Guest Assuperman Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 Hi y'all.. and im new to this forum....ive been several times go to bkk. And most of people might be looking for fun. Me too. But does anyone here agree even sometimes fun or ONS need a chemistry and emotional fitting to get it the best. Does anyone ever experience romance and sustain itwhile in bkk? Even knowing it is expired by a month or a week! Or am i just too dramatic here?? And they said romance is dead? Quote
firecat69 Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 I guess it depends where you are looking and what you are looking for. There are many boys looking for a long time thing. And there are many stories of farangs falling in love and having a long term BF. Unfortunately many more stories of heartbreak on both sides especially when meetings were originally based on money. If you are truly looking for a long term relationship then look elsewhere then GoGo Bars, Beer Bars and massage Parlors. If you are only looking to fall in love for a few weeks then recognize it for what it is Lust not Love . IMHO williewillie 1 Quote
Guest scottishguy Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 My experience is that most of those boys who are actually gay are looking for something long-term and secure, and if they could achieve this and get out of "the business" they would. On the other hand, maybe I have just always attracted a certain kind. I would think that those who are actually str8 must have other, more money-orientated, aspirations - as "settling down" with a guy is hardly a realistic proposition. Quote
firecat69 Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 I don't totally agree with that. I have known straight guys who are in stable farang relationships but the farang can not be jealous if the boy wants to play sometimes with woman. And while most gay boys are willing to jump at a long term relationship with someone who visits and thus they can have long term relationships with multiple farangs . I think for it to be successful the farang if many times older usually has to accept the fact the boy may want to play on the side. Of course in many cases so does the farang. I just think if 30 or 40 years difference or more the relationship will most always be based on money and not love. But I stress I did say almost?? I guess it all boils down to your definition of Love. Then again I have no personal experience , only observations of other relationships.. So what do I know? kokopelli and williewillie 2 Quote
Guest Assuperman Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 'If you are only looking to fall in love for a few weeks then recognize it for what it is Lust not Love .' Well id call that romance. To make it as a relationship as on and off might be a bit less realistic. In my point of view. Well email and ph9ne call would pay just little part of the relationship. But of course if we meet again in Bkk and the 'romantic contract' offer still available, we might go on another round for the romantic holiday. Share same room, dinner, talks, holding hands, have sex, drink, travel together....am i a bit old-fashioned? But who's gonna share the stupid idea? While many skin and meat around?? Would you firecat69?? Do you have one? Quote
Guest Assuperman Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 ']I don't totally agree with that. I have known straight guys who are in stable farang relationships but the farang can not be jealous if the boy wants to play sometimes with woman. ' Well thats the drama again. And the expiring romance. An episode by episode with a break moment. And of course it costs money. But as far as both are happy, why not? Quote
Guest Assuperman Posted March 31, 2013 Posted March 31, 2013 To scotthish guy: 'I would think that those who are actually str8 must have other, more money-orientated, aspirations - as "settling down" with a guy is hardly a realistic proposition.' Some guy like to pay. Well i dont. Im a guy in a good position, who look to settling down. Or may be lets discount the honour and sweet part to: just an expiring romance: a brief of relationship that ends in a limited time. Not any other tourist as in my position would buy it i guess??(it sounds a bit newbie??) Well if any had/experienced some, please share. Just want to know how far it goes. Pure infatuation. Quote
