Unplanned Bangkok Trip (March 2024)

[vinapu]

37 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

There are so many guys named Bank!

because parents believe in will bring good money luck to  such named son  

[KeepItReal]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

because parents believe in will bring good money luck to  such named son  

Thank you for the idea. I will be applying this logic and naming my first born Optimus Prime - must grow up to be a badass! 😆

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

Thank you for the idea.

not my idea. I  read about it in some book about Thailand  customs and then heard it from one BBB Pattaya boy named  , you guessed it rightly , Bank

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

 I will be applying this logic and naming my first born Optimus Prime - must grow up to be a badass! 😆

 

watch what you wish for. When he will place you in nursing home it will be one  between steel works and waste treatment plant, right by busy rail track and facing 8 lane highway, 8 lanes in one direction mind you

[roughjock]

6 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

Thank you for the idea. I will be applying this logic and naming my first born Optimus Prime - must grow up to be a badass! 😆

The names of these boys are nicknames, not their real birth names hahaha. Thais go by these nicknames. “Bank”, “beer”, even some like “options.” Like Vinapu said, it’s usually their favourite thing or some quality they wish to have.

[CallMeLee]

On 4/18/2024 at 1:26 AM, reader said:

Many thanks for providing a long-awaited and current report on Prince.

Encouraged to hear this legendary venue is living up to its reputation. While other crowd pleases like Hero have left the scene, Prince endures.

Yes - happy to report that the experience remained consistently good making Suan Plu my new epicenter for good quality yet naughty massages (i.e. Prince and S'sense).

Feeling nostalgic that you mentioned Hero. That place was gold!

[Londoner]

Thai names are temporary, or so it seems. They can change first names very easily and , when it comes to nicknames, at will.  I know a guy who operates with two;  a "stage" name and home one.

If there was something that  would irritate me is when a guy on the scene adopted an English name in the hope of sounding cute; for example "Dream" or "Boy". I would always ask  for his "original" name. With a smile of course. And was invariably given it. 

[Keithambrose]

8 hours ago, Londoner said:

Thai names are temporary, or so it seems. They can change first names very easily and , when it comes to nicknames, at will.  I know a guy who operates with two;  a "stage" name and home one.

If there was something that  would irritate me is when a guy on the scene adopted an English name in the hope of sounding cute; for example "Dream" or "Boy". I would always ask  for his "original" name. With a smile of course. And was invariably given it. 

A lot of members on here also have a 'stage name'. Pretty common, I think.

[floridarob]

4 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

A lot of members on here also have a 'stage name'. Pretty common, I think.

I'm Somchai....

[18past19]

4 hours ago, floridarob said:

I'm Somchai....

I am Bank. 

 

hope not the ones that collapsed. 

[CallMeLee]

Part 8

Fresh from Prince, I took a taxi back to the hotel and spent the rest of the afternoon chilling and mindlessly doing random things online.

By night time, I was torn between going out or staying in. Not wanting to exaggerate, I kinda feel that my session with Bank should be enough to cap off the day. Although persistent nagging thought keeps on reminding me that I will regret not having maximised my time while in Thailand.

I tried to appease and find a middle ground between my two conflicting thoughts by checking the apps. At least I can stay in but still manage to slut it up (lol).

Could be my luck but the selection during that day was slim pickings. Could be the time of the year but the number of African MBs were not as plentiful compared from last year. I was able to shortlist a couple but by the end, I wasn't convinced. I ended both conversation with a "maybe" then took a taxi to Surawong.

After having dinner, I headed to Screwboys. Very few customers are inside but the stage is full. It felt awkward being "outnumbered" with the whole roster vying for the attention of like 3 customers. I stepped out with my drinks and sat on the couch by the entrance and had an animated chat with the mama and Papasan. We chatted about Sol Bar (see previous report) and suddenly Mai (one of the big cock show guys) arrived. I really find him very attractive but unfortunately he is always booked. Actually, he doesn't mingle a lot - after his performance, he'll be fully dressed up and will be hanging out in the bar or in the dressing area. One day I will off him.

Then T arrived and I was surprised to see him looking very dapper in his dress shirt and pants. We hugged and I greeted him a belated happy birthday. He then whipped out his phone and showed me photos of his birthday party that I missed (that I'm also glad to dodge and not pay for). I complimented how sharp he's looking tonight and he replied saying he got one more shirt like the one he's wearing and he wants to give it to me. I was confused thinking he wanted to sell it to me but he clarified he want to give it for free. I smiled and thanked him for the gesture saying there's no need.

When I sensed that there's enough customers inside, I returned back to my seat. T must be lucky as he's already seated with a customer. Lucky for me as well as I'm spared with the conversation of why I am not choosing him tonight.

Papasan checked on me again suggesting to choose a guy before the show starts. That's not a problem as I already have my eyes on another ex-Dreamboys guy. I made eye contact and motioned him to seat next to me. He introduced himself as Tan and he's from Cambodia. We had a good and decent conversation during the show as his English is quite good - actually the best out of everyone I offed this trip. He said that he's trying to get my attention the last three times I was there but I keep on ignoring him. Again, MB memories are impressively sharp! We also talked about dreamboys and how he ended up leaving (Thai only policy) but he mentioned that working there is much better (I now forgot his reason)

Tan seemed to notice that I keep on massaging my shoulder and neck area  - he then took over the massage which was surprisingly good. Of course it was to be expected  that he then used this to segue and talk about getting offed. My logical self thought that given that he's very attractive plus if the massage hed given will be consistent, then offing him will not be a bad idea. He's adamant for short time and I just agreed (feeling lazy to send him back and start from scratch in the selection process!)

While he's getting dressed, T managed to sneak a few moments and had a chat with me wanting to secure an off next time - I gave a non committal response and gave him a bit of substantial tip (price of one drink) and wished him a happy birthday. He smiled gave me a hearty kiss and left.

While walking towards Starbucks to wait for our grab taxi, I can't help but notice that Tan is a bit touchy feely with either his hand holding mine or over my shoulder. This is kind of new to me with most of my offs previously reserving this gestures inside the bar or hotel.

After showering, Tan started the massage which turned out to be good. I asked him if he was previously trained and he said no - he's just copying strokes he remembers whenever he have a massage and just imagine what will feel good. I was satisfied with that response.

He then transitioned to the more sensual part of the session which turned out to be good as well. He kisses very passionately and the sex didn't feel mechanical. At one point, he's even guiding me what to do to make him feel good (I should be charging him later. Lol). Sometimes it's nice to have a session where both person actually seemed to enjoyed it I guess.

We both finished, exhausted,  and continued our chat. We then showered together, continued our chat lying in bed while having drinks.

I don't know why but for some reason, he then asked if it's ok to change the session to long time as he wants to stay longer. I scanned my memory trying to recall if my room is ready for long time (i.e.valuables, etc are secured) and after weighing my options, agreed to Tan's suggestion.

It would be lovely to have the comfort of sleeping next to a gorgeous, warm and cozy body again.

[Moses]

On 4/19/2024 at 10:01 AM, Londoner said:

Thai names are temporary, or so it seems. They can change first names very easily and , when it comes to nicknames, at will.  I know a guy who operates with two;  a "stage" name and home one.

Every Thai has at least three names.

1. The sacred name they receive from the monk immediately after birth during the first blessing. Only the parents and the person himself know this name. Thais believe that knowledge of this name can give control over a person, call evil spirits to him, etc.

2. Official first and last name used in documents and identification cards. That's right - any Thai can change his name whenever he wants. One of my Thai friends has done this 3 times already “for good luck”. The process is very simple - visit the state office and submit an application. I don’t remember the exact cost, but it is affordable - something around 1000-3000 baht, takes 3-7 days.

3. Short names for everyday use. It is not a "nickname" because a nickname may be given by the community or friends and the name is chosen by them themselves, usually after consulting an astrologer or monk, and very often they visit the temple and ask the monks for blessings to use it. Parents also use this name to call their children, so it's definitely not a nickname. Parents of small children choose their first short name themselves.

Well, besides this, naturally many Thais have nicknames from friends or community.

[jason1975]

4 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

Part 8

Fresh from Prince, I took a taxi back to the hotel and spent the rest of the afternoon chilling and mindlessly doing random things online.

By night time, I was torn between going out or staying in. Not wanting to exaggerate, I kinda feel that my session with Bank should be enough to cap off the day. Although persistent nagging thought keeps on reminding me that I will regret not having maximised my time while in Thailand.

I tried to appease and find a middle ground between my two conflicting thoughts by checking the apps. At least I can stay in but still manage to slut it up (lol).

Could be my luck but the selection during that day was slim pickings. Could be the time of the year but the number of African MBs were not as plentiful compared from last year. I was able to shortlist a couple but by the end, I wasn't convinced. I ended both conversation with a "maybe" then took a taxi to Surawong.

After having dinner, I headed to Screwboys. Very few customers are inside but the stage is full. It felt awkward being "outnumbered" with the whole roster vying for the attention of like 3 customers. I stepped out with my drinks and sat on the couch by the entrance and had an animated chat with the mama and Papasan. We chatted about Sol Bar (see previous report) and suddenly Mai (one of the big cock show guys) arrived. I really find him very attractive but unfortunately he is always booked. Actually, he doesn't mingle a lot - after his performance, he'll be fully dressed up and will be hanging out in the bar or in the dressing area. One day I will off him.

Then T arrived and I was surprised to see him looking very dapper in his dress shirt and pants. We hugged and I greeted him a belated happy birthday. He then whipped out his phone and showed me photos of his birthday party that I missed (that I'm also glad to dodge and not pay for). I complimented how sharp he's looking tonight and he replied saying he got one more shirt like the one he's wearing and he wants to give it to me. I was confused thinking he wanted to sell it to me but he clarified he want to give it for free. I smiled and thanked him for the gesture saying there's no need.

When I sensed that there's enough customers inside, I returned back to my seat. T must be lucky as he's already seated with a customer. Lucky for me as well as I'm spared with the conversation of why I am not choosing him tonight.

Papasan checked on me again suggesting to choose a guy before the show starts. That's not a problem as I already have my eyes on another ex-Dreamboys guy. I made eye contact and motioned him to seat next to me. He introduced himself as Tan and he's from Cambodia. We had a good and decent conversation during the show as his English is quite good - actually the best out of everyone I offed this trip. He said that he's trying to get my attention the last three times I was there but I keep on ignoring him. Again, MB memories are impressively sharp! We also talked about dreamboys and how he ended up leaving (Thai only policy) but he mentioned that working there is much better (I now forgot his reason)

Tan seemed to notice that I keep on massaging my shoulder and neck area  - he then took over the massage which was surprisingly good. Of course it was to be expected  that he then used this to segue and talk about getting offed. My logical self thought that given that he's very attractive plus if the massage hed given will be consistent, then offing him will not be a bad idea. He's adamant for short time and I just agreed (feeling lazy to send him back and start from scratch in the selection process!)

While he's getting dressed, T managed to sneak a few moments and had a chat with me wanting to secure an off next time - I gave a non committal response and gave him a bit of substantial tip (price of one drink) and wished him a happy birthday. He smiled gave me a hearty kiss and left.

While walking towards Starbucks to wait for our grab taxi, I can't help but notice that Tan is a bit touchy feely with either his hand holding mine or over my shoulder. This is kind of new to me with most of my offs previously reserving this gestures inside the bar or hotel.

After showering, Tan started the massage which turned out to be good. I asked him if he was previously trained and he said no - he's just copying strokes he remembers whenever he have a massage and just imagine what will feel good. I was satisfied with that response.

He then transitioned to the more sensual part of the session which turned out to be good as well. He kisses very passionately and the sex didn't feel mechanical. At one point, he's even guiding me what to do to make him feel good (I should be charging him later. Lol). Sometimes it's nice to have a session where both person actually seemed to enjoyed it I guess.

We both finished, exhausted,  and continued our chat. We then showered together, continued our chat lying in bed while having drinks.

I don't know why but for some reason, he then asked if it's ok to change the session to long time as he wants to stay longer. I scanned my memory trying to recall if my room is ready for long time (i.e.valuables, etc are secured) and after weighing my options, agreed to Tan's suggestion.

It would be lovely to have the comfort of sleeping next to a gorgeous, warm and cozy body again.

Tan seems like a keeper! I must find him when I go to Bangkok in June!

[vinapu]

6 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

Although persistent nagging thought keeps on reminding me that I will regret not having maximised my time while in Thailand.

............

I scanned my memory trying to recall if my room is ready for long time (i.e.valuables, etc are secured) and after weighing my options, agreed to Tan's suggestion.

 

and for sure you would regret, one doesn't not go to paradise to watch CNN

......................

better option is to tidy and secure things BEFORE one sets off for bars and we really never know whom we bring and for how long. Converting short time to long is popular occurrence.

It could be pretty awkward to start hiding things while guest it there. On another hand no need to be oversensitive over issue as theft by boys is very rare but as they say "God guards you when you guard yourself" 

[floridarob]

6 hours ago, vinapu said:

Converting short time to long is popular occurrence.

Vice versa seems more popular 😝

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

Vice versa seems more popular 😝

it does happen indeed and usually malicious intend is involved while other way around is more pleasant as it involved more of good will if not outright mutual attraction.

[CallMeLee]

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

Vice versa seems more popular 😝

 

41 minutes ago, vinapu said:

it does happen indeed and usually malicious intend is involved while other way around is more pleasant as it involved more of good will if not outright mutual attraction.

I've been in both situations and from experience, here's the approach I have developed:

1. While at the bar, make your preference known but never push for an LT. 

2. Striking a good rapport helps a lot (I guess this applies to both ST and LT). Engaging well and making sure they enjoy their time with you matters.

3. LT is a risk for you but also for the guy as well. Being in a vulnerable sleeping state with a stranger can be concerning. Aside from rapport, they must feel safe - so any clue they pick up along the way (whether valid or not) can make them change their minds.

4. On the materialistic side, the state and quality of the accommodation matters. Air-conditioning, a well stocked fridge, strong wifi etc will make a difference.

5. Sometimes, mama/papasan involvement helps (emphasis on sometimes)

6. Specify what LT means for you and the $$$ implications if not met

7. One good LT off with a guy builds your "reputation" in that club (these boys talk!)

8. Timing matters. If you off too early on a peak night, the guy will finish asap and dash back to the club in hopes of earning more.

Unfortunately, the above are not foolproof. If the guy wants to leave, they will and my advice is don't even attempt to convince them otherwise.

[CallMeLee]

9 hours ago, vinapu said:

It could be pretty awkward to start hiding things while guest it there. On another hand no need to be oversensitive over issue as theft by boys is very rare but as they say "God guards you when you guard yourself" 

Yes! Given that extra paranoid me also hides stuff from the kitchenette like knives etc. 

So better do this in advance!

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

If the guy wants to leave, they will and my advice is don't even attempt to convince them otherwise.

Fully agree. I almost exclusively off long time and situation when long time is cut shot happens from time to time.

My view on that is more cynical - almost always when they ask  for early departure it's premeditated and decided well before we closed door. They agree for long time to secure the deal and then invent some idiotic make -believe to let them go.  Roommate needs the key, motorbike parked in wrong spot, sister calling from bus terminal and needs to be picked or they are hungry and promise to return in 10 minutes ( with that my experience is 50/50 i.e  every seconds case they return after short while.).

No sense to resist just let them go and try to extract some monetary concession. Some guilt ridden even offer substantial discount but there are assholes who are ready to make scene if they don't get fully agreed tip.

I don't resist but remember and next time they approach me for an off,  they and all around may hear 'no' and explanation why. But I show ,mercy' to those business oriented who suggested lower tip in exchange for early leave.

No need to dramatize as that is fairly rare .

Friend who rather never offs long time has opposite problem , guys are suggesting they want to stay till morning, usually hoping for bigger tip I guess. In his case it's boys who are disappointed  .

When we compare our proverbial notes I still think asking for an extension happens bit more often than deceitful cutting session short.

 

[jason1975]

14 minutes ago, vinapu said:

Friend who rather never offs long time has opposite problem , guys are suggesting they want to stay till morning, usually hoping for bigger tip I guess. In his case it's boys who are disappointed  .

 

Your friend must be generous! Or he probably stays in posh hotel!

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, jason1975 said:

Your friend must be generous! Or he probably stays in posh hotel!

or simply has good heart 

[srvhakko]

I went to Thailand last week,  for the first time during the Songkran festival. We had made plans with my Cambodian friend in advance, but we did not have any conversations about tipping or long-term stay. This issue developed completely spontaneously. When I arrived in Bangkok, he said he could stay with me for 5 days before returning to his hometown and I accepted this offer. There was no problem since I booked the hotel room for 2 people. He only left me to change his clothes and when he went to the gym. All in all, it was a fun experience, including city trips, water fights, visits to restaurants and bars in the evening (moonlight, banana bar and Jupiter bar) and sleeping together. In short, if you find the right person, you can have a great experience.

[srvhakko]

Regarding payment, I paid a little more than the current standard prices and I do not regret it.😊
-7,000 baht tip per day 
- Bar penalty fee for 5 days 5*500: 2,500 baht
- In addition, daily travel, food and entertainment costs were also my responsibility

[Boy69]

4 hours ago, srvhakko said:

Regarding payment, I paid a little more than the current standard prices and I do not regret it.😊
-7,000 baht tip per day 
- Bar penalty fee for 5 days 5*500: 2,500 baht
- In addition, daily travel, food and entertainment costs were also my responsibility

7000 Baht per day seems excessive rate for Thailand but if you enjoyed his company and do not regret it good for you.

[srvhakko]

Yes, actually, this was more like holiday companion than just staying for a long time. I can't wait to meet him again in 2 months.

When I saw him for the first time a couple of months ago on the moonlight bar stage, I couldn't take my eyes off him. Even though there was someone else next to me, he blew my mind. He sat at the back table with another customer and I turned and looked at him at least 10 times that night (of course, the friend next to me did not like this situation).

l had opportunity to meet him in february. l confirmed that he is the right person for me.

16 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

 

7. One good LT off with a guy builds your "reputation" in that club (these boys talk!)

I totally agree with this article, I received Line messages from 3 different guys. ''Why don't you meet me, do you have a free day? I miss you etc...''🥰