noctiluca Posted November 30 Posted November 30 (edited) Hi. I have been reading from this forum for a while, but have not registered until now. I apologize if this has been asked already, or if I make any blunders or faux pas around here. I'm still learning to navigate. Anyway, my inquiry is whether any of you could kindly recommend where, apart from here, I may find an online community or any social platforms/apps, if you're looking for gay men or whatever spectrum you fall into, who are into edging/milking/gooning/cum control or similar interests. For me, it's not easy finding someone (especially locals) who share the same interest on this topic, without being looked at weirdly. It's my fantasy to be the one to do the edging/milking. This is different from going to one of those spas or massages as I want to be the edger/milker, not the other way around. I live in Bangkok, Thailand, by the way, and I'm Thai. Just an FYI, I'm not young, cute, or good looking, however, or not anymore. Edited November 30 by noctiluca Correction jamiebee, Patanawet and khaolakguy 3 Quote
bkkmfj2648 Posted November 30 Posted November 30 Please let us know if you find any such edging/milking/gooning/cum control groups. I am also a BIG edger (giver and receiver) but it is extremely difficult to locate people that are into this activity. Often I just need to train the massage guys who already have a sensual touch - then it is an easy leap to get them into edging once you show them some edging videos. My experience to date is that most of the men that I meet are into fast orgasms - which goes against the philosophy of edging. --> Slow and steady wins the race <-- @noctiluca - you might want to try a Twitter (X) search with these key word hashtags: #bkk #edge #milking #Cumcontrol #edging Unfortunately, I was only able to find one such user in Bangkok with Twitter handle = @CCTEMBKK For a city with more than 10 million inhabitants - it is very surprising to find only 1 single edger in all of Bangkok. The other edgers that I found in the above search are female who are edging men - so I do not count them. Then occasionally you will get an edger who is passing through Thailand on vacation and you may find 1 or 2 more edgers. I am in Pattaya - and it is EXTREMELY rare if you can find a fellow edger here. The only ones that I found were tourists passing through or soft sensual masseurs who I had to train. Below are some hot related edging Twitter profiles. pong2 1 Quote
Moses Posted November 30 Posted November 30 Hornet may help. Many users are shy and don't fill profiles, but if you will place your interests as #tags in your profile, then they may find you. vinapu 1 Quote
noctiluca Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 1 hour ago, bkkmfj2648 said: Please let us know if you find any such edging/milking/gooning/cum control groups. I am also a BIG edger (giver and receiver) but it is extremely difficult to locate people that are into this activity. Often I just need to train the massage guys who already have a sensual touch - then it is an easy leap to get them into edging once you show them some edging videos. My experience to date is that most of the men that I meet are into fast orgasms - which goes against the philosophy of edging. --> Slow and steady wins the race <-- @noctiluca - you might want to try a Twitter (X) search with these key word hashtags: #bkk #edge #milking #Cumcontrol #edging Unfortunately, I was only able to find one such user in Bangkok with Twitter handle = @CCTEMBKK For a city with more than 10 million inhabitants - it is very surprising to find only 1 single edger in all of Bangkok. The other edgers that I found in the above search are female who are edging men - so I do not count them. Then occasionally you will get an edger who is passing through Thailand on vacation and you may find 1 or 2 more edgers. I am in Pattaya - and it is EXTREMELY rare if you can find a fellow edger here. The only ones that I found were tourists passing through or soft sensual masseurs who I had to train. Below are some hot related edging Twitter profiles. Thank you for your valuable information. Better than I expected! At least, I don't feel I'm alone in this now. LOL I prefer being the edger because I find men in their "gooning" stage tremendously sexy. Yes, I'm aware of CCTEMBKK on X. He did a phenomenal job representing Thailand, BKK specifically. I envy what he gets to do, with plethora of men. I wish I had some kind of "mentorship" to improve my skills. I always feel weird to have to explain this to local men here, as if they don't grasp the concept. I even had many of those receiving "monetary compensation" refused to participate. I even showed one of them the video clip to explain, which is benign in terms of sexual adventures, but he looked as if he got offended. In hind sight, maybe they just didn't want to let someone like me do it, or they want more money especially the MB. And yes, I find foreigners, especially westerners, are much more open to it, but I rarely get this chance due to various reasons. I'd love to open my horizon, though. That's why I am trying to reach out. Quote
noctiluca Posted November 30 Author Posted November 30 1 hour ago, Moses said: Hornet may help. Many users are shy and don't fill profiles, but if you will place your interests as #tags in your profile, then they may find you. Thank you. I have heard of Hornet but have never registered. I will check it out. Quote
ematt Posted December 13 Posted December 13 I generally go to a massage shop that has straight muscular guys, choose one I like, and then in the room I announce that I will be massaging them. They are often taken aback at first, but with gentle encouragement, I have never had anyone refuse. I massage them for 5 minutes or so, accidentally brushing up against their cock until they are hard. At that point I edge them very slowly until they are moaning and squirming, stop, then start again. I repeat as necessary until they eventually explode. vinapu and jamiebee 2 Quote
bkkmfj2648 Posted December 13 Posted December 13 1 minute ago, ematt said: I massage them for 5 minutes or so, accidentally brushing up against their cock until they are hard. At that point I edge them very slowly until they are moaning and squirming, stop, then start again. I repeat as necessary until they eventually explode. wow - what a GREAT idea. I never tried this. I will definitely give this a try.... Thanks for this tip. floridarob 1 Quote
