Guest noy9000 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Are you sure Oogleman ? Wowpow likes his muscle men but he says the park is a bit "too camp" and he's pretty experienced at these things. Okay. From the way Oogleman is writing, I'm sure he meant National Stadium beside MBK. It's a spot where many people miss, but, it sure sounds like what he'd said. We started out by the park close to the Royal Palace. There are a great number of boys there at night and working. They are easy to spot. Slow your car down and they will yell out 500 bath. The area is Saran Ramn Park. There is a canal along the street of Khu Myang Doem. You can go up and down that area and find many boys. When I say boys, I do mean 18 and up as almost 98 percent of what we saw were twenties. Do you have more specific directions on how I can walk there? If I were to visit, I'll be on the boat - walking towards Wat Pho. 500THB is for home delivery or public sex? it makes a difference (to me at least) if one prefers a private setting. The standard 'fee' in Saphan Kwai for short time is 1,000THB. The mamasan says so, the boys say so - I find it in my comfortable zone, so, I didn't bargain. I'm just wondering if it's really ANYWAY he can accompany me, I'm staying way out of the central bangkok, I'm wondering if a Silom boy will want to go with someone who stays in Rangsit. (lol). This depends on where the boy lives, since, most of them stay in Lad Prao (or at least that area) - I don't think mine is a problem. Quote
Guest pete1969 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 This is the area across from the front of the palace and next to the military HQ. On the back side of the palace is the street where more military guys hustle. Most of these boys prefer a short time room nearby...another 80-300 bhat depending on where you go. Pete Quote
Guest noy9000 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 I'm having a very bad dry spell yesterday. I was thinking of getting into a cab & tell him to go to Royal Palace, the gay boys place. Than, i sms my 'potential' relationship & straighten things out. I'll see if I feel particularly horny again, later in the evening.. Quote
Gaybutton Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 I know this thread is about a month old now, but I thought some of you might be interested in the following article ( see http://www.sac.or.th/Subdetail/seminar/sum...eminar64_E.html ) __________ Summary Report Quote
Guest wowpow Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 It looks as if it may be an interesting study, when completed, though I am not sure to what anthropological purpose. All knowledge is of value? As a foreigner in Thailand, I find Thai thinking a bit of a mystery. I wonder if this farang professor will understand Thai ways? Thanks Gaybutton. I must read more carefully. It does sound as if the Professor is Thai. Like you, I apologize for my shortcomings and errors. Quote
Gaybutton Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I wonder if this farang professor will understand Thai ways? I think the professor is Thai. At least that's the way it appears to me when I read the article. In any case, if he wants any help conducting his research, I volunteer . Quote
Guest Geezer Posted December 1, 2006 Posted December 1, 2006 I think the professor has been educated beyond his capacity. Quote
Guest noy9000 Posted September 17, 2007 Posted September 17, 2007 I have a couple of friends who guard info on new places that they find incase whn they go there the cute ones are gone. Frankly I call them Mean Queens and I am happy - in all my names - that everyone knows about all the lovely places. If I can help someone enjoy life more it gives me pleasure. To be honest a good friend of mine did rush to Saran Ramn late last Wednesday and found about thirty guys but he did not like them and said they were very much street hustlers. When he asked if there were any University students around the one guy who spoke a little English laughed to indicate a no. I think most Univerity students would speak a little English? Now beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the place may well vary from night to night and during the night as well so maybe when you go there don't get your expectations up too high and you will avoid disappointments The street to look out for boys in Sanum Laung is on the Kanlayana Maitri Road. Quote
Guest simon1183 Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 Hi I wondered whether you could tell me if the pattaya boat bakery boy...see attched pic....is still at the same place....might be a difficult question...thought i'dd ask anyway as he has such a beautiful smile and i am going to pattaya next week. i assume there is a place called the pattaya boat bakery? wondered what his name was? great photo thanks for your help anyone who knows and all the best. simon1183 I have a couple of friends who guard info on new places that they find incase whn they go there the cute ones are gone. Frankly I call them Mean Queens and I am happy - in all my names - that everyone knows about all the lovely places. If I can help someone enjoy life more it gives me pleasure. To be honest a good friend of mine did rush to Saran Ramn late last Wednesday and found about thirty guys but he did not like them and said they were very much street hustlers. When he asked if there were any University students around the one guy who spoke a little English laughed to indicate a no. I think most Univerity students would speak a little English? Now beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the place may well vary from night to night and during the night as well so maybe when you go there don't get your expectations up too high and you will avoid disappointments Quote
Gaybutton Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 Hi I wondered whether you could tell me if the pattaya boat bakery boy...see attched pic....is still at the same place. I don't know if he is there and I don't know his name. I don't recognize him. It's been months since I ate there, but once you are in Pattaya it should be simple for you to find out. The Boat Bakery is on Second road, almost directly across the street from Soi 3, the entrance soi to The Ambiance and Le Café Royale. You can't miss it. Since you have a photo of him, take it with you when you go. If he is not there when you try, ask people who work there. He might work a different shift. If he left, someone might know where to find him or might even have his name and telephone number. Good luck. Let us know if you find him. I hope the story has a happy ending for you. Quote
Guest simon1183 Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 Good luck. Let us know if you find him. I hope the story has a happy ending for you. Hey thanks for that excellent reply Gaybutton. I really appreciate it. I will check out your suggestions and post the outcome. Regards simon1183 One thing i notice is even just communcating with boys over the internet they are so strong about meeting me and connecting. It feels a little bit like their expectations are jolly high. It sort of freaks me a bit. It's the first time i have been to Pattaya and i would like to look around but boys want to sort of attach to me totally. They are keen. Hmmm. Didn't realize I was so attractive. Sounds like an exercise in boundary setting or saying no or something that i have to work on. What do other people do? Or am I just too soft hearted? Or not clear enough? Quote
Gaybutton Posted October 15, 2007 Posted October 15, 2007 What do other people do? Or am I just too soft hearted? Or not clear enough? You've come up with an excellent point that is not often addressed and it does often cause problems and awkwardness. It is quite common for people to go to a bar, end up taking a boy "off," and now the boy thinks he has a permanent boyfriend. Typically, when you return to the bar, the boy thinks you came back just for him and he immediately plants himself next to you, expecting to be taken "off" again. This can often happen elsewhere too. The beach is a good example. Often, "farang" end up stuck with a boy he only wanted once or twice, but now it's difficult to get out of it gracefully. I'm sure others will have their own suggestions, but my way is to prevent the problem before it happens. I might call a boy over to sit with me, let him know I'm interested in taking him "off," and also make sure to do something such as point out a couple of other boys and say, "I like them too. Next time I will "off" one of them." That usually does the trick. If it's already too late for that method, then it can be a tougher problem. Most of the time these boys are well aware that the "farang" is a "butterfly" and they don't come over to sit with you uninvited, but sometimes they don't realize that and they become a pest. In that situation, I would simply tell the boy that I like him, but I want to try other boys too. You have to tell him sorry, maybe next time and send him away. Usually, when a boy plants himself next to you, a waiter or mama-san is there an instant later trying to get you to buy a drink for him. I would say something such as, "Not yet. I want to look at other boys first," and then send him back. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted October 16, 2007 Posted October 16, 2007 “Sounds like an exercise in boundary setting or saying no or something that i have to work on.” Yes, you must. I have a friend who, after a three week stay in Pattaya, said he never had a boy he really wanted, as he didn’t feel he could refuse the boys who chose him. Quote
khaolakguy Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 “Sounds like an exercise in boundary setting or saying no or something that i have to work on.” Yes, you must. I have a friend who, after a three week stay in Pattaya, said he never had a boy he really wanted, as he didn’t feel he could refuse the boys who chose him. Wonderful Geezer. Your poor soft hearted friend. I hope that he had a better time next time around. I find that it works if you tell them that you are a butterfly, and if you want to make them laugh and emphasize this, tell them you are a slut! "Ee Ret" in Thai. Quote
