Popular Post terper Posted September 1 Popular Post Share Posted September 1 Hey all! Been a lurker here for some time and finally visited Thailand for the first time some at the beginning of August. Been meaning to write this post for a while now, but been procastinating for far too long 😂. Oh well, here we go! To start, I'm from Latin America but currently live in China and I'm pretty damn young, younger than most bar boys even hahaha. I don't really know why I engage with bar stuff/moneyboys, I really don't need it, but in a somewhat wicked way I do somewhat enjoy the dynamics of it... I don't know 😛 (be it in Thailand, China or back home). Anyway, everyone know's Thailand's fame for this kind of stuff, so I was excited! China's MB scene is quite great, amazing handsome boys that enjoys doing all kinds of stuff, but oh is it expensive!! You can easily spend $400+ for short time, which is not really sustainable At first, I went to GBEAT Spa. No real reason, but I had a thai friend recommend it to me (I suspect he worked there lol). Prices seemed reasonable, boys were mostly meh but I found one that really caught my eye. Boys were divided into "gay" and "men", which i thought slightly funny lol. The room was nice enough, the boy was super nice but the massage was pretty mediocre and he couldn't for his life find my asshole, my poor perineal! When it was time to spice things up, I asked to top him and he was utterly confused saying he was never asked to bottom before. Thankfully, even though he acted surprised a little he didn't seemed to bother it and did it anyway, I thought he was just playing hard with the whole "ohh noo I've never done it beforee.." thing, but oh boy! That INSANELY thigh ass almost ripped my cock out 😂. Felt a little bad for him, even more because he was clearly struggling with it, so I left a bigger tip at the end (even though he nailed the fuck out of my butt 😅). When I said that I spoke Chinese, he started moaning in Chinese, which made me really struggle not to laugh One day later, I wanted to try out the bars. I'll start by saying that the LGBT scene in Bangkok as a whole really dissapointed me, I was kinda expecting something more, I don't know. Few bars and most of the boys honestly didn't looked that great... but anyway! I was reading conflicting info about all the bars, so instead of trying to min-max my night I just walked into the first one I saw haha that one being HotMale! The bar was empty... literally! I had all of the boys on stage looking at me and vying for my attention, it was quite the awkward position 😅. Honestly, most of them were preeetty damn ugly, but at that point I had already paid for my drink, so might as well stay! I ended up calling a cute Cambodian boy (I think 31 or 32), he couldn't speak much English and just kept using his small vocabulary (mostly variations of "i fuck"). The mamasan had pretty good English and we kept chatting a little, until he told me to take the boy out and he took me to a hotel upstairs (I couldn't take him to mine). The boy was still cute but kinda felt like a slab, pretty uninterested in the whole thing. After a miserable amount of roleplay he cums and.. leaves?? Demands 2000bht for not even 15m of sucking. I was aware that he was bullshitting me big time as I made the mistake of telling I was new in the city, but oh well, not worth the hassle, so I just paid and left in frustration for my first night 😂 The next day I went back to the first SPA I went, I really liked the first boy and I wanted to try out the 4 hands massage. Wanted to call another boy that I almost chose the first time, but according to the manager he was sick, so I spent some time looking around again as many boys couldn't work in a pair according to the manager, I ended up choosing someone kinda meh but still hot enough. We went upstairs to the same room as last time and they waited outside for me to take a bath. The massage this time was actually not bad at all, the new dude had great big hands and the old one knew how to make it really erotic by hitting the right places and moaning in my ears. The new one seemed pretty disinterested and in a hurry, which kinda sucked, but he also cummed many times and kept placing my hand on his cock, so who knows 😅. Cute boy however never took out his underwear, this time no penetration happened in 2hrs After that I went to the southern islands in the gulf and spent quite a few weeks, I only returned to Bangkok when it was time to catch the flight back to China. Nothing happened during this time as there wasn't much on the islands for that and I was having a great time overall. When in Bangkok, I wanted to overcome my shitty first bar experience and go somewhere that actually had people for a change. I ultimately settled on Dreamboy due to some Chinese tourist recommendations, and have to say that it didn't disappoint at all! The only thing that REALLY annoyed the hell out of me was that maybe due to my age, clothing etc the staff ignored me quite a lot, lost the boy I wanted cuz the mamasans clearly ignored me. Anyway, I ended up calling 103 from the show, he was quite huge and looked so happy dancing! He sat really excited next to me and took out the phone from his pocket for us to chat though the translator. He was from Myanmar and we watched the show together while he groped my body from top to bottom while wearing his dancing jockstrap, quite nice! Ended up offing him and it was the complete opposite from the other dude, he was a total sweetheart from beginning to end. Grabbed me though my waist or shoulders while we went to 7-Eleven and lied me down on his legs while we were on the taxi on the way to the hotel. On the hotel, we took a bath and when I went to bed he was already laying down stroking his rock hard cock looking at me and using all of his english to say "Come suck". Oh yes I will~. The sex was phenomenol, but I embarassingly didn't last long (at least not long enough to warrant the short time ;P) and he already got all dressed up. What's up with Thai boys and wanting to dash though the door at the first opportunity 🙃 Oh well, final considerations: I honestly really disliked Bangkok. Not only for the boys, but I genuinely didn't find anything special with it, really. Insanely dirty, overcrowded and nothing much to see if you're already used to Asian life. Most of the other young tourists I met were backpackers with shit for brains with an insanely high-and-mighty attitude and no respect or common sense whatsoever. Sooo many people that travelled all over the world but seemed to have lever left the same place, idk. The boys themselves were fine but honestly nothing special either, I much prefer the ones back home. The bar system is quite needlessly overcomplicated and the boys aren't really cheap or hot enough to warrant the price. Back home I can just pay 1800 with no hotel, drinks, off fees and god know what and just fuck with the hottest people you can imagine (and they aren't straight neither will complain if you get 200m too close to their butthole even if by accident). I suppose I'm just not the target audience, I really just want to fuck while I feel like in Bangkok they're selling a whole love experience, I don't know how to explain. I want to just switch off my brain and get railed/rail someone, but I feel like I have to micromanage the Thai boys to do anything, otherwise they just stay there. Feels too commercial maybe. I'll be back for sure, but next time I can just stay for two nights, have some fun and leave, maybe I'll have someone from the forum help me out hahaha TMax, khaolakguy, pong2 and 10 others 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
floridarob Posted September 1 Share Posted September 1 Where in Latin America are you from and how old are you? Latins vs Asians are VERY different..... I'm in Brazil right now, been to Colombia 3 times this year so far and visit Asia, alot. I've broken it down to this: Asia= great Massage, better hotels at cheaper rates, better business class airlines, AMAZING food....every now and then you'll have good sex, not too often though, lol Latin Countries= Hard to find good hotels at a decent price, standard airlines, lots of 737 crap service, almost impossible to find someone that knows how to do a proper massage, food varies depending on country (nothing beats Thai food), 95% chance of having good to amazing sex, latins are more passionate and NOT shy. Latins are more fun to hang out with and drink could be because I speak Spanish/Portuguese?, most Asians can't hold their alcohol. TMax, vinapu, tm_nyc and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keithambrose Posted September 1 Share Posted September 1 1 hour ago, floridarob said: Where in Latin America are you from and how old are you? Latins vs Asians are VERY different..... I'm in Brazil right now, been to Colombia 3 times this year so far and visit Asia, alot. I've broken it down to this: Asia= great Massage, better hotels at cheaper rates, better business class airlines, AMAZING food....every now and then you'll have good sex, not too often though, lol Latin Countries= Hard to find good hotels at a decent price, standard airlines, lots of 737 crap service, almost impossible to find someone that knows how to do a proper massage, food varies depending on country (nothing beats Thai food), 95% chance of having good to amazing sex, latins are more passionate and NOT shy. Latins are more fun to hang out with and drink could be because I speak Spanish/Portuguese?, most Asians can't hold their alcohol. It's well known that Asian people are more likely to have a genetic mutation that makes it more difficult to break down the alcohol, and hence are can suffer from alcohol intolerance. Mind you the defective gene can appear in all races, it's just that it seems more prevalent in Asian people. I found this in Japan when I visited. As you may know Japanese written English can be very good, but their spoken English is a lot less good. I'm told they do not get a lot of practice in speaking English in school, etc. Hence, in the evening, over various dinners, the 'Asian flush', as it is rather unsympathetically called, became quite evident! Bearing in mind that hearing is the first sense affected by alcohol, later in the evening I did a lot of agreeing, and nodding! vinapu and floridarob 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verchiele Posted September 1 Share Posted September 1 I think comparing Bangkok to LATAM is just entirely different experience. Thai culture in general is more emphasis on politeness, basic courtesy and respect (look at the ‘Wai’ hand that they do all the time). The boys also act in this manner when meeting you. I think this translates to just generally more reserved boys (especially the new ones). Like you encountered - not all experiences are all the same - and you also had great moments too in Bangkok The other thing is also language barrier. If you are from LATAM and can speak the language - of course, knowing the ins and outs of the system generally tilts your experience to the positive being a local versus being a tourist trying your luck. On a more positive side, Bangkok is considered much more safe compared to LATAM. It is definitely 100% more commercial like you said because how accessible it is and safe it is. TLDR: I think if you are open minded and appreciate the nuances of thai culture, scenes and of course the Asian heritage of its boys - you’ll likely find something that makes Bangkok the gay capital of the world lol. khaolakguy, vinapu and pong2 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taikonaut Posted September 1 Share Posted September 1 Great report. Can you make a post describing the scene in China? KTV bars? WeChat groups? floridarob, JackR and fedssocr 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaughn Posted September 2 Share Posted September 2 Interesting perspective and report, thanks for sharing. I also come from the younger side of the typical demographic for customers, but I would say I rarely feel overlooked, maybe it was just some bad luck on that occurrence with those mamasans. Expectations vs reality can sometimes be an issue, but I hope you decide to give Bangkok another chance. It can take some time to find the right bars and guys that really match what you're looking for, but there's a lot of options out there, both free and paid. Keep in mind August is also low season, I would test it out again November to February. vinapu and reader 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackR Posted September 2 Share Posted September 2 On 9/1/2024 at 5:22 PM, Taikonaut said: Great report. Can you make a post describing the scene in China? KTV bars? WeChat groups? Agreed. Terper, would love to hear about the China scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post terper Posted September 3 Author Popular Post Share Posted September 3 On 9/1/2024 at 8:54 PM, floridarob said: Where in Latin America are you from and how old are you? Latins vs Asians are VERY different..... I'm in Brazil right now, been to Colombia 3 times this year so far and visit Asia, alot. I've broken it down to this: Asia= great Massage, better hotels at cheaper rates, better business class airlines, AMAZING food....every now and then you'll have good sex, not too often though, lol Latin Countries= Hard to find good hotels at a decent price, standard airlines, lots of 737 crap service, almost impossible to find someone that knows how to do a proper massage, food varies depending on country (nothing beats Thai food), 95% chance of having good to amazing sex, latins are more passionate and NOT shy. Latins are more fun to hang out with and drink could be because I speak Spanish/Portuguese?, most Asians can't hold their alcohol. Heh, I'm from Brazil! And I agree with most of your points too (except the food, I much prefer brazilian food over thai, but maybe I'm a little biased 😉). We don't really have a tourism focus like Thailand, so I suppose most of these complains are expected (even for locals!). We also don't have much of a massage culture hahaha, some boys offer it but I never tried it out, it's probably pretty shit. I suppose I just enjoy the latino style more, there's just more "fire" to it, I don't know. We're also pretty open as a whole and wilder, come out with the weirdest shit and we'll be excited to try it out, while thais shudder at handcuffs 😜 . Also, I don't know if we're necessarily better at holding our alcohol, but we're definitely experts at hiding we're drunk as fuck😂 On 9/1/2024 at 11:43 PM, Verchiele said: I think comparing Bangkok to LATAM is just entirely different experience. Thai culture in general is more emphasis on politeness, basic courtesy and respect (look at the ‘Wai’ hand that they do all the time). The boys also act in this manner when meeting you. I think this translates to just generally more reserved boys (especially the new ones). Like you encountered - not all experiences are all the same - and you also had great moments too in Bangkok The other thing is also language barrier. If you are from LATAM and can speak the language - of course, knowing the ins and outs of the system generally tilts your experience to the positive being a local versus being a tourist trying your luck. On a more positive side, Bangkok is considered much more safe compared to LATAM. It is definitely 100% more commercial like you said because how accessible it is and safe it is. TLDR: I think if you are open minded and appreciate the nuances of thai culture, scenes and of course the Asian heritage of its boys - you’ll likely find something that makes Bangkok the gay capital of the world lol. I think that's a good point, my ingenuity definitely played against me here. But my main point is still that I just didn't found Bangkok a great city, it's not that it's boring per se, it's just really ordinary. It doesn't feels exotic, it doesn't feels like a vacation, it just feels like I'm back home but with Thai writing and rats. And I just really disagree with Bangkok being the gay capital, the gay life is pretty ordinary, hell, the ones working at gay bars are mostly straight ffs hahaha. The gay venues in Sao Paulo are much better in almost every aspect. I'm not new to Thai culture either, I have tons of Thai friends and classmates, I suppose I just expected that behind closed doors it would be a little different. And I think I just didn't enjoyed much the bar thing as a whole, I just wanna have a good time and be done, but the whole bar thing feels like such a chore... I think I'm just not the target audience On 9/2/2024 at 12:22 AM, Taikonaut said: Great report. Can you make a post describing the scene in China? KTV bars? WeChat groups? Hahahaha I was actually thinking if this would be asked! The Chinese scene definitely isn't as open as Bangkok's, but it's suuuuper huge! But if you're not a mandarin speaker, I think it would be quite hard to break into. You can find actually quite a huge chunk of it on Twitter, but you will eventually head down to WeChat. Since it's all underground, your best bet is always going to be knowing local people at the specific cities you want to go to. For big cities (most capitals) you can download Blued (the chinese version! the one on the appstore is international) and there will be tons of MBs already, ask them out or befriend other Chinese and ask for tips of where to go or to hook you up into the wechat groups. For Twitter, you can start following one chinese porn account and follow their followers, the people that comment etc and just build up a lil base for the algorithm to recommend you more stuff. This is where the mandarin knowledge kicks in, because people will use slangs that a translator won't understand, so you need to know them beforehand. The most obvious one is if they have 约/可约 in their bio, it means they're avaliable for hookups, they'll usually say SPA or 按摩 (massage) too. Other keywords can be 可线下,门槛 etc. If you can access 抖音 (chinese version of tiktok), a very large number of "influencers" are MBs too, most hot boys posting sexy videos under 30k followers with a wechat attached can probably be booked (look at the comments too, people usually say if they ever did any porno ;p) But Chinese MBs aren't really looking for hookups. They're pretty expensive for short time sex, starting at 2000rmb at the low end and 7000+ at the high end, since they get most of their money out of sugar daddying, not really the prostitution itself. So they're looking for a "sponsor" or a bf, servicing you might be a low priority, and they might ask for lots of stuff. But I can make a whole post about it, there's too much to write in just an unrelated comment! hahaha floridarob, splinter1949, vinapu and 7 others 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neil Posted September 3 Share Posted September 3 Interesting report terper. Different point of view.. - Good tip on Dreamboys and #103 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spoon Posted September 3 Share Posted September 3 6 hours ago, terper said: starting at 2000rmb at the low end and 7000+ at the high end Thank god im not stucked there and thailand is still very cheap. floridarob and vinapu 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
floridarob Posted September 3 Share Posted September 3 11 hours ago, terper said: Heh, I'm from Brazil! And I agree with most of your points too (except the food, I much prefer brazilian food over thai, but maybe I'm a little biased Brazilians typically don't like very spicy, apart from Churrascarias, I think Brazilian food to be boring and bland. I was in Belo Horizonte when I first replied and now Rio....I've been visiting Brazil for 25 yrs and Thailand for about as long. Like both places for different reasons as I pointed out. I lived in Brazil in 2004 for 2 yrs doing visa runs, no residency, now live in Mexico however, considering a move back to Brazil....Brazil residency is more complicated than Mexico so not too sure 🤔 vinapu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackbr1952 Posted September 3 Share Posted September 3 Excellent comparison, floridarob, Asia to Brasil floridarob 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macaroni21 Posted September 4 Share Posted September 4 Thanks @terper for this interesting segue to Chinese moneyboys, in response to @Taikonaut's question. I have a follow-up question, but in the interest of good housekeeping, I have put my question in the China forum, because that would be the proper place for discussion and makes it easier for others to search in future. Could you look at my question there? vinapu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post macaroni21 Posted September 4 Popular Post Share Posted September 4 On 9/1/2024 at 3:04 PM, terper said: I honestly really disliked Bangkok. Not only for the boys, but I genuinely didn't find anything special with it, really. Insanely dirty, overcrowded and nothing much to see if you're already used to Asian life. I actually understand where you're coming from. Having myself spent a lot of time travelling around Asian cities, including Chinese ones, whatever initial charm there is in one's eyes wears off quickly, and all one is left with is seeing everything that is wrong, broken, inefficient, superstitious and plain illogical. Massive urban sprawl, congestion, poverty and mendicancy have a lot to do with it too. If there's anything that makes me go wow nowadays, it is the super-modern technology that the top-tier cities of Asia have here and there. China's top-tier cities are in this league. And China's Gaotie (the superfast trains). Previous generations of White people (from Europe and North America) saw Asia through the lens of the exotic. Half-naked children, superstitious rituals, unfit-for-habitation cottages, outdoor baths, meals cooked beside the toilet, and bone-shaking transport vehicles were seen as charming instead of depressing. That generation is largely gone, but perhaps a tinge of that perspective lingers here in some posts which might have led to skewed expectations on your part. As a Brazilian, you're also further removed from the older White perspective. (I recently met a French tour group that returned from Senegal, and they ooh'd and ahhh'd over the photos and videos they had of precisely all that: half-naked children, superstitious rituals, unfit-for-habitation cottages, outdoor baths, meals cooked beside the toilet, and bone-shaking transport vehicles. They had a wonderful holiday, they said. I secretly suspected that "wonderful" meant it reinforced their sense of Western superiority. If I had dared ask them about Senegalese mosquitoes, they might well have had nothing but praise. It's refreshing too to read from what you said about the younger generation: On 9/1/2024 at 3:04 PM, terper said: Most of the other young tourists I met were backpackers with shit for brains with an insanely high-and-mighty attitude and no respect or common sense whatsoever. Sooo many people that travelled all over the world but seemed to have [never] left the same place, idk. Sometimes, I don't know which is worse - the mostly-gone older generation with their skewed exoticised perspective, or the louder, younger one with no self-awareness at all! Keithambrose, splinter1949, vinapu and 5 others 7 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...