Guest xiandarkthorne Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 Funny but as a younger man, I would only pick my companions for the evening if I saw EVERYTHING or nearly everything they had to offer first...but as I grow older, I seem to appreciate the eroticism of a little bit of mystery. I never thought I'd say that but maybe that's why I'm leaning towards beer bars nowadays. I actually like the "what's under all those clothes" speculation quite a bit now. It's a bit like unwrapping a Christmas present, I think. And the naughty attempts to catch a glimpse of the hidden treasures when he sits down or bends over, too... Quote
ChristianPFC Posted December 28, 2012 Posted December 28, 2012 I prefer gogo bars, there are no bad surprises in the bedroom (tattoos, body hair). It's a bit like unwrapping a Christmas present, I think. And the naughty attempts to catch a glimpse of the hidden treasures when he sits down or bends over, too... Totally agree. Getting a glimpse of skin, or even better underwear, is a huge turn on for me. Quote
Guest snapshot Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 Sometimes that mystery ends a stunning surprise when the clothes eventually come off... When I met one of my ex-boyfriends at DJ Station, all I knew was he had such a cute face, big eyes and a cute nose and all. A really sweet, intelligent, genuine guy... but he only ever wore jeans and a long sleeve shirt so I never got to see what his body was like underneath. Then a couple of days later we got each others clothes off in my hotel room and this cute little guy wasn't just a cute face... He had a ripped, fit, lean body underneath! Six pack, hard pecs and tight little nipples and all... OMG. We both fell in love with each other so he was pretty much a complete package... except that he lives 9,000 kms away! Eventually, with his career and my commitments at home we had to give it up. Quote
Guest Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I prefer gogo bars, there are no bad surprises in the bedroom (tattoos, body hair). I agree, in a gogo bar it's easy to avoid the ones who have had disastrous visits to the tattoo parlour. Also, in a good gogo bar, they're all lined up so it's easy to compare them and also identify who makes eye contact. Quote