Guest HeyGay Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I keep hearing how dead Gay Pattaya is becoming and I must agree I gauge how things are by going to "NiceBoys " and yes full of fem voiced lady boy types, when you travel around Soi Sunee a very few customers in the Host Bar, not to unusual for July and August the main lowest months from Gay travellers here, even though chatting to my dear friend and owner if the Balcany Gay Pub Soi 4 Silom road Bangkok, he tells me business is doing well, Go go Bars full of Asians well if they can't borrow money in the West no long haul trips, Turkey seems popular and now cheaper than thailand I'm told and very gay under the serface. So it would seem something is wrong with Pattaya Gay scean, because after a dirty weekend in Chiang Mia a few weeks ago it's seems ok There for this time of the year? After a visit last week in GoodBoys bar I was presented with a bill for 340 baht I ask what it gone up, they said yes your drink 160 boy sat with you 180 can you ever work out how Thais think when business Bad put up prices, no wonder they call it amazing Thailand. The best bars doing business seem to be Murphies Magic Bar few nice boys there, MicMy has a good assortment of teen boys, a few new ones also and just a few in Eros bar apart from that I found some nice boys on the Beach, I said to one boy where do you hide I was told many Farangs kinial, not have money on small budget, so they only sit with ji dee farangs so I had the best if the bunch, of course the good quality boys are in the late night dance clubs NAB And the Best IDOL in North pattaya, good value with an all Night show including handsome men? I even notice on one forum where their resident manic depressed poster, who is going mad with boredom, because he refuses to go any where but lunch and Sunee plaza day after day, he said his friend who I know was beaten up in sunee, where the truth of the matter is this guy gave a boy money to buy drugs to smoke back at his apartment, but never came back, as he was sitting in the sewer rat bar opposit Crazy Pub. He saw the boy and threatens to tell the police on him, the boy was then arrested with a separate incident, but his friends thought this crazy Farang had set Him up and waited to beat him up where he Live way down Soi 17 a long way from Sunee, as usual if you have a problem with a boy try to solve it friendly not threateningly or you will have much More of a problem in the future, I have lived in thailand for more years than most, I can tell you, the most problems are Thai to Thai unless the farangs don't pay what they should or have obvious jewellery in the low season it's very safe still to walk in dark alleys plus drug deals can be fatal and I'm sure very few Farangs bother with them. Come to pattaya your have a Ball or 2
TotallyOz Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Thanks for the heads up on the scene in Pattaya. You are usually spot on in your assessment. It is good to have someone with so much knowledge of the scene give us a heads up. Thanks.
Gaybutton Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 the good quality boys are in the late night dance clubs What, may I ask, is your idea of a "quality" boy? You didn't mention cottaging. What's the matter, can't you find "quality" boys while cottaging anymore?
TotallyOz Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 What, may I ask, is your idea of a "quality" boy? You didn't mention cottaging. What's the matter, can't you find "quality" boys while cottaging anymore? What is cottaging?
Gaybutton Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 How can you be such a HeyGay fan and not know what cottaging is? That's the term he uses when he tells us all about his wonderful successes picking up "stunners" in toilets. After all, there's nothing like a nice, charming, romantic atmosphere to become sexually aroused. I'll bet it makes a big hit when the cleaning lady walks in with her mop . . .
Bob Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 What is cottaging? A British term relating to cruising public toilets to have anonymous gay sex there (harkening back to the "glory hole" days) and/or to pick up a partner to have gay sex elsewhere. I've never understood it given I go to bathrooms for other reasons.
TotallyOz Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 How can you be such a HeyGay fan and not know what cottaging is? That's the term he uses when he tells us all about his wonderful successes picking up "stunners" in toilets. After all, there's nothing like a nice, charming, romantic atmosphere to become sexually aroused. I'll bet it makes a big hit when the cleaning lady walks in with her mop . . . LOL I guess I never really picked up on the term. I do understand the word toilets. That is an easy one. As for what one finds romantic, it is all in the eye of the beholder. Some like ladyboys and some the opposite. Some like romantic dinners and the boyfriend experience and some like public sex in toilets. I do remember George Michael getting into a bit of hot water based on that. When I was first coming out in NYC, the toilet and video booth scene was very popular especially around the Times Square area. I have many friends who prefer that to having someone over to their place. It does not bother me in the least. Nor does sex in a sauna. For me, it is just each his own desire. If a public toilet gets someone off or a mile high club or a sex sauna, it don't bother me at all.
KhorTose Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Oddly enough, when we looked at police bust in restrooms and sex shop video halls, we discovered an amazing fact. ALmost all (70+%) of the arrest were men who had wives so they are not truly gay, but bisexual. I am sure before the 80's that this would have been different, but in a liberal town like Seattle it is only the Bis who still do this.
Gaybutton Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 As for what one finds romantic, it is all in the eye of the beholder. True, true. I can't disagree with that. I forgot to consider just how romantic a public toilet can be. I'm going to bring some candles and a bottle of wine next time I go to take a shit . . .
Rogie Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I think we should try and show a little human kindness towards HeyGay. Just because some people don't like certain activities doesn't mean that those who do are 'beyond the pale'.
KhorTose Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Haygay, what are you going to do when gaybutton discovers your new identity on his board?
TotallyOz Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 True, true. I can't disagree with that. I forgot to consider just how romantic a public toilet can be. I'm going to bring some candles and a bottle of wine next time I go to take a shit . . . You have got me all hot and bothered. Can I bring a camera? Seriously, Gaybutton, if anyone takes a shit, they should always take a candle with them. I am not a drinker so I forgo the wine but I do occasionally take a magazine in with me.
Gaybutton Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 Seriously, Gaybutton, if anyone takes a shit, they should always take a candle with them. Be careful about lighting that candle. If anyone happens to be emitting a certain amount of methane, you might blow up the whole restroom. "Why do we say, "take a shit"? You don't take a shit. You leave a shit. I don't know anybody who takes a shit unless he's adding to a really unique collection." - George Carlin
Guest HeyGay Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 What, may I ask, is your idea of a "quality" boy? You didn't mention cottaging. What's the matter, can't you find "quality" boys while cottaging anymore? I'm going to bring some candles and a bottle of wine next time I go to take a shit . . . I think we should try and show a little human kindness towards HeyGay. when gaybutton discovers your new identity on his board? Well well Girls! Rogie: I would not worry to much about them having a go at me, people who dont understand how the other have have so much fun, are always jealous....they do like to have a bit of fun by the looks of it, must be the silly season, I know GayButton is finding things very quiet on his web site, that's why he has to give me a dig for a bit of light entertainment, Even though I also love to meet a boy in Pattaya and pay them, I'm here to meet up with many old friends and go to dinner parties, some times they can give you a different orgasm especially if we have a good bottle of wine and a fun conversation, life is not all about sex, for me its all about having a good balance, ying and yang, not going around like a dog chasing its tail like quite a few do in Pattaya, and go slowly mad also. Let me enlarge on Cottaging for you a bit, its a habit I and thoudands of guys picked up in The UK, before the 70s when it was illegal to have sex with a man, so there was no obvious gay bars, and if you was caught with a guy you could go to prison. So we all use to go to the Numerous Toilets around The United Kingdom and there was hundreds too choose from, many playing to full houses nightly, yes and your right 80% of the guys were bi-sexual and as now very rarely fem voiced lady boys, so no good to you GB because the don't hunt. You get shy boys off all ages, as you do so many in Bangkok now, who dont want to speak or get to know you, but just love instant sex, there and then, married men who dont want to go through all the dramas, many women love of the build up to the actual sex act, they just want to empty themselves nstantly and go. What is unique about Thailand, You get so many middle class guys, who are stunning to look at, but have a girlfriend who they tell they have been with a guy, some times the girl is waiting out side the toilet for them, I have asked many a guy, does your girlfriend/wife know, they say as long as I dont go with a lady no problem, One thing you must never do is offer them money, that is a total Insult, 98% never ask for money, can you imagine to get the boys of your dreams, and he has complete sex with you, either in the cubical or your home or a short time Hotel and after he says good bye and no money is exchanged. If they do ask, some, but very few ask for 100 baht the most I have been asked for is 300 but may be 2 times in a year. but I have the most stunning guy with the biggest cock you have ever seen and he is shy so i offered him money itsd as if i said to him give me 1000 baht, they run and never speak or go near you again, they look at it in disgussed Amazing Thailand, where i live in Bang Kapi Bangkok, there is many Univercities with Gay bars and clubs for the students but majority of the boys will only go with you for free there as well, as your see them ,amy times in the wash rooms later. As for the a "quality boy" Imagine there was a web site where you could put together the boys of your dreams, i.e GayButton;- Fem voice ladyboys acting slim and ready for speaking sweet nothing into he ear.......and Michael who love a bit of rough or now and again a guy who was stunning but maturing but has a strong personality, also like the odd fem boy to be brought to the apartment to throw to the wolfs and consumed by some of these Ruffty Tuffty, Companions or who ever is on the pay roll at the time. Of course you have th Grand Palace area of Saranrom park-where you can pick up many stunning students of all ages who have spent there allowence from there parents early and want upto 500 baht cash or amazing Army boys around 1000 baht in full uniform, but as many know about this, I will not go into details to much here, its well documeted I think on Gaybuttonthai.com then you have other crising spots around bankok and the most famous cottgages to get started are Tesco/Lotus On-nut BTS and Chit lom BIG C, if you want to see if its for you, but like fishing some times you get a big one, sometimes quick and some times a long wait, but if you do put a lot of time into it, you get so mush fun back, Happy cottaging all those pretending you dont do it, by the way I know many guys who do pretend not to do it and I have found them out on many occassions, don't worry unless your objectionable I wont out you, Ill even show you the ropes, if you ask lol So you see what ever your desire, is what you find weekly and GB the worst thing you could do is go cottaging, as its exactly the same drug as fishing, some times you get a whopper, some times a tidler, but most of the time its so exciting your blood is rushing around your body, as if your cock is going to explode with the thought of being caught and the fact you are with such a stunning guy, you just cant beleieve he is having sex with you for free but in reality he is having sex with you to satisfy his strong urges to get rid of his Orgasm in a wild very exciting way that makes you have the best sex even if its for only a few minutes you have ever had, never knock it till you try it, why do you think so many guys do. Its not only cottages where you find this rush, try the Suck cinemas in Bangkok, the best one being PHAHOL CINEMA - Phaholyothin rd.; BTS.: Saphan kwai, where you get all ages, even though the younger boys some do tend to charge but the older students are free and quite happy to give you a happy ending to the film not than many watch it. but any time after 12 noon you can get different type of guy lunch time Office workers after lunch builder types or more mature guys, after 3.30 to about 5 pm students and all sorts. yes its another world but as i said dont start it unless you want to be hooked for the rest of your life. every now and then you get the most super stay guy you have ever been with, and that's where you will be totally hooked if your not after a few before you meet him. As for people finding out my identity of Sawatdee and Gaybutton dont worry unless I answer an attack or reply to a post that many know I am adamant about, I can stay hidden for ever, well no one rumbled me yet. So now you know why gaybutton wants to bring candles, if its quiet and he has to wait a while he can at least get things heated up and sit on them
Gaybutton Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 no good to you GB because the don't hunt. If I don't know what I'm missing by foregoing cottaging, I fully intend to keep it that way. Odd as it may seem, if I want to "hunt" for boys, I won't be doing that hunting in a toilet. However, when I do hunt in the places I prefer, if I find what I'm looking for, may I bring him for a grand tour of the salubrious estate?
TotallyOz Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 and Michael who love a bit of rough or now and again a guy who was stunning but maturing but has a strong personality, also like the odd fem boy to be brought to the apartment to throw to the wolfs and consumed by some of these Ruffty Tuffty, Companions or who ever is on the pay roll at the time. LOL A bit rough? Yeah, I guess that is true.
TotallyOz Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 However, when I do hunt in the places I prefer, if I find what I'm looking for, may I bring him for a grand tour of the salubrious estate? Vicious. Do I smell a cat fight in this toilet thread?
KhorTose Posted August 13, 2012 Posted August 13, 2012 Vicious. Do I smell a cat fight in this toilet thread? More like two scatolgist throwing.......at each other.
Gaybutton Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Do I smell a cat fight in this toilet thread? Not really. I just get a little bit annoyed when someone appoints himself as the decision maker as to what constitutes a "quality boy." Maybe it would be better to talk about what constitutes a "quality farang" when it comes to how some people treat these boys as nothing more than sex objects for their own personal pleasure.
TotallyOz Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Maybe it would be better to talk about what constitutes a "quality farang" when it comes to how some people treat these boys as nothing more than sex objects for their own personal pleasure. You mean a customer? jk Quality boys and Quality farangs are easy to find. They are the ones that are highly sought after. For quality boys, they are usually the ones offed a great deal and popular. For quality farangs, they are the ones that all the boys want to spend time with when the bar is full and the potential for many customers is high. That is my definition of quality. However, quality is so hard as I have friends whom I have had cat fights with the past and there was NEVER any boy that we agreed up. What woos one man's heart and hardon does not woo another. But, if you look for a boy that everyone goes after then you may be able to term that boy at "quality" by the standard of many.
Gaybutton Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 if you look for a boy that everyone goes after then you may be able to term that boy at "quality" by the standard of many. I prefer to set my own standards. I see no need for someone else to tell me what my standards ought to be or what kinds of boys I'm supposed to like. I don't agree with your interpretation of a quality farang. The boys are going to flock around the farang who gives them the most money or the farang who buys a whole bottle of whiskey and invites all of them to partake. To me, a quality farang is someone who treats the boys like people, with kindness, understanding, and takes an interest in making sure the boy has an enjoyable time too. No matter how much money some may give the boys and no matter how much whiskey they buy for the boys, if they're treating the boys as nothing more than sex objects and don't really give a damn whether the boy is having a good time or not, that's not my idea of a quality farang. As we all well know and far too many of us have seen, some farang treat these boys like shit. I wish those types would stay out of Thailand entirely.
KhorTose Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I don't agree with your interpretation of a quality farang. The boys are going to flock around the farang who gives them the most money or the farang who buys a whole bottle of whiskey and invites all of them to partake. To me, a quality farang is someone who treats the boys like people, with kindness, understanding, and takes an interest in making sure the boy has an enjoyable time too. No matter how much money some may give the boys and no matter how much whiskey they buy for the boys, if they're treating the boys as nothing more than sex objects and don't really give a damn whether the boy is having a good time or not, that's not my idea of a quality farang. As we all well know and far too many of us have seen, some farang treat these boys like shit. Very well said, and I could not agree more with the above. The question is, why don't you apply these same rules to how YOU treat other farangs?
TotallyOz Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 I prefer to set my own standards. I see no need for someone else to tell me what my standards ought to be or what kinds of boys I'm supposed to like. Did anyone tell you what your standards ought to be or what kind of boys you are supposed to like? The OP simply said that he thought the quality boys were in the late night dance clubs. He didn't say that you should like them or anything of the sort. I thought he just stated his opinion. I happen to agree with him. There are good quality boys at the late night dance clubs. They are also in Siam Paragon and yes, in some gogo bars and beer bars. But, I don't think he was telling you that you had to agree with him or that what was handsome to him should be to you as well. Perhaps you read too much into that?
Guest joseph44 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 A British term relating to cruising public toilets to have anonymous gay sex there (harkening back to the "glory hole" days) and/or to pick up a partner to have gay sex elsewhere. I've never understood it given I go to bathrooms for other reasons. Christ, I thought that it had something to do with farming on a cottage or in other words, settling down in the outback.
Gaybutton Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 Did anyone tell you what your standards ought to be or what kind of boys you are supposed to like? Are you actually serious? HeyGay, under his various guises, has been trying to tell people what they're supposed to like for years with his "stunner," "man boy" and "high pitched voice fem boys" posts and has been trying to claim that Sunee Plaza is virtually all fem boys, which is absolutely not true. If anybody is going to tell me about standards, what boys to like, or what constitutes a "quality boy," a handsome boy, or anything else about boys, I guarantee it isn't going to be HeyGay.
