How assertive are you ?

[Olddaddy]

I'm into rimming 👅 guys 

My Boyfriend who will be travelling with me on this first trip to Thailand has asked me if the guys (feminine) type will rim him 👅😛

I never really thought about it if they provide that service you but I was shocked ...how can you ask such a question to them I said , ❓ ❓ 

I am very shy type that's why I don't like going into bars .

My BF is very assertive and extrovert he can walk into a bar and 10 minutes later be at a group table with new friends,I can't ,I'm a loner 

He can't wait to get to Pattaya 

I remember looking around in Winner boys Go Go in Pattaya to see farangs tongue kissing boys 🫢

My question to you guys is ,and I'm not talking about in the apps but in PERSON,are you assertive?

Can you ask say a Bellboy in a hotel  if he is interested in making extra money 

I remember a poster on another forum who used to post his exploits where he would ask hotel staff ,motorbike taxi drivers even uni students in the street whether they would be interested in sucking him off for extra cash 😯

I'm envious of guys like that if his posts were real and he can just easily without shame  ask a hotel employee that 

I cannot ,which holds me back ,I'm shy ,I'm introvert ,I am assertive if drunk though 🥳🥳🥳

 

 

 

[vinapu]

12 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

 

I am very shy type that's why I don't like going into bars .

 

so likely you don't like going to Thailand as it's not  a country for shy types. But my suggestion is -brave yourself and go.

To answer another question , yes if bellboy would be attractive  I will be trying to cruise him and look for reactions. If positive or encouraging I'd ask him if he is interested in seeing my stamp collection. Or even better he may actually be one who suggests that.

This is how I landed guy I met on street by chance and coincidence few times during few consecutive  days. On the third meet I asked him how are you to which he answered 'one day we should have drink together". Then it was kind of easy- drink, than dinner, after dinner he suggested we buy some beer and drink in my room where in turn it was too hot to stay fully dressed. At end of session I asked if I can give him some money for taxi  to which he answered 'of course'.

Now whenever I'm in Bangkok I let him know and he tells me when he can come and see me. Things came to a point he calls himself " I'm your daytime boy, you have many night time boys" 

so bottom line - have eyes wide opened and look for encouraging signs

 

[Olddaddy]

But apparently this poster ( on another gay forum many years ago)used to ask them bluntly and to the point.

And I remember he said he even goes up to Thai guys in the street and asks near the university 👨‍🎓👨‍🎓

He said he had even been attacked and abused 🥊🥊

I mean I have no problem asking on the apps , Grindr etc and maybe even Facebook but I couldn't bring myself to ask a guy in the street are you interested in Gay4pay?😯

I mean some people have no shame I guess but I would ask a sexy guy in the street if I could 😮

[vinapu]

11 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

I couldn't bring myself to ask a guy in the street are you interested in Gay4pay?😮

rightly so as it will be extremely rude and yes , may result in abuse.

How you would react if stranger on the street 25 years your senior out of blue asked you " can I fuck you for 1000 baht ' ?

[Olddaddy]

I was going to say the same thing you if I came up to you say on Silom MRT and asked you bluntly "would you like to fuck me in the ass for $100? 😮😂

[vinapu]

26 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

I was going to say the same thing you if I came up to you say on Silom MRT and asked you bluntly "would you like to fuck me in the ass for $100? 😮😂

I have standard answer I use in pushy bars " I like girls"

[Tomasian]

I've approached many guys on the street. My opening line is to ask them what time is it or if they have a lighter. If they interact with me, I then ask, 'how's your night been? are you drunk? are you going home to your wife/girlfriend?'. Usually when I ask the last question, the guy pretty much know what I am up to. I've picked up many guys in the streets of Sydney years ago (usually after I had a drink or six), that was fun. There's only one incident where a guy told me to piss off, which I did, lol.

[a-447]

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

Now whenever I'm in Bangkok I let him know and he tells me when he can come and see me. Things came to a point he calls himself " I'm your daytime boy, you have many night time boys" 

I am in the exact same situation.

I've had a guy in Bangkok for over 10 years and always let him know when I'll be in town.

In the old days of Golden Cock, we'd meet at the bar in the afternoon, I'd have fun with the guys there for an hour and then go back to the hotel with him for sex.

In the evening I'd go to another bar and find someone, or he would introduce me to one of his friends. Later I'd be back at Golden Cock to finish the evening.

Last year he started work at Dreamboys and within a week he found a wealthy Thai sponsor. This made things a little difficult last trip as we had to work secretly around the sponsor's schedule and sex was later in the afternoon. 

At first, I thought this would be a problem because I like to have sex twice a day and if the first time is too late in the day, I may not be horny enough to have sex again. But thankfully, that was not the case. 

[Keithambrose]

16 hours ago, a-447 said:

I am in the exact same situation.

I've had a guy in Bangkok for over 10 years and always let him know when I'll be in town.

In the old days of Golden Cock, we'd meet at the bar in the afternoon, I'd have fun with the guys there for an hour and then go back to the hotel with him for sex.

In the evening I'd go to another bar and find someone, or he would introduce me to one of his friends. Later I'd be back at Golden Cock to finish the evening.

Last year he started work at Dreamboys and within a week he found a wealthy Thai sponsor. This made things a little difficult last trip as we had to work secretly around the sponsor's schedule and sex was later in the afternoon. 

At first, I thought this would be a problem because I like to have sex twice a day and if the first time is too late in the day, I may not be horny enough to have sex again. But thankfully, that was not the case. 

Sex twice a day, those were the days!

[12is12]

All these street pickups work only when using the local language, no?

Or does this sponteneity also work with translators?

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, 12is12 said:

All these street pickups work only when using the local language, no?

Or does this sponteneity also work with translators?

in my case guy speaks passable English

[Olddaddy]

One place I want to be assertive is the basketball courts🏀🏀 in Pattaya that the guys play every evening 

Some nice Eye 👁️ Candy 🥰

 

[bkkmfj2648]

@Olddaddy don't forget to visit the gay volleyball at night (from 5:30 pm until 10 pm) at Dongtan beach in front of Pattaya Tower (water park) right next to the Sea Rescue site.

There can be some good eye candy there.

And if you offer to buy the guys some wine or beer you will be a big star.

Often after volleyball they go to eat and drink in either:

Panorama Bar in Boyztown,

or, Soi 12 (Jomtien) to sit on the beach and drink.

Many ways to get 1 or 2 for "take away" 😜😛😋🍆💦

[Olddaddy]

5 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

And if you offer to buy the guys some wine or beer you will be a big star.

How do you do that?

You buy for all and take or pick one?🍻🍺

I would be shy 🙈🙈

[Keithambrose]

8 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

@Olddaddy don't forget to visit the gay volleyball at night (from 5:30 pm until 10 pm) at Dongtan beach in front of Pattaya Tower (water park) right next to the Sea Rescue site.

There can be some good eye candy there.

And if you offer to buy the guys some wine or beer you will be a big star.

Often after volleyball they go to eat and drink in either:

Panorama Bar in Boyztown,

or, Soi 12 (Jomtien) to sit on the beach and drink.

Many ways to get 1 or 2 for "take away" 😜😛😋🍆💦

Good to know!

[bkkmfj2648]

33 minutes ago, Olddaddy said:

How do you do that?

Sit on the bamboo logs (they are bundled together to make like a bench seat) that are perpendicular to the volleyball net at the pedestrian sidewalk.

Then do like I did - yell and scream like a chearleader when they are playing - especially if it is a good volley.

That will get them focused on you because they love the attention.

Eventually one team will win and some of the guys will come towards the bamboo bench (where you have strategically placed yourself) and they will be thirsty.

So, that is your moment to strike up a conversation.

Say:

Wow - great match

         - great game

Want some beers? Wine?

I offer.  Where can we buy them?

Then they will start talking in Thai to the other guys and 1 of 2 things will happen:

1.) One of the guys will be delegated the task of driving you over to the nearby 7-Eleven on their motorbike for the shopping expedition. Be prepared to spend 1.000 to 1.500 baht on beer, wine, snacks, and ice.

2.) If they are shy (to bring you on their motorbike) they may ask you directly for the money and one of them will go to the nearby 7-Eleven to do the shopping.

Option 1 is the best in my opinion as it gets you inside their inner circle.

After the shopping is done - you will be invited to drink with them.

Now you will have a new group of happy crazy good fun athletic Thai guys as your new friends.

How do I know all of this?

I saw the above plan play out by a Russian guy.

So, when the Russian guy was not there one night, I tried it and it worked.

So, I am a copycat.

[Olddaddy]

3 minutes ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Sit on the bamboo logs (they are bundled together to make like a bench seat) that are perpendicular to the volleyball net at the pedestrian sidewalk.

Then do like I did - yell and scream like a chearleader when they are playing - especially if it is a good volley.

That will get them focused on you because they love the attention.

Eventually one team will win and some of the guys will come towards the bamboo bench (where you have strategically placed yourself) and they will be thirsty.

So, that is your moment to strike up a conversation.

Say:

Wow - great match

         - great game

Want some beers? Wine?

I offer.  Where can we buy them?

Then they will start talking in Thai to the other guys and 1 of 2 things will happen:

1.) One of the guys will be delegated the task of driving you over to the nearby 7-Eleven on their motorbike for the shopping expedition. Be prepared to spend 1.000 to 1.500 baht on beer, wine, snacks, and ice.

2.) If they are shy (to bring you on their motorbike) they may ask you directly for the money and one of them will go to the nearby 7-Eleven to do the shopping.

Option 1 is the best in my opinion as it gets you inside their inner circle.

After the shopping is done - you will be invited to drink with them.

Now you will have a new group of happy crazy good fun athletic Thai guys.

How do I know all of this?

I say the above plan play out by a Russian guy.

So, when the Russian guy was not there one night, I tried it and it worked.

So, I am a copycat.

Wow I love it 😍 💕 

[Keithambrose]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

Wow I love it 😍 💕 

Are they all gay, or bi? In other words might they all be available,  if all goes well?

[Keithambrose]

Just now, Keithambrose said:

Are they all gay, or bi? In other words might they all be available,  if all goes well?

Or. Bearing in mind comments elsewhere, 'straight', but happy to play around! Would you expect  further expenditure in the event that things get more personal?

[Keithambrose]

On 9/21/2024 at 6:06 PM, Olddaddy said:

I'm into rimming 👅 guys 

My Boyfriend who will be travelling with me on this first trip to Thailand has asked me if the guys (feminine) type will rim him 👅😛

I never really thought about it if they provide that service you but I was shocked ...how can you ask such a question to them I said , ❓

I would certainly  ask, I am into that. The only issue is asking too much, kissing, sucking, cumming, BB, 3somes, etc. Bit off-putting.  Mind you I ask escorts in UK  all those questions! 

 

 

[12is12]

Any potential in trying 2 become the highschool slut - taking on the whole sports team?

[Keithambrose]

34 minutes ago, 12is12 said:

Any potential in trying 2 become the highschool slut - taking on the whole sports team?

Has some attractions! Could divide them into 2 teams!

[Olddaddy]

1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

I would certainly  ask, I am into that. The only issue is asking too much, kissing, sucking, cumming, BB, 3somes, etc. Bit off-putting.  Mind you I ask escorts in UK  all those questions! 

 

 

Personally? Or over the app?

I mean it's a bit hard to ask a boy in a bar that with everyone listening 🎧 😂 

Especially if his English is not the best ,I guess you have to do body 👅 language 🍑😂😂

 

[a-447]

14 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Sex twice a day, those were the days!

Only when I'm on holidays. 

Sometimes I can go a third time if I bottom, in which case I don't always cum.

[bkkmfj2648]

7 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Are they all gay, or bi? In other words might they all be available,  if all goes well?

hmm, difficult question to respond to.

They are predominately gay, there are some bi, and there are also sometimes a few transgender - which I discovered when way back in March, as reported by @reader, when he posted the Filipino - and Thai transgender clash on Sukhumvit soi 11 in Bangkok.

because at one of the volleyball games, a Filipina transgender asked if she could join the volleyball guys one evening in March and she specifically referred to what had just happened in Bangkok on Soi Sukhumvit 11.  The guys all laughed and told her if she would be a "good girl" then no harm would come to her....  They loved her and she had a great time.  Kudos for Thai peace and good Philippine behavior. 

There are also some straight - and they tend to be from the Russian contingent that sometimes joins the Thai guys to play volleyball.  Some of the straight Russian guys are pretty cool about all of the slurs, cat-calling, and lusty eyes on them, etcetra.  

The ring leader of this "gay volleyball" - Ma Toey, a gay Thai guy, is very brazen with everyone.  In fact, one night after volleyball some of us went to the nearby Russian night market in Prathumnak to eat dinner and drink.  Well, Ma Toey, was obsessed with one of these straight Russian guys and made sure that he was well drunk by the end of the night and rumor says that Ma Toey was able to get into this straight Russian's hotel room at the nearby Pattaya Park Tower, and he gave him a blow job.

so, are they all available, if all goes well?

I would say that it is hit and miss for various reasons:

1.) Some of them are money boys - as they don't have day jobs and playing volleyball at night does not pay the bills.  This sub-set of volleyball guys tend to have their profiles in Hornet.  Supposedly, not everyone knows about each others ways on how they get money.  But if you are subtle with them in a discreet way you can become one of their customers for payment.  I have gone with about 4 of them.  One of these four, swore me to secrecy because he did not want the other volleyball guys to know that he was an escort - you cannot tell from his Hornet profile - but I pursued him because I got to know him at volleyball and when I discovered his Hornet profile I wrote to him.

2.) Some of them are NOT money boys and have daytime jobs and join volleyball in the evening after finishing work.  This sub-set is not as easy to have sex with because they have jobs and are more picky about who they will have sex with and might be offended at the idea of being paid for sex.  There is one guy in this sub-set that I had the hots for and I knew his former boyfriend and I asked his former boyfriend if it would be possible to get his ex in my bed - obviously for payment.  So, my volleyball friend  arranged that the 3 of us went to dinner one night so that I could get to know him outside of on the volleyball field - more discrete.  We exchanged our LINE contacts and in  the following days I solicited him for some fun in my bed.  All of the pricing details were worked out - but this guy had so many - "you cannot do these things to me:" 1.) not to suck his cock without a condom, 2.) not to touch his nipples - he is too ticklish, 3.) no kissing, 4.) does not like edging or to receive a handjob, 5.) do not touch or caress his balls, 6.) he did not want to reciprocate anything back to me.  So, I did not pursue him anymore but we are still cordial at volleyball and he knows that if he would loosen up his crazy restrictions that I am still game.  When my volleyball friend asked me if we had met - I told him about all of the above restrictions and said that it killed my interest.  I then asked my volleyball friend - why did you stay with him for 4 years?  He replied to me, He is an excellent top with a humongous dick and can fuck me all night long.  Since I am not a bottom and I am predominantly an edger - I could then understand why it would never work for me - even though I became obsessed to want to play with his humongous dick.

3.) People passing by on the Dongtan sidewalk at the volleyball field who stop to: 1.) watch, or 2.) play.  One of these guys (a tourist) who was watching I managed to get into my bed.  On another occasion, there were 3 Japanese tourists who stopped to play and I was goo-goo gaa-gaa for all of them and I made them know that I was interested.  They left during the volleyball game (as the Thai guys kicked their ass) to go eat and said that they would return and that we could discuss this more.  Unfortunately, they never returned and I remained on the volleyball field well after everyone else left - oh well - you cannot have everything.

4.) Random - I have witnessed random volleyball guys hooking up with other players and other spectators.  I was not close enough to them to understand how it happened - but it happened.  So, anything is possible.

If you do not get laid - you will still have fun, be entertained, and possibly make new friends.  Once you can get into the inner circle - options for sex become much more easier.