frazzle Posted May 18 Posted May 18 I just got into this a few months ago and had a third escort offer to meet me again for free if I wanted. I know the purported meaning, but is this some type of technique used by escorts to get you to choose them again? Assuming you'll be kind enough to pay them anyway? It's a little awkward and frankly undesirable for me to ask an escort to come back and pay them nothing. I like to keep my paid excursions separate from my normal Tinder / Grindr use. But just curious if anyone has had experience with this and what happened after. This has happened both in Colombia and in the US. Quote
Keithambrose Posted May 18 Posted May 18 Never happened to me, unfortunately! I am based in UK and have a regular stable of guys whom I see. None have suggested a free visit, though I think I treat them well, as some have been around for 5 years or so. Not even, 'three visits, one for free'! When I am abroad, I am often not in a place long enough for repeat visits. I have been in Bangkok, and Siem Reap for a week, and seen a boy twice, but no free offers. More often a later request to contribute to the family buffalo, etc! You must have particular charm. I think that if a guy I know suggested a free visit, I would accept, but still paying fares, drinks, etc. Quote
Members unicorn Posted May 19 Members Posted May 19 There are two possibilities I can think of, off-hand. One is that the escort wouldn't mind meeting in exchange for minor contributions, such as a nice meal. The other is that the escort genuinely has the hots for you. Keeping general safety in mind (i.e. be careful bringing them to a place you where you have valuables), you could definitely take him up on the offer (assuming you enjoyed your time). I've had offers for reduced-fee future meetings, or offers to consider sugar-daddy situations, but never completely free repeat hook-ups. Quote
reader Posted May 19 Posted May 19 Have not run into escorts who do Pro bono work. khaolakguy 1 Quote
Keithambrose Posted May 19 Posted May 19 6 hours ago, reader said: Have not run into escorts who do Pro bono work. Good suggestion. As I am older I could advertise for escorts who would like to do pro bono work! Quote
Members JKane Posted May 19 Members Posted May 19 As Bill Maher said (back when he was funny), you don't pay them to come, you pay them to leave! I'm happy to pay to fuck who and when I want, but sometimes also find a guy to fuck for free (helps that I mostly "shop" on Grindr). I'd say it's generally a good idea to be specific about which is which. Some of the worst encounters are vague about that and then want cash after a mediocre session. Quote
