Off Topic Thread June 3 and before

[Riobard]

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[floridarob]

8 hours ago, Riobard said:

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Your best post yet!!!!    😝😝😝

[SolaceSoul]

3 hours ago, floridarob said:

Your best post yet!!!!    😝😝😝

Could it be that he’s finally learned that “less is more”? 

[Riobard]

4 hours ago, floridarob said:

Your best post yet!!!!    😝😝😝

Have you ever considered taking a day off? Maybe revamping your material? Pulling the needle off the broken record? You make it seem like you’re in a sweatshop cranking out cheap laughs. 

Never mind. There’s a trap door for rude. Obrigado moderators. 

[Riobard]

Did you get all that @BlkSuperman? You too can take on a discardable steady every season and put on airs of communal superiority. But then my narcolepsy risks relapse and you’re too self-possessed to suffer fools. 

Perhaps a diversion would feed those egos dripping down a schnoz stuck here or there where it doesn’t belong, maybe something like a Special Achievement in Sex Tourism nod? 

Once in a while a stream of text comes along that has you rolling on the floor.

Here’s where cultural awareness is useful: recognizing a steaming load of hooey squeezed out of the tight anuses of delusional consumers of paid sex that would cast themselves as philanthropic  😂

WTAF? Are they paying the locals in LRD, Brazil, what have you, through a personal secretary mediating offshore accounts? Why write shyte here then? Take the commentary to UNICEF. Kryst on a Kross. Illegitimi non carborundum. Maybe they’ll grow as weary of their holier-than-thou posturing as I am observing it. Thank the good lord there’s enough fun to be experienced to eclipse these time-wasting clowns.

[SolaceSoul]

[paborn]

Just for the record. I do not have a seasonal guy who I discard. My first lasted 7 years and died in an accident. My second lasted as lone but was an undocumented Cuban who was deported. I do not go to Cuba for personal reasons. My third lasted on 4 as he was bi and decided to marry and I did not desire to be a third wheel - we still talk. My current is still with me. 

Sometimes people who used big words are also masking the reality of their not having any facts - they're just breaking wind.

[Riobard]

I’m out, almost right after my irate and amused post. I don’t read drivel. The OP can take it from here.

[SolaceSoul]

2 minutes ago, Riobard said:

I don’t read drivel. 

So, you don’t proofread your own posts before pressing “submit reply”.

[Riobard]

Right, “rotate through boyfriends”. Not a sex tourist. A weak link requiring attention. Your squeezes self-sufficient financially. So why are you writing in a thread thematically related to punting? Blathering on about your superiority relative to a fellow countryman that simply engages in consensual activity and embellishes accounts for effect. 

My points stand. Go tell your narrative on a mountain. Trap door for pomposity, here goes.

Enjoy it down there with the other nauseatingly self-aggrandizing tool, the fake news sociopath off his trolley purporting to have once made an in-person impression about my physicality and bearing; you’ll find him in the bin marked “barista posing as a physician, lawyer, biological terrorism consultant all wrapped up in one neat package + other strange phonies on a gay message board angling for status”.

You’ll notice all fraternity shit stinks the same down there.

Let others live in peace. You are seen. Leave it at that. 

[BlkSuperman]

1 hour ago, Riobard said:

Did you get all that @BlkSuperman? You too can take on a discardable steady every season and put on airs of communal superiority. But then my narcolepsy risks relapse and you’re too self-possessed to suffer fools.  

 

Me? Put on airs? Self-absorbed?  I'm a black man from the pork and bean projects in Miami. One of the dangerous neighborhoods in Dade County. Honey, I couldn't put on airs if I wanted to. 

Im not ashamed to say that the only reason I can travel the way that I do is because I travel on points accumulated through my SPIRIT CC. Someone cracked about me flying COACH to Rio in December, but babyyyyyy at that price, I will fly COACH EVERY SINGLE TIME! 

PUTTING ON AIRS would be me lying and saying that I'm flying FIRST CLASS and I don't have to lie about that. I'm a bitch that's financially aware of what I can and can't do and I will NEVER live OUTSIDE OF MY MEANS to IMPRESS ANYONE. NEVER HAVE AND NEVER WILL! It's just not that important to me.

I'm also not ashamed to tell you or anyone else that I'm a SLUT,  WHORE AND A NASTY FREAK. When I take my trips those trips include sex parties,  watching my barber husband have sex with dominican women while i watch and suck my husbands dick or having multiple sex partners while im abraod. HELL, it's my money so shouldn't I be able to enjoy it like I want to. AND AGAIN, I'm a SLUT,  WHORE AND NASTY FREAK! I've said that in almost all my post. 

It's not in my character to mistreat anyone or make anyone feel inferior to me. It's never that serious for me because anyone can do like I did and that's go to school, study hard and make your life better. We all have that right and ability and I encourage anyone reading these forums who vicariously live through our stories to do just that (get in school) to make a better life for yourself so you can be AN INSATIABLE, NASTY SEX CRAZED SLUT LIKE ME and a lot of other ppl in this group. 

There are thousands of people in this forum, but only a few main contributors. When I joined this group, I read, learned and was entertained by these forums and took the knowledge that the contributors were dropping and used it to my benefit. 

When I post, it's never for clout or make someone feel inferior to me. I post to educate the 300-500 ppl who visit my posts so that they will hopefully learn how to move when they travel internationally. 

We're all WHORES and all sleeping with some of the same men and swapping the same DNA when we travel so that would make us all brothers. LOL! 

As Jerry Springer would say, "Take care of yourself and TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER!"

[Riobard]

Love that, Blk Supe. You do you. Never followed JS’s broadcasts. Non-American, too busy working, earning, and additionally pro bono mentoring of developing world context medical science research projects to further grease the wheels of opportunity (I’m not beyond self-serving), hit the renewal mark for faculty status, and give a little back viz my own unmerited privilege, etc.

Perhaps Springer might also have added something like: there are always judge-y prissies out there whose panties you don’t need to go near to get into a knot. If not, I’m happy to declare it. Never a lack of pissant-leaning bossy-pants attempting to pull your autonomy out from under you. 

Although I think it’s episodic, a few snooty 🍎 🍏, and so far doesn’t seem to have poisoned the wellspring of the Thai branch. Thus far, nobody there has declared the need for sex tourism because non-transactional partners can but fall hopelessly head over heels obsessively in love with them. Who needs that pill of a poster? No fellow punters I’ve laid eyes on in my travel environments would come remotely close to that claim. AFAIK 5 AM Club joiners just crap at different times and surround themselves with reciprocal ass-kissers, all good for diurnal equalization of sewage flow. How some clowns desperately reach for flimsy substantiation that buttresses their sad grandiosity is beyond the pale. Sheesh. LOL. Good thing you can see a one 10 kilometres away, expending a bit of energy for content in context, if you’ve read the forum for a while. Reminds one of the always essential chapter within the “difficult patient” syllabus. 

[floridarob]

3 hours ago, Riobard said:

cranking out cheap laughs. 

At least mine are understandable 😉

 

4 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:

Could it be that he’s finally learned that “less is more”? 

Nope

[Riobard]

Orwell might agree that pejorative words employed by acting out narcissists posing as amateurish diagnosticians aiming to impress, terms such as “neuro-divergent”, when read by somebody having completed a one-year clinical rotation in the Autism Spectrum domain, albeit with much eye-rolling at the temerity of such a feeble burn attempt, would prompt the educated reader to stand by the ideology that some are indeed more equal than others. 

I cannot recall the many other examples that put me to snoozing but there a few terms I fail to grasp, so my only complaint is the call to endure the annoying grandiosity of another sex tourist. 

One doesn’t need a glossary to comprehend the grandstanding centrality of an insufferable troll.

There is hope for Aspergers et al.

In contrast, Tourettes-grade incessant dogged entry of mindnumbingly boring quips as if This American Life for some exists exclusively here since 1984? Sad, but palliative. 

Narcissism? Not much potential for changing spots on that farm animal. Just another Orwellian paradox. Shit out; shit out.

I realize this is all veering towards the Sandbox. This is what absurd censoring of the OP came to. 

[paborn]

Lord, I now know why it's best to "fly over the cuckoo's nest" rather than land. 

first, I am a sex tourist. As are you and every one of us here and in the Thai forum. I have been to Thailand 38 times and do not look for a steady there because it's too.

Second and final - I like Dominicans. I enjoy the country, the food and the culture. Having a steady allows one to go to concerts, jazz clubs, movies. etc. Because one is not planning around visitations.  You do you. I posted only to confirm that, yes, some of us do things differently.

oh, and my first boyfriend was brown, my cuban as white as snow ( probably why he survived without papers ) , my third normal Dominican copper and my guy now is black and is part BWi. it's not about race, it is about culture, learning Spanish , and appreciating their history

[Latbear4blk]

37 minutes ago, paborn said:

Lord, I now know why it's best to "fly over the cuckoo's nest" rather than land. 

first, I am a sex tourist. As are you and every one of us here and in the Thai forum. I have been to Thailand 38 times and do not look for a steady there because it's too.

Second and final - I like Dominicans. I enjoy the country, the food and the culture. Having a steady allows one to go to concerts, jazz clubs, movies. etc. Because one is not planning around visitations.  You do you. I posted only to confirm that, yes, some of us do things differently.

oh, and my first boyfriend was brown, my cuban as white as snow ( probably why he survived without papers ) , my third normal Dominican copper and my guy now is black and is part BWi. it's not about race, it is about culture, learning Spanish , and appreciating their history

There are countless legit ways to enjoy traveling and sex tourism; the key word is respect. My beef in this thread is about the half-brainers (primarily American, but not necessarily) who travel around expecting others to learn their mindset instead of showing respect and curiosity for local uses. 

It is not just pointing fingers. Of course, I find it intolerable when someone brags about it, like the post that triggered my reaction in this thread. However, everyone naturally tends to cling to their own culture to interpret situations, forgetting that your social/cultural assumptions are not universally valid. But there is a significant difference between being a prepotent bully and an imperfect human able to self-reflect and learn. 

[Riobard]

I might be inclined to say, @BlkSuperman, that it’s sad that such a discussion was ever needed here, that any uppity narcissistic fuckwad here spewing shade on a genuinely sweet fellow like you put you in a position where you might feel you had to justify yourself. But, man, your posts are so uplifting and affirmative! Such a breath of fresh air, particularly needed as the tiresome handful of directionless trolls skulking about on the board rarely volitionally go out to pasture, far too occupied turning their life over to tracking you along with pathetic claims of proximity. Poor souls might try on some of your positivity and give their fingers a rest. LOL

[BlkSuperman]

9 minutes ago, Riobard said:

I might be inclined to say, @BlkSuperman, that it’s sad that such a discussion was ever needed here, that any uppity narcissistic fuckwad here spewing shade on a genuinely sweet fellow like you put you in a position where you might feel you had to justify yourself. 

No, I didn't think anyone was "COMING 4 ME" and I didn't think anyone was being rude in their responses.  I just went into my explanations because many ppl here live through our posts and a few years ago, we didn't have all of the negativity here. 

This was and still can be a really nice place to come for information to help plan and navigate trips that were being taken abroad.

I laugh cause I had searched hundreds of sites before my trip to Brazil, but when I came across this site, I knew I had to join because of all the like minded sluts who had posted and detailed their sordid Rio sex-capades. After reading this forum, I was turned on and ready to swim to rio.

We all have had different experiences when we travel abroad and this forum helped me plan and have a successful trip to Brazil about 6 years ago.

I understand that there will always be contrasting points of view and I welcome that because you can learn a lot from someone else's experiences. 

As a frequent contributor here, I have to put on my BIG GIRL PANTIES and be able to roll with the comments and views of others even if they're not aligned with my thought processes. It's a part of life. The responses are usually done in a respectful manner. When they're not, OH WELL! WHAT CAN WE DO? 

Thanks for the compliments. I'm glad you like the posts and videos. Take care, my friend. 

[paborn]

6 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:

Escorts in Florida, Atlanta, Cali and NY are $300 -$500 an hour and when they get to your home they don't so half of what you asked them to leave you asking, WHY TF DID I WASTE MY MONEY ON THAT BS?

People who know about South America and these sexy Beautiful men will travel to SDQ and GIG to GET THEIR LIFE and sleep with the men of their dreams. 

It's not just gay men. In the straight social media groups, men fly to colombia to do the same thing. 

When I first joined this site, there were posts telling me what the going rate was in SDQ and Rio. I appreciated that info because as a newbie I had no idea what I should pay in the saunas or walking through the colonial zone. 

If anyone wants to go to those countries and pay $100 to $150US then that's their business and that's fine.

MY husband got pissed with me last time we were there because he wanted the tall sexy cop so bad.

When we turned back around to talk to the cop, my husband told me to tell him $75 per person.  We actually got Into an argument because I told him $40 per person. 

He declined at first and we left with my husband being hot under the collar with me because he wanted to be with the cop. One hour later The cop texted and said he'd accept the $40 per person, a total of $80 to have sex with us in our apartment.  

It's not bragging. I don't need to brag and have never made a disparaging remark about any of the men in SDQ or Rio. It's informing others the way I was informed before I took my first international trip. I could never look down on or talk bad about these guys because my ex and i escorted back in day and had ads advertising our services in Hot spots, David and Black inches magazine. Who TF am i to look down on someone when i did the same thing for years?

Do I do more for the ones who deliver? Hell yeah! Some come in the apartment and ask for shoes, socks underwear,  cologne, condoms, lube or a shirt that I'm wearing and I have no problem giving it to them or buying it for them when I'm there or back home. I do it often because I know the struggle first hand. 

One guy even told me that it would take him 5 hours or more to make $40US dollars in his country and was very thankful that he made that much.

Because my sex drive is so high, the guys who gave me exemplary sex were even hired multiple times in a day and made $120 -$160 a day.

Same thing with my barber husband. He comes over 3 times a day, each day im there and makes more in a 3 hour time frame than he would standing on his feet all day cutting hair for $10 a head.

When I read some of the posts here and ppl say they agreed on $75 to $100, those are the prices that the guys at Pacos ask. Catch those same guys in front of marlowes or walking the colonial zone and he won't be asking that much, I guarantee. 

you misunderstand me. The word JUST is important. I need some desire, they might be cute, amusing, etc. Their price is not my only consideration. But, then I'm 74!

[paborn]

I was actually responding to someone here who blathers and lashes out. I was giving my perspective based on my age of 74 , my 40 year of visiting SDQ 3 to 4 times a year and wanting a relationship above other considerations. That does not mean that those considerations are not of value or important. They are just part of the mix I consider.

[SolaceSoul]

8 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:

Escorts in Florida, Atlanta, Cali and NY are $300 -$500 an hour and when they get to your home they don't so half of what you asked them to leave you asking, WHY TF DID I WASTE MY MONEY ON THAT BS?

People who know about South America and these sexy Beautiful men will travel to SDQ and GIG to GET THEIR LIFE and sleep with the men of their dreams. 

It's not just gay men. In the straight social media groups, men fly to colombia to do the same thing. 

When I first joined this site, there were posts telling me what the going rate was in SDQ and Rio. I appreciated that info because as a newbie I had no idea what I should pay in the saunas or walking through the colonial zone. 

If anyone wants to go to those countries and pay $100 to $150US then that's their business and that's fine.

MY husband got pissed with me last time we were there because he wanted the tall sexy cop so bad.

When we turned back around to talk to the cop, my husband told me to tell him $75 per person.  We actually got Into an argument because I told him $40 per person. 

He declined at first and we left with my husband being hot under the collar with me because he wanted to be with the cop. One hour later The cop texted and said he'd accept the $40 per person, a total of $80 to have sex with us in our apartment.  

It's not bragging. I don't need to brag and have never made a disparaging remark about any of the men in SDQ or Rio. It's informing others the way I was informed before I took my first international trip. I could never look down on or talk bad about these guys because my ex and i escorted back in day and had ads advertising our services in Hot spots, David and Black inches magazine. Who TF am i to look down on someone when i did the same thing for years?

Do I do more for the ones who deliver? Hell yeah! Some come in the apartment and ask for shoes, socks underwear,  cologne, condoms, lube or a shirt that I'm wearing and I have no problem giving it to them or buying it for them when I'm there or back home. I do it often because I know the struggle first hand. 

One guy even told me that it would take him 5 hours or more to make $40US dollars in his country and was very thankful that he made that much.

Because my sex drive is so high, the guys who gave me exemplary sex were even hired multiple times in a day and made $120 -$160 a day.

Same thing with my barber husband. He comes over 3 times a day, each day im there and makes more in a 3 hour time frame than he would standing on his feet all day cutting hair for $10 a head.

When I read some of the posts here and ppl say they agreed on $75 to $100, those are the prices that the guys at Pacos ask. Catch those same guys in front of marlowes or walking the colonial zone and he won't be asking that much, I guarantee. 

To clear up any possible confusion you or another poster might have, the original criticisms from me and the other posters (LatBear, Paborn) about the “Ugly American” entitled behavior weren’t about you. They were aimed at the half-vaccinated poster. 

[Riobard]

10 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:

No, I didn't think anyone was "COMING 4 ME" and I didn't think anyone was being rude in their responses.  I just went into my explanations because many ppl here live through our posts and a few years ago, we didn't have all of the negativity here. 

This was and still can be a really nice place to come for information to help plan and navigate trips that were being taken abroad.

I laugh cause I had searched hundreds of sites before my trip to Brazil, but when I came across this site, I knew I had to join because of all the like minded sluts who had posted and detailed their sordid Rio sex-capades. After reading this forum, I was turned on and ready to swim to rio.

We all have had different experiences when we travel abroad and this forum helped me plan and have a successful trip to Brazil about 6 years ago.

I understand that there will always be contrasting points of view and I welcome that because you can learn a lot from someone else's experiences. 

As a frequent contributor here, I have to put on my BIG GIRL PANTIES and be able to roll with the comments and views of others even if they're not aligned with my thought processes. It's a part of life. The responses are usually done in a respectful manner. When they're not, OH WELL! WHAT CAN WE DO? 

Thanks for the compliments. I'm glad you like the posts and videos. Take care, my friend. 

If I have this right, somebody referenced you as deplorable, that somebody known for regularity narcissistically putting himself on a pedestal. I wouldn’t have considered that to be respectful. Sure, sometimes good decisions are made in the context of values-based disagreement, but that was not my read. The correct interpretation is an annihilation fantasy on the part of another member attempting to make himself feel better about being hemmed in regarding his own sexual interaction options. These useless troll types will skulk around attempting to hoover up your confidence and self-esteem.

This person also wrote having claimed to be in the same room as another member, not having ever been introduced in person, appraising that member as being a pathetic nobody not worth one iota of attention or positive regard. This sad sack fellow who identifies as hailing from America, is a desperate yet smooth operating (to those that may require a bit of exposure to see through the crap) fabricator reaching for attention. See what I mean about castigating and maligning others essentially seeking the same thing?

Backed into a corner, when gently questioned about the veracity of background, a narcissist may spontaneously claim status as a Harvard doctorate biological weaponry expert, as you decide about drinking the latte recently served before you. Alternatively, a miscreant narcissist may put forward the bald-faced lie of seeing (read that as stalking) in a common venue and appraising your moves, as mentioned above, in order to seek the upper limp-wristed hand in a spicy media exchange. 

There isn’t one single medical student seminar among countless I ran in which that person would not be conceptualized as grandiose and, more than likely, sociopathic. He isn’t the only one I’ve interacted with here that pursues social capital through outright mendacity regarding status, at the expense of others. As suggested above by real life examples, the similar bolt of cloth these idiots are cut from is clearly damaged. 

I also note that this person tends to open some passages by addressing selected other members with the qualifier that he does not typically see eye to eye with them, but exceptionality may apply in certain cases. This is nothing more than self-aggrandizing code for the assertion that his views are superior. It is a classic opener manifesting narcissism and if others don’t get it, I do. He will deign at times to give props, the context being that occasional regard for others is based solely on happenstance alignment with his perspective. He has described a close circle of similarly bitchy friends, and has sneered at the idea of forum members reaching out among their peers to socialize. 

The astute reader will also notice that a narcissist will tend to springboard off another’s opinion and inflate the negativity of the view contained therein, as has happened here and previously. He needs to hide behind the initiatory move of another poster, in this case, a member’s comment clearly aimed at critique of your LRD playbook and then riffing off of that far more judgementally with his inevitable superior posturing. This creates the illusion of substance in viewpoint and the apparent wannabe Santo Domingo cultural aficionado gets dragged down into the muck in relation to an alliance that Ms Southern Belle full-of-herself sucked him in to. Only a naïve person would buy that a narcissist is capable of true sympatico. You won’t see a narcissist step up and present his values as a separate written piece unless he has minimally one other to count on for alliance. Collateral damage is a bonus for him. 

So then, the default was calling out two of your countrymen, I perceived as hyperventilating about your approach to consensual fun, with one stone. As myself a recipient of criticism sourced from a jackass that thinks he’s better than me, my tendency is not to support the delusion of dominance, of ascendency, myopically held by another. It’s a dual disservice. I think it’s great to be thick/skinned, give the benefit of the doubt regarding motive, but there are lines crossed within social media that shouldn’t be. I won’t be labelled by a narcissist. He can fcuk off. It’s not hard, and can be edifying, to go toe-to-toe with a characterologically pathological jackass. It certainly doesn’t represent taking his content seriously and there would be no likelihood of a course correction. At 50-ish, it has been locked in and will simply bloat out to a caricature of itself. 

You are right, drill down for positive essence and don’t push for control that isn’t accessible. Again, I cannot sign off without emphasizing admiration for your perspective and your amazing forbearance and skill in terms of the curves life throws at you. You can also clearly take care of yourself. We all got to say our piece and we all have the prerogative to value others’ content as we see fit. Blessings.

[SolaceSoul]

1 hour ago, Riobard said:

If I have this right, somebody referenced you as deplorable

No, you don’t have it right, Brainiac. No one here referred to BlkSuperman as “deplorable”. That was referring to the comments made here by another poster — to which both LatBear and I responded.

So, the rest of your usual nonsensical long-winded blather is invalidated. 

 

 

 

 

[BlkSuperman]

1 hour ago, Riobard said:

If I have this right, somebody referenced you as deplorable, 

A deplorable? I can deal with that. As long as I'M NOT CALLED A SLUT OR CHEAP WHORE.  Had I been called those things then the gloves would have come off and i would have gone into a tirade because WE ALL KNOW IM NOT EITHER OF THOSE! Lol! 

Have a BLESSED AND AMAZING WEEK GUYS!

[Riobard]

49 minutes ago, BlkSuperman said:

Have a BLESSED AND AMAZING WEEK GUYS!

Speaking of deplorable I’ve been getting these grey background ignorable prompts almost each time I post. Wonder what that’s about? Oh well, out of sight the out of their mind annihilation fantasies, out of earshot the tantrum-y foot-stamping. Wonder who’s drinking that Kool-aid. Too bad about the waste of space, that narrow band taking up my screen &c.