Awful sexual experience

[Shonen]

A guy from hornet sent me a heart. Looking at his private photos intrigued me, as his equipment went past his belly button. He looked rather skinny but I like skinny twink types.

When he messaged me before coming over he insisted on lots of nipple play. Ok, I’m not into that but I’ll give it a try.

We agreed that I would smoke him and that was it. Well he moaned quite loudly as I played with his nipples. When I tried doing much of anything with his package he would push me away and direct me towards his nipples. 
 

It got to the point where I told him I was paying him and I want him to do what I wanted. 
 

So I told him to just give me a facial near my mouth. Well he did and it felt like a lot so I went to the bathroom mirror to look at the results. At first I couldn’t process that it was all blood, it looked like bright red lip stick.

It was pretty gross. I wiped it off and there was some blood in my mouth. I know you’re not supposed to use mouthwash after oral but I felt I had to.

Luckily I didn’t let him ejaculate in my mouth. I’m sure it would have tasted awful. There is some blood splatter on my bed sheet also.

I told him about the blood and that there’s something wrong with him. But I’m sure he was aware of it. He just acted like nothing was wrong. I paid him and said goodbye.

im sticking with bar boys for the time being and staying off the apps. Be careful out there.

 

 

 

 

[reader]

Sorry to hear about this.  

Did this happen in Bangkok or Pattaya?

[Riobard]

Well, heart emoticons are blood red. Could be a number of things. I guess we should now request recent splooge photos prior to hiring. Blood stains on fabric are a bitch to get out. Shower a better location.

[gayinpattaya]

That's really horrible. 
If it was in Pattaya, most of the bar boys are on the apps. 
Also, for an example. One of the biggest bars in Jomtien Complex that have many freelance boys, actually know nothing about them. They are not paid a salary, and the owner doesn't even know their names. He doesn't even have an interest in learning their names. He gives zero shits. The only qualification to work there is to show the cashier their ID card to verify they are over 18 years of age. Other bars are exactly the same, but not all.

I think these bad experiences can happen with bar boys or freelance or just anyone. Put it up to bad luck.
I am always happy when boys I know tell me they had their blood tests ect from Swing. Thankfully many are responsible for their health.  

 

[Shonen]

1 hour ago, reader said:

Sorry to hear about this.  

Did this happen in Bangkok or Pattaya?

Yes, the boy said he was a freelancer and he lives near Tukom.

[Mavica]

1 hour ago, Shonen said:

A guy from hornet sent me a heart. Looking at his private photos intrigued me, as his equipment went past his belly button. He looked rather skinny but I like skinny twink types.

When he messaged me before coming over he insisted on lots of nipple play. Ok, I’m not into that but I’ll give it a try.

We agreed that I would smoke him and that was it. Well he moaned quite loudly as I played with his nipples. When I tried doing much of anything with his package he would push me away and direct me towards his nipples. 
 

It got to the point where I told him I was paying him and I want him to do what I wanted. 
 

So I told him to just give me a facial near my mouth. Well he did and it felt like a lot so I went to the bathroom mirror to look at the results. At first I couldn’t process that it was all blood, it looked like bright red lip stick.

It was pretty gross. I wiped it off and there was some blood in my mouth. I know you’re not supposed to use mouthwash after oral but I felt I had to.

Luckily I didn’t let him ejaculate in my mouth. I’m sure it would have tasted awful. There is some blood splatter on my bed sheet also.

I told him about the blood and that there’s something wrong with him. But I’m sure he was aware of it. He just acted like nothing was wrong. I paid him and said goodbye.

im sticking with bar boys for the time being and staying off the apps. Be careful out there.

You've probably considered having a blood test (no pun inteded) in the coming days, as a precaution.

[gayinpattaya]

10 minutes ago, Shonen said:

Yes, the boy said he was a freelancer and he lives near Tukom.

There are lots of cheap rooms around that area of South Pattaya. Many boys live over that way. 

Maybe go get a some PEP, just to be safe. There a clinic about 200 meters up Thepprasit Road.  

[Shonen]

Yes, I think I’ll go to Pulse on Second road tomorrow.  

[vinapu]

5 hours ago, Shonen said:

I know you’re not supposed to use mouthwash after oral

 

I need some education , why is that ?

I understand one should not be doing oral right after brushing teeth as there's possibility of some microbleeding caused by energetic brushing but mouthwash ? 

[DutchDork]

12 minutes ago, vinapu said:

I need some education , why is that ?

I understand one should not be doing oral right after brushing teeth as there's possibility of some microbleeding caused by energetic brushing but mouthwash ? 

https://www.doctork.nyc/blog/2017/5/28/smarter-fellatio#:~:text=DO rinse your mouth with,or after performing oral sex. 

https://www.webmd.com/oral-health/news/20161220/mouthwash-helps-kill-gonorrhea-germs-in-mouth-throat-study 

Not sure if they are reliable, but good to read as well. 

[floridarob]

5 hours ago, gayinpattaya said:

I am always happy when boys I know tell me they had their blood tests ect from Swing.

Ironic that you think like this, considering a nose swab uses the same science 🤨

[vinapu]

37 minutes ago, DutchDork said:

https://www.doctork.nyc/blog/2017/5/28/smarter-fellatio#:~:text=DO rinse your mouth with,or after performing oral sex. 

https://www.webmd.com/oral-health/news/20161220/mouthwash-helps-kill-gonorrhea-germs-in-mouth-throat-study 

Not sure if they are reliable, but good to read as well. 

thank you , that's exactly what I thought but still I'm perplexed why :

6 hours ago, Shonen said:

 I know you’re not supposed to use mouthwash after oral

 

[vinapu]

23 minutes ago, floridarob said:

Ironic that you think like this, considering a nose swab uses the same science 🤨

must be some religious reason , no?

[alvnv]

5 hours ago, vinapu said:

must be some religious reason , no?

Must not be kosher of halal 🙂

[Shonen]

So 14 hours later I take my first post exposure prophylactic med from Pulse clinic. I should get the man tested to see if he’s positive but he’s not responding to my messages.

[vinapu]

5 hours ago, Shonen said:

I should get the man tested to see if he’s positive but he’s not responding to my messages.

that may be tall order unless you ensure him you will pay for all expenses related

[spoon]

How did the blood is all over your face? A cut on his dick?

[Shonen]

4 hours ago, vinapu said:

that may be tall order unless you ensure him you will pay for all expenses related

I offered to pay for expenses and give him 1,000 baht.

[Shonen]

3 hours ago, spoon said:

How did the blood is all over your face? A cut on his dick?

I’m not sure as I didn’t examine it closely after it happened. Either he had a cut, or his prostate is bleeding inside. Maybe he has cancer, whatever is wrong with him, it appears serious.

This is the first time I’ve encountered blood during sex. 

[Latbear4blk]

I am truly confused. You sucked his dick and afterwards you asked him to bust on your face. Correct? How come you needed to see yourself on the mirror to see the blood? If there was blood in your mouth, how come you did not taste it? Blood has a strong metallic flavor, quite different from cum. 

I have pumped out blood from my partner ass plenty of times, but blood coming from an ejaculation? This s a first time I hear anything alike. You should have taken pics for medicine magazines (or creepy porn).

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, Shonen said:

I offered to pay for expenses and give him 1,000 baht.

that's gentlemanly but I meant expenses of treatment , not just testing. That's problem of poor people worldwide , they don't seek treatment even if they know something is wrong because they know treatment will be unaffordable so why bother. They could be reason for his reluctance.

Certainly he knew something is wrong with his cock , it's why he steer you toward nipple play away from his tools

[zoomomancs]

Some 53 years ago, when I was 17, I was pissing blood sometimes. I think it may have been a cut inside the penis from my dick rubbing against my tracksuit as I was running a lot. Whatever it was, it stopped, and I am still here. 

[gayinpattaya]

2 hours ago, Latbear4blk said:

I am truly confused. You sucked his dick and afterwards you asked him to bust on your face. Correct? How come you needed to see yourself on the mirror to see the blood? If there was blood in your mouth, how come you did not taste it? Blood has a strong metallic flavor, quite different from cum. 

I have pumped out blood from my partner ass plenty of times, but blood coming from an ejaculation? This s a first time I hear anything alike. You should have taken pics for medicine magazines (or creepy porn).

CREEPY PORN ..... dude!! 🤣

[maump]

Regarding blood from the cock... in 2016 in thailand, a cute tiny Cambodian man was riding my cock.  he was not skilled and bent it severely several times, I rolled him over onto his back, my cock came out of his ass.  the condom was full of blood.  I pulled it off blood was coming from my urethra, a fair stream.  I was pretty concerned , it stopped in a few minutes, and I pissed out some blood clots.

I contacted my cousin (a medical doctor).  He laughed, said fairly common, stop abusing my cock so much, you ruptured a small vessel.  he said bleeds a lot because pressure is high in a hard dick.  he told me to rest my cock for a week.  I rested for 2 days, and was more careful bending it.....

also not uncommon to bleed after catheter play... if anyone does that.

Regards testing and PeP, I think you are overly worried...   

It is generally hard to get any serious STD thru the mouth, a very highly defended entrance to you body...  IMH(but fairly educated)O.  (hepatitis is a notable exception)

[gerefan]

11 hours ago, Latbear4blk said:

…but blood coming from an ejaculation? This s a first time I hear anything alike. You should have taken pics for medicine magazines (or creepy porn).

Actually it is not at all unusual. Often caused by a urinary inflection, as is blood in urine….See here 

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/blood-in-semen/