Hotmale beer bar

[Leroy82]

Hi Guys, I’ve visited this bar a few times. I know you can take the boys from upstairs and I’ve indulged in that a few times but what about the staff downstairs? They are friendly and cute. Are they available and how would you go about this?

[Olddaddy]

Bangkok or Pattaya?

[jason1975]

1 hour ago, Leroy82 said:

Hi Guys, I’ve visited this bar a few times. I know you can take the boys from upstairs and I’ve indulged in that a few times but what about the staff downstairs? They are friendly and cute. Are they available and how would you go about this?

Yes most are happy to be approached. Just be direct and ask.

[vinapu]

you may even see few of them on Grindr.

Definitely they are offable, speaking from experience although some on some days may be available only after bar closes

[gayinpattaya]

Alex (Burmese) Toy (Lao) and a few other very nice boys work at the bay downstairs. Good friends for me, we always hang out when they are in Pattaya. 
Yes, you can take them. Just tell them what you want. 

The one difference is, the boys there are probably looking for more than a short time. Most of them spend their time traveling around Thailand with customers. At least from what I see on their Facebook feeds! 

[Leroy82]

Yes, both Alex and Toy are cute boys. And there was another who name I forget, I think it was Pee? Has anyone any experience with them? Are they expect the same money for short time like the gogo boys would? If they would do short time as you mention they prefer to travel?! I presume no off fee if they are only available when bar closes?

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, Leroy82 said:

.... I think it was Pee? Has anyone any experience with them? Are they expect the same money for short time like the gogo boys would? If they would do short time as you mention they prefer to travel?! I presume no off fee if they are only available when bar closes?

I think you man Pey, quite muscular guy ?

If you off them during hours , yes you pay the same off fee like in bar. If it's  before or after hours, like everywhere , no off fee but be discreet not to land guy in trouble.

More or less tip expected will be the same like gogos inside upstairs

[Leroy82]

Yes maybe it was Pey. Great advice thank you. I’m there next week so should it be Alex Toy or Pey? Has anyone experienced them before? Or should I try all three 🤣

[gayinpattaya]

20 minutes ago, Leroy82 said:

Yes maybe it was Pey. Great advice thank you. I’m there next week so should it be Alex Toy or Pey? Has anyone experienced them before? Or should I try all three 🤣

I have been friends with Alex since his first night working on Twilight years and years ago. He's really lovely. Never been with him though.
Toy, now he's a great deal of fun, I can recommend. 

[Leroy82]

Yes Alex is cute and the friendliest. I think he would be a great fuck! 🤪

[paulfort]

As Vinapu rightly says they are normally defiantly "off able",  just engage in conversation, by him a drink and if positive vibes ask and agree what you want, they will advise the "off fee" probably circa 500 THB, I find it more real and fun than the normal mega commercial looking at boys on a stage and using the mamasan! . I met Pey several times on my last visit in March and hope to spend time with him again on my next return early November, really nice genuine guy!

[jason1975]

Off fee 500 baht is for weekdays. On Friday, Saturday and Sunday off fee is 600 baht. But yes, many of them are really nice guys.

[Leroy82]

13 hours ago, paulfort said:

As Vinapu rightly says they are normally defiantly "off able",  just engage in conversation, by him a drink and if positive vibes ask and agree what you want, they will advise the "off fee" probably circa 500 THB, I find it more real and fun than the normal mega commercial looking at boys on a stage and using the mamasan! . I met Pey several times on my last visit in March and hope to spend time with him again on my next return early November, really nice genuine guy!

How was Pey? Lived up to expectations? 

[jason1975]

Has anyone noticed that there is a bell hanging from ceiling at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs?

[vinapu]

11 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Has anyone noticed that there is a bell hanging from ceiling at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs?

I did not, I rather look at boys bulges or place where it is supposed to be

[floridarob]

15 hours ago, jason1975 said:

Has anyone noticed that there is a bell hanging from ceiling at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs?

Something to do with buying a round for everyone, something like that....

[jason1975]

5 hours ago, floridarob said:

Something to do with buying a round for everyone, something like that....

I see! Luckily I didn't ring the bell!

[TMax]

Yes ring the bell and you have to buy everyone in the bar a drink, usually used by show off's, someone celebrating something or richer people. 

[vinapu]

35 minutes ago, TMax said:

Yes ring the bell and you have to buy everyone in the bar a drink, usually used by show off's, someone celebrating something or richer people. 

or reckless spenders

[jason1975]

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

or reckless spenders

I will not be surprised if you ring the bell in future!

[vinapu]

 

I will not be surprised if you ring the bell in future!

I doubt, while I don't go for vacation to save money since staying at home does better job in this department I'm not big on freeloaders. While I understand buying drinks for all boys present , why to treat other patrons the same way ?

 

But yes I will ring the bell next time when it will be situation I had one afternoon last trip  , Aung behind the counter and me , only patron . Cheap  fun

[Deszz24]

Hello guys, have always lurked in these forums especially when I'm heading towards Bangkok. As it happens, I'm heading there again soon, early July actually.

 

I have passed by these bars / pubs but never have I once made my way into one of these mainly because I don't think I can handle pushy mama-sans / papa-sans. That being said, I wonder if the situation will be better prior to the show. Say, 4 or 5pm in the evening? I wonder how should I actually tell the waiters if I want to off them and how to ask them (without being offensive) how they fare in the room, e.g. do they kiss etc? 🤣

Would appreciate some tips especially for newbies like me who have never once entered these premises alone hahaha

[vinapu]

Welcome to the forum.

You worry too much and read too much into what is said here. How one can pass by boy bar without being inclined to go in is beyond  me , I thought only aspiring lesbians would pass such an opportunity.

First, while some mamasans are pushy by far pushy ones are not majority and even those pushy are not going to wrestle or rape you. Tell them you are watching, you wait for friend who is supposed to join you  or do what I do with stony face, tell them "I like girls ", nobody will believe you but they should get a message which is subtle ' fuck off" signal.

When you will be there you may want to signalize it here on the forum , they may be members who will do community service and gladly accompany you on your virgin visit(s).

I wish I'd be in such a position, sigh.

at 4 or 5 in the evening bars are still closed with exception of Hot male Beer bar w visiting which is not a bad idea for people in your position as boys there are very friendly and THERE'S NO MAMASAN.

bars are usually opening between 8-9 and rarely are in full swing before 9.30. Actually i think for shy types  it's not such great idea to come early as you may be accosted more often for lack of other victims while at show time bar is usually full and mamasans are busy dispensing drinks etc. 

I found Thais pretty straightforward and those working in bars hear it all many times but good form would be to offer drink, be it bar boy , waiter or mamasan if you have hots for them . Most of staff will be on offer although waiters and mamasans most likely only after bar will close .

While sitting with you just ask they if they go with you 'are you going with me?" , if they say yes  ask them about what is important to you , top, bottom , kiss etc. Don't try to be too sophisticated because English is their 2nd or perhaps 4th language so your question should be straightforward.

Kissing question is somewhat important as some boys do everything but won't kiss for some reason so you don't want to for force yourself on them. I ask kissing question after agreement to go is made so they know it's not condition for an off.

If you have boy sitting with you and you decide not to off him for whatever reason make sure :

1/ not to keep him too long as he may lose other opportunities

2/ tip him for his time 100-200 depending of length of time.

Make sure you let us know  about you impressions after you finally arrive     

[reader]

Leroy82, in view of a post you made last Friday at 5:07, you may want to bear in mind that two of the HM’s most popular bartenders speak and read English and are avid social media readers. 

[Leroy82]

 

Leroy82, in view of a post you made last Friday at 5:07, you may want to bear in mind that two of the HM’s most popular bartenders speak and read English and are avid social media readers. 

I’m not sure what you mean by this? Would they find this offensive?