have tried to make this communication to the owner. However, whilst he can PM me using somewhat convoluted arguments and a schoolmasterly tone, I can not reply. Nor can I make posts. So the ball is in his court.

 

Sorry Garrison, that will mean the soap opera - like all good things - comes to an end!  

 

Actually, the more this has been aired, the more I realise that I definitely was insensitive, despite my concerns. I rather wish I could see the guy again and just give him Bt. 1,000 so that it's no longer an issue for anyone.

[Guest fountainhall]

So it seems your advice has not been taken, Jim! And finally an admission that my OP was indeed twisted -  

 

True my story was his story and I added things but I don't need to keep my story the same when I did not reveal anything about where it came from. IT WAS AND I A STORY

 

The owner claims it is just a story - his story. Yet, he starts his STORY this way - 

 

I just read a post somewhere about a man in a bank and a boy with his girlfriend. Seems as this young guy headed to the exit he saw this much much older man looking at him and of course thinking he could get a few thousnd baht, he smiled at him. The older man then smiled back and slipped the young man his phone number.

 

His story? Sorry that's crap! Now his "story" is supposed to be reported fact from an existing story. That is what he claims. Yet immediately he inserts utter speculation with the phrase "and of course thinking he could get a few thousnd baht." That is, in the context of the OP, a brazen lie!

 

He then continues - 

 

"to have sex the the old man who is 3 times his age and certainly not a pretty sight. OK 2 1/2 times the boys age." Further fabrication.

 

"The man told him he would give him another 200 baht for sex. Yee ha!" Absolutely untrue. It was as requested for a taxi to Rangsit. No amount had been specified at that time.

 

"Most boys here that offer to have sex are money boys and they know the falangs are good for one thing." What a warped mind this guy has! Bangkok is not Pattaya.

 

“. . . is it just me or do some of you also understand that boys of 20 -25 or so go with 60 year olds for what??” Whoever mentioned 20 - 25? I pointed out to the owner that the age was over 30 according to his ID card. But then being opver 30 does not fit in with the drama of the fabricated story. 

 

But I'll grant you - it's not just you, but it is a Pattaya-centric assumption which does not hold true with many guys of many ages in Bangkok. I have several farang friends in long term relationships with much younger Thais who are relatively wealthy in their own right. Before this owner carps on about their being in money relationships, in one the farang is worth around US$ several million. His Thai civil partner is almost 37 years his junior, but having worked hard since he was 15 he is now a Thai billionaire on his own account with two factories and 65 employees! The other relationships are the same, although the amounts of cash are considerably less. And the suggestion is even more insulting to all farang who live happily for many years with much younger Thais.

 

"“You found them with thier girlfriend who he does twice a day but all of a sudden he wants to take on a 60 year old wrinkley ass because it is so sexy! Come on!! Especially here in Thailand!” Utterly twisted and personally insulting. Besides, as I pointed out, the girl was a co-worker and the young man was 100% gay.

 

The post ends like this -

No, this post is not going away. It was created for intelligent conversation and that's why it's going to stay. I want to hear if things like this hapened to other people, how they handled it, what was the outcome. I want other members to see the discussion and talk about it . . . Now this is the end of it as I need to put my foot down.

 

The owner of SGT seems to think that I am naive or stupid. His insults to me and others proved that he has his own warped agenda. Sadly, as I am now prohibited from posting these comments on that Board and he has refused to Jim's eminently reasonable request, I therefore do so here.

 

I was wrong Garrison. Looks like the soap opera continues here!! 

[williewillie]

Really sad to see the mental demise of the owner.  I now seriously doubt some of the accusations he made against

a former poster here, where he accused heygay of being the owner of the bitchboard and the author of all the insulting comments.

I was quick to believe the worst and now realize it was probably more lies from a damaged mind.  so sad, really.

The owner has lost all credibility and really lost the plot.

The new owner better step in soon or that forum will be corrupted as the owner continues to lose his grip and slide further away

from reality.  I guess the moderators there are powerless or just afraid or incompetent.

[Guest fountainhall]

One poster (I forget which) whose posts disappeared along with a host of others actually said he felt SGT was now getting like the PattayaBitchBoard! 

[Guest scottishguy]

As I said previously, I will not comment on SGT - but I will comment on williewillie's post in so far as to say that the bitchboard is alive and kicking, with the old posters back posting as before -  Piss Elegant, Timmberty, Uncle Albert etc etc. - and of course the fake ScottyGuy. The only significant absentee is sclivejames. It is exactly the same mixture of insult and abuse as it always was.  How do I know - it is open to public view.

 

Therefore any idea that LMTU was the owner and main contributor must now be suspect to say the least - as by all accounts LMTU is not in a fit state to be owning, moderating, or posting anything at this time, yet the bitchboard carries on

[Guest fountainhall]

I cannot access it unless I register, which I will not. But was not the latest incarnation of that Board owned by BBB? That seemed to be common knowledge - to all but one.

[Guest scottishguy]

Founty - Not that you're interested in what they have to say but I will send you the URL, remember they have changed it at least twice so maybe you have a variant that's not in use. Having said that, I found it on google after being tipped off it was active again.

[khaolakguy]

This Scotty Guy really seems to know what's up on this bitch board that he's always going on about. Is he their PR guy?

[Guest scottishguy]

For a start - there's ScottyGuy on the Bitchboard and there's me here  - and there's no connection between the two.

 

If you had been a target of the Bitchboard as I have been (why do you think there's even somebody calling himself ScottyGuy on there? Go figure!) then perhaps you too might take an interest. 

 

In any event I was addressing williewillie's point - and I merely volunteered some relevant information in relation to that .

 

I don't quite see the need for your intervention at all given that you made much the same point as recently as 16th March - but if it gives you pleasure then feel free, in fact knock yourself out.

 

 

[khaolakguy]

Guess I must have been responding to a bit more of your promo chat a month ago.  Sorry about my intervention, but if you don't like it, I don't know why you keep reading. Like those people get shocked by something on TV but keep watching, then later they complain how terrible it was.

[williewillie]

This Scotty Guy really seems to know what's up on this bitch board that he's always going on about. Is he their PR guy?

Someone just doesn't get it.  Scottishguy detests the pattayabitchboard.  He was a frequent target of vile attacks and is certainly not a PR man.  I have/jhad my issues with Scottishguy from his days as a moderator on another forum but his conduct here has been

fine.  I imagine khaloakguy has old issues with Scottishguy as well and hopefully will get over it and move on.

Perhaps, I just made an enemy but hopefully khaloakguy is able to take a bit of criticism and let it go.

[TotallyOz]

Yes, you are missing a great deal

No, today a friend sent me the entire thread before it got deleted. All I can say is WOW.

[Guest fountainhall]

khaolakguy, as one who features on the pbb - heck, there's even a thread named after their name for me, one which the owner of SGT decided to use in his quite vicious and unwarranted attack against me the other evening - I also look at it from time to time. In its previous incarnation it had a poster using that similar handle, but I assure you I would never under any circumstances register there. Like williewillie, I believe scottishguy is in the same situation. He is not ScottyGuy.

[Guest fountainhall]

All I can say is WOW.

 

Maybe you should repost it here   If you had seen some of the many PMs that flew mostly in one direction, you'd definitely add H--y S--t!

 

Garrison suggested earlier that the OP was rather like a Channel 7 soap opera. If that's the case, then everything surrounding this thread and its reinvention on SGT over the last few days has packed more drama into it's first episode than any soap opera I've seen! The wonder is: how will the next episodes pan out? I'll have to think up some developing scenarios so that we can extend this for another few weeks. 

 

Seriously, though, I posted the OP as a question because I do believe several quite important issues are involved which do merit discussion but in a much less silly and fanciful fashion than the other forum attempted to do.  In the next few days, I'll try to bring the themes together in a different thread.

[KhorTose]

I don't quite see the need for your intervention at all given that you made much the same point as recently as 16th March - but if it gives you pleasure then feel free, in fact knock yourself out.

Don't worry about Kholaguy. he is a hydra for one very well know and old poster on this board who recently told everyone he only uses one name on all boards---bullshit.

[KhorTose]

Don't worry about Kholaguy. he is a hydra for one very well know and old poster on this board who recently told everyone he only uses one name on all boards---bullshit.

Post it please or PM it to me.

[KhorTose]

I got the wrong quote in the above. I meant to quote Micheal's line about receiving the whole thing from a friend. I would love to read it or receive it by PM. Whole post is now gone from SGT

[khaolakguy]

Don't worry about Kholaguy. he is a hydra for one very well know and old poster on this board who recently told everyone he only uses one name on all boards---bullshit.

 

I've been posting here for more than five years, and I don't know why you suddenly think that I am someone else, or who that person is. Could you put some substance on your comment please. It's easy, and very hurtful,  to make such a wild claim without any substantiation.

[KhorTose]

Could you put some substance on your comment please. It's easy, and very hurtful,

No I can't add that substance, you will just have to tough out your pain.

I also suggest we put this under a new topic and not ruin this one. We can call it friends of beachlover.

[Guest fountainhall]

The soap opera just took a new twist!

[Guest fountainhall]

Funny thing is - whenever I have seen khaolakguy's handle up to now, my brain had always read it as koalaguy! Perhaps I was subconsciously aware of an antipodean connection 

[khaolakguy]

No I can't add that substance, you will just have to tough out your pain.

I also suggest we put this under a new topic and not ruin this one. We can call it friends of beachlover.

 

Oh right, so just a casually thrown insult.   I know my posts aren't shakespeare, and I have less knowledge of the commercial scenes than most posters, but that isn't a reason to belittle every post that I've made here, by casually suggesting that they are all fake. Don't think you would do that to my face.