To those who ejaculate more than once a day

[unicorn]

I was talking to the partner of a friend over dinner the other day, and he mentioned that he sometimes goes to bathhouses and orgasms multiple times a day. I can't really understand that. I can't really ejaculate more than once a day. If I get super turned-on, I can probably orgasm several hours later, but nothing, or only drops will come out, and the orgasm therefore isn't that satisfying for me. In fact, for me to have a really great orgasm, I have to leave 2 days between orgasms (though I can have a perfectly acceptable one every 24 hours). What about you? Can you do it multiple times a day? Does much come out if you're not rested? Is it really satisfying if you do it multiple times a day?

[floridarob]

When I was younger, in my 30's....could do 7 times a day. Now I'm in my 50's, taking different medicines for blood pressure, etc.....I'm lucky with once a day.

[Riobard]

8 hours ago, unicorn said:

I was talking to the partner of a friend over dinner the other day, and he mentioned that he sometimes goes to bathhouses and orgasms multiple times a day. I can't really understand that. I can't really ejaculate more than once a day. If I get super turned-on, I can probably orgasm several hours later, but nothing, or only drops will come out, and the orgasm therefore isn't that satisfying for me. In fact, for me to have a really great orgasm, I have to leave 2 days between orgasms (though I can have a perfectly acceptable one every 24 hours). What about you? Can you do it multiple times a day? Does much come out if you're not rested? Is it really satisfying if you do it multiple times a day?

You are describing my pattern exactly, though I haven’t assessed semen volume differential because I don’t customarily masturbate more than once a day or more. I just find that I coast on a pleasurable orgasm for a day or more before sexual desire ramps up again to pursue the full sexual response cycle, though I may spend time structuring erotica, with clear physiological arousal accompanying this, to utilize at the subsequent self-pleasuring to completion.

I don’t pursue an orgasm interactively more than once a day when travelling to curated trade settings. Once in a blue moon at a strip club I’ll have two successive orgasms within minutes during a really hot private dance. That reality presents an anomaly in terms of my typical ejaculatory frequency pattern and seems to additionally defy the construction of a clear theoretical framework for refractory period considerations. 

I think that the body of related research suggests a vast complexity of factors behind variation in male orgasm refractory period. Also, the capacity to shorten refractory period is often conflated with superior sexual function; I disagree entirely, and that assumption may impede the overall research agenda because it is oriented to correcting a deficiency. 

[caeron]

Most days it's once, but every few weeks or so, I get a real rush of horniness and I can go 4 times a day. The first is best, but they're all good.

The Wellbutrin I take seems to have really helped me on that front after a late life ADHD diagnosis.

[PeterRS]

5 hours ago, caeron said:

Most days it's once, but every few weeks or so, I get a real rush of horniness and I can go 4 times a day. The first is best, but they're all good.

Isn't age a factor? As I wrote some time ago, about 6 years ago on one of my regular visits to Taipei, I had an orgy of hits on a couple of the apps. One day I had arranged two hook ups - one at lunchtime and one late afternoon. Then after breakfast, another guy wrote that he'd be passing by my hotel at around 11:00 and pleaase, please could we meet! We did and he was great. By early evening I was already quite exhausted when a student from the nearby University asked if he could come round about 9:00pm. He looked ridiculously cute and I gave in. Another great encounter. Four times in one day was and remains a record for with age creeping up I certainly could not do that now. Nor indeed do I have the interest for meeting up with more than one guy each day when away from Thailand. Thankfully a heart MRI scan last year showed absolutely no abnormalities and so I am on no medication! Just a sex drive!

[Keithambrose]

I agree re age. I am happy with once a day now. Also medication is a factor. Anxiety medication reduces sex drive, I found, or at least ability to cum.  Erections, no problem, interestingly, can still have multiple erections. So no problem, after cumming, being turned on several times later in the day!

[caeron]

18 hours ago, PeterRS said:

Isn't age a factor? As I wrote some time ago, about 6 years ago on one of my regular visits to Taipei, I had an orgy of hits on a couple of the apps. One day I had arranged two hook ups - one at lunchtime and one late afternoon. Then after breakfast, another guy wrote that he'd be passing by my hotel at around 11:00 and pleaase, please could we meet! We did and he was great. By early evening I was already quite exhausted when a student from the nearby University asked if he could come round about 9:00pm. He looked ridiculously cute and I gave in. Another great encounter. Four times in one day was and remains a record for with age creeping up I certainly could not do that now. Nor indeed do I have the interest for meeting up with more than one guy each day when away from Thailand. Thankfully a heart MRI scan last year showed absolutely no abnormalities and so I am on no medication! Just a sex drive!

 

perhaps, but I turn 60 this year. I think the biggest change for me was getting very serious about exercise and weight loss. As I got healthier, my ability to perform increased.

I do high intensity interval training with a personal trainer 3x a week. I'm lying in a pool of my own sweat when I finish because he pushes me HARD. The results, however, show. 

But, I know that suffering is critical to maintaining my health after too many years of neglect so I keep at it. I do have high blood pressure and anxiety, but both are pretty well treated with medication.

[gayinpattaya]

Just wait for a week. You become dangerous. 

[reader]

16 hours ago, caeron said:

...when I finish because he pushes me HARD.

You're making many readers jealous. 🙂

[maump]

At 65, I can still cum more than once a day if I try, but lack the desire to do so.  at home wanking, every other day is fine.  On a sexcation, I often have sex more than once a day, but being verse I don't pop when I bottom.  I save it for topping.   I have had 4 men in a day and only popped inside one.  the strong drive to have sex is not there like it was years ago, but I'm not wasting my vacation not having a good time with fabulous men that I cannot experience at home....

[Suckrates]

Back in the day, I was a total whore, frequently backroom sex clubs at every chance I got.   I wouldnt miss a weekend "going out" to the club to suck cock......

But I was discussing with a friend the other day, now at 72 I am perfectly content to stay home on the weekend,  in my pjs, get into bed  relax and watch TV.  I too seldom think of sex unless I see pics of hot guys with big bulges or if I watch porn on occasion.   I just dont have the Desire. 

To the same token, I used to jerk off a few times daily, usually in conjunction with porn watching, but now I can go several weeks without masturbating,  but when I do, I can still come 2 or 3 times in a day if I choose....

Aging is designed to keep you in check.... I dont mind it.       But I still, ON OCCASION frequent the sex club for the eye candy, and if I get lucky, its the cherry on the cake.  

[scott456]

Back in college years, a roommate of mine masturbated and ejaculated everytime he took a shower, so it was at least once a day.  He would also do it in his bedroom.  He moaned whenever he ejaculated, so I heard everything, and that was a lot.   LOL.    He seemed to still have a lot of energy for all other things: sports, classes and social groups etc.  I couldn't do that.

[Thomas_88]

My hub fucks me, cums insides me, stays hard, starts within seconds without pulling out, cums again. Last time it was three times but he says he could do it five times or more. He says it's very satisfying. He pulls out because he doesn't want to hurt me (I have a muscle disease). 

[maump]

On 3/11/2023 at 11:40 AM, Thomas_88 said:

My hub fucks me, cums insides me, stays hard, starts within seconds without pulling out, cums again. Last time it was three times but he says he could do it five times or more. He says it's very satisfying. He pulls out because he doesn't want to hurt me (I have a muscle disease). 

how old is the husband?  I Was with 2 "horny" 20+ yro Filipinos and was not that lucky!

[Thomas_88]

Forty-seven, I also forgot to tell that the second and third time he cums there's still a lot coming out (at least five milliliters).

[Mavica]

The most consecutive orgasms I've had is four ... within an hour's time.  On the kitchen floor with a stunning partner whose oral skills were extraordinary.  More often, it's been twice a day - at best (a long time ago).  When I was in high school, 16 years of age, an 8th grader living downstairs from me would sometimes blow me twice a day .. for about a year before the family moved away.  All he did was suck, no fucking.  But, what an ass he had.  Someone taught him well!

[maump]

When I was a teenager, ONCE i jacked 7 times in a row over the period of an hour or so.  very sore, never did again...