money boys

[colmx]

On 8/2/2023 at 11:52 PM, gayinpattaya said:

Spoken like a tourist, whether you are or not.

since when is a s-expat a higher position in life than a sex-tourist?

Neither is in a position to judge the other?

[vinapu]

4 hours ago, colmx said:

since when is a s-expat a higher position in life than a sex-tourist?

Brilliant ! 

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, 12is12 said:

 

Whats the difference btw banning and ostracism ? 

Ban is removal of the individual, ostracim is total avoidance. 

if Tawan put sign " entry for vinapu prohibited" I will be banned. If I enter for absence of sign, but nobody would approach, seat beside or talk to  me I will be ostracized. 

[12is12]

Thx

So its basically like the ignoring option u offered. I m all for it. 

Its high time we organize to ignore or ostracize the few members here, who again and again prefer posting judgemental personal attacks. 

[Keithambrose]

5 hours ago, vinapu said:

Ban is removal of the individual, ostracim is total avoidance. 

if Tawan put sign " entry for vinapu prohibited" I will be banned. If I enter for absence of sign, but nobody would approach, seat beside or talk to  me I will be ostracized. 

Vinapu is correct, as usual! Ostracize comes from the Greek, 'ostrakon', to banish someone from the city. It means shell or of piece of pot, which was how the citizens voted to exclude someone.

[colmx]

On 8/4/2023 at 3:42 AM, Shonen said:

 

Are you talking about J from @home bar? He is very cute, hope he’s ok. I play pool with him but never offed him. I’d like to take him off during high season. Maybe he won’t be there. 
I don’t have his contact so he never sent me a request.

Jay has been back in Cambodia since just after Songkran. According to his cousin, he's supposed to be coming back late August

[khaolakguy]

On 8/4/2023 at 8:59 AM, Gaybutton said:

If I've learned nothing else during my years living in Thailand, I've learned, especially with money boys, no matter how much you give them and no matter how much you help them - it's never enough . . .

That's because however much you give them, or pay them for their services, you will always have significantly more assets  than they do.

[Boy69]

19 minutes ago, khaolakguy said:

That's because however much you give them, or pay them for their services, you will always have significantly more assets  than they do.

I assume what @Gaybutton meant is that money boys will try to extract as much money as they can from every interaction however as I mentioned before it's their profession and they try to survive and earn a living . there is nothing bad about that we just have to be financially cautious when dealing with them .

[floridarob]

10 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Its high time we organize to ignore or ostracize the few members here, who again and again prefer posting judgemental personal attacks. 

They'll just come back under a new screen name...he's already done it before 🙄

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, floridarob said:

They'll just come back under a new screen name...he's already done it before 🙄

That, s because love of our forum knows no bounds

[12is12]

U r right FR; didnt think about it. 

Sorry )-:

[Kiwi306]

Talking apps, could someone please recommend some. I am also familiar with line, but not sure how to use it or how to find contacts on it.

[Patanawet]

On 8/4/2023 at 8:08 AM, gayinpattaya said:

Appears to me it doesn't matter how much time you spend in Thailand, or how much of the language you learn, you can still be a pest.

Well said GIP. Some people think they know everything no matter how long the have been visiting here or attained a position on a message board.

[Olddaddy]

I have no pity for the money boys in Pattaya and I just experienced 6 weeks there.

 

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, Olddaddy said:

I have no pity for the money boys in Pattaya and I just experienced 6 weeks there.

 

What they did to you that you so cold hearted? 

[alvnv]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

What they did to you that you so cold hearted? 

Maybe because they were not over 60 🤔

[Londoner]

See Kokopelli's post 

[Olddaddy]

On 8/17/2023 at 8:04 AM, vinapu said:

What they did to you that you so cold hearted? 

I soon found out they are hardened shrewd businessman

I'm also pretty sure there is a " service" in Pattaya that answers these boys Grindr messages 

On two occasions I had someone message me the word "client" , eg " I am not late to clients so expect me there on time "

It was all business , and they are hustlers 

The problem is many of us live in the past and it's all changed ,different generation,

Despite what you read on here there is no guys starving ,some even have the audicity to turn up in in a Hilux and ask for parking !!!

they still want to qoute you high prices etc and you have to haggle ,

The days if fantasy about some young isaan boyish looks are gone ,now you have shrewd demanding pushy businessman as moneyboys 

You see that's the "fantasy's most guys have on here ,they imagine isaan brown skinned boys starving for money from a farang when instead it's some pouty lipped moneyboy who had lip surgery with the latest iPhone haggling his quote 

You all live in the past 

I got sick of it and went to the sauna for people who wanted to really have their dicks sucked 

[Olddaddy]

On 8/6/2023 at 3:16 AM, floridarob said:

They'll just come back under a new screen name...he's already done it before 🙄

Personal attacks shouldn't be tolerated , that says a lot about the persons character behind the screen name .

I actually met a forum member in jomtien complex, was drinking with him ( orange juice) when he personally commented on another farang sitting by , 

" Look at that queen over there " he should of been born a girl the douchebag "

I looked at him and said " at the end of the day you still take it up the arse right " so don't judge others !

With that he left without saying goodbye ,good riddance 

 

[Shonen]

Some of the hustlers like getting their dicks sucked also. You just have to pay them.

I think you’re right about the service that answers grinder and planet Romeo sites.

It sounds like the messages are filtered through individuals that might get a cut from the meeting.

[Patanawet]

2 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

 

Despite what you read on here there is no guys starving

What rubbish! 

[Marc K]

17 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

I got sick of it and went to the sauna for people who wanted to really have their dicks sucked 

Gosh OD I think you are being a bit too harsh. We have all gotten sick of "the game" at one time or another, but that isn't to say we don't like playing it and reaping (usually) its rewards. Sometimes it goes sour, just like visiting your favorite restaurant or doing your favorite activity. Sometimes its your mood, not his, that ruins the chemistry. Sometimes, as they say, you just got out of bed on the wrong side. Happens to all of us. I'd suggest you lighten up. (No this is not a personal attack, but some friendly advice.) The Boys of Pattaya have delivered innumerable pleasures to me, in and out of bed.

[nikba2515]

Money boy, escort boy and bar boy’s scams. Only via internet application when their pictures were not exactly the same as person arrived. It happened to me once and I laughed and laughed. He showed up and I taught him a lesson. Nothing harmful, just drilled harder, much longer and more intense. The guy was furious and kept asking me to cum. I fucked the shit out of him literally, showed him the bathroom for cleanup and resume the fuck……… it was fun,  his hole was like an elastic,  great for hard pounding and long deep strokes. It was an entertaining evening despite the face didn’t match the picture. 
 

[PeterRS]

19 minutes ago, nikba2515 said:

It happened to me once and I laughed and laughed. He showed up and I taught him a lesson. Nothing harmful, just drilled harder, much longer and more intense. The guy was furious and kept asking me to cum. I fucked the shit out of him literally, showed him the bathroom for cleanup and resume the fuck……… it was fun,  his hole was like an elastic,  great for hard pounding and long deep strokes. It was an entertaining evening despite the face didn’t match the picture. 

Nothing harmful? Personally I think that action was harmful and with respect to the poster whom I do not know somewhat petty. Sure the guy did what many are starting to do by posting fake pics. Don't we all post some fake info - like our ages? Perhaps @nikba2515 is totally honest with what info he provides on the apps. I'm not sorry to say I chop a few years off my age. I then feel delighted when the guy arrives and says something like he thought I'd look considerably older! But then I do not meet guys in Thailand - only in Taipei and Tokyo where perhaps the boys are more polite.

Years ago I did once meet a Thai boy from an app who turned out to be a good 15 years older than his photo. I always used to meet a guy first outside my apartment and so we met at a coffee shop on Silom. I ordered him a drink, explained to him that I was not going to do anything more because he had basically deceived me. I then gave him 100 baht for his transport and said goodbye. You win some, lose some has always been my basic motto. I'm not into shaming guys or trying to teach them a lesson.

[nikba2515]

15 minutes ago, PeterRS said:

Nothing harmful? Personally I think that action was harmful and with respect to the poster whom I do not know somewhat petty. Sure the guy did what many are starting to do by posting fake pics. Don't we all post some fake info - like our ages? Perhaps @nikba2515 is totally honest with what info he provides on the apps. I'm not sorry to say I chop a few years off my age. I then feel delighted when the guy arrives and says something like he thought I'd look considerably older! But then I do not meet guys in Thailand - only in Taipei and Tokyo where perhaps the boys are more polite.

Years ago I did once meet a Thai boy from an app who turned out to be a good 15 years older than his photo. I always used to meet a guy first outside my apartment and so we met at a coffee shop on Silom. I ordered him a drink, explained to him that I was not going to do anything more because he had basically deceived me. I then gave him 100 baht for his transport and said goodbye. You win some, lose some has always been my basic motto. I'm not into shaming guys or trying to teach them a lesson.

I was expected and asked to see more  pictures and video to ensure what I paid for was correct. Not the age issue but different person. He intended to deceive and taking chance of being  rejected.  I was shocked as it never happened before but still go along with it. harmless act…..