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Hey friends,

 

I will be visiting Bangkok for the first time in a few weeks.  I'm interested in learning the ropes on how to meet guys at the spa, club, and apps.  

 

Would anyone be willing to walk me through it and answer questions?

 

I have read a lot of the posts here so I have a lot of info, but it's hard to put it all together.

 

Thanks in advance!

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Think of preparing for your trip as you would preparing to buy a new car. Read about what others have experienced and use it to help shape where you want to go and what you want to do. And all that information is contained in this website, mostly in venue and trip reports and reviews. There’s a wealth of information at your fingertips.

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2 minutes ago, reader said:

Think of preparing for your trip as you would preparing to buy a new car. Read about what others have experienced and use it to help shape where you want to go and what you want to do. And all that information is contained in this website, mostly in venue and trip reports and reviews.

And it should be added that way of repaying forum for all leads and advices we dispense is posting own trip report, either  in real time or after returning home

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25 minutes ago, jacksonSmith3002 said:

Thanks for the tips!

 

Question:  Do you just straightforwardly ask for what you want to do?  Like, "I wanna suck your d*ck and get f*cked, are you willing to do that? How much?"

 

 Yes correct.

Explain exactly what is required. And make sure the boy understands. 

If in a bar, make sure the Mama San says the boy does understand or use your phone to translate so there can be no misunderstanding.

Say what you want to do and what is expected from them.

Say how long u want them to stay, e.g. short time or otherwise.

Whether u want bare back or not.

Before taking the boy agree the tip that will be paid including any travel cost or other costs.

-If they cannot do or perform as agreed then at your discretion you can reduce the tip. Never pay in advance.

 

By way of an example:

 

Many years ago, in the early morning in the reception area of a well-known gay hotel a big argument arose between a farang and a boy. Apparently the farang wanted to fuck the boy and if the farang is being truthful the boy only revealed when in the room that he the boy was top only.

Believe it or not the police were called, and both were taken to the station.

No idea of the outcome.

 

 

 

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3 hours ago, Leverend said:

Talking about the gogo bar, if i just wanted to experience the bar without buying any drinks is that ok? First timer here as well

Without buying , absolutely no as Olddaddy stated above but feel free not to drink your drink if you not inclined. That way they will not harass you for another one

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I’m not a big drinker and frequently order water. I’ll pay the same thing but get what I want. Or drink what the boys do at most bars: ice with a splash of coke.

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Okay, a couple more questions...

I like to suck guys.  Do they normally c*m?

Also, I know a lot of people like big d*cks but I like average to small ones (easier on my jaw).  Is it okay to ask about size ahead of time? I noticed on the massage advertisements they give a size but, after reading about it, it seems to be the girth of condoms in millimeters, which of course is not how we typically measure in the US.

Can I ask, "how big is it?  I like smaller ones" or is that weird?

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Yes, you can ask about the size of their cocks but maybe not get a correct answer. As for "do they cum", that all depends on what you mean. They will cum in your mouth, if that is your preference, or otherwise just shoot on your body or their body.

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You’ll be more than satisfied with the average size you’ll encounter. Wouldn’t even bother bringing  it up.

If you want him to cum, that’s certainly something you can discuss beforehand. Some may want an extra few hundred baht. But it’s been my experience that many will climax if they feel at ease without negotiations.

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10 minutes ago, kokopelli3 said:

Yes, you can ask about the size of their cocks but maybe not get a correct answer. As for "do they cum", that all depends on what you mean. They will cum in your mouth, if that is your preference, or otherwise just shoot on your body or their body.

I guess I meant, I know a lot of the guys are straight, so I didn't know if they would be able to cum from a guy sucking them.

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8 minutes ago, jacksonSmith3002 said:

I guess I meant, I know a lot of the guys are straight, so I didn't know if they would be able to cum from a guy sucking them.

Not a problem for most, but some may need encouragement in form of phone porn. I think as whole you be surprised and pleased with their ability to perform.

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Okay, so in terms of locations, obviously in the massage places they have the massage rooms and you do everything there, right? For the bars, do they have rooms as well, or do you always just get a taxi and go back to your hotel?

 

I'm sure that when middle-aged men from other countries bring attractive young men back to their hotels, the hotel staff definitely know what's up. Are they cool with it?

 

I saw something about asking for id? So the hotel staff will want to see the ID of the guy? Is that the standard practice?  I'm assuming the guys know this will happen and are ready with their ids?

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1 hour ago, jacksonSmith3002 said:

Okay, so in terms of locations, obviously in the massage places they have the massage rooms and you do everything there, right? For the bars, do they have rooms as well, or do you always just get a taxi and go back to your hotel?

 

I'm sure that when middle-aged men from other countries bring attractive young men back to their hotels, the hotel staff definitely know what's up. Are they cool with it?

 

I saw something about asking for id? So the hotel staff will want to see the ID of the guy? Is that the standard practice?  I'm assuming the guys know this will happen and are ready with their ids?

This is Thailand. Hotel staff know what's going on. They see it everyday, many times. Some hotels may charge you a "joiner fee". Whether they are cool with it or not is not a worry for you. If you choose a hotel that most people here stay at (many threads on that topic) it's standard policy with most guests that they will be bringing new friends back to their room. I had one experience at a Pattaya hotel where the receptionist messaged me on Grindr when I took a boy up to my room, asking to come join. I declined, but it was funny. 

As for the ID. It's actually Thai law that all people in the hotel have to be registered. Many hotels will keep your new friends ID behind the desk till they leave. Some will even call your room to check everything is OK before returning their ID to them when they are leaving. Again, depends on the hotel you choose to stay at. 

As for bars, and if they have short time rooms. Some do, some don't. But if you don't want to take a boy back to your room, just ask them where to go, or the mamasan before you leave. You are never far away from a short time hotel. It's just an added cost. 

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Okay, thank you also much!

 

I think I just have one more question.  Is it all pretty vanilla, or do the guys do fetish stuff as well?  Like if you are into rough stuff, feet, piss play, facials, etc...  Do you just ask them? Or is that too complicated?

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