KJ1993 Posted May 4 Posted May 4 Hello wonderful people, I'm heading back to Brazil in September for a couple of weeks and was thinking of adding Salvador to the itinery for a few days. I'll be there with a friend. In terms of saunas and online selection is it a decent alternative to the greek gods and gorgeous twinks available in SP and Rio? Or will I leave feeling underwhelmed? I'm aware the demographic is predominantly afro-brazilian which I have no issue with. Beautiful men aside I am genuinely interested in the culture and history of the city. Second question, this will be my 4th trip to Brazil in 2 years as noted by my boss yesterday- yeah awkward I know - . He was genuinely curious in a nice way. 4 times in 2 years may be infrequent to many based on this forum haha, but in the real world people do start asking questions. 'Why is he constantly in Brazil ?' they ask lmao Obviously 99% of the people I know are completely oblivious to my escapades and the mind blowing selection of mouth watering hunks at cheap prices. How does one travel to Brasil semi-frequently without attracting unwanted questions? Mavica 1 Quote
macaroni21 Posted May 4 Posted May 4 You can try saying you're in a long-distance relationship with someone in Brazil. Boyfriend or girlfriend, take your pick. KJ1993 and floridarob 1 1 Quote
floridarob Posted May 4 Posted May 4 2 hours ago, KJ1993 said: was thinking of adding Salvador to the itinery for a few days. I'll be there with a friend. I love guys from that area....my first time in Salvador, gawking at all the beautiful airport workers, I figured I had hit the mother load. But when looking in the saunas, only 1 or 2 stood out as ok and the rest nothing special....it seems all the "special ones" I was looking for, go to Rio and SP looking for work. If you've never been there, definitely go for the sightseeing/touristy things.....maybe you'll find someone for fun too....you never know. 1 hour ago, macaroni21 said: You can try saying you're in a long-distance relationship with someone in Brazil. Boyfriend or girlfriend, take your pick. be prepared with pics, unless they know you're a whore already, lol Mavica, KJ1993 and Axiom2020 2 1 Quote
Travelingguy Posted May 4 Posted May 4 It is a huge country and it is hard to visit all the various areas that you want to see in one trip. Like visiting the USA. It also is somewhat inexpensive for a really nice coastal vacation. So, combining sight seeing with real leisure time, for you it is perfect. Also, every time you go, you run into people who tell you about another part of the country that you just have to visit… KJ1993 and Axiom2020 2 Quote
forrestreid Posted May 4 Posted May 4 How are you can deal with this depends partly on a much of a “real tourist” you are. I have a similar issue with going to Thailand. However I quite like the touristy stuff as well, I usually have plenty of pics from my touristy expeditions which I can show people from those days that, where I played the part of a “quality tourist” Just bore your work colleagues into submission with pictures of beaches and temples, ( or the Brazil equivalent of temples). I usually find if you start saying “well just let me bring up the 100 pictures I have on my iPad here - I don’t know how I will pick my favourite, I don’t want to bore you with them all” …you usually then see the panic in their eyes and they stop asking the questions pretty soon… Of course, if you’ve no real interest of the standard touristy stuff stuff, that’s a bit more difficult, you might need another strategy! KJ1993 1 Quote
KJ1993 Posted May 5 Author Posted May 5 16 hours ago, macaroni21 said: You can try saying you're in a long-distance relationship with someone in Brazil. Boyfriend or girlfriend, take your pick. That is is the obvious choice, but then I have to provide receipts to family and friends hahaha Quote
KJ1993 Posted May 5 Author Posted May 5 16 hours ago, floridarob said: I love guys from that area....my first time in Salvador, gawking at all the beautiful airport workers, I figured I had hit the mother load. But when looking in the saunas, only 1 or 2 stood out as ok and the rest nothing special....it seems all the "special ones" I was looking for, go to Rio and SP looking for work. If you've never been there, definitely go for the sightseeing/touristy things.....maybe you'll find someone for fun too....you never know. be prepared with pics, unless they know you're a whore already, lol That's a shame, I've heard mixed reviews on Salvador in terms of the guys, so hopefully I get lucky! There's something exciting about the roll of a dice 😉 floridarob 1 Quote
Members davet Posted May 10 Members Posted May 10 Does your workplace require you to tell them where you're going on vacation? If it's simply social inquiries, I would just be vague and move on. Quote
simcity Posted May 11 Posted May 11 On 5/4/2024 at 10:10 PM, KJ1993 said: Second question, this will be my 4th trip to Brazil in 2 years as noted by my boss yesterday- yeah awkward I know - . He was genuinely curious in a nice way. Hummm. Tell him you wanted to go to EL Salvador to plan for your Bitcoin’s retirement and you blender with the airport code …Wash, rinse, repeat ! xpaulo 1 Quote
xpaulo Posted May 11 Posted May 11 On 5/4/2024 at 8:10 AM, KJ1993 said: in the real world people do start asking questions Same situation with me re Colombia and Istanbul. I'm now adding another destination on those trips so I don't feel like I should lie when co-workers ask where I went. Quote
Members asdsrfr Posted May 11 Members Posted May 11 It's a challenge some times--but in the end people actually care less than you think they do. As gay men without family ties we have a lot more freedom to travel than a lot of our straight co-workers. A number of them live vicariously through our travels--hence the questions. I'll admit it would be hard to say month after month I'm going back to Thailand or Brazil(weren't you just there last month?"), but at the end of your life when your co-workers are nowhere to be found it's important you pursued the things that made your life happy and not lived your life for them. I'm fortunate in the case of Brazil I practice a sport (kitesurfing) that has world class conditions on the northeast coast so I have a good reason to go there frequently. I always include a stop in Rio or Sao Paulo for a few days "to break up the trip." In the end you'll find your own way to answer(or deflect) their questions but you should pursue your life without guilt or shame and enjoy! floridarob and mvan1 2 Quote
xpaulo Posted May 11 Posted May 11 On 5/5/2024 at 3:22 AM, KJ1993 said: I've heard mixed reviews on Salvador That makes sense. I had some enjoyable hook ups in the saunas. But not as great as I had hoped. The one incredibly hot guy I met in a sauna turned out to be quite scary. He asked for the money up front, which I paid. Then he immediately asked for more. I said no. His glare at me pretty intense. Then he just laid on the bed without engaging. It was a short session. The next guy the complete opposite, lots of fun. When I was leaving the original guy approached me in the locker room and again demanded more money while staring into my eyes with an angry expression on his face. It was uncomfortable. None of the other hookups in the saunas were memorable. It seems like a really interesting city, but I was alone and every time I walked in an area outside of the heavily sanitized tourist zone..... lots of police and tourist shops... a local would tell me it was dangerous for me and I should go the tourist zone. I have no doubt they were concerned about me. By coincidence a guy met travelling in Turkey was in Salvador visiting his parents and picked me up the airport and took me to their place in a gated suburban community for lunch. They weren't rich, normal middle class retirees with a small home. It was a block from a nice beach which we went to for a walk. It was a weekday afternoon and the beach was almost empty. He told me his mother was very worried about our safety. So it was a short walk. He said Salvador is the kind of place where you never want to look like the most vulnerable person. Quote
babybear2 Posted May 11 Posted May 11 I have been to Salvador once in 2022. I went to both saunas with GP, and would say keep you expectations low. I did not find any GP above 8/10, most are 6/7. I did see some hottest men I have ever seen in the beach though, but alas, guys working as GP are too ordinary looking floridarob 1 Quote
floridarob Posted May 11 Posted May 11 14 hours ago, babybear2 said: I did see some hottest men I have ever seen in the beach though, but alas, guys working as GP are too ordinary looking Yeah, similar to my experience but at the airport and not the beach, lol Quote
Members Xclay Posted May 12 Members Posted May 12 When I was there last (2002), I too wss disappointed in the sauna, but hit the jackpot with a young taxi driver and with a guy at my hotel. floridarob, Primeone385 and tm_nyc 3 Quote
Marc in Calif Posted May 13 Posted May 13 On 5/10/2024 at 7:53 PM, babybear2 said: I did not find any GP above 8/10, most are 6/7. And how do you rate yourself? Then we can start understanding your grading scale. 😊 Quote
babybear2 Posted May 26 Posted May 26 On 5/13/2024 at 1:31 PM, Marc in Calif said: And how do you rate yourself? Then we can start understanding your grading scale. 😊 does not matter how I rate my self, haha I rate some brazil OF stars in Rhyheim's videos as 8/9 out 10 Some guys at 117 are 7/8, not OF star quality, but still very attractive Guys at Salvador Sauna are mostly 6 Of course, this is purely based on my taste, I prefer masculine face and fit body (swimmer type instead of giant build) floridarob and Marc in Calif 2 Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted May 26 Members Posted May 26 6 hours ago, babybear2 said: does not matter how I rate my self, haha I rate some brazil OF stars in Rhyheim's videos as 8/9 out 10 Some guys at 117 are 7/8, not OF star quality, but still very attractive Guys at Salvador Sauna are mostly 6 Of course, this is purely based on my taste, I prefer masculine face and fit body (swimmer type instead of giant build) I've been there many years ago, and I found plenty of nicely built swimmers in Salvador, specially at Fox. Now I am curious to see whether or not quality went down. I would love a second visit, to do the research. Quote
Badboy81 Posted June 10 Posted June 10 On 5/4/2024 at 11:10 AM, KJ1993 said: Hello wonderful people, I'm heading back to Brazil in September for a couple of weeks and was thinking of adding Salvador to the itinery for a few days. I'll be there with a friend. In terms of saunas and online selection is it a decent alternative to the greek gods and gorgeous twinks available in SP and Rio? Or will I leave feeling underwhelmed? I'm aware the demographic is predominantly afro-brazilian which I have no issue with. Beautiful men aside I am genuinely interested in the culture and history of the city. Second question, this will be my 4th trip to Brazil in 2 years as noted by my boss yesterday- yeah awkward I know - . He was genuinely curious in a nice way. 4 times in 2 years may be infrequent to many based on this forum haha, but in the real world people do start asking questions. 'Why is he constantly in Brazil ?' they ask lmao Obviously 99% of the people I know are completely oblivious to my escapades and the mind blowing selection of mouth watering hunks at cheap prices. How does one travel to Brasil semi-frequently without attracting unwanted questions? You don't disclose to your manager where you are going...Its not his business...That is your first issue... Why do you feel the need to provide information that he doesn't need to know? As far as Salvador, there is a variety of men to chose from....everything from muscular built to slim...I enjoyed Fox the most when I was there in February but there are some hot guys on the apps as well...depending on what you look like Good luck and have fun Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted June 10 Members Posted June 10 14 minutes ago, 12is12 said: Excuse the ignorance: What or who is Fox? Fox is one of the local saunas. https://ilikepinga.com/2019/01/05/best-gay-sauna-salvador/ Quote
12is12 Posted June 10 Posted June 10 Thx Two question: Point 5 in Fox cons mentions lack of AC; point 6 says the opposite. At least to my undrstndng.... Why would anyone want to go to a sauna which prohibits use of cellphones? Quote
Taikonaut Posted June 10 Posted June 10 They don’t have a ac in the common area since it’s semi open but the rooms have it. When I was there there was no issue with cellphones. Quote
Members Latbear4blk Posted June 11 Members Posted June 11 12 hours ago, 12is12 said: Why would anyone want to go to a sauna which prohibits use of cellphones? I would. I do not need a cell phone to fuck. Quote
12is12 Posted June 11 Posted June 11 As mentioned in the link, Thermas prohibits the use, and the auther found it inconvenient not to b able to use the translator. Quote