Guest taylorsquare Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Last night I went with a ladyboy friend,not a BF,but a ladyboyish type guy 32yo into soi bukcow. We started walking around,very busy with a lot of farang and because he looks feminine we got a lot of stares. Well he gripped onto my arm actually it was me who held his arm as he led me thru the hustle and bustle of crowds and traffic. I am very self conscious and i could feel people staring at us as we walked past straight bars with farang with shaved heads and tattoos etc looking at us,some snarling faces. Well then i thought it was my imagination and remembered on here GB saying they are not neccessarily staring at you so we kept walking not holding arms all the time as we walked thru soi bukcow looking for the boy karaokes which we didnt find. Anyway walking slowly because of motorbikes whizzing past us etc,a farang guy late 20s shaved head ,wearing a singlet,and tattoos walking past us holding a thai ladies hand,said to me in a english accent,"F.... prat ?? mate",giving me a angry look as he hit my shoulder or should i say bumped my shoulder with his. We were standing at one of those whisky small kiosks. I immediately said "im sorry ,as him and his GF ? stopped at the kiosk,the boy who i was with grabbed my hand and said lets go,the guy looked purposely down at the hand holding and made a look of disgust on his face ,and again i said "im sorry" and quickly left. Later i started to get angry with myself,for being so stupid that i must conform to other peoples standards and make them happy . I started to feel very bad about myself like i should be apologising to all of them for holding hands actually it was his forearm not hand. We went into a bar in bukcow,no farangs inside and i drank a beer and started to feel different with more confidence and as we walked towards back to tukcom thru soi bukcow i started to feel like why i should care if others are angry,why dont these people get a life instead of worrying about mine. i was a bit drunk by now and had a few stares from farangs and i was going to say to them if they said anything to get a life. I suffered from low self confidence before where i couldnt say no and worried what others think to the extent i had a korean BF in my home country who left because i was worried about him laughing when we were in restaurants etc. Well i think tonight im going to build my confidence up and i think this will do it,first i will have a few beers then i will off a muscular man boy i know and we will walk thru soi bukcow hand in hand and i will build my confidence level up in myself. I dont know if i was imagining people snarling at me,because i seem to be more concentrating on people looking at us than anything else,but i did feel unsafe at the shaved head tattooed farang guys. Quote
Bob Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Are you I walking around wearing a tee-shirt that says "KICK ME" on it? I've never (ever) heard anybody complain more than you about how people stare at you, mistreat you, etc. Maybe you're just having some bad luck or your karma gene's a bit short.....but, for some reason, I'm rather doubting that. Some may disagree with me but it's generally not a good idea to be holding hands while prancing down the street. Maybe it's okay in the heart of Sunee or in Boyztown but I'd suggest you stop doing that elsewhere. Other than that? I'd recommend you get very dark sunglasses and a white cane and then maybe you'll have half of chance of not being picked on. But only half a chance.. Quote
PattayaMale Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I am trying to understand if you are serious or just making up a story to see what reaction you may get. It is unfortunate if you are that insecure, but do you think a few drinks will improve your judgement? If holding hands makes you feel anxious, why do it? If you feel ok doing it, do it. Your Thai friends speak the language and certainly can summon help if you are in trouble. Good luck Quote
Guest cdnmatt Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Yeah, I don't know either if you're just making this up or not. If it's the truth, then it's probably you giving off insecure signals to everyone. If you feel out of place and nervous, you're going to look like you are, and draw attention to yourself. I've personally never once had a problem. The BF and I even stayed on Soi Buckhao before, and several nights were wandering back to the room full of whiskey. My arm around him, while he's carrying a boquet (sp) of roses and a large, stuffed teddy bear, both of us with a big smiles on our faces while chatting away. Not sure if anyone stared at us or anything, because I don't pay attention to it, and I just simply don't give a shit. It's Pattaya. If some farang from the UK, who just bought his new 20yo girlfriend in Thailand wants to judge me, by all means, go for it. Not going to affect my life any. Then with Thais, you simply don't have to worry, as they'll never cause you problems for being gay. Telling a Thai your gay seems to be the equivalent of telling them your favorite color is blue. They just really don't care. Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Yeah, I don't know either if you're just making this up or not. You don't? Would you like 3 guesses? Quote
Guest globalwanderer Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 You don't? Would you like 3 guesses? I don't need three, just one! Quote
Guest Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I don't need three, just one! Maybe someone can clue me in? Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Maybe someone can clue me in? Do you feel a tugging sensation at your leg? Someone is pulling it. Quote
Guest fountainhall Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Do you feel a tugging sensation at your leg? Someone is pulling it. . . . and not for the first time either! Quote
Smiles Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 " ... Yeah, I don't know either if you're just making this up or not ... " It's all made up ... to wind you up. (I don't mean just 'you' cdnmatt). Taylor has been on other Boards (under other handles, and not just Sawatdee) and wound other people up in exactly the same naivete tinged way ... he lives on gullibility . On some Boards he is recognized immediately (SGT), and on others he keeps on going until someone like you or Gaybutton asks 'The Question.' Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 It's all made up ... to wind you up. Thank you, Smiles, although it's a shame that sometimes it becomes necessary to point out the absolutely obvious when the incredibly obvious should do. Quote
Guest taylorsquare Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Thank you, Smiles, although it's a shame that sometimes it becomes necessary to point out the absolutely obvious when the incredibly obvious should do. Ok ,I am disapointed you feel that way,im not sure who this smiles and also on other boards,no I havent.Sorry to say i have not been on the other boards because of the language used. Please delete the post if you feel this way. As for being on other boards,100 % not true.Im not going to be made out to be a liar,would you like to come with me? Im am not going to be abused. I would ask you to delete the OP and all my other posts,this should However I will try to edit the OP to try to delete it.In fact if you could please delete it immediately ,thankyou Quote
Guest HeyGay Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Sorry to hear you were abused, but of course if you want to be noticed, you do flaunt your selves to Boorish Brits and you can be sure to get a reaction. Its very similar if you go into a field, wearing a Red Shirt and there was a Bull there, you can be reasonably sure the bull will attack you. In future when your looking for the Boy Karaoke Bars to off, where I find many of my liaisons of Soi Chaiypoon off Soi Buckhao, if you don't want a future reaction. unless you are in Boyz Town, or Sunee plaza act respectfully and as accepted in str8 company, then you will find your be left alone I'm sure. "But then again I'm sure I really dont need to tell you that." Quote
Guest taylorsquare Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 No the encounters I had were true and I have no reason to lie. Quite possibly people do post on these boards because psychologically and i hope i spelt that word right,is to get a reaction because they are bored. But i didnt. GB-[b]Thank you, Smiles, although it's a shame that sometimes it becomes necessary to point out the absolutely obvious when the incredibly obvious should do. [/b] AS i said Im disapointed you are making comments such as that instead of telling me directly that you do not want my posts such as this rather than than make fun of me through your friends on here,i did have respect for you GB and thought highly of you and your advice and help but please dont belittle me to your friends on here. I am a person not just a poster,i do have feelings. I have never ever posted on other boards and that is the truth,so this is incorrect. I have always been honest on this board and admitted that i have Psychological problems something im not ashamed to admit namely depression so i have no reason to lie. What I said was true,but I not here to be abused and laughed at from people who do the very thing they accuse me of namely the poster "smiles" who i notice post s endlessly on other boards. I dont wish to be nasty or impolite and please dont take it that way,but i do wonder about the "psych " of a person who does that then feels the need to come onto this board and belittle me. Thankyou heygay,i have met you several times and i must say you were very polite to me on all occasions and a certainly made me laugh at times when i was feeling down. I would like to meet you in Bangkok if its possible. Could you send me a message? I understand it may have been more my fault as well because i may be "perceiving" people are watching me more,when actually they may not be. Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 No the encounters I had were true and I have no reason to lie. I agree. You have no reason, at least no reason that makes much sense. If you have psychological problems, and whether your posts are true or not it's obvious that either way you do, then the next logical step - go to a psychologist. In case you hadn't noticed, I'm not the only one around here who thinks you're full of baloney. Also, I'm not going to delete your posts. What did you expect when you wrote them? For someone who can't handle being looked at, you sure seem to enjoy calling attention to yourself. If GT wants to delete your posts, that's up to him. "The bigger the lie, the more people will believe it." - Josef Goebbels Quote
Guest taylorsquare Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I understand thankyou for being honest with me. My apologies for upsetting you and others on here for writing posts,I promise i wont do it again, hope it hasnt inconvenienced anyone. Yes I will ask the owner of the board to delete them rather than have other posters angry about having them. Thankyou anywaY,Im sorry i wasted your time. Quote
Guest Oogleman Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I have been abused on Soi Bukkao more than a few times. Only once for free though. Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Yes I will ask the owner of the board to delete them rather than have other posters angry about having them. No posts indicate that anyone is angry . . . just amused that you actually expect people to swallow this nonsense. If you no longer wish to post on this board, that's your decision. Now run along, have a good cry, and we'll see you around. In fact maybe we'll stare . . . Quote
Guest gay_grampa Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Taylorsquare should post a photo of himself here so that we all know who to point and shout abuse at. That will fulfill his paranoid persecution complex (and give the rest of us a good laugh) Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Taylorsquare should post a photo of himself here By the way, normally I would never allow personal attacks, but I don't consider "troll removal" to be personal attacks. Quote
Guest globalwanderer Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I doubt he has trolled off yet! Quote
Guest Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Sorry to hear you were abused, but of course if you want to be noticed, you do flaunt your selves to Boorish Brits and you can be sure to get a reaction. Good idea. I'll try not to flaunt and sway when I am walking around too. I have been abused on Soi Bukkao more than a few times. Only once for free though. LOL So, I assume you'll be going back over and over? No posts indicate that anyone is angry . . . just amused that you actually expect people to swallow this nonsense. If you no longer wish to post on this board, that's your decision. Now run along, have a good cry, and we'll see you around. In fact maybe we'll stare . . . Perhaps I am gullible. I have believed his posts. But, as I respect you, I'll watch them more closely. I had no reason not to believe them but thanks for the heads up. Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Perhaps I am gullible. I have believed his posts. Well, you seem to be the only one who did. GT, I'm surprised you still have difficulty spotting a troll. You usually sympathize with guys like this, which is commendable, but at least save your sympathy for someone genuine, not an obvious phony. He hasn't violated any posting rules though, so until he does he still gets to post. I have a feeling you cry at movies. Go to see "Taking Chance." At least you'll cry over a true story. Quote
Guest Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 I have a feeling you cry at movies. Go to see "Taking Chance." At least you'll cry over a true story. What the hell is wrong at crying at movies? I think real men cry often. Don't you? Quote
Gaybutton Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 What the hell is wrong at crying at movies? I think real men cry often. Don't you? I didn't say anything is wrong with it. Don't misunderstand. I only meant that I think you are a very sympathetic person. It was meant as a compliment, not a put down. But I think you are wasting tears when it is for a phony baloney. Yes, I cry at movies too. My tears usually start to flow as soon as I see the ticket and popcorn prices . . . Quote
