Popular Post TotallyOz Posted February 9, 2023 Popular Post Posted February 9, 2023 Pre-Covid I met a guy online and fell madly in lust. I met him on an app but followed him on Instagram. Covid came and I was scared to go out and he got a BF and was off the market. For 3 years I have followed his every move still in lust. About 4 months back, he broke up and we started chatting heavily. Now, LINE at least 20 times a day from morning till night. Last week he met for dinner and we had a great time but no sex. I told him I could wait till he was ready. This week, he said he has Sunday off and will spend the weekend with me. I am more than just a bit excited. This is a potential true love. The guy I'll spend the rest of my life with. I may get his name tattoo plastered on my body. Should I go ahead and apply for immigration for a visit to the US? I am beyond giddy. Riobard, paulsf, tm_nyc and 7 others 10 Quote
Members scott456 Posted February 9, 2023 Members Posted February 9, 2023 What is he going to do for a living when he moves to the U.S.? Quote
Popular Post vinapu Posted February 9, 2023 Popular Post Posted February 9, 2023 1 hour ago, TotallyOz said: This is a potential true love. The guy I'll spend the rest of my life with. you mean all that time from now till Easter ? insane ! Ruthrieston, reader, Riobard and 3 others 6 Quote
TotallyOz Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 9 minutes ago, scott456 said: What is he going to do for a living when he moves to the U.S.? He would be a stay at home dad. I'll work and he can take care of the dogs. 1 minute ago, vinapu said: you mean all that time from now till Easter ? insane ! Crazy in love? Love is never crazy. Ruthrieston, Ryanqqq and Boy69 3 Quote
floridarob Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 1 hour ago, TotallyOz said: For 3 years I have followed his every move still in lust. AKA: Stalking 😳 alvnv, Ryanqqq, TotallyOz and 1 other 4 Quote
alvnv Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 2 hours ago, TotallyOz said: He would be a stay at home dad. I'll work and he can take care of the dogs. Crazy in love? Love is never crazy. How does you BF feel about this? TotallyOz 1 Quote
TotallyOz Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 2 hours ago, alvnv said: How does you BF feel about this? to be determined. floridarob 1 Quote
Members scott456 Posted February 9, 2023 Members Posted February 9, 2023 Tell us about your bf so we can decide if he is any good. Big dick, big nipples, tight ass? 😁 MarcSingap and reader 2 Quote
Members sydneyboy1 Posted February 9, 2023 Members Posted February 9, 2023 3 hours ago, scott456 said: Tell us about your bf so we can decide if he is any good. Big dick, big nipples, tight ass? 😁 How old is he? Quote
zombie Posted February 10, 2023 Posted February 10, 2023 "He would be a stay at home dad. I'll work..." You mean whilst you're working to keep him he would have plenty of time to entertain others.... Good luck! -Been there, done that! Quote
Popular Post TotallyOz Posted February 10, 2023 Author Popular Post Posted February 10, 2023 15 hours ago, scott456 said: Tell us about your bf so we can decide if he is any good. Big dick, big nipples, tight ass? 😁 He told me to ask you about your dick, your preference for role play (whips, chains, or rope), and your tolerance for pain. He said most people that would ask that kind of a question is a bit of a pussy so he expects your tolerance to be low. Tartegogo, reader, kokopelli3 and 6 others 1 8 Quote
Members Riobard Posted February 10, 2023 Members Posted February 10, 2023 22 hours ago, TotallyOz said: He would be a stay at home dad. I'll work and he can take care of the dogs. Yeah because dogs in the communal park don’t break the ice, are adept at cock-blocking, and represent the only species obsessed with new ass? Get an aquarium? alvnv and Tartegogo 2 Quote
MarcSingap Posted February 10, 2023 Posted February 10, 2023 I feel little sad to read some of the comments here. To fall in love is beautiful, and should be respected. Of course, considering the cultural gap between you and the boy, the relationship maybe different from a one you could have with another american guy. But if you feel deep love and if your boyfriend wants to stay with you because you take care of him, this can work perfectly (this is how many straight couples in Asia are living. The "romantic loving couple" is a very western culture way of living). I would personnaly recommend you to be careful and spend as much time as you can with him in Thailand, before considering moving him to the US. Tartegogo, alvnv and vinapu 3 Quote
Members Popular Post Tartegogo Posted February 10, 2023 Members Popular Post Posted February 10, 2023 45 minutes ago, MarcSingap said: considering the cultural gap between you and the boy, the relationship maybe different from a one you could have with another american guy. Nothing against your post, I agree wholeheartedly, just wanted to add as a reminder that cultural gaps can easily be overcome by open minded people. My husband and I are celebrating our 20 years together soon. We come from opposite sides of the planet from 2 cultures that never interacted in history. Lucky, MarcSingap, floridarob and 5 others 8 Quote
Members Lucky Posted February 10, 2023 Members Posted February 10, 2023 So, @TotallyOz, you have decided to move to the US? TotallyOz, Riobard and floridarob 1 2 Quote
Members Riobard Posted February 10, 2023 Members Posted February 10, 2023 8 hours ago, Tartegogo said: Nothing against your post, I agree wholeheartedly, just wanted to add as a reminder that cultural gaps can easily be overcome by open minded people. My husband and I are celebrating our 20 years together soon. We come from opposite sides of the planet from 2 cultures that never interacted in history. One of you is Mumbo? (from Happy Feet) Quote
Boy69 Posted February 13, 2023 Posted February 13, 2023 Is he Thai ? How old is he ? Does he works ? Quote
vinapu Posted February 13, 2023 Posted February 13, 2023 4 hours ago, Boy69 said: Does he works ? having TotallyOz as boyfriend why would he work ? Tartegogo, TotallyOz, MarcSingap and 1 other 1 3 Quote
Popular Post TotallyOz Posted February 13, 2023 Author Popular Post Posted February 13, 2023 5 hours ago, Boy69 said: Is he Thai ? How old is he ? Does he works ? Yes, 20's, yes and has never asked for money (just a loving husband who caters after him night and day) reader, Tartegogo, Ryanqqq and 3 others 4 2 Quote
MarcSingap Posted February 13, 2023 Posted February 13, 2023 2 hours ago, TotallyOz said: Yes, 20's, yes and has never asked for money (just a loving husband who caters after him night and day) You let him work ? Really ? But why ? Quote
Popular Post TotallyOz Posted February 13, 2023 Author Popular Post Posted February 13, 2023 Just now, MarcSingap said: You let him work ? Really ? But why ? Everyone needs to work. It builds character. My BF of 20 years works full time. He is a truck driver. I can't have someone just sitting around waiting on me day and night. Not good for them and I can't have other visitors. floridarob, fedssocr, ChristianPFC and 3 others 6 Quote
MarcSingap Posted February 13, 2023 Posted February 13, 2023 11 minutes ago, TotallyOz said: Everyone needs to work. It builds character. My BF of 20 years works full time. He is a truck driver. I can't have someone just sitting around waiting on me day and night. Not good for them and I can't have other visitors. I was thinking of him working with you. Or you have a business together. Maybe I got confused. Ok. Quote
Boy69 Posted February 13, 2023 Posted February 13, 2023 2 hours ago, TotallyOz said: Everyone needs to work. It builds character. My BF of 20 years works full time. He is a truck driver. I can't have someone just sitting around waiting on me day and night. Not good for them and I can't have other visitors. Sorry I got confused if you have BF for 20 years how can this guy can be your boyfriend too ? Or maybe you meant your ex BF of 20 years? TotallyOz 1 Quote
Popular Post floridarob Posted February 13, 2023 Popular Post Posted February 13, 2023 1 hour ago, Boy69 said: Sorry I got confused if you have BF for 20 years how can this guy can be your boyfriend too ? Or maybe you meant your ex BF of 20 years? Don't read too much into it....who says you can only have 1 bf when we have multiple TV's..... Ruthrieston, alvnv, TotallyOz and 3 others 3 3 Quote
TotallyOz Posted February 13, 2023 Author Posted February 13, 2023 3 hours ago, Boy69 said: Sorry I got confused if you have BF for 20 years how can this guy can be your boyfriend too ? Or maybe you meant your ex BF of 20 years? No one is limited to only one BF. Lots of love to be shared. 1 hour ago, floridarob said: Don't read too much into it....who says you can only have 1 bf when we have multiple TV's..... I like the TV analogy. Correct! Tartegogo and floridarob 2 Quote
