First ever experience

[tvkahani]

I just had my first ever experience after landing in Bangkok 2 days ago.

I contacted this guy (RentMen) and he quoted 4K bhat. I told him I didn't want sex and he brought it down and we agreed on a price.

I reached there and before I could say anything, he already had a boner. He took his clothes off and tried to push me. Now, this is not what I wanted. I wasn't there for sex. Was the first time I was meeting someone. I tried to explained this to him but he didn't get it.

Turned out he didn't speak a word of English and had been using a translator to talk on WhatsApp.

Still, we used the translator to communicate.

It was obvious the guy was on viagra, he had an erection for an hour and he didn't cum.

But, he was cooperatuve and willing to do whatever i asked, still, I didn't enjoy it. He had a decent built but he was way smaller than me and I just didn't enjoy it. I asked him to do a few things such as show me his abs, which he flexed for a second, which was the only moment I enjoyed. I also figured out i like a very very specific type.

He is probably used to men coming, asking to be fucked, then leaving, so he was surprised that I didn't want that and rather wanted cuddles and weird stuff like him flexing. He chuckled but went ahead and did whatever was requested. Oddly enough, he gave me a missed call an hour later. Not sure why. Probably a mistake?

I am meeting this European guy in a few days, who is 6'4 and stunning. Hopefully that'll be good. Will update.

Do you wanna share your first time?

P.S: I didn't come out feeling happy or anything...

[omega]

I'm not an expert on moneyboys, so this may not be the right terminology but I'd suggest that what you're looking for is the "boyfriend experience".

Cuddles, affection and connection.

 

I hope your European guy understands what you're after

[scott456]

30 minutes ago, tvkahani said:

I just had my first ever experience after landing in Bangkok 2 days ago.

I contacted this guy (RentMen) and he quoted 4K bhat. I told him I didn't want sex and he brought it down and we agreed on a price.

I reached there and before I could say anything, he already had a boner. He took his clothes off and tried to push me. Now, this is not what I wanted. I wasn't there for sex. Was the first time I was meeting someone. I tried to explained this to him but he didn't get it.

Turned out he didn't speak a word of English and had been using a translator to talk on WhatsApp.

Still, we used the translator to communicate.

It was obvious the guy was on viagra, he had an erection for an hour and he didn't cum.

But, he was cooperatuve and willing to do whatever i asked, still, I didn't enjoy it. He had a decent built but he was way smaller than me and I just didn't enjoy it. I asked him to do a few things such as show me his abs, which he flexed for a second, which was the only moment I enjoyed. I also figured out i like a very very specific type.

He is probably used to men coming, asking to be fucked, then leaving, so he was surprised that I didn't want that and rather wanted cuddles and weird stuff like him flexing. He chuckled but went ahead and did whatever was requested. Oddly enough, he gave me a missed call an hour later. Not sure why. Probably a mistake?

I am meeting this European guy in a few days, who is 6'4 and stunning. Hopefully that'll be good. Will update.

Do you wanna share your first time?

P.S: I didn't come out feeling happy or anything...

Your first experience is predicted.   Read your own thread: Body builder type guys in Thailand.  Everybody has explained to you why. Now you are hiring a white guy in Thailand?  LOL.

[caeron]

Many of our first experiences sucked. Mine sucked because I didn't articulate what I wanted, I just wanted them to magically figure it out. (free clue, they don't.) Now, I negotiate exactly what I'm looking for before the meeting so nobody arrives with misaligned expectations.

You also get better at judging who is going to give you the experience you want. 

But, hiring is always a roll of the dice. Sometimes great, sometimes not. If that doesn't appeal to you, try to find a guy who does it for you, and just stick to him.

If muscle worship is your thing, you might try Tawan bar. It's known as the muscle place. Just use the translation apps to make clear what you want before you close the deal. Be explicit. I found it a bit embarrassing back then to explain exactly what I wanted... and I didn't get what I wanted. That learned me!

[vinapu]

5 hours ago, tvkahani said:

I just had my first ever experience after landing in Bangkok 2 days ago.

He is probably used to men coming, asking to be fucked, then leaving, so he was surprised that I didn't want that and rather wanted cuddles and weird stuff like him flexing. He chuckled but went ahead and did whatever was requested. Oddly enough, he gave me a missed call an hour later. Not sure why. Probably a mistake?

I am meeting this European guy in a few days, who is 6'4 and stunning. Hopefully that'll be good. Will update.

Do you wanna share your first time?

P.S: I didn't come out feeling happy or anything...

Thank you for your report.

Don't feel discouraged by first experience. It was just mismatch . Nothing wrong or weird with soft stuff like cuddles, kisses and flexing, very few guys will consider it strange .

Muscle guys love to flex, it boosts their ego if you ask them to , that's my experience.

Missed call could be mistake but not necessarily so , After you left he could realize that for him it was easy buck.

As Caeron says above , try Tawan Bar, guys there are friendly and easy going and definitely heard and saw it all and even more.

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, caeron said:

Many of our first experiences sucked

not mine.

I was shy and mamasan sensed it so he told me 'take this guy, he knows where short room is" and before I nodded buy was beside me. Likely he was primed to be gentle because he was sweet , obliging and hot. After session I tipped him then long time rate because somewhow I did not know there's difference between shot and long time  and I can hear his happy squeek to this day.

Ever since when passing by now abandoned corridor on the left with those short time rooms in dark passage  leading from Suriwong to Moonlight I look into that darkness and smile. 

[moistmango]

The only thing I remember from my virgin experience - it was Tawan - was getting lost in the maze of badly lit Silom soi-s and some random guy on the street offering to show me the way. He of course asked for a tip, which I happily ponied up. Don't recall who I offed that evening, if anyone .. Bit of an anti-climax, I guess, looking back. There were others who came after who made far more vivid impressions. 

[Londoner]

My first guy in Thailand- it was in Pattaya- failed to achieve an erection. My first gay sex experience had only occurred eighteen months previously and I blamed myself entirely. And, as it transpired, wrongly.

A sobering thought; that guy must be fifty years old now. Oh dear.

[scott456]

24 minutes ago, Londoner said:

My first guy in Thailand- it was in Pattaya- failed to achieve an erection. My first gay sex experience had only occurred eighteen months previously and I blamed myself entirely. And, as it transpired, wrongly.

A sobering thought; that guy must be fifty years old now. Oh dear.

Thanks for the info.