Members unicorn Posted September 14 Members Posted September 14 We have two handsome friends, "Adam" and "Brad" who are single and looking for partners. I asked my hubbie if he thought the two might hook up, and he said "Oh, that could never work. They're both bottoms." It had never occurred to me that a man would ever exclude from consideration another man for a long-term relationship simply because both were bottoms. Can't those things work out? Maybe take turns or use a toy or inanimate object if needed? Would you never consider another man, no matter how handsome and nice he was, simply because he prefers the same position as you do? I mean, I prefer oral, and I've never met a man who doesn't like to be sucked, so maybe that's why I've never had that problem. I don't bottom, so I suppose that if I met a man who no way, no how could ever orgasm without topping, that it wouldn't work out, but I've never met such a man. Have you ever met someone whose company you enjoyed--whom you got along with and whom you found attractive--but wouldn't pursue a relationship because of positional incompatibility? Mavica 1 Quote
floridarob Posted September 15 Posted September 15 I had a 2 bf's that were bottom...the 1st when I was vers, the 2nd one I was 100% bottom.... neither worked out, we're still friends. unicorn and Mavica 1 1 Quote
Members unicorn Posted September 15 Author Members Posted September 15 13 hours ago, floridarob said: I had a 2 bf's that were bottom...the 1st when I was vers, the 2nd one I was 100% bottom.... neither worked out, we're still friends. Thanks. Was the reason it didn't work out with the 2nd one due to sexual incompatibility, or for other reasons? Quote
Olddaddy Posted September 15 Posted September 15 Not all relationship is based on sex. My current Filipino bf is top and I'm bottom We cuddle kiss hug more than having sex 👄👨❤️💋👨 Full sex is maybe once a month with each other I prefer a open relationship and I'm honest with him when I get a guy off Grindr and he is with me too...well...most of the time I hope😂 I prefer to be fucked by many Asian guys especially at my age where time is limited. If some young Asian guy offers to fuck my old saggy daddy ass for free on the spur of the moment I'm can't deny it If my BF was a total bottom it probably wouldn't work out though 🍑 Many people think HE is the bottom, because he has boyish looks and I'm "bear" looking 🐻 unicorn and Mavica 2 Quote
floridarob Posted September 15 Posted September 15 1 hour ago, unicorn said: Thanks. Was the reason it didn't work out with the 2nd one due to sexual incompatibility, or for other reasons? Both....more for other reasons when I think about it. Quote
Members Thomas_88 Posted September 16 Members Posted September 16 In this vid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8e9bhthSvYA&t=5s at the 21st minute there are two slings close to each other for the "bottom couples". floridarob 1 Quote