money boys

[Londoner]

Caveat emptor.

I have the same problem with ebay. It's part of the game; occasionally we are going to be tricked. However, the risks that we take are very slight compared to those taken by the mb, who arrives at a room or apartment not knowing who will be opening the door; a violent customer perhaps, or one who has his fun and refuses to pay the agreed cost. Or someone who isn't even clean.

I remember my fingers being burnt on occasion. It was annoying but I always cheered myself up by saying that the next one would be better. And he invariably was. 

[Keithambrose]

I always meet MB in lobby, luckily I have to, Le Meredien needs a key card for elevator. Then, if the goods do not match expectations, on age, appearance, then I politely also give him taxi money, and send him on his way. 

[Olddaddy]

The worse ones were guys over 30yo saying they were moneyboys but demanding my cock pic first 🙄

 

[reader]

On 8/16/2023 at 4:51 PM, Olddaddy said:

I have no pity for the money boys in Pattaya and I just experienced 6 weeks there.

If it was that bad why didn't you cut your losses and return to Bangkok?

[khaolakguy]

2 hours ago, reader said:

If it was that bad why didn't you cut your losses and return to Bangkok?

Or return to oz?

[Olddaddy]

12 hours ago, khaolakguy said:

Or return to oz?

Well I did 

But I must say I had sex with the "African " money boys in Pattaya whilst I was there ,big dicks and nice too , two of them 

But paying money boys is just not in my fantasy anymore , I actually messaged a Thai guy in Sydney last night on Grindr 38yo 

I said you looking for a fuck?

He replies " I'm a moneyboy"

I replied back " At your age? Leaving it a bit late Thai  daddy aren't you  "

He ended up blocking me ,maybe he just didn't like my pic so was using excuses but I certainly won't be paying money for guys anywhere in the world at that age !

[nikba2515]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

Well I did 

But I must say I had sex with the "African " money boys in Pattaya whilst I was there ,big dicks and nice too , two of them 

But paying money boys is just not in my fantasy anymore , I actually messaged a Thai guy in Sydney last night on Grindr 38yo 

I said you looking for a fuck?

He replies " I'm a moneyboy"

I replied back " At your age? Leaving it a bit late Thai  daddy aren't you  "

He ended up blocking me ,maybe he just didn't like my pic so was using excuses but I certainly won't be paying money for guys anywhere in the world at that age !

38 je je je a grandfather himself for country like Tailand and other. 

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

I actually messaged a Thai guy in Sydney last night on Grindr 38yo 

I said you looking for a fuck?

He replies " I'm a moneyboy"

I replied back " At your age? Leaving it a bit late Thai  daddy aren't you  "

He ended up blocking me ,

Don't you think it was a bit rude ?

One of most in shape boys in Bangkok I regularly engage is about that age and remains very popular.

[scott456]

12 minutes ago, vinapu said:

Don't you think it was a bit rude ?

One of most in shape boys in Bangkok I regularly engage is about that age and remains very popular.

Welcome to the real world, real meat market.  When an online mb says he is 38y.o., I just assume he is 40+, probably 45.

[Londoner]

I've known a Pattaya mb for nearly twenty years....I met him just before I met P. He's thirty-nine now and still looks twenty-five. He has kept his body in immaculate shape and when I see him now, I realise that he is  as attractive now as he was then. And probably with better skills in the bed! And he still works in a host bar.

I remember that after craving the attentions of the young, by the time was I was into my fifth or sixth  trip to Thailand I'd discovered that older guys were  just better technically.  They'd  learnt more.... and invariably spoke better English, something that was important to me.

[scott456]

8 minutes ago, Londoner said:

I've known a Pattaya mb for nearly twenty years....I met him just before I met P. He's thirty-nine now and still looks twenty-five. He has kept his body in immaculate shape and when I see him now, I realise that he is  as attractive now as he was then. And probably with better skills in the bed! And he still works in a host bar.

I remember that after craving the attentions of the young, by the time was I was into my fifth or sixth  trip to Thailand I'd discovered that older guys were  just better technically.  They'd  learnt more.... and invariably spoke better English, something that was important to me.

The most important part, is his dick now still as firm as 20 years ago?

[PeterRS]

1 hour ago, scott456 said:

The most important part, is his dick now still as firm as 20 years ago?

If not, at age 39 he seriously has problems! I'd imagine he's as proud and erect as 20 years ago.

[scott456]

1 minute ago, PeterRS said:

If not, at age 39 he seriously has problems! I'd imagine he's as proud and erect as 20 years ago.

Nope, I have found most men decrease the angle and firmness of erection as they age, some after 30 y.o, some after 40 y.o.

[reader]

28 minutes ago, scott456 said:

Nope, I have found most men decrease the angle and firmness of erection as they age, some after 30 y.o, some after 40 y.o.

It's good you still have a hobby to keep yourself engaged.

[scott456]

22 minutes ago, reader said:

It's good you still have a hobby to keep yourself engaged.

I bring all my measuring tools with me when I am on a mission 

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, Londoner said:

I've known a Pattaya mb for nearly twenty years.... He's thirty-nine now and still looks twenty-five. He has kept his body in immaculate shape and when I see him now, I realise that he is  as attractive now as he was then. And probably with better skills in the bed! And he still works in a host bar.

There's one guy at BBB who meets  your description and when I visited that bar with resident farang he pointed at him and his comment was exactly like yours, word for word.

8 hours ago, Londoner said:

 I'd discovered that older guys were  just better technically.  They'd  learnt more.... and invariably spoke better English, something that was important to me.

and , what is important for muscle lovers like myself older guys are much better built as it takes a time 

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, scott456 said:

The most important part, is his dick now still as firm as 20 years ago?

if Londoner and me are talking about the same guy, answer is yes

[Londoner]

Not a BBB Guy! mine is the Oldest Twink in Thailand! 

[ChristianPFC]

10 hours ago, vinapu said:

and , what is important for muscle lovers like myself older guys are much better built as it takes a time

I find rather the opposite. I have met several over 30s, and while they still look fine, they suffer from what I call "the flesh is not firm". Changes in skin/muscle/fat that makes it less appealing for me to touch.

[vinapu]

7 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:

I find rather the opposite. I have met several over 30s, and while they still look fine, they suffer from what I call "the flesh is not firm". Changes in skin/muscle/fat that makes it less appealing for me to touch.

no dispute here , i should say it better " muscle boys ten to be older " 

[Marc K]

On 8/21/2023 at 5:19 AM, vinapu said:

no dispute here , i should say it better " muscle boys ten to be older " 

Also, do be aware of smokers, and an ailment which the Australians call "smokers' droop".

[jeremy]

Lots of passionate comments on here about money boys.  I pretty much only met money boys (all on Grindr) when I was in Thailand in May-June 2023 (mainly because I was too lazy to put in an effort) and I will probably meet money boys again during another two week stint in BKK in December 2023....  Out of the several money boys I met, only one or two were not stunning to my eyes (I walk around the streets in BKK in awe of how beautiful most Thai guys are.)  Only one of the guys made it obvious that he didn't like me and only that one really FELT like it was a transaction.  With each guy we agreed on a price before meeting and they seemed to base that on what we were doing more than the time spent.  The guys were all very easy going and a handful stayed for hours chatting in bed afterwards and never asked for extra.  I was asked by a few of the guys if i wanted to go out with them at night, but I didn't.  I regret not doing that and may do in December if the opportunity presents again.  I would never dream of looking down on any of the guys I met, even if two have asked for money since I left Thailand (I didn't send it.)  They were perfect for me at the time, most seemed like really nice guys, a few still chat with me on Line as I am learning Thai now and I can see potential friendships into the future, which is great especially if I may one day move to Thailand...    

[vinapu]

48 minutes ago, jeremy said:

...... especially if I may one day move to Thailand...    

if you move you will lose a chance to travel to Thailand for vacations. Give it consideration

[Olddaddy]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

if you move you will lose a chance to travel to Thailand for vacations. Give it consideration

Very true , I thought about this after you last wrote it and I noticed many other posters quoting what you wrote .

The excitement and looking forward ,even the planning etc , but you know you get the both of both worlds if you live in farangland and travel there two or three times a year .

I actually asked a expat who moved to Pattaya what he looks forward to in regard to travel now ,and he really couldn't come up with anything except Cambodia.

Last month I actually met a former Pattaya business owner who was now living in his home country and visiting Thailand,he gets far more enjoyment in visiting twice a year than living there ,although at his age of 72 he is finding the travel can be tiring.

He actually lovess to work and still works full time in his home country so can afford to travel rather than as he puts it " hibernate in a room in Pattaya by himself all year long" 

" been there done that" he said 

I wont say who it is but he was running a business back in the early 2000's in Pattaya ,a nice guy 

[10tazione]

3 hours ago, vinapu said:

if you move you will lose a chance to travel to Thailand for vacations. Give it consideration

Do a border run and consider it travelling to Thailand from Thailand