Olddaddy Posted Friday at 02:11 PM Posted Friday at 02:11 PM What does that mean to you ? pong2 1 Quote
reader Posted Friday at 02:32 PM Posted Friday at 02:32 PM Some find uncertainty of the outcome arousing on its own merits. Or to put it in another context, it's the promise of sex. Many athletes are driven by same motivation. pong2 1 Quote
floridarob Posted Friday at 03:25 PM Posted Friday at 03:25 PM Chasing someone is a thrill… one that you probably don't get to revel in when you're in a secure relationship. Scientifically, having a crush and falling for someone releases feel-good hormones like dopamine and adrenaline. Part of the chase is a chase for those brain chemicals, to feel those euphoric feelings again. reader and bkkmfj2648 2 Quote
vinapu Posted Saturday at 01:17 AM Posted Saturday at 01:17 AM for me is getting there as opposite of being there already. Or running after that 20 $ bill sudden wind blew away from my hands Olddaddy 1 Quote
Olddaddy Posted Saturday at 01:36 AM Author Posted Saturday at 01:36 AM 11 hours ago, reader said: Or to put it in another context, it's the promise of sex Ahhh ....but is it always the end "goal" of the person initiating the "thrill of the chase" It could be argued the "chase" is the actual orgasm bkkmfj2648 1 Quote
reader Posted Saturday at 02:40 AM Posted Saturday at 02:40 AM 1 hour ago, Olddaddy said: It could be argued the "chase" is the actual orgasm His orgasm or your orgasm? bkkmfj2648 1 Quote
Londoner Posted 16 hours ago Posted 16 hours ago I've always been too shy to chase. On my first visit nearly thirty years ago, I required my object of desire to make the first, second and third move. And to be blunt, I don't think I've changed. I envy those who are braver than me and more resilient when it comes to set-backs. floridarob, jamiebee and bkkmfj2648 3 Quote
floridarob Posted 8 hours ago Posted 8 hours ago 7 hours ago, Londoner said: I've always been too shy to chase. On my first visit nearly thirty years ago, I required my object of desire to make the first, second and third move. And to be blunt, I don't think I've changed. I envy those who are braver than me and more resilient when it comes to set-backs. Too bad you didn't know @vinapu back then, you could've done one of his boot camps and he would've marched that shyness right out of you 😉 vinapu 1 Quote