PattayaMale Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 I certainly don't mean to be disrespectful. The story of a 16 year old boy being whipped by his girlfriend's father is indeed sad. And it probably is not appropriate from me to post the following. However, I am. The boy that was beaten has his pictures posted in Pattaya Daily News. Beaten 16 year old It is hard to believe that a 16 year old Thai has such a beautiful build. Also that the mother of the boy will not press charges against the boy's girlfriend's father Quote
Guest Oogleman Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 That father is an animal. Im sure the daughter told him nothing was going on. Quote
Guest lvdkeyes Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 That boy's mother needs to be convinced to press charges against this asshole. This kid is going to grow up feeling that his mother won't protect him while she has a moral obligation to do so. Quote
Guest laurence Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 The story sounds fishy. Most likely he was caught by the father screwing the daughter. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 It is hard to believe that a 16 year old Thai has such a beautiful build. You pervert. I noticed the same thing. Great pecs for a 16 year old. Let me know if you can find his phone number and birthday. Quote
Guest lvdkeyes Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 You pervert. I noticed the same thing. Great pecs for a 16 year old. Let me know if you can find his phone number and birthday. He is FUCKING SIXTEEN YEARS OLD. NOT LEGAL IN THAILAND. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 He is FUCKING SIXTEEN YEARS OLD. NOT LEGAL IN THAILAND. Well now, who would have guessed that? Why do you suppose I was interested in his birthday? Do you think I wanted to send him a cake? Geez!!! Quote
Gaybutton Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 Actually, 16 is legal in Thailand, provided no money exchanges hands. The trouble is, who's going to believe a 16 year old is with a farang four times his age, but no money exchanged hands, even if it's true? 18 and older, folks . . . please. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 …and, it doesn’t even have to be money. It can be anything that can possibly be considered as compensation -- food, a nights lodging, anything. Quote
PattayaMale Posted March 13, 2009 Author Posted March 13, 2009 He is FUCKING SIXTEEN YEARS OLD. NOT LEGAL IN THAILAND. He certainly looks older than 16. By the way is it illegal to say a 16 year old has a great build? You should have seen me when I was 16. I was voted best build by my high school classmates. Also voted as having best hair. Time changes things for some people Quote
Guest Geezer Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 You should have seen me when I was 16. I was voted best build by my high school classmates. Also voted as having best hair. Photos!! Photos!! Quote
Guest lvdkeyes Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 He certainly looks older than 16. By the way is it illegal to say a 16 year old has a great build? Of course, it is not illegal to comment on a boy's build. The implication of asking for the boy's phone number is that more than a comment was intended. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 The implication of asking for the boy's phone number is that more than a comment was intended. Indeed? And what implication do you suppose was intended when I expressed an interest in his birthday? I have encountered under age boys many times in the bars, noted their birthdays and returned when they were legal. I even talked to a monk (gasp!) with a good body at Wat Chai and gave him my card so he could call me when his term was finished. He did, and we saw each other for some time. My abhorrence of underage sex is well known. I have often been told I am paranoid because of the precautions I take. It is not because of my high moral character, but my fear of Thai jails. I shall not respond to any further comments in this thread as I will not sully this board with such things. Quote
PattayaMale Posted March 13, 2009 Author Posted March 13, 2009 Of course, it is not illegal to comment on a boy's build. The implication of asking for the boy's phone number is that more than a comment was intended. In my opinion you are way too sensitive to a comic remark about a 16 year old in the context of this post. It makes me wonder why. Surely you have your reason, and I am certainly not wanting to get into that. But let me give you 2 examples of harmless comic banter that involved me. When my Thai friend and I went to visit northern Thailand we took a private tour into the hills and there were 3 young kids whose job it seemed was to get paid for having their pictures taken in native dress, 2 girls and a boy. I had four pictures taken. One was a group of all of us taken by the tour guide, then a picture with each kid separately. While taking a picture with the one boy, my Thai friend said in Thai to the lady tour guide and then in English to me, "Ah, future gay." Since he and I were new in our relationship, it made me feel embarrassed. But everyone laughed. Now I understand that there is a lot of joking that goes on. It is harmless and does not have any intent, other than joking. The other example is a little while ago after my friend's brother had a baby. His wife and his brother were changing the baby's diapers at our house and his mother and father were standing there. My friend said that his brother knew that this was his baby for sure. I asked "how". His brother, the baby's father, said, "He has a big dick". His whole family laughed and I stammered a bit shocked by the comment "Oh." The jokes escalated from that. Again there was no intent other than joking. Some people seem to be damaged (I am talking about me) by the constant right wing conservative propaganda that I grew up hearing, that any comment about gay means terrible things; child molester, monster, mentally ill.........I am sure most reading this board can add their own. It has taken a lifetime for me to understand that this is BS. That being gay means none of it. And I strongly feel that many of my generation are still dealing with that guilt and at times feel the need to spout these same stupid ideas because they too have a damaged psyche and still do not realize it fully. By the way. I thought Geezer's comic comment was just that a joke. And I am sure that those reading my post can see I was dancing all around the issue because I was afraid someone would say.....see he wants sex with under legal age 16 year old boy. When I was actually thinking, "Damn I wish he was 18 and working in a bar in Pattaya". At the same time I really think that the abuse this boy suffered at the hands of an adult who whipped him is tragic. And much much worse than anything said here on a gay forum by far. Quote
Gaybutton Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 my friend's brother had a baby. Wow! And that didn't even make the headlines? I wish I was there to see that! I think most people can tell the difference between a serious statement and someone just kidding around or joking, as I was doing just now. While I can understand how the intent of Geezer's post could have been misinterpreted, I can tell you that knowing Geezer as I do, and I'll guarantee that any of his friends would say the same thing, probably nobody on this planet is more cautious about taking an under-age boy. Geezer won't take a boy at all unless he thoroughly checks the boy's ID. If the boy is so much as one day younger than 18 years old, Geezer won't take him, and I'm not exaggerating. Quote
KhorTose Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 It has taken a lifetime for me to understand that this is BS. That being gay means none of it. I think you are absolutely correct, but consider this. One reason why there is so much propaganda from the right wing is that Pedos DO hide in the gay community. Yes, they are not gay, but many gays refuse to denounce or try to stop the activities of these people who give us such a bad name. Sort of "live and let live", or not my problem type of thinking. So I do not know about others, but I am senitive on this subject, not only for the terrible harm it does to a child, but because it gives the right wing wackos ammunition to use against us. We should not tolerate these cheeps in our community. However, I too did not see any harm in Geezer's comments. Quote
Rogie Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 Just read the article in the Pattaya Daily News (tried yesterday but for some reason I couldn't load it) The man in question used a whip - just lying around the house it would seem. Even in Thailand you have to choose your friends carefully. 4 comments farther on, in post #5 as soon as I'd read it I roared with laughter (what the Americans refer to as Lol). Some of you are suffering from SOHF (sense of humour failure). Quote