Do you tell others

[Olddaddy]

Ok before I get to the point and write more into this post later 

Let me ask this , do you tell others ( family in your home country ,straight or gay friends) you like younger guys and go to Asia🌏 to pick them up ? 😳 

Do you tell work colleagues ( if your still working or friends ?

I will write more into detail about this but at my age I had a fantastic time sexually and non  sexually  in Thailand & Philippines with guys all ages from 21 to 55 

I have 2o years or less to live so why not enjoy it 

 

From non sexual dinner meetings to sexual gangbangs in  gay saunas to dance clubs I partied in Thailand the last few weeks 🎤🎶🕺🕺🕺meeting guys in bars ,tinder etc 

Now some people will find that inappropriate and dare I say... disgusting,even other gay people unfortunately 

I had even a gay work colleague (lesbian )made assumptions because I went to Thailand 

My younger bf made me a Instagram account and I posted a few pics before taking it down after some comments by family members (neice) who wrote ,do you think you should be dancing with younger men ,is that appropriate?

So I'm wrote back "darl I do MORE than dance with them !  😂

Shouldn't you be taking it easy and looking at going in tours   instead of dancing for 4 hours non stop in some place in Bangkok meant for young people she wrote 🕺🕺🕺🕺🕺

You shouldn't be doing that at your age she  said 

Why not ?

I still hit the weights in the gym and do squats most days

Dancing for 4 hours drunk was still better cardio than on a treadmill 🏃‍♂️lol 

My brother even told me his wife ( he was drunk at the time telling me 🍻) told him we older guys that go to Thailand are disgusting ,

"Bev (his bitchty wife) ,I mean really what do the old guys get up to over there,dancing at your age in a disco  🤯picking up younger men... disgusting 🤣 AND taking advantage of them ! He let out 

Bev says your taking advantage of these young guys !

Absolutely disgusting he said pouring himself another wine 🍷 and asking about the hot young women

,"oh I don't want to hear it  ! he says after asking if it's true they have  blowjob bars in Bangkok 😳 "but can you cum in their mouth he adds 

"Yes " I went onto say before he again waves his hand "oh that's disgusting I don't want to hear it ,Bev is right ,it's not appropriate 😂

My motto... Grow OLD Disgracefully😄

 

[unicorn]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

Ok before I get to the point and write more into this post later 

Let me ask this , do you tell others ( family in your home country ,straight or gay friends) you like younger guys and go to Asia🌏 to pick them up ? 😳 

Do you tell work colleagues ( if your still working or friends ?

...

Well, I've never come out of the blue to tell people I like younger men, but these things come up in normal conversation, and I always answer honestly. Of course, since I'm now married to a man in his early 30s, it's pretty obvious, but friends, family, and co-workers normally ask about what's going on in our lives, and I've never made up fake stories. I would never blurt out "I'm taking a vacation to XXX to pick up younger men," but everyone at work (and family and friends) would know I'd be going on vacation, and I wouldn't hide where I was going. I might show photos of men I was dating, but never of some dude I hired. 

[Gottab]

I tell close friends, half are fwb and the other half straight mates. The gay ones don't care and the straight ones say they would do the same if they could.

I'm now single after many years and have enjoyed that status around the world the last couple of years. The young guys, the sauna orgys, the dancing all night: i enjoy the same. We enjoy it, were not coercing anybody and everyone walks away satified (mostly!).

The old sterotype of gays being past thier prime by 30 is long gone. I seem to get more attention the older i get. Daddies got popular at the right time for me, and you Olddaddy!

I say if your not hurting anyone and your treating people with respect, go for your life. 

[Olddaddy]

7 minutes ago, Gottab said:

I tell close friends, half are fwb and the other half straight mates. The gay ones don't care and the straight ones say they would do the same if they could.

I'm now single after many years and have enjoyed that status around the world the last couple of years. The young guys, the sauna orgys, the dancing all night: i enjoy the same. We enjoy it, were not coercing anybody and everyone walks away satified (mostly!).

The old sterotype of gays being past thier prime by 30 is long gone. I seem to get more attention the older i get. Daddies got popular at the right time for me, and you Olddaddy!

I say if your not hurting anyone and your treating people with respect, go for your life. 

Yes absolutely 💯 👍 

Unfortunately,there is those that get jealous like my brother who has a big fat domineering wife .

"Oh it's disgusting,a mature aged man taking advantage of boys in poverty !

They have never even been out of Australia apart from Bali 

 

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

From non sexual dinner meetings to sexual gangbangs in  gay saunas to dance clubs I partied in Thailand the last few weeks 🎤🎶🕺🕺🕺meeting guys in bars ,tinder etc 

And here you had us believing you were bored 🧐

[Olddaddy]

11 minutes ago, floridarob said:

And here you had us believing you were bored 🧐

It's strange because some days I did sort of sink into a depression and boredom but by the night I was ok 

I did change hotels every now & again because of gloomy type thinking 

I can't explain it 

[unicorn]

9 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

..."Oh it's disgusting,a mature aged man taking advantage of boys in poverty !

They have never even been out of Australia apart from Bali 

That's an irrational reaction, unless your sister-in-law is truly talking about minors when she says "boys" (hopefully not the case). When she vacations in Bali, does she  believe that hotel workers, waiters, taxi drivers, etc., are volunteering their time for the pleasure of serving her? Or does she understand that she's providing the locals with employment, doing something they wouldn't otherwise be doing, so that these people can support themselves and their families (if they have any)? Except for the extremely rare hermit living off of the land, we all "use" each other, each doing our own jobs, so that we can enjoy our lives to the extent that we can. 

The next time you hear someone say something like that, inform the person that you do not hire minors, but rather mentally competent (i.e. not drugged) adults who are making informed choices about how they want to earn their living. We all hire others for work, in one form or another. Financial compensation for work performed does not constitute undue coercion. 

[Riobard]

13 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

Ok before I get to the point and write more into this post later 

Let me ask this , do you tell others ( family in your home country ,straight or gay friends) you like younger guys and go to Asia🌏 to pick them up ? 😳 

Do you tell work colleagues ( if your still working or friends ?

I will write more into detail about this but at my age I had a fantastic time sexually and non  sexually  in Thailand & Philippines with guys all ages from 21 to 55 

I have 2o years or less to live so why not enjoy it 

 

From non sexual dinner meetings to sexual gangbangs in  gay saunas to dance clubs I partied in Thailand the last few weeks 🎤🎶🕺🕺🕺meeting guys in bars ,tinder etc 

Now some people will find that inappropriate and dare I say... disgusting,even other gay people unfortunately 

I had even a gay work colleague (lesbian )made assumptions because I went to Thailand 

My younger bf made me a Instagram account and I posted a few pics before taking it down after some comments by family members (neice) who wrote ,do you think you should be dancing with younger men ,is that appropriate?

So I'm wrote back "darl I do MORE than dance with them !  😂

Shouldn't you be taking it easy and looking at going in tours   instead of dancing for 4 hours non stop in some place in Bangkok meant for young people she wrote 🕺🕺🕺🕺🕺

You shouldn't be doing that at your age she  said 

Why not ?

I still hit the weights in the gym and do squats most days

Dancing for 4 hours drunk was still better cardio than on a treadmill 🏃‍♂️lol 

My brother even told me his wife ( he was drunk at the time telling me 🍻) told him we older guys that go to Thailand are disgusting ,

"Bev (his bitchty wife) ,I mean really what do the old guys get up to over there,dancing at your age in a disco  🤯picking up younger men... disgusting 🤣 AND taking advantage of them ! He let out 

Bev says your taking advantage of these young guys !

Absolutely disgusting he said pouring himself another wine 🍷 and asking about the hot young women

,"oh I don't want to hear it  ! he says after asking if it's true they have  blowjob bars in Bangkok 😳 "but can you cum in their mouth he adds 

"Yes " I went onto say before he again waves his hand "oh that's disgusting I don't want to hear it ,Bev is right ,it's not appropriate 😂

My motto... Grow OLD Disgracefully😄

 

Have the judgy haters never actually seen how you operate?

[vinapu]

On 11/8/2024 at 6:39 PM, floridarob said:

And here you had us believing you were bored 🧐

Not that anybody believed

[vinapu]

On merit of OP question I must confess that number of people  I tell about mu Thai and other exotic trips is very limited and sometimes even my close friends and even closer family members dont know where I actually am.

Upon leaving home I always leave in my desk sealed envelope with note " open if I don't return by ( date usually 2 days after my expected arrival)". There are all details of my flights and accommodation

( but nothing about offs I'm dreaming about). 

Reasons for such discretion are two, lesser being that is nobody's business where I go and what I do there, which by the way is disease those days, as we are swamped by reports on media  what people were doing whole days. 

Main reason for discretion has nothing to do with sinister side of vacation and I owe it to my classmate who told me that many people who for this or that reason can't or don't want to travel my consider it hurtful boasting about somebody's luck in life so I better keep quiet and I got thet argument. 

Back in 2001 I lost my job right after returning from Cambodia and to this day some people I worked then with claim that it was out of jealousy. Considering fact that parting terms were rapidly settled as  dismissal without the cause with substantial  financial benefits to me adds to credibility of such suspicion. 

[floridarob]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

to this day some people I worked then with claim that it was out of jealousy

Stamp collectors can be a vicious bunch...😱