Bob Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Been down so long it looks like Up to Me, but I could be wrong. Up to me, up to you, who cares? We falang are typically the senior/elder/superior side of the cultural equation and Thais naturally defer to us with regards to almost anything involving a choice. It's just fun (at least to me) to irritate the beloved by getting the "up to you" out before he can say it. Quote