What they really mean.

[Guest HeyGay]

Here is what your Boyfriend really means when he talks to you may be you can add others you will get an insight to what your dealing with when you read this.

 

Hello sexy man. = Hello stupid farang.

Hello. Come here. = Hello. Come here Sucker.

You very handsome,sexy man. = You look like you have a lot of money.

Where you come from? = What currency do I need to check the exchange rate?

You first time in Thailand? = Just how gullible are you?

I no have farang, farang no like me. = I have many farang. Going for your sympathy vote works every time.

How long you stay in Thailand? = How long have I got to bleed you dry.

Which hotel you stay? = Where will I be sleeping tonight?

You have Thai boy? = Do I have to share your money with anynone else?

I love you. = I love your money.

You have good heart. = You have a BIG wallet.

You good man for me. = You are spending a lot of money. You are good for my

bank account.

I miss you. = I miss your money.

I no want money. = I want your money. long time security.

I no want money. Only want you. = I want all your money.

I go with you for free. = This will cost you double.

I no Butterfly. = I sleep with my BF and any farang who pays money for me fine.

I go with him before but no sex. = I truly am a liar.

I not lie, I no like GO - HOK. = I'm a BIG liar.

MY FRIEND ME = MY BOYFRIEND

MY FRIEND YOU = YOUR FRIEND

MONEY ME = MY MONEY

MONEY YOU = MY MONEY.

 

I need a motorbike to get around Pattaya = To get away from you more often.

 

I need to go to birthday party can you give me money = I need to find other regular farangs also.

 

Can you buy me Gold for my Birthday = I need to sell it with in a week.

 

I stay with you long time I love you= I have wife and kids to support.

 

I need 4,000 baht to give my mama for... = I need new shoes.

I never cheat = When you look, I never cheat.When you dont look, I cheat.

 

Do you Know any to break the Code.

[Guest]

I no have farang, farang no like me. = I have many farang. Going for your sympathy vote works every time.

 

LOL Funny.

 

I am so blessed to have the only boyfriend in Thailand who truly loves me for me (and loves that I am away more than I am there and he still gets shit loads of cash to give to his family).

[Guest HeyGay]

LOL Funny. I am so blessed to have the only boyfriend in Thailand who truly loves me for me (and loves that I am away more than I am there and he still gets shit

As long as you realize its no more than a job to him, your have no problem, many guys are in total denial and live in a fantasy, that a handsome young boy, really dose love them, like man and wife, even so they can respect you and love you like their Father or even Grand Father some times, if your balanced and don't throw money around, if you do, I have seen many boys loose respect big time, all very strange

[Guest lvdkeyes]

While I agree that this is true with 99% of the boys, there are exceptions, but then again my bf is not a young kid and has never worked in a bar or even goes to bars. And I don't pay him a "salary".

[Guest RichLB]

I've always felt you get what you give. If you are viewing anyone as a commodity to be bought, don't be surprised if you are seen as a mere customer - after all, that's what you are. If on the other hand, you truly love the guy I think you'll find you are loved in return. I have to confess that the more I read about "money wasted" the more I think some guys really don't recognize that they are revealing they are merely trying to make a purchase and not share a life together.

[PattayaMale]

In my opinion that was the best post RichLB has made. It expresses what many have learned to be true.

[Guest Soi10Tom]

Rich has hit the nail squarely on the head.

 

If one is out to buy sex and then thinks that he can turn it into love by throwing more money at it...not going to happen.

 

Love is all about sharing a life. All of us Farang have much more money than the boys/men in Thailand and money is always a big part of any loving relationship, so get over the money issue. The question that each partner has to ask and answer for himself is: Is this a happy shared life? Am I getting what I need and am I giving the best of myself to my partner? If your answer is, no; move on. If your answer is yes; get busy and do your part to make the relationship work.

[Guest]

Rich has hit the nail squarely on the head.

 

If one is out to buy sex and then thinks that he can turn it into love by throwing more money at it...not going to happen.

 

Love is all about sharing a life. All of us Farang have much more money than the boys/men in Thailand and money is always a big part of any loving relationship, so get over the money issue. The question that each partner has to ask and answer for himself is: Is this a happy shared life? Am I getting what I need and am I giving the best of myself to my partner? If your answer is, no; move on. If your answer is yes; get busy and do your part to make the relationship work.

 

I agree. Money can buy an introduction but can't buy love. It never works that way.

 

With my BF, I worked my ass off to get him to love me 10 percent as much as I love him and that is enough for me.

[Guest fountainhall]

Love is all about sharing a life . . . The question that each partner has to ask and answer for himself is: Is this a happy shared life? Am I getting what I need and am I giving the best of myself to my partner? If your answer is, no; move on. If your answer is yes; get busy and do your part to make the relationship work.

Couldn't be put better, Soi 10 Tom!

[Gaybutton]

"That's... not buying happiness. That's just... buying off unhappiness. "

- Frank Albertson, 'Psycho'

[PattayaMale]

I agree. Money can buy an introduction but can't buy love. It never works that way.

 

With my BF, I worked my ass off to get him to love me 10 percent as much as I love him and that is enough for me.

 

10% of something large is huge. In my opinion, love is boundless. So how big is 10% of infinity? Enough for any man I imagine.

[Guest RichLB]

"That's... not buying happiness. That's just... buying off unhappiness. "

- Frank Albertson, 'Psycho'

Not so sure I agree with that. My guess is that true happiness is in the giving, not in what you get in return. When Christmas rolls around, aren't you more excited by the prospect of giving the perfect gift than you are by what may be under your tree for you? I think the same goes when in a relationship with a Thai guy. If giving makes you happy and gives you a sense of purpose, keep giving if you can afford it; but if you give with the expectation of getting something in return (gratitude, dependence, or even love) I suspect you're wasting your money.

[Guest RichLB]

but if you give with the expectation of getting something in return (gratitude, dependence, or even love) I suspect you're wasting your money.

Those of you not familiar with the Herzberg Principle may find this interesting. A small business man decided to give his employees an unexpected Christmas bonus of a turkey and some cash. Lo and behold, productivity and morale soard. The next year he did the same thing, again productivity went up but not quite as much. After a few years, he noticed that there was no change in productivity or morale as a result of his largesse. Consequently, he stopped the gifts. The result was sorker slowdowns, anger, and a near closure of his business. The conclusion is that predictable rewards cease their effectiveness with time. Could this principle be applied to our relationship with our boyfriends?

PS The solution is randome rewards rather than predictable ones.

[Gaybutton]

My guess is that true happiness is in the giving, not in what you get in return. When Christmas rolls around, aren't you more excited by the prospect of giving the perfect gift than you are by what may be under your tree for you?

I don't mind a little false happiness once in a while. Your Christmas analogy works fine if you've got it to give in the first place.

 

I'm perfectly willing to see if you're right. I'm very unhappy. Anyone out there want to try buying off my unhappiness?

[Guest fountainhall]

I'm very unhappy. Anyone out there want to try buying off my unhappiness?

I have some old and out-of-date Russian roubles and a few Bhutan whatever they're called. Might these buy you a few minutes happiness?

[Gaybutton]

Might these buy you a few minutes happiness?

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[Guest]

10% of something large is huge. In my opinion, love is boundless. So how big is 10% of infinity? Enough for any man I imagine.

 

Perfectly worded PattayaMale and exactly how I feel!

[Guest fountainhall]

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My sentiments exactly!